Why are people annoying when they get old?
Why are people annoying when they get old?
I myself have stepped into the senior citizen line example to say how it feels.
First of all, their looks become ugly. When they are young, they have clear eyebrows, a straight body and exude vigor, but in old age, they have wrinkles, gray hair and a hobbled body.
Secondly, there will be some physical problems, sickly, coughing and coughing all day long, hunched over, listless, unkempt and dirty.
Then there is memory loss and problems communicating with people.
When people get old, they generally smell like old people, with an unpleasant odor emanating from their bodies and mouths!
In short, old age is old age, and it is important to recognize reality, be sensible, and try to pile in among the young as little as possible without inviting suspicion.
Dress as appropriately as possible, wash and dress neatly, and try not to be offensive ......
And answer in one or two ways to make a point.
First, old trees have many roots and old people talk a lot.
The old man has been through the storm, knows that the world is difficult, unpredictable people, the young people involved in the world, always nagging a few sentences, all contain reminders and educational role.
Young people, like to break into the world, do not hit the south wall does not turn back. Have chosen to jump ship to the sea, some of them have succeeded, raking in pots and pans; some were drowned in the water, almost became a beggar, behind the back of the debt owed a butt, regret that did not listen to the old man's words, ate the loss in front of us.
Society is on a roll, and not everyone can succeed in breaking into the business. The old man understands that.
Secondly, the flavor of old age keeps young people away.
When people get old, their bodies produce a strange geriatric odor, and if they don't practice personal hygiene and don't bathe regularly, the smell will be even stronger.
Young people like clean, in love with perfumed lilies, so that the surrounding nose to smell, not fried squid and fried stinky tofu flavor, but on the body, hair, clothes overflowing with refreshing youthful scent, strands of fragrance refreshing ......
Thirdly, the elderly are a treasure!
Those who can live to old age are blessed with a great life and are considered a gift from Buddha.
Young people, you should respect the old and love the young. If you do not want to grow old later, it is advisable to choose to die young! That way, you will always remain young. But you don't want to die early, so you go to work out hard and try to become a star of longevity, the older you live, the longer you live, isn't that a contradiction?
It's not easy for the elderly, so please be kind to the elderly in your family!





Why do you hate old people so much? What did the old man do to you? Everyone will get old someday, understand? "It's hard for a hero to mention the courage of the year", every old man has come from your present splendor, don't discriminate against the old man, you can't look at this or that. You have to know, a person is older, there are a lot of things are not by their own mind, will and body domination, they can not do their own master. Especially the body, for example, a particularly clean and fresh old man, in front of the dinner table, nose drip, food hand shaking, this can be blamed on him, he is also very embarrassed, just can not control themselves.
I hope you can give the elderly more understanding, tolerance, sympathy, more for them to do something, not in that accusation glare. A lot of old people memory fade, slow action, talk chatter, is also a normal performance, if your old man can still move easily, the body does not have any major problems, take care of themselves, you are very lucky, do not feel annoyed, do not wait until your hair gray to understand, but also for their own more good things about it. If there is something you don't like, you should understand more and explain more. As far as I can see, it's mostly the young who are unreasonable and self-righteous, thank you.
No money, you really haven't been in contact with the kind of people who retire early in their 50s and have several houses, the kind of people who, in their 70s, are very polite to you, and "very polite" to their children, but don't get along with you, really, see you with a smile and warmth, but they don't get along with you, really... ............... There are also those who have worked for a long time, more than 40 years, and have not been laid off, and have a pension of more than 5,000 dollars, remember this number, 5,000 dollars, once it exceeds this number, you don't have a chance to hate people, and your children don't have a chance to hate them. People, children do not have the opportunity to hate people, really, because such old people as long as the body is healthy, will be extremely cherish their own, will continue to work, will be frequent medical checkups, even more will save money, for 10 years later to get better health care services, really, with 50,000 yuan of this baseline, as long as the line, the elderly on the grandchildren's input will be reduced, really, you believe me, because there are 5,000 yuan pension is too comfortable, really comfortable, so they especially want to live, so they won't be obnoxious, they all continue to work, and they are very free to spend, they will neither spend lavishly nor save money, but they are very free it, elderly people with this kind of income have their own groups, and they don't want to get along with their sons and daughters, not to mention other people. You have no chance to hate them.
Because the old boredom like to ask this and that, love to inquire, blind worry, meddling, talk too much to pick a quarrel, and because of the old fear of death, always moaning and groaning fuss to attract the attention of the family, and then because of the birth of a child and child-rearing has paid the hardship is to collect the return of the time, with their own year quality of life with the young people now, the difference between the big, unbalanced, can not see the children's leisure and happiness, every day, always think of a place! Is a place to find something to do a little, tossing children's families are centered on her, all for her services, see one after another are busy for their own not win the heart more comfortable, only to think of their own, never for the sake of others, not every parent is selfless and great, selfish and narrow-minded parents are more than one.
Actually, this is a falsehood: the
1. One rat turd spoils the broth.
In reality, it is not denied that there are individual elderly people who are disrespectful to the elderly and some of their practices are disgraceful;But that's bad people getting old, not old people getting bad.
In fact this situation is like a pot of tasty soup with a rat turd dropped into it.

