Ancient clouds: everything is fate, luck, human life is destiny, people should eat how much food, how much money, life is blessed with a few times of trouble are controlled by the invisible forces.

It's a real food for thought, especially for people who always feel like they are in a bad place in life and not as good as they would like to be in every situation, it's important to have a heart to heart conversation with yourself!

Is a person's life predestined?

It is often said that three parts are destined by God and seven parts rely on hard work, but why do we feel that nine parts are destined by God, their own one point of hard work seems to be in vain, as if pouring a pot of water into the sea, not to mention the ripples, not even a bubble.

Another person said, "My destiny is my destiny." But no matter whether the person who said this is a madman or a down-to-earth officer, it seems that we have only heard their slogans but have not seen any changes in them.

And so, we believe that our lives are predestined and ordained!

But, I have to tell you, that thinking is wrong.

First:

Let's start with a question for those of you reading this:

Have you ever heard any of the people who have had a good life in your eyes and are among those who have had a good life say:Is everything he has a destiny, a fate that predestined him to have what he has in front of him?

I haven't heard anyone say that, and I don't think you have either.

Because everything he has is the result of his own hard work. Of course, we should also exclude the second generation of rich people who were born with a golden key. At the same time, we also need to see another problem, the second generation of rich people were born to have the wealth, then his grandparents, fathers and generations of the results of hard work, as for his children can also become a rich third generation, that is, whether he is the result of hard work.

Switch to our multitude, we are now facing the results, is the sum of what we once did. Having once taken every step in a practical manner, you will not sigh at the injustice of fate today, or at least you will be more than equal to what you are.

Here's a conclusion:Destiny is in your own hands, and what is called destiny is really the sum total of what you do in this world.

Secondly:

Let's talk about why those people around us who cry "three parts are destined by God, seven parts depend on hard work" and "my destiny is mine but not God's" still bow their heads to "destiny"?

In other words, a person who has tried hard but ultimately failed to succeed and change his or her life the way he or she wanted to, still cannot escape fate!

In fact, a person's success has many, many factors in it, and depending on the direction one chooses to work in, the hard conditions needed are different.

For example, the resources, connections, education, skills, perseverance, character and whether a person has chosen the right things to do, all of which are closely related to whether a person can succeed.

That's said as if it wasn't, and the truth is that when you specifically go to analyze the reasons why you're not successful, you're either choosing the wrong direction, not being persistent enough, or not really putting in enough effort.

Another conclusion is drawn here:Can not escape the "fate" arrangement, in fact, the problem is still on their own, but as to what is the problem, only you can find out. Because the person who knows himself best is himself.

Finally:

Change your "destiny" and step out of your destiny.

A couple of suggestions:

I. Knowledge changes destiny.

The first rule to change your destiny is to go and learn more. Read more books, listen to people, then keep summarizing and applying to your own life, keep going back to review and optimize, and you'll find that knowledge is very powerful.

Second, to be virtuous and to do good deeds.

A person's character is like a vessel containing gold, silver, and jewelry; if the vessel is bad, the gold, silver, and jewelry will naturally fall apart.

Third, choice is greater than effort, but effort is still not less.

Choose the right business for you to go deep, do not think of overnight success, as long as the direction is right, the method is not a problem, the efforts and perseverance enough to last, success will certainly come.

Wealth doesn't come through the door in a hurry, that's what it's all about.

IV. Positive and positive mindset.

Face life with a positive and positive mindset, learn from people who get results, and put an end to negative complaining and hatred of the rich.

Fifth, maintain good relationships with those around you.

Family and all things prosper, a good man three help, interpersonal relationships are our way forward to boost, to maintain good heart.

Six, reasonable work and rest, reasonable exercise, physical health other will follow the good.

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Thanks for the invitation to answer the question.

(Original)

Is a person's life predestined? Depends on what kind of life situation you are approaching it from, because it is answered in two very different ways:

One is optimistic and confident, facing life with a rational attitude, effectively grasping one's own destiny and struggling!

One is to be passive and resigned to one's fate, to get by, which is in fact the tragic result of the nationals being enslaved by the "doctrine of heavenly destiny" and the policy of fooling the people that has been promoted by the feudal rulers for thousands of years, which has poisoned the people mercilessly! As the rulers of every era were most satisfied with this materialistic attitude of the people, and did their best to publicize this "spiritual opium" that corrupts the people, so that you can accept it peacefully and can't stop!

