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"Life passes by in a hurry, and the only one who accompanies you to the end is yourself", is there really any truth in this saying?

"Life passes by in a hurry, and the only one who accompanies you to the end is yourself", is there really any truth in this saying?

Thank you for the platform invitation! "Life passes you by in a hurry, and the only person who accompanies you to old age is yourself." I couldn't agree more with this.

Because life is in a hurry, like a passenger train in motion. There are bound to come up and go down on the way to the station. Our life on the road is the same, you meet everyone, such as your parents, your lover, your sisters, your brothers, your children, friends. Are passing through may accompany you to walk a journey, but your last journey is to walk alone, so ah, each of us have to face the lonely end of the old man! Like this ancient Tulou, through years of wind and rain, but also carries generations of people here to enjoy life. Also received how many tourists, but in the end it is still its own lonely stand there!


Life passes us by in a hurry, and the only one who stays with us until the end is ourselves. In my opinion, this saying is very reasonable.

I know, all the people and things in this world, just like that after the rain of the remnants of the red flowers, no matter how open and unrestrained, will finally return to the dust or with the water floating zero, the wind and rain, with the fate of the happy, people come and go, with the heart.

1. I cherish karma when it arises, and I send it away when it dies.

Lin Huiyin - Many people don't need to see each other again, because they are just passing by, and forgetting is the best memorial we can give each other.

Life, like a train, all the time in the interpretation of the encounter and parting. When someone comes up to the station, to the station and someone down, come, go, near, far, each journey, with us are different people. When we are together, we treat each other honestly, and never give up; when we leave, we silently wish each of us well and a sunny day.

Pieces of memories will pop up at some point without notice, and only for a moment.

Let all the past go with the wind, let that memory fall to the ground and turn into mud.

2. Walk with a smile on your face despite the loneliness.

An Ruyi said, "It's not that we're heartless or unlucky, it's just that we'll meet a lot of people in our life, and how many of them can really stay and stop? Life is a deserted crossing, and even we ourselves are passers-by."

Life is like a dream, passing by in a hurry, the world, no one can accompany us to the end, parents will go before us, lovers will also leave, children grow up to leave us just a back, friends are just a section of our life on the road to confidantes, can accompany us to the end of the always is their own.

A road must be walked alone, not afraid of loneliness, not afraid of the darkness, smile forward, learn to get along with yourself, learn to rejoice when you are alone, quietly tasting the fullness of the soul and life.

3. The bucket turns and ages gracefully.

Since you can't be together forever, let yourself become better, live a life of grace, and age happily.

Look at the clouds lightly, be at peace, be fascinated by yourself, coax yourself to be happy; listen to the rain fall idly, wait for the flowers to blossom, applaud for yourself, be cheerful for yourself.

Walking alone, listening to the murmur of the rain; traveling alone, looking for their own peach blossom dyke; shopping alone, buying beloved things, listening to music alone, letting thoughts slowly fly, painting alone, painting the colors of the heart.

A man, too, is a world, and a man, too, can grow old gracefully.

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It comes and goes, and it goes and goes.

I hate that we can't meet and love in a hurry.

Hate is in the air, and everything goes with the wind.

A laugh, a sigh, a life of joy.

A life of sorrow Who lives and dies with me.

Zhou Huajian's song "sword like a dream" perfectly illustrates the life as if a white horse passes through the general life, life in the world in a hurry, hate not to meet, love comes fast and goes fast, regret hate also comes very fast and goes very fast, anyone's companion will become a hasty passer-by, there is no one worthy of you to cling to, with you to the end of the only you own. Live to have an open-minded and free, elegant mind; love, hate and hatred to the end will be gone with the wind.




Thanks for the reply. I don't think that's really true. There are really a lot of family members and friends, especially couples, who have a strong bond with them, who have shared their lives and stayed with them until the end. But even for couples, there are those who can't stay with them until the end, and one of them will always leave first. I think the real company to the end of their own either children, or spouses, or nursing home staff, or nannies, especially can not take care of their own time is even more indispensable to the company of other people, how can it be only their own? Look at the compatriots who died during the anti-epidemic period, it was the white-clothed angels who stayed with them until the end, which shows that the ones who stayed with them until the end are not necessarily the ones who stayed with them, and the vast majority of them did not stay with them anyway. Of course, there are individuals who are alone until the end.

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"Life passes you by in a hurry, and the only one who stays with you till the end is yourself", I think this is very true.