You can't have one shot at it.
2. Many of the world's leaders are old, and some are still wielding great power despite their advanced age.
as they say..."A man with no hair on his lips can't do anything right.". This shows that youth is prone to impulsiveness and willfulness; it would be irresponsible to leave a good country in the hands of young people at will.

3. Older persons are not a liability, but a social asset.
Tao Te Ching."A great vessel is free from the need for a great sound, and a great elephant is invisible."
This shows that most of the people who have made it big are relatively old; if they are too young, they not only have little accumulation, but also have insufficient practical experience, which naturally makes it difficult for them to take up important responsibilities.
4. An old steed in the stable still aspires to a thousand miles. A martyr in his twilight years has a strong heart.
Old and strong, still rich in ambition and aspiration. LikeZhong Nanshan, Li Lanjuanand other elderly people are national treasures. With their knowledge, they have made great contributions to society.

5. Respect for the elderly and love for children is our excellent traditional culture.
From ancient times to the present day, every age has elevated respect for the elderly to a very high position; for they know that if they do not respect the elderly, they will not be able to sit on the throne. How can a country exist that does not respect the elderly, that is to say, where people are fatherless and motherless?

6. As the saying goes, "People don't just pop out of a stone".
Except for Sun Monkey (the Monkey King, which is not a human being), who was sprung from a rock; who else was sprung from a rock, may I ask? Would you have come into this world without your parents? Not only will your parents grow old, but you will also grow old in the future.
7. It is a disease to think that people get annoyed when they get old.
It has been proved that there are individuals who find the elderly inviting and this is a kind of pathology for them. It may be highly contagious, and we should be vigilant not to let this disease be passed on to future generations. If it is allowed to spread, our country and nation are in danger.

