Thank you for inviting me: I read the question and the questioner's own view of the problem. I did not want to answer this question, but could not restrain the anger in my heart, writing, rebuke you so: unfilial people, do not know how to be grateful people, narrow-minded people, people without education, read the national language in vain people ...

First, the unfilial person. You and your boyfriend are still just friends, not yet in name, you start interfering with the behavior of your boyfriend's parents, who are you? You feed them? Boyfriend's money he has the right to deal with, you have the right to accuse him of what you worry, you have not yet been married to the power to expel the boyfriend's parents, your conscience, ask if it is your parents you will do? You such unfilial people will be scorned by everyone! My boyfriend's parents have been suffering to raise him to adulthood, but you are openly to the boss of the self-righteous, arbitrary. This is the author reprimanded you the first point of an unfilial person.

Secondly, it is a person who does not know how to be grateful. You and your boyfriend are now just friends, no husband and wife name, you are so behavior, still if the marriage certificate, that's not good. You half do not want to: October pregnancy, three years of shit cloth, and many parents for your boyfriend's pay, otherwise you where this boyfriend, you have no gratitude, you popped out of the cracks of the stone? Think about your behavior and my son, daughter-in-law than, you are really small. My son and daughter-in-law are thinking about how to decorate dad's bedroom, where to put the toilet? Where to put the computer? How to make the closet? What to put on the bed? How to facilitate the bedside switch? And you even ran to the headline platform to ask this question. This is my rebuke to you bis one does not know how to be grateful. A person who does not know how to be grateful will not be good.

The third is a narrow-minded person. A person should be open-minded, tolerate others, including parents, sisters, brothers, comrades, friends and so on. Living a small life of two people's world is certainly happy at first, but what about when you have children? A full-time woman is fine, but can she secure a life, a home, to accommodate a third, fourth ... people. Everyone has his (her) use, even if the old can not walk the elderly, the next generation is obliged to support them (them), do not look down on them (them), a family must have the old in the young and young to be like a family, otherwise it is incomplete. Remember that Zhou Yu in Chinese history was angry alive because of his narrow-mindedness.... This is the Trinity of narrow-minded people that I deplore.

Fourth, there is no literate person. A cultured person, his (her) behavior, demeanor, speak at least traditional Chinese virtues, and you virtues in your body can not be seen, and you said in the text of the sentence of the strong words, nonsense, what parents do not have a penny ah! The boyfriend is working away from home and has no money to buy a house in the city! Saying three or four, you have the ability to come up with money to go to the city to buy a set of two people to go to a small world life it. How dare you show up on the platform. This is my reprimand you of the four a no education people.

Fifthly, it is a person who learns the Chinese language in vain. Long China, up and down five thousand years, is 'loyalty, filial piety, etiquette, righteousness, thrift ...' and other ideological virtues, the beginning of man, nature is good. But you are evil by nature. Not yet over the door to swing a big knife to parents, where is the conscience...

I suggest you if you have the money to pay out of pocket urban areas to buy a set, or else and boyfriend bye-bye, living a one-person life is the most painful, carefree, want to do what you want, otherwise according to your behavior refers to the allocation, life will not be happy.

Girl, this kind of question to take to the headline, you have the guts to say you don't want to live with your boyfriend's parents, if you have the guts, you can go out and buy a set to live on your own with your ability.

My boyfriend's parents worked hard to bring up their son, send him to school, buy him a house, and now even his parents are living in the house they bought, and you, the daughter-in-law who hasn't even entered the house yet, have a problem with it. Did you buy the house? You didn't contribute a single penny, and yet you dare to talk about it here and there. If you really want to live in the house you bought, will his parents still have a part to play?

Feel your conscience. Aren't you ashamed to say such things?

Put yourself in a different position, if it was your daughter-in-law who said this about you, how would you feel yourself?

If you don't want to live with his parents, you have two choices, first: overcome the difficulties in front of you and try to earn money to buy a house. Second: go wherever you came from, don't be here to harm other people's sons.

Girl you this encounter problem is indeed quite troublesome, I think the consequences, you have a great responsibility, you two together for three years, you have not and he said after marriage to live independently? When he bought a house in his hometown, you should clearly show your attitude. You are in pain now, but the most painful is your boyfriend. You'd better put yourself in his shoes. On one side is the girlfriend, on the other side is the parents. So you should calm down. See if it is possible for you to accept this situation in their family. If not, forget it. Don't torture each other. Another word of advice, don't be too selfish. You will regret it in your old age.

If you buy it, you don't have to sell it, just ask the two old people to live there, it's not easy to work hard all your life! As the old saying goes, a child has to be pro-life, and money has to be self-seeking! You must work harder with your boyfriend to earn enough money to buy a house of your own. Young people can definitely succeed, for sure!

If you were my daughter-in-law, if my son was capable and excellent in every way, and your family accompanied the gift of a house, my son could not marry you, and selfish people like you could not marry into the family, people go through every stage, and you will become a parent that day, and will have a later life, and will have children, and will pour out his heart to his children, and will love his children indescribably, and your children will also meet in the future people like you, you will be able to understand your boyfriend's parents.

Thanks for the invite. After reading the ex, and realizing that you and your boyfriend wrote this question together, he should be able to see everyone's answers.

My answer is only to your boyfriend, not to you.

This handsome man, this manly man. The first thing to think about is that you and your girlfriend are not on the same page. Although your family of origin is almost the same, seemingly the same family, you did not climb high, she did not marry. But she doesn't see your family in her bones, including yourself. But the reason why she hasn't broken up is because that's all she can do at this stage. Among your kind, your hard work and upward mobility can't be compared to anyone else, so she's not spilling the beans, but it's definitely not because of feelings.