At the time of birth, call three times, rich and poor destiny, rich and poor by heaven, life and death is destiny, rich and powerful if there is what you want, as a cow as a horse is also willing to money, if money is a long-life product, generations of kings for ten thousand years, glory, wealth and prosperity as floating clouds, empty-handed empty-handed to return, easy easy to birth the mother and son to be smooth, the old easy to return to the blessing of the children and grandchildren.

When the fate of a person's life is such that evil turns into good fortune, and evil dares not come to invade him, then he is a good person on earth.

If you are destined to have something, you must have it; if you are not destined to have something, you must not force yourself to have it.

Life is like a play.

Centenarians are rare, but before 20, they're children.

It's the period of parental nurturing. Twenty-thirty is a teenager.

Thirty and forty are full of blood. After fifty, you wake up in a dream.

We know what was right and wrong before, after 61 years.

When we reach old age, we are happy in our seventy-eight years.

After ninety years, one becomes immortal, and centenarians are rare in the world.

Life seems to be a dream, the years mercilessly push people old, in the twinkling of an eye to the old man, glory, wealth and prosperity, such as floating clouds, empty-handed empty-handed return, life is not a long time, the centenarian is not long, do not believe to ask the centenarian, in the twinkling of an eye, a dream, alive and healthy is blessed, happy and happy in the blessed, regardless of the status of the status of the high and low, the money and wealth have much, are looking for happiness and benefit longevity, the life of the late scene is a testimony to the children are witnesses.

[Old Road]

Excerpts from an old novel for your reference. Is fate predestined?

Life is not equal in this world; the rich are rich and the poor are poor.

The rich and the poor should be left to their own fate, and they should not harm others in secret.

The hits are only octagonal meters, and it's hard to walk around the world full of liters.

The king of hell has called you to eat meat, so don't be afraid to sleep until breakfast is ready.

The king of hell calls you to come and eat grass, let you get up early in the middle of the night.

There is a time for everything, and a time for nothing.

I was born to be an uncle, but I can't be an aunt.

Is a person's life predestined? Everything in the world has a law. Fate is the high hopes of the weak and the gospel of the strong. As the saying goes, three parts fate, seven parts man-made. Do you know that there is a relationship between fate, everything in the world, are "cause and effect". People often say, raise your head three feet there is God, people are doing, the sky is watching. In fact, this so-called "God" and the sky, is cause and effect. Good causes produce good results, and evil causes produce evil results. What cause, will produce what fruit, no one can change! There is no good luck in the world without a reason, there is no bad luck without a reason, every good luck is the interest you have saved. Every time the arrival of bad luck, are in the past to compensate for the cost. The bitterness you have suffered, the sweat you have sweated, eventually become the road under your feet, the goodness you have given, the love you have released, will become the happiness of your life. Everyone knows that the world is bitter, but they don't know how much suffering they can eat and how much happiness they can enjoy. As long as you have a good heart and move forward all the way, the world will not treat you poorly if you are rewarded by heaven, and this is the secret of fortune telling. The world's most miraculous elimination of disaster is 'reform', God's sins can be violated. If you have committed a sin, you can't live with it. In a person's life, it is inevitable that there will be some calamities, which are tests from heaven. These calamities are not unavoidable, want to achieve the true elimination of disasters and pray for blessings, the most effective method is only one, is to self-check and change. The world's most spiritual life extension is called 'reverence', always have fear of the heart, in order to be able to do something. To be a human being, you have to have fear in your heart, so that you can remain cautious and make choices. A fearless person tends to do as he pleases, unscrupulously, for a long time, squandering his blessings and health, naturally difficult to live a long life. Everyone's destiny is death, but before death, live a good life is the best realization of the meaning of life. The precious life span of life is determined by heaven, but we can realize the infinite value of life in our limited life. Therefore, people in this life, must have a sense of reverence, do not trample on life at will, and strive to make themselves a sunny person, to be a person who is in awe of life, respect for life, love of life, and strive to live. Should not do not do, the red line at ease, the minefield does not overstep, only then, in order to protect their own life is complete.

Many people believe in a form of fatalism, which means that they believe that everything that happens in their lives is predestined. For example, where you are born, who you marry, what kind of person you meet or what kind of trouble you have, etc. are all predestined. So, is this correct? If everything is predestined, what is the point of fighting for a person who is not well-destined? What is the need for a person with a good destiny to strive for?

