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How would you explain to your son the first time he lost semen?

How would you explain to your son the first time he lost semen?

First of all, thank you for your question. If a son has his first seminal emission, I think every father should be responsible for explaining clearly to his child the original cause of the problem, and I think that only by not avoiding it can we exempt the child from psychological curiosity, which will help him to grow up healthily in the future. At present, with the improvement of children's nutritional status, children's sexual maturity is generally advanced, and the time of children's first spermatozoa is also advanced. Generally speaking, a boy's first spermatozoa is a "new thing" that he has never experienced before physically or psychologically, so they are often both excited and nervous, and if there is no advance education from parents and schools, they often think that they have some kind of disease. Ejaculation often occurs in the boy's sleep and accompanied by dreams of the opposite sex and cause, so also known as dreaming. Generally, the first dream emission occurs at the age of 12 to 18 years old, and there are also teenagers who started their first ejaculation at the age of about 11 years old. As a parent, especially the child's father, should pay attention to observe the physical and mental changes of the child, and when you see the occurrence of the child's ejaculation, you should explain to the child that he has grown up in a congratulatory attitude. To use scientific knowledge to eliminate the child's nervousness and constricted psychology, to help the child to improve puberty hygiene. Parents, especially fathers, should help their children to regulate the nervousness, and tell their children that seminal emission is a physiological phenomenon that every man has to go through, and it is completely normal. The saying of "one drop of semen, ten drops of blood" is not scientific. Water accounts for more than 90% of semen, and the rest is protein, and the discharge of a few milliliters of semen is not harmful to the body. After the seminal emission, teenagers begin to have sexual longing, sexual impulse, masturbation phenomenon may also occur, at this time parents should educate their children to put their energy into the study, and encourage their children to play sports and other outdoor sports. However, because seminal emission often occurs in the state of bladder filling, so it is best to remind the son of the early morning timely urination, in order to flush the residual semen in the urethra, clean the reproductive tract, to avoid infection. After the first seminal emission, parents should also let their children avoid wearing tight underwear and sleeping with the lower half of the body too warm, or else they will have repeated seminal emission due to persistent heat and congestion of the sexual organs.

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Ejaculation is a man's development after sexual maturity, the male accessory glands, including the prostate, seminal vesicle glands, testicles, epididymis spermatozoa, regularly have to be discharged from the body, the normal man has ejaculation, if a man never ejaculation, we have to look at whether he is endocrine problems, whether androgen is too low, whether there is no development of the prostate, the seminal vesicles have not been developed. If you have no sexual partner and do not masturbate, you will have one, two or even three times a month, which is a normal physiological phenomenon.

Thank you for your opinion, I am not specialized in this area, so I can not answer, please understand.

Don't worry, by then he'll probably know more than you do as a father. Don't worry about it.

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