She is ruthless and is offensive. She was able to turn your family upside down in just over a month's time. Successfully separated you and your parents more than 20 years of flesh and blood. The tactics are textbook. And she said herself, successfully controlled you, you stand team her here. Put three meals a day to do well to call you to eat your biological parents, fainted and fell down in anger, but also justified, full of grievances, really is a high person?

Handsome, manly man. You are a down-to-earth, hard-working man who just wants to make a good living through your own efforts. Before you had her, the most you thought about was that your parents were not easy, and that you must let your own parents live a good life for a few years when you are able to do so, but you are now assimilated by her, and you treat your parents as a drag, and you dislike your own biological parents. Everything is downhill for you from being centrifuged from your parents.

As the old saying goes, marry a good wife and prosper for three generations. Marrying a wife, marrying a virtuous wife, marrying a virtuous wife. She may not be elegant and graceful. But there must be a grateful and kind heart. Three views should be positive.

Your girlfriend is too ambitious and her methods are comparable to the world famous so-and-so. She is lying in wait, your temple is absolutely small to keep her, with the right conditions and opportunities, she will not hesitate to walk away, will not look back at you.

A final word with the girls. As a woman I would like to say that you have the heart, the plan, the wisdom, the higher education. There is no need to spend your project of the century for a couple of old men in the countryside, so what if you win? So what if you win? Who's going to applaud and praise you? Is it worth it for a measly 100,000 dollars?

You're a talented man, don't bury yourself. You don't just want to take control of a man, you aim to take control of the world. You put your ability to deal with two old men from the countryside on the world stage, and you can become a kingpin. [beaming] [beaming] [beaming] [beaming] [smiling] [smiling] [smiling] [smiling]

Get a new boyfriend, you're good for one with a car and a house and two dead parents ......

Wukong Q&A rarely see such a literary, scheming, tactical, long-term development goals of the person, and in-laws, boyfriend only live a month to stir up the originally harmonious family of chicken and dogs, as evidence, this person will become a great twenty years later (the heart to be correct).
Originally, I wanted to say do not move the old house, so that parents (in-laws) live, and then in the workplace to rent a room or buy a small square foot of room to live, and so on, so that the New Year's festivals just have a place to go, the family's life must be red hot, the father and son filial piety, and joyful. You seem to want your parents (in-laws) to disappear right away.
However, I feel that the pool on my boyfriend's side is a bit small, a bit unable to raise this big fish. If you get married, please consider carefully, don't misuse other people's families, and don't lose yourself.

You and your boyfriend are just friends, your boyfriend bought a house in your hometown, your parents live in it, it has nothing to do with you, what to do with that house is up to your boyfriend. You didn't contribute a penny, what are you pointing your finger at?

One, your whole post is about your boyfriend's parents being wrong and your friends being bad, you don't have anything wrong with yourself. You want to buy a house in the city where you work, that's fine, you just want your boyfriend to pay for it, why don't you pay for it, why don't your parents help pay for it?

Second, you're not even married yet and you're trying to compete for the position of hostess. Isn't that a little early?

Third, look at your situation, you later in the work city to buy a house, is absolutely not let the boyfriend's parents to come to live, to the boyfriend's parents will not be good. You like the son they have, and do not want to enter the boyfriend's family of origin? Is it possible? This is still a daughter-in-law?

Fourth, if I were your boyfriend's mother, I would definitely tell my son to break up with you and not to have a daughter-in-law like you who doesn't know any better. Never check yourself, only talk about other people's women.

The meaning of the title is that the boyfriend in his hometown, with all the money to buy a matrimonial home, but also a mortgage loan for 20 years, they do not want to go to the boyfriend's hometown to develop, want to sell the new house, outside the working city to buy a house.

The implication of the subject is that she doesn't like living with her boyfriend's family and wants to get rid of her current house to avoid sharing a room with her in-laws after marriage.

After all is said and done is to get rid of the boyfriend's family, their own outside to live their own independent life of a small life after marriage, with in-laws have nothing to do with the in-laws, have children or not, also has nothing to do with the in-laws.

The subject is trying to divest her boyfriend from his original home and settle herself in a new home that has nothing to do with her in-laws, thanking them for their intrusion.

Ideals are plump, reality is bony!

Anyone who raises a son is a darling of the heart and the inseparable love of his parents! It is almost impossible for that person called daughter-in-law to monopolize her son's love.

Being married and not wanting to have children is not acceptable to parents.

To love someone is to accept all of them, including their family.

Want to get married to your boyfriend and live a small life of two, not impossible, two people work together to earn money, buy a new house in the city where you work to get married, do not invite his parents to come over to live together.

I understand the idea of the subject, the boyfriend is excellent, can not afford to lose, but his parents have raised 20, 30 years of son, how to say lose on the loss of? What's more, other people's parents simply will not abandon their own son, want to raise children to prevent old age, and son with the same food and live together to keep each other.

As a senior passerby, I don't advise you to break up, I only advise you to take a good look at your relationship, and let your boyfriend decide between his family and you, or let him out of his family of origin, can he and his parents do it?

You do not want to get married, fear of marriage, do not want to have children, these in advance with your boyfriend, so that your boyfriend and his parents have a psychological preparation, people want to marry you? And then make the next step. Do you want to marry, after marriage to have children, must show attitude, these are your business, clear, and then married.

If you want to strip a man from his family of origin, it is a very, very difficult thing to do, and it is harder than heaven to make him leave his parents and take off. Advise you, no diamond drill, do not take this porcelain work.