After reading Lu Xun's The Passenger, you will understand the truth of it. For this reason, I once wrote an article "Passer-by, bring us to think, why people come to this world", think about it, Lu Xun said very right.People walk on the road in this life, people come and go in a hurry, in fact, you are my scenery, I am the scenery in your eyes.

When one's parents give birth to one's self, that is to say, one "borrows" the body of one's parents to come into this world, and one is already walking on the road alone. This road is life. In "Passerby", it is described that one is accompanied only by the blue sky, the white clouds, the wind, and the earth. In other words.No one can stay with you to the end, you can't take anything with you.

Parents will eventually grow old, children will eventually "fly away", the old partner is just one of the scenery to accompany their own, but in their own life journey is the most beautiful and most cherished "scenery", one of the most worthy of love, but not their own! "All", can not accompany you to the end.

Only you are your own "companion". The journey of life is very beautiful, there will be many people walking together, but all of them "each is their own life journey". Although the "goal is the same", the only person who walks is the independent individual himself, no one can walk instead of you, no one to accompany you to the end.

Because, the train of life's journey has so many people getting on and off, including family and friends, that you don't even know where you will get off.

Life has a lot of surprises, but there are also often a lot of "accidents". Some of the people who are with you will often say "leave", so that you are caught off guard and heartbroken. However, you can not stop because no one can stop.

Thank you to your parents for giving birth to you, thank you to your children for borrowing your body to come into this world, thank you to your brothers and sisters for being your closest people, and thank you to your friends for being the most beautiful scenery along the way.

There is no bag, only with the blue sky and white clouds, with the soil, with the wind to walk to the end, so that they and the world to say: you have to remember to kiss the life - Aixin I once came to love.

The above is an original reply by Kiss Life - Aisin, with pictures from the internet.

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It's better to rely on yourself than to rely on others.

Therefore, I agree with the saying that "life passes by in a hurry, and the only one who accompanies you to the end is yourself".

Victor Hugo once wrote, "I would rather open my future on my own than beg for the favor of the powerful."

As long as a man lives, his future will always depend on himself, and his success and failure will be tied to himself alone. Dependence is a bondage to life, a state of parasitism.

The British historian Froude said, "If a tree is to bear fruit, it must first take root in the soil. By the same token, a person first needs to learn to rely on himself and respect himself, not to accept charity from others and not to wait for the gift of fate. Only on such a basis can one make achievements." By placing one's hope in the help of others, one develops inertia and loses the ability to think and act independently.

But in our life, there are still many people leaning on other people's shoulders, enjoying the dependence on other people: many newly graduated college students do not want to look for a job by themselves, but want to rely on their parents' relationship, and want to spend a little bit of money to get into a certain organization through the back door directly. However, we have not thought about, parents can send us into the unit, can make a position for us, but can not do all the work for us, and those work on the pain, or need to bear our own.

Life storms, only by themselves to experience, to feel, no one can provide you with eternal shade.

Therefore, we should master the direction of advancement, grasp the goal, and let the goal shine like a lighthouse in the high distance.

The more advanced you are, the more independent you are. Live for yourself.

In fact, when we were young, we were all taught to be "independent". At home, we should be independent and take care of our own food, clothing and living; when we go out, we should be independent and not rely on others to do what we can do.

Eileen Chang, whom Bai Xianyong described as an "unparalleled genius", changed from a woman who was independent in her work, career and finances to a person who could put everything down after she met Hu Lancheng. She showed total love for Hu Lancheng and put herself very, very low.

Even Hulan Cheng himself said, Zhang Eileen saw him, became very low, very low, low to the dust, but the heart is joyful, from the dust bloomed flowers. It may be because Zhang Eileen put her posture too low, will become too humble, only to lead to their own heart of sincerity by Hu Lan Cheng randomly trampled.

Emotional independence in order to have the main opinion, have the main opinion in order to not rely on others, know how to use their own ability to deal with the problems encountered, make life their own time.

We are not only to be non-dependent in love, but also not to be too dependent on others in affection, and to always keep a clear head and a spirit of independent thinking. Non-dependence on others is a good medicine that enables one to think rationally at all times instead of blindly relying on others.

A person can only withstand the storm if he relies on himself. In the real world, I have always believed in a popular saying: "It is better to seek help from others than from oneself" in order to lead a smoother life in career and life. Therefore, life passes us by in a hurry, and the only one who accompanies us to the end is ourselves.

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I think there's a real truth to the saying, "Life passes you by in a hurry, and the only person who stays with you until the end is yourself."

