A: A big heart is a small heart, and the baby is my treasure!

1. In our time, while teaching and raising babies, children are put in the dormitory, and the next class is a 100-meter sprint.

2, Both parents then have jobs without the slightest thought of asking anyone for help.

3, our old ancestors said: "barefoot Lingding day to live, children healthy and intelligent 👍"

From man to beast, all

Mammalian maternity, both of which show

Out of great motherly love, no

Mothers don't want to raise their own children!

And there's no mother who doesn't want to bring her own.

of a child! It's a nature!

A woman who doesn't want to give birth to a child with

The child, then, this nature of hers swings

None existed!

I agree with the lady. Bringing up children is not a woman's business alone. In my opinion, it is not the woman's job to bring up the children, do the housework, serve the man, and so on. Men have the same unshirkable responsibility. Reason:

1, human society has entered the high-tech, fast-developing energy era of fairness, justice, equality and freedom, and it is only right that men and women should have the same amount to give in this era. Therefore, equality between men and women is the demand of this era.

2. In this day and age men are busy, but women are equally busy. As in, both men and women have their own jobs, industries and pursuits and dreams. So, men are busy, yes. But aren't women busy? That's not a good reason. In a deeper sense, the idea that a man is too busy to take care of his children and do housework, and that a woman has to take care of her children and do housework regardless of whether she is busy or not is a continuation of feudalism. It must not be tolerated.

3. From the perspective of the laws of the universe, all human beings, regardless of gender, are part of the energy of the universe. That is to say, when the energy of the universe creates human beings, that is to say, human beings, they should all be born equal. There is no such thing as a man being a positive energy and a woman being a negative energy. Therefore, both men and women have the great power of universal energy in their bodies. Therefore, both men and women should have equal responsibility for the universe, for human beings, and for the society in which they live.

4. The most crucial point is that children (whether boys or girls) are the common "resources", or the common "product", of men and women. When the child grows up, he or she will have common responsibilities and obligations to society and to the parents. To put it more clearly, when the child grows up, he or she will have the responsibility and obligation to honor, support and serve his or her parents. Don't throw a child to his/her mother at birth. That way, it is too unfair! Men.

Parents of the world, I wish you and your children good health, happiness and a wonderful life!

Thank you, readers.

Originally answered by Freeman Booyin

I have to bring up my own child with tears in my eyes! At least until she doesn't need me to take care of her, then I'll get a job!

There are too many children left behind, too many accidents, too many cars, and too much pressure to go to school!

There has to be a parent in the house with them, it's my responsibility to bring them up, it's her dad's responsibility to make money for the family

From a rational point of view, both husband and wife are responsible for bringing up their children, the father to give strength and self-confidence to the children, and the mother to give details and love to the children. From a practical point of view, it is difficult to solve family affairs, and every family has its own difficult experience. If you are in a family that forces you to take the responsibility of caring for your child alone, then you have to be strong (women are weak, mothers are strong), and do not whine every day to the detriment of your child's healthy development, do you want to be the one you hate?

I think it's important for parents to work together to make sure their children grow up.

Bringing up children is a matter of two parents. A family is made up of mom, dad and children. When parents bring up their children together, the children will feel safe and secure, and they will be able to receive parental love and care together, so that they can develop a good character, which is good for their physical and mental development. If the mother alone brings up the child, the child will lack fatherly love, and his character will become weak and timid, and he may even grow up to have low self-esteem.

Nowadays, women, unlike in the past, are very independent and self-reliant, they also have their own jobs, can also make money to support the family, the work pressure is just as great, pay no less than men, and sometimes even more than men, if you have to go to work to take care of the in-laws, and do housework and take care of the children, then the woman is really hard.

Husband and wife are on equal footing, and both contribute, essentially, equally. Couples do a good job of dividing the work between them, and whoever is available takes care of the children.

In the education of children husband and wife should also communicate and consult, work together, mutual understanding, put the child in the first place, together to raise the child well, education. And can not blame each other, kicking each other. Since they are their own biological, they have the obligation to bring him up well, which is the responsibility of parents.

No, if it is the woman alone, it is better not to give birth, since the birth of the two people, if the elderly family to help bring, that's better, if not, can not be forced, the husband and wife are best to bring together, for the child is also good

It is reasonable to say that bringing up a child is a matter for both husband and wife, after all, the child is two people's, the man should also help to bring up the child while earning money, speaking of which I think there must be someone who said, I have to go to work every day to earn money how tired ah!

Yes, you are tired, but isn't your wife tired? She has to take care of the kids and do laundry, cooking and housework every day. Do you think she has an easy day?

Before I saw such a video, one day the wife after eating the child cried, the wife went to coax the child let the man help to wash the dishes.

The man says, "I'm tired." The woman says, "You're tired, but I'm not? The man also said that you are not at home all day with a child? There is what tired, the wife in a fit of anger back to her mother's home, the child left to the man.

Then the man will hold the child with great difficulty to put the child to sleep thinking that this can rest a little it! Going out to see the morning bowl is still there, it cleaned up a go wash the dishes, but washed to the half of the child has woke up, the man had to wash his hands a little bit, and rushed to pick up the child.

Then see the baby stroller there to put the child on the stroller, which washed the dishes, look at the time has been 2 o'clock at noon, but the lunch meal has not eaten, washed a little vegetables think fried vegetables to eat, but the dishes fried to the half of the child and cried, no way man had to coax the child, and then went to the kitchen to see that the dishes have been fried burnt, and so the child fell asleep after which soaked up a packet of instant noodles to eat.

To the bathroom to see there are still a lot of clothes have not been washed, the floor has not been mopped, this moment the man to understand the wife's not easy.

Think about the woman is really difficult, from the birth of a child feels that everything has changed, every day around the child, there is no time for their own, even the time to eat and go to the toilet are not.

It's fine if you have help at home to do something else, if you're alone with it that's really not a bit of free time.

Therefore, it is best for men to participate in the matter of bringing up children, because the home is for two people, and the child is also for two people, in that bringing up the child can also increase the relationship between the child and the child.

My view is that children, and families are owned by both husband and wife, not by one person, except that each person has things that each person is primarily responsible for.

The parents of both spouses have little to do with you as a family; if they have the heart and the ability to help you, you should be grateful to them, and if they are not in a position to take care of you, you should not complain.

You might as well find a way to convince your husband to share with you, don't argue, don't make a scene, be reasonable, and don't keep making it seem like he's the one doing the work for you.