Sit upgraded to become a father, why the child's finger photo will be criticized?
Sit upgraded to become a father, why the child's finger photo will be criticized? 
After the baby was born, always like to hold the little hand into a bulging fist, in fact, this is due to the pediatric cerebral cortex development is not mature, hand muscle activity regulation is poor, resulting in the contraction of flexor muscles dominate the dominant position, while the relative strength of the muscles of the fingers of the hand is not enough, it shows, the baby is always tightly clenched in two small fists, and the baby's hand is most of the time is the state of a clenched fist, the thumb The thumb is encompassed by the other four fingers, which sometimes stick out.
The younger the baby, the more obvious this phenomenon, which is called "grip reflex", is a normal physiological phenomenon. With the growth of infants, when the baby to 3 ~ 4 months, with the gradual development of the nervous system, the flexor muscle strength will gradually weaken, the strength of the extensor muscle gradually increased, the two will gradually reach a relatively balanced state, by then, the baby's small hands will also be presented in the state of relaxation and freedom.
But also due to the individual differences of babies, some babies will have slightly open fingers, or all open phenomenon, this is normal, this is the natural growth process of babies.
However, it is not recommended at all that parents break their baby's fingers for the sake of sending friends, or getting attention, as this can lead to poor bone and muscle development, or force the baby to do other behaviors that are not possible at the baby's age!!!!
For the parents who have just risen to the baby parents, in the parenting road is more "thorns all over", "bumps in the road", a single we take for granted the phenomenon of the baby holding a small fist, are very learned. Everyday parents will confuse the baby's normal clenched fist and thumbs within the buckle, here we talk about the difference between the two.
Inside the thumb: It is an abnormality that when the baby's palm is open, the thumb is positioned across the palm clasping the hand, which is an inward thumb, also known as the cortical thumb sign.
Normal grip.: What is not across the center is the normal clenching reflex, and the clenching reflex is a normal physiological phenomenon.
Methods of identification
① Babies within 3 months: gently tap the back of the baby's hand, the baby's hand will open, observe the position of the thumb; hold the fist more than open during the day.
② 3-4 months: opens about half the time and makes a fist half the time.
③ After 4 months of age: the hand is basically fully open, you can observe the position of the thumb when the baby grasps something to prevent over-diagnosis.
If, after more than 3 months, your baby's hands continue to make fists, fail to open or thumb inward, then parents should be alert to the following conditions that may be causing the problem.
1. Neurological damage, especially in premature babies, babies with hypoxia and asphyxia, and babies with meningitis.
2. High muscle tone Excessive strength (tension or spasm) of the bunion retractor, bunion-to-palm, and bunion short flexor muscles
3. Low muscle tone Insufficient strength of bunion short extensors, bunion short extensors, bunion long extensors, bunion long extensors
4. Babies can also cause short-term bunions when they are frightened, crying, or nervous, so make sure your baby is relaxed during the physical exam.
If parents suspect that their baby has an ingrown thumb, it is recommended that they take their baby to a regular medical facility for confirmation and correction under the guidance of a medical professional!
My coworker has already said everything I have to say for me.
Just one sentence, straight to the picture.
As a parent of two children, it's clear that hard finger-breaking like this can be a very painful experience for an infant.
On September 6, Sit announced that he was happy to be a father, posting a photo of three fingernails sticking out.
It was obvious that the baby's fingers were in an unnatural shape, with only one index finger extended by the mattress, and the tip of the finger was "disliked" and turned white. The force is really not light.
I understand the lack of understanding of babies as first-time parents, but can't you feel your baby's resistance when you break his or her fingers? Even so, do you have to pose for photos?
Here's an explanation of why babies always clench their fists when they are just a month or two old:
Newborns cerebral cortical layer development is immature, hand muscle regulation is poor, flexor muscle is strong, extensor muscle is weak, only in the sleepy time, only slightly open a little small fist, awake state forcibly break, the baby will feel uncomfortable, not to mention this drastic.