First, let us take a look at the performance of human beings in the early childhood stage. First of all, if human beings want to survive, when they are born, they have to suck fluid food, usually breast milk, by themselves. From the first mouthful of breast milk, they have to rely on themselves. And, with a lot of force. It is often said that it is not easy to use all the strength of breastfeeding, so you can see that it is not easy. When they reach the age when they should talk and walk, no matter how much their relatives show them how to help and support them, they still have to say the words themselves, and the road still needs to be walked step by step by themselves. It can be seen that from the very beginning of life, it is destined to rely on oneself for everything.

Secondly, by the time human beings grow up, many of the choices on the road of life can only allow themselves to make the final decision. The inner struggle of the human mind is the best expression of accompanying oneself. Human beings sometimes talk to themselves consciously or unconsciously, which is a manifestation of the way they accompany themselves.

Thirdly, and finally, life comes to the stage of old age. When alone, the manifestation of accompanying oneself increases. In the reality of life, if the partner passes away first, and the children have jobs and education to raise the next generation, so most of the time will have to be spent by oneself. The more you are alone, the more you will talk to yourself.

In many historical archives, we can also see that many celebrities have written records, whether it is the emperor or the ordinary people, accompanied by more people, can only be external help, life's most basic functions of eating, drinking, sleeping or to rely on their own solution, rely on their own to accompany themselves.

Human life, parents are the first teacher, and then there are classmates, friends, partners and other human relationships, their own company throughout life is correct.

Personal opinion, for reference only!

Corrections are welcome!

Is there any truth in the saying that life passes you by in a hurry and the only person who stays with you until the end is yourself? I don't think so.

Life on earth in a few decades of light, relative to the long history of the long river, indeed counted as a hasty passer-by.

Although we are a hurried passer-by, but in the end accompanied by not only their own people, there are parents, siblings, children, and those who are dear to the family and friends. We are actually not alone, there are many good people, they pay attention to us, have difficulties they are very willing to help us.

All of us feel like we don't have anyone to be there for us, and that's probably because we haven't been thoroughly integrated into its relationships, and haven't passed on the warmth of love deeply enough. When we are in trouble, there is always someone who will lend a helping hand. The world is still full of love, even if society is a bit dull now and hearts are no longer as innocent as they used to be.

In life, love is the glue of tacit understanding between people and the medicine that keeps them from being alone. Love returns to those who come! Let love flow in every corner of the world, it is a prerequisite for human beings to live together in harmony and develop continuously.

"If everyone gives a piece of love, the world will become a beautiful earth!"

Life passes by in a hurry, loved without complaint, loved to know that life is not the only one!

Thank you teacher for the invitation. I think this sentence should be understood in a positive way, with a dialectical materialist point of view of life, you will get positive energy positive orientation, give people encouragement Will not produce pessimism. Life passer-by rush describes the process of a person from birth to growth aging to death, relative to the constant time, the human life is short, is a passer-by rush. There is still a difference between the meaning of "passing through" and "hurrying through".

Ancient poets have many verses describing the rush of life's passers-by. Yang Shen's Linjiang Xian of the Ming Dynasty: The green hills are still there, and the setting sun is red several times. Tao Yuanming's "Miscellaneous Poems": When the time is right, we should be encouraged, and the years will not wait for us. Su Shi's "Linjiang Xian": Life is like a traveler's journey, I am also a pedestrian.

These classic poems of the ancients are encouraging people not to waste time, not to waste time, to make a difference and contribute in the short one life. Human life is short, birth, old age, sickness and death is the objective law, how to be a good person in the rush of life? People who work hard to make progress, to the country, to contribute to the cause of the people, in order not to be ashamed of their lives.

As for the statement that the only person who stays with you to the end is you, that encompasses a wide range of things. If you are a kind person your kindness stays in people's memories. If you are a person of merit your reputation is recorded in the annals of history. As for companionship at the end of life that comes in all sorts of situations not one-size-fits-all. The only one who is said to be accompanied here is yourself, is emphasizing that you have to be strong, to establish a correct view of life and death, everything goes with the flow.

Old age, sickness and death is the law of nature, people are inevitable, why often talk about these things, make life a gray, full of pessimism and sadness, unless you live a very unsatisfactory life, a failure. People, as long as alive, need to eat and drink, need to play a role in society and family, have to bear certain responsibilities, we must strive to run their own business and family, run their own day; even if life is not as good as expected, do not complain about the sky, and can not lose confidence in life.

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