In fact, there is a couplet in Taoism that says a lot about this issue. That couplet is:

The first line: things are people, do not say that all things are fate; the second line: the situation is created by the heart, step back naturally wide.

Previous couplet: All things are in the hands of man, don't say that all things are destiny

Many people today are superstitious about "I Ching", and simply take I Ching as palmistry, face reading, reading the eight characters of the birthdate and these things. First of all, regardless of whether these things are true or not, but it is certain that these people have not been able to understand the true meaning of "I Ching". In fact, "Yi" was originally "change" means, the Han Dynasty people will be "Yi" understood as the upper sun and lower moon, implying that the sun and moon change, so it means that "change". change". Today, many idioms still mean that "Yi" means "change", such as: change of masters of rivers and mountains, change of customs, and so on.

So, since "I Ching" is a study of change, how can we think that people's destiny can remain unchanged? Therefore, if you fortune-telling, good fortune-telling, is not high, bad fortune-telling, there is no need to sigh. Things are in the hands of people, rest assured that all things are destiny. No matter what you do, you need to strive and work hard to get good results. Happiness is created by hands, if you don't make an effort, even if you have a good fortune and a good life, it is difficult to live a happy life.

Next couplet: Situations are created by the heart, one step back is naturally wider

Many people, always feeling sorry for themselves, are always complaining about the bad environment around them, and attribute their inferiority or failure to external people and things. In fact, the Taoist saying gives us another way of thinking about how we should treat our external environment. Since the environment is unchangeable, why don't we try to adapt?

A person's state of mind determines a person's situation, and then determines a person's fate. No matter how bad things are, with a good state of mind, you can handle things calmly and make the right judgment. If there is something bad, start to be upset, disorganized, then things will only be in the direction of worse development. At the same time, the good or bad state of mind will also affect a person's health. A negative thinking person, living in the gloom all day long, over time, will cause disease. Fan Zhongyan's saying "not to be happy with things and not to be sad with oneself" is a state of mind that each of us should learn. This kind of mentality will not only make us healthier, but also make us more cultivated.

People's lives, will inevitably encounter various difficulties, life is sweet and sour, bitter and salty, only "sweet" that is not called life. If you encounter difficulties, face desperate, step back may be another world. As long as there is a good mindset, things should be, things are not, and what is really can not pass?

Circumstances are created by the mind, mediocrity is self-inflicted, and all troubles and unhappiness are self-inflicted!

I believe in destiny, I used to not believe in destiny, I do not recognize destiny. But after stumbling all the way, I realized that no matter how hard you try, some things are not your own. Now I realize that it's just the way things are!

Human destiny from the materialistic dialectics, can be said to be destiny, a newborn baby croaked, the upper warehouse has long arranged for her or him a life of destiny, or people, or prisoners. Everyone cannot escape the trickery of fate,! Theologically speaking, this is something no one can change. Some people marry several wives in their lives, while others remain bachelors for the rest of their lives. Some people spend all their money in their lives, while others suffer all their lives for money. Although this is a common saying, it is not difficult to see that this is a kind of helplessness of the grassroots people to life. With the rapid development of science and the continuous progress of human knowledge, knowledge changes destiny, has become the consensus of the general public. The idea of letting fate take its course has gradually been replaced by modern scientific concepts, and people have begun to realize that knowledge can change fate. For example, a child born in a peasant family or an ordinary worker's family, the parents will pay a lifetime of hard work to support the child from elementary school to university expenses, in order to get ahead, so as to change his or her inherent destiny. But this is only one channel for most people to change their destiny. Of course, there are all kinds of ways to change one's destiny, such as doing business, buying stocks, buying lottery tickets, scamming, stealing, and selling drugs. It's just a matter of seeing how fate plays tricks on you. Wisdom to eat wisdom, no wisdom to eat force, this is the law from ancient times to the present day, to take without labor to change fate, can only be delusional. However, although it is said that people's destiny is predestined, but in today's society, as long as you have the ideal, willing to work hard, good fate will certainly accompany you throughout your life, I wish you good luck. Let the good people in the world have a safe life and good luck ripples.

Destiny is also something you work hard for.

So just fight hard and leave the results to fate.

But do good deeds and don't ask questions!

Just work hard, your fate is up to you!