All in all, it is an isolated phenomenon that people get annoyed when they are old, but in fact, the vast majority of them are still mothers who are kind to their children and sons who are filial to their parents. Only by respecting the elderly can we maintain the most basic social order. To carry forward the culture of respect for the elderly, so that our cause will be more brilliant.
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After my early retirement, often in the neighborhood and the old people walking, chess, bragging, know their habits, but also often hear them talk about their age, began to annoy their children and grandchildren. I observed, found that the old annoying reasons for the following points, inappropriate, please correct me.
He's not as handsome as he used to be.
Not to mention the old people, is 50 years old, I am now afraid to look in the mirror, the top of the head is also a little bald, the face also has color spots and small pimples, especially the bags under the eyes, raised a lot, the skin is even more dark and have a rough feeling.
Sometimes attend formal occasions, clean up and dress up a bit, staring at themselves in the mirror, ask yourself, this is still me in person, clearly is a little old man, young handsome power to run where, that time is really people love, and now there are not a few people are willing to take care of.
It smells like an old man.
I realized that my old age started when my teeth thinned out, and when I had conversations with others, every now and then I found spittle spewing out of my teeth, so when I spoke to the other person, I usually spoke in a low tone of voice, slowly, and tried to keep my chin down to prevent embarrassing scenes.
In their own bedroom with the door closed to sleep, wake up and then return to the bedroom from another house, can clearly smell an unpleasant odor, should be issued from their own respiratory tract and digestive tract, said the stink does not stink, but the smell of nausea. The body of the fall coat and pants, two days without changing, you can smell the sweat, when I was young is a week without changing, but also can not smell the smell.
I don't even like the smell myself. How can a young man like it?
Inexpressive, nagging speech
I don't know when it started, but when I speak, the other person can't understand what I'm saying, so I have to repeat it again, sometimes with words that don't make sense, and I use idioms indiscriminately, which actually mean the opposite of what I'm saying.
The most headache for the children is their own love of nagging, sometimes instructing the children to say things over and over again so many times that the children are tired of listening to it, the attitude towards me will be good?
Taking advantage and being calculating
The biggest problem of the elderly is that they love to take advantage of small advantages, and when they hear that the supermarket has eggs that are 10 cents cheaper, they would rather queue up dozens of meters to get their hands on them.
In the vegetable market, buy a pound of green vegetables to make the stallholder cheaper by 20 cents, often because of peeling the leaves and the stallholder quarrel.
Love to buy health care products, love to be fooled
Do not listen to the children, believe the words of people selling health care products, their own frugal pension money all bought into the health care products, eaten on their own disease useless, afraid of children know, but also deliberately conceal.
Some of the elderly by the temptation of low-priced tours of the elderly tourism company, signed up to participate, the result is that all the way on a lot of health classes, buy a lot of health equipment, and so wake up to repent too late.
rely on one's elders to show off one's age
Some elderly people always think that they have extensive knowledge, eaten salt than young people have traveled over the bridge are more, relying on their own old experience to enlighten young people, people do not listen to their own still annoyed, not realizing that some of their own insights and practices have been out of touch with the times, lagging far behind the times of the development of the Yangtze River, the waves of the latter push the former waves, the practice of relying on the old to sell the old is not feasible.
In short, if the elderly do not want to be disgusted, we must pay attention to their own image, correct their attitudes, correct their position, and be a good old man that everyone loves to see.
First of all, I don't even know if we're annoying or not, and secondly, I'm annoyed by the behavior of some of my peers (laughs).
But I still think that there are people who are annoying when they grow old, but not all of them are annoying. There are plenty of old people who are loved by everyone, who behave well everywhere, and who are pleasant to be around.
For example, my fourth uncle. The old man crossed the river, also participated in the anti-American aid to North Korea. 80's after the transfer to the local work, a meeting to make a report, the workers like to listen to. After retirement, rehired in Jiangsu Province, Textile Department of the Political Research Council work, pen plowing, writing papers have won a number of national and ministerial-level awards.
Moreover, the old man had a great love for his relatives and cared for his children and nephews. He helped them in any way he could, and was therefore highly respected in his workplace and among his family and friends.
Being old and obnoxious does happen, as the news media has revealed:
Those who are disrespectful to the elderly, who spit foul language in public places, and who do not observe public morals;
People who force people to give up their seats on public transportation and curse or hit them if they don't comply;
Those who ride three-wheeled motorized bicycles, etc., and do not comply with traffic laws and run roughshod over them;
The one who is the only one in the family, who doesn't help the bottle of oil when it falls down, who just wants to be served, and who never devotes himself to his family;
There are many other bad deeds that cannot be enumerated. Such old people are not only annoying in society, but are also unpopular at home. However, they are only a very small number of elderly people, and they do not represent us, the post-50s and post-60s elderly.
Most of the elderly love the country and care about the society, some of them are retired and play their spare time; some of them do housework and look after their children, so that their children can work at ease. And they behave civilized, talk elegantly and are courteous wherever they go.
So to answer the questioner: annoying is not an age demarcation; there are annoying people in middle age and even among teenagers, but there are more loving people, and the same is true for the elderly.