At first I didn't know why my child's hands were always clenched, and I tried to break his little fists, but when I put a little force on them, he cried and scared me so much that I stopped immediately. Only when he was asleep could I break it a little bit.
The young fans only saw the coziness of the family of three in this move, and only those who are parents can understand that this is harmful to the child.
Here's what Yang Ying and Huang Xiaoming's first-born baby photos looked like before:
Ren Jaren and Nie Huan's baby looks like this:
It's not really true that all babies are born with clenched fists, but this small percentage of babies who have to open their fingers are all open.
For example, Chanh's baby:
The little hand holding the big hand looks so easy.
Dodo, whom Tonya gave birth to in 2016, also has her fingers all spread out.
Even better is Jia's daughter Bo Nui, who was born with all her fingers extended to block her face.
Whether it's all clenched or all spread out, it's within the normal range, but a four-finger clench with the index finger extended like this.Babies can't do that if adults don't force them to pose.！
Let's hope Sit's baby is asleep, that's the only reason to force a whitewash wave.
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Today, Xue Zhiqian showed on his official account that he has become a father, which is a happy thing, but many netizens criticized him because of the photo he showed, saying that in order to pose, he deliberately made the newborn child's fingers straight, which attracted a lot of criticism. Why did the "King of Duanzi", who was loved by everyone some time ago, turn into a black man?
A brief analysis:
First of all, the source that caused the matter, this photo of the announcing of good news, there is indeed something uncomfortable for people to see. Through Xue Zhiqian's microblogging, the baby's fingers are very straight, the same as Xue Zhiqian's and his wife's. But the color of the fingers is not even. However, the blood color of the fingers is uneven, coupled with the "Ding Xiang doctor" and other well-known medical media, so that Xue Zhiqian's photo is even more intentionally posed suspicion. So people are very indignant.
Secondly, there is actually one before the other. The reason why people think that Xue Zhiqian is trying to win everyone's affection and wash his hands of it is because he has had similar things happen to him before, the car accident in Thailand, the injection and holding the urinal in the hospital and so on. At that time, Xue Zhiqian but whenever he was a bit sick or in the hospital, he would tweet to create a certain level of conversation for himself. So that's why people no longer easily believe the seemingly heartwarming and heartbreaking things he posted on Weibo. Fear of being deceived once again by what this false surface hides.
Third, the root of the problem is still because of the intricate love life of Xue Zhiqian, Li Yutong and Gao Xinlei, which makes everyone's favorability to him plummet! I remember last year, at that time, how Xue Zhiqian did not admit the extramarital affair, but Li Yutong repeatedly, again and again, will be the stone hammer evidence to burst out, so that at that time, Xue Zhiqian's image continues to decrease, so people no longer believe that he is the innocent paragraph player, so they no longer like him.
So if you're asking why Sit is even criticized for showing a picture of his kids, just read this!
Thanks for the invite! Xue Zhiqian became a father, sunshine children's fingers were criticized because the old Xue did not understand, the newborn child has not yet adapted to the new environment plus the development has not yet reached the point. Compulsory to break the hand may leave sequelae, some areas only professionals know, the old Xue do not understand so was scolded.
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I think parents can help their children open their hands.
In fact, the baby's cortical thumb sign (thumb inward opening), the subsequent establishment of the hand-mouth-eye coordination pattern (hand eating), and further on, the baby will eat the feet, that is, the establishment of the hand-mouth-eye-foot coordination pattern, are all the key points for the early detection of a child with cerebral palsy. Therefore, for a period of time after the baby is born, parents are advised to gently massage the newborn's hands to help the baby to open the palms of the hands to contact with the outside world, either by holding hands or playing with toys.
If your baby has had a persistent thumb retraction for a long time, with the thumb retracting across the center of the palm and the thumb being stiff and not easily extended, it is advisable to go to the hospital for an examination.
New parents are under a lot of pressure, and judging by Sit's dynamic, he's excited to have his baby, so let's hope that society's opinion treats them gently~
On September 6, Xue Zhiqian became a father! He also took a finger photo of the family of three on Weibo.
