There is nothing reasonable or unreasonable. First of all, the demolition money itself has the share of the two younger brothers, such as household registration, compensation for the land in their name, house base, etc. Secondly, the parents' portion belongs to their private property, and how to distribute it is their own business. If there is no demolition, no demolition money, are you disowning them?

If you ask for it, you've been duped. You ask for 100,000 dollars and you're responsible for living and dying later. Help raise your parents. You just say borrow 100,000 dollars, do not want later parents of life, old age, sickness and death, you do not care. The reason is that you are a daughter married out of the daughter splashed out of the water. Don't want a bit of your mother's family. Nor will you care about your mother's family.

The money is theirs to split any way they want. But it's definitely patriarchal. If it's an intestate estate. By law, you'll have a fair judgment.

Didn't want to answer these questions but wanted to offer my personal thoughts after reading everyone's comments.

First of all the money belongs to the parents they have the right to distribute their property as far as how much to whom they have their own programs and authority. Are the two younger brothers evicted, if they don't have other housing this money is to buy a house. After the purchase of the house after the renovation, additional furniture, etc. do not need money? And the demolition of the household there would have been people's interests in this distribution is reasonable.

To say unreasonable is the data you gave parents also only left 100,000 yuan is not too little, do not they demolish the house after not buy a house? Who will they live in the future or live to retire on 100,000 yuan enough? Give you 100,000 is your life extra gains and they left 100,000 may not be enough to see their future pension money ah, as children you are happy to take the money to improve the life but not a little consideration of the parents of selflessness.

I see a group of commenters scolded your parents, and even do not let you give them old age I really do not know how these people think how can you answer the question of family conflicts like this? Ignorant, unscrupulous, classless people angry, everything can not look at the problem from a personal point of view to learn to recognize all the keys to the problem before commenting on the reality.

My personal advice is 1. Settle the two old people after the demolition of the residential problems, so that they can enjoy their old age to keep their own nest. 2. No matter with the two younger brothers who live with their parents should be remembered to treat them well in their old age, and the two old people to guard their own money bags can not hand over the right to property. 3. The current distribution may have blind ingredients but in the future in daily life, the two brothers really have to more parents to do something filial. 4. Do some filial piety, some of the money should be as much as possible to let the sister less money. 4. as the eldest sister do not because of the parents of the distribution of hate them, some of the problems are not patriarchal but impatience. You should have their own power of observation and judgment do not listen to the nonsense of the people to do their own ability to honor their parents, you think about the parents of two people only stay 100,000 is not poor parents ah.

Demolition and relocation is a happy event, improve the living environment to improve the quality of life cut not due to the allocation of the good into the bad.

Happiness is sometimes not enhanced by possession and sometimes not diminished by loss.

Thanks for the invite: totally reasonable.

Really good, don't go to want, want may not give, but into the enemy, my mother-in-law's family divided into five houses did not give their two daughters a penny, we are balanced in our hearts, their own do what to do, not to mention his family has a son.

Most of the rural areas are the same, the property is usually left to the son, the daughter goes to the in-laws to inherit the property, do not care so much, your mother is quite okay to give you 100,000 yuan, think away, themselves and their husbands to work together to earn money!

Definitely unreasonable, but your mother can not be said to be illegal, although the amount of money involved is particularly large, but is still a conflict within the family, you have been married, have their own home, and your two younger brothers still need to use the money to buy a house to live (after all, it is the demolition of the house), your mother to give you 100,000 is indeed a little less, to give the five hundred thousand or so on it, but after all, it's your mother has a co-ordinated approach to give more to give! The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money to buy a house!

If you are married, mom to give you 100,000 yuan is not bad, as the eldest sister do not have prejudice because of the unfair distribution of parents, some problems are not patriarchal but helpless, parents will have to pension, after all, is the demolition of the money, not inheritance, your two younger brothers, although each of them 1.3 million, that is, to buy a suite plus renovation of down to the little left! If you are not married, 100,000 is a little less! If you think less, or hope to look away, later married in-laws have a house, think about mom if a certain age, this demolition compensation directly issued to the hands of the two younger brothers, if the two younger brothers do not think of affection, perhaps not even the 100,000, and what can be done? Or to the family is important! Parents of the old age problem is still naturally placed on the two brothers, then you do your best, if the parents sparingly righteousness will hurt the family's peace! If you're serious about it, there's no more love! Or look down on the gains and losses, rely on their own hard work to spend money down-to-earth!

According to the old custom (especially in the countryside) married out of the daughter is equal to pour out of the water (born for the husband's family, died for the husband's family ghost). And your mom that according to this etiquette and customs of the family house demolition and relocation of 2.6 million yuan, divided into your two younger brothers, each 1.2 million. This practice in the eyes of people with the remnants of feudalism is nothing wrong (and your mom also gave you 100,000 yuan). If you compare it with the New Thought and the relevant provisions of the Civil Law, then it seems to be somewhat contrary. If you can look down, look away, think about money is something outside the body, since the mother has made this decision, in order not to hurt her heart and siblings of the affection, then the sparing money and righteousness it! Otherwise, it will hurt the harmony of the family and be laughed at by the townspeople. I hope you will think carefully!