When people get old, not only can they not help their children anymore, but they also need to be taken care of by their children, who want to be busy with their own things and don't want to take care of their parents, and so, sometimes they are too annoyed with their parents.
Although it is said that everyone will grow old, but who wants to grow old when you are young? There are more people who only care about the immediate future.
Therefore, when a person grows old, if he meets children who are neither patient nor filial, no one will take care of the elderly who have money, not to mention those who do not.
There was an old man on a legal program the other day who had a pension of several thousand dollars a month, but several of his children didn't want to take care of the old man.
Siblings blame each other, and the old man consults his lawyer about whether it's okay for him to sell his house and live in a nursing home.
The lawyer told the old man to talk to his children and see which one of them would be willing to do the paperwork for the visitor.
Nursing homes will not accept a person without the signature of an immediate family member who has signed the formalities for admission to the nursing home.
Do you think the elderly are pitiful. People know they will grow old, but there are still people who dislike the elderly.
I'll answer that.
I am a retired teacher who is over 70 years old. Old people are annoying only can only refer to a small number of elderly people for various reasons annoying, but most of the elderly not only not annoying, and the older the more respected and welcomed by society. The main reasons are as follows:
First, when people get old, because of their physical and energetic reasons, the State stipulates that men and women should retire at a certain age. However, there are many elderly people over 60 years of age in China who, for various reasons, are still struggling on the front line to realize the great ideal of the Chinese dream and to carry forward the spirit of "toiling to the utmost and dying only after death". They are found in all walks of life in China. In politics, for example, from the leaders of the Political Bureau of the Central Committee, down to the leaders of provinces and ministries, and the leaders of local People's Congresses and Chinese People's Political Consultative Conferences, there are many elderly people over 60 years of age. A large proportion of them are over sixty years old. Especially in the scientific and technological circles, literary and artistic circles and so on the old experts, old professors, old doctors, old artists, etc., they are not only not obnoxious, they are the country's wealth and national treasure. They are highly respected by the people of China. For example, Yuan Longping, Zhong Nanshan, Yang Changfeng (the chief designer of the Big Dipper) and so on.
Secondly, there are tens of millions of ordinary elderly people in China, who carry forward the traditional Chinese custom of "children and grandchildren around the knees, taking care of the elderly", and although their children have long since started their own families, many elderly people leave their jobs and take their salaries with them to another new workplace, to help their children to bring up their grandchildren and to take care of the family's household chores. For example, at the gates of kindergartens and elementary school, most of the people picking up and dropping off children are retired elderly people. Therefore, for most families in China, "an old man in the family is like a treasure", and "nannies" who are paid to work in their children's families are common only in Chinese society, while in Europe and the United States and many other countries, due to the differences in culture, education and ideology, this phenomenon is rare. The phenomenon is rare in many countries such as Europe and the United States due to differences in culture, education and ideology. These elderly people are not only not annoying, but are generally warmly welcomed.
Thirdly, among the tens of millions of elderly people, it is true that due to their age, health and cultural qualities, they behave in an uncivilized manner in their contacts with family members and society, and it is also true that a few of them are annoying. For example, there are some elderly people who make a lot of noise in public, spit and spit without hygiene, do not bathe regularly, smell of old people, do not care about other people's feelings, do something out of the ordinary in public, and so on. Such elderly people are certainly annoying. But they do not represent the whole group of elderly people.
The old is a natural law of nature, everyone has an old day, respect for today's elderly, is to respect tomorrow's own. As the civilization of our society continues to progress, the traditional virtues of respect for the elderly will be further developed, and those few, or even individual old people's uncivilized behavior will be gradually abandoned.
Caring for the elderly is caring for tomorrow's self.
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