But what he never expected was that the photo was trolled by a host of netizens. Even the official medical media microblogging "Ding Xiangyuan" also came out to diss him, "general newborn baby's first thumb in the palm of the fist shape, the hand temporarily can not open on their own, do not recommend that parents hard to break."
In fact, newborns clench their fists, this is the "grip reflex" is a congenital reflex, do not force to break. This photo of Xue Zhiqian is the best demonstration of the error! Forced breaking may cause the child's fingers to fracture!
For Ding Xiangyuan's strong demolition of the "humble" netizen's attitude is divided into two factions.
Some netizens think it's alarmist: it's a matter of a split second, and surely it's back to its original state after the photo shoot. There are probably a lot of parents who have done this kind of thing, but the star sent it out and people started talking about it.
Some netizens expressed their heartache for the child: hands are red, posing for three fists is not good ~ why bother ... drama over!
Don't think the "Ding Xiangyuan" comments are scaremongering, some netizens showed their own baby was broken fingers resulting in osteomyelitis now, as a parent to grow a little more heart!
In my opinion: Mr. and Mrs. Xue are, after all, first-time parents who still lack experience in baby-sitting, and I believe that he would not have acted in this way if he had known this common sense. What's more, the child was not harmed by this inappropriate action, so please give the new parents some tolerance and time to grow. Of course, Ding Xiangyuan official microblogging is not on the line, alarmist, they are just a kind reminder. Finally, the author would like to say: dangerous action, please do not imitate (Wen H)
My babies also liked to hold their fists up when they were little, but of course, sometimes I'd be curious and gently open them up gently to see what was going on, and then naturally, my fingers would hold them up again.
Our family photos at that time went like this: my wife's hand was holding the baby's little hand, and then I was holding my wife's hand, and taking the photo that way.
Xue Zhiqian's way of taking pictures is indeed an innovation 😂, the general parents should not consider this to take pictures, not particularly harmonious feeling. However, if you are bent on criticizing people's practices, it is not particularly good, after all, the child is their own, I believe that every parent is very caring of their children, some times also unintentional, there is no need to go all over the world microblogging to criticize.
Thus, during this period, parents need to pay attention to is to prevent children's suffocation, try not to force the baby to do some actions, so that she grows up slowly in a warmer, comfortable and safe environment. I also hope that every family's baby can be healthy, grow up strong, and later grow up to be a doctor 😄, for the community to do more to contribute to the health of their own family members, patients to do to protect ❤ ❤ ❤❤
As a doctor, I feel it is my duty to come out and explain the reason why a newborn's hand makes a fist in its natural state, so that no more drama queens will harm their babies with reckless disregard for the physiology of newborns.
The human neonate has evolved many neonate-specific reflexes over the course of evolution. These unique reflexes protect the newborn and increase the survival rate of the newborn. One of these reflexes is the clasping of the hands in the newborn, called thegrip reflex。
When we were monkeys.Dr. Chan's Daily Monkey Talk), live in trees and need to swing around to find food. And male monkeys, who are obviously much more scummy than modern men, would not help the female monkeys raise their young. Female monkeys also need to find their own food after giving birth. When food is plentiful, of course the mother monkey will guard the baby monkey, but if food is scarce and the mother monkey is desperate to find food, she may pay less attention to the baby monkey. This would then increase the probability of the young monkey falling off the mother monkey. As a result, the stronger the grip reflex, the more likely the monkey is to survive, and the genes for the grip reflex are passed down from generation to generation.When a child is born, the gripping reflex is the strongest, the adult index finger on the baby close to the palm of the hand, can be quickly grasped in the baby's hand, the doctor can use this to lift the baby to stay in the air for a few seconds, can be seen in the grip of the strong.
So then again, what happens if you break a newborn's finger hard? In the less severe cases, there's nothing wrong.In severe cases, dislocations and fractures are possible.. So it's okay or not to break your baby's hand to play, after all, there are many other places on the human body that can be broken, so why break your baby's fingers?
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