Yes. I do:

Be yourself.

everyone has their own aspirations

No need to follow the trend

The most important thing is to live your life.

Big trees will have big trees.

The grass is lovely in its own way.

each has his own way of doing things

Each is wonderful in its own way.

In this world.

Everyone is unique.

A person is born into different circumstances

Different upbringing

Experience varies.

Make different friends.

mindsets differ

Dreams are different.

pursue differently

Of course it's not the same.

Wasting your time comparing yourself to others

Or make yourself proud.

Either that or hurt yourself.

I'm gonna say this three times.

Be yourself.

Be yourself.

Be yourself.

Also, a poem to share with you

Thanks for the invite!

As the saying goes, people are not comparable! There is no comparison between people in real life.

Professor Zeng Shiqiang, a master of national education, once said: people do not just go with others than, people than people will die, goods than goods will be thrown. Because no matter how you are, there are people stronger than you, there are mountains beyond mountains and people beyond people. If you have the heart of comparison, can only add to their own endless sense of heaviness!

(1) More than wealth

Other people have a lot of money, it is the blood and sweat of others to struggle, or maybe it is the ancestors originally have a solid family background left behind. If you have money and material wealth, it does bring a sense of confidence, certainly less struggle for decades; there is another kind of material wealth is very poor, but the spiritual world is very rich. They are happy one day, bitter one day, happy in the midst of bitterness, rough tea, life is simple.

Looking up at other people's scenery empty lamentation, can only be said to look down on their own inferiority complex.

(2) More than family

The only thing that makes a family happy is a stable marriage. But everyone's marriage is arranged by God.

For example: so-and-so young man is not good-looking, not much ability, and people have a good life, met the daughter-in-law, to character is character, virtuous and capable. And look at their own is so good, people see people praise, but met the daughter-in-law is not good, face and heart, family life is miserable, for the sake of the children to make do with the life of many people.

The foundation of the family is marriage, and without a good marriage foundation, the value of family happiness is bound to be low, so it's even less comparable.

(3) Than career

The foundation of a career is to be positive, to have the spirit of hard work and hard work. If you want to realize your own small wishes and small goals, even if a small business should have a drum, perseverance and hard work to achieve the development of the direction of the big business, their own goals to work on their own.

How to compare with others? Ideals are different, pursuits are different, each has its own way of living.

Conclusion:

A person's blessings are hard to measure when he or she has good intentions. When someone looks down on you or ignores you, when someone else is richer than you, when you don't have much ability, you don't have to feel guilty, overcoming your own psychology is the biggest challenge. The greatest challenge is to overcome one's own mentality. The only way to have spiritual abundance and inner peace is to have fewer comparisons.

Do not be jealous of those who are better than you, do not compete with those who are equal, and do not belittle or insult those who are inferior to you. Do not be jealous of the heart, the heart of goodness! Do not compare with others, do not judge heroes by their success or failure. For people do not seek perfection, but seek no regrets!

All personal views, for reference only! Welcome to participate in the exchange!

preamble

Comparison between people in the mind is a universal social phenomenon that promotes positive individual progress in interpersonal relationships as well as progress among social groups. Comparison between people is not a bad thing, but rather a form of encouragement and a surging force that stimulates individual potential, as long as the direction of moderation and the principle of measurement are well mastered.

Comparison is the only way to have motivation; comparison is the only way to make progress; comparison is the only way to know how to cherish. Comparison between people is not a blind comparison, loss of self, but to take a rational comparison, to avoid the shortcomings of the strengths, to learn from experience, enrichment of self. Ancient cloud: "with the copper as a mirror, can be right clothes, with the people in the mirror, can be clear, with history as a mirror, can know the rise and fall." Only comparison to know the excellence of others and their own shortcomings, will be useful to work hard to achieve the ideal goal of motivation, only comparison to know that there are many people worse than themselves, know how to cherish the hard-won peace and happiness of life.

Some people say: why is the gap between people so big? This is the inferiority complex behind the comparison, the climbing heart all the time in the human heart stupid, this gap is the distance generated by the comparison.

You have vanity and comparison, but did not recognize the hard work behind the people who are better than you, did not learn from the good people and look up to them, and even did not enhance self-awareness because of the gap between you for self-reflection.

One is there to adopt the wrong passive comparative thinking, comparing one's best with the worst of others, while complacency, complacency, lack of progress, comparing one's shortcomings with the strengths of others, the sense of distance makes the heart suffer a great blow, degeneration, atrophy, and puts oneself in an unfavorable situation.

To elevate yourself with the right comparisons to deal with problems. What can be compared? Which can not be compared? Mind all to have a degree, grasp the comparability, life will be in progress everywhere.

To the question of "people, do not compare yourself with others, there is always someone better than you, there is always someone worse than you", my view is that people should be compared with the human world, analyzed and elaborated in the following eight points.

[1] Comparison with good people to know their own shortcomings and deficiencies, only to have the motivation and progress; comparison with bad people to know that they have all the hard-won, will know more cherish.

"See Yin Si Qi Yan, see not virtuous and internal self-reflection also", only know how to compare to know that there are people outside the sky, see the outstanding people of virtue and talent, we have to look to them to broaden their horizons, learn more about their strengths, to enhance their own cultivation, development of their own. See than their own life is not good people should think about why they will have so many happy things, Iraq Libya for many years of war, the people do not have a lot of life, only to know we were born in the great motherland is how happy things, and more cherish everything we have.

[2] Grasp the criteria for comparing people and distinguish between rational and blind comparisons.

Comparison with others to locate their own ability to achieve the goal, grasp the standard of comparison, not blind comparison. Some of the gap in your birth began to exist, genes and family background are related, others look beautiful and rich, and even family conditions allow them to spend their lives without having to worry about economic income, and you have to work hard to make money can only make ends meet.

At this time do not compare the psychological and vanity mentality, with their own rational judgment, do not blindly chasing, this world of difference in material life gap, we have to do a good job of being down-to-earth, to make a correct and rational comparison, and rationally arrange their own life.

Children studying in school will also engage in blind comparison, than whose clothes look good, than whose shoes are expensive, than whose parents are rich, the child's blind comparison, parents should correct the child's wrong climbing thinking, rather than catering to the child's needs, blindly follow the trend of comparison, the child's growth and education is very unfavorable.

Instead, you should rationally compare which student reads hard? Which student prioritizes homework and finishes it on time? Which student helped out at home, etc. These are the correct and rational comparisons between parents and children.

Proper and rational comparisons are the only way for children to progress; blind comparisons will only lead them to the wrong trajectory in life.

[3] People need to get a grip on themselves when comparing themselves to others.

Dickens said: a sound mind is more powerful than a hundred kinds of wisdom. Poverty and wealth, intelligence and stupidity, nobility and humility, these gaps exist between people all the time, we have to have a good mind when making comparisons, do not always feel ridiculed, to use the right state of mind to compare the gap between people, it seems very important.

"People are more angry than others," that is your vanity, comparison, "than the top is not enough than the bottom is more than enough," that is your laziness, not progressive mentality, "do not compare with others, there is always someone better than you, and there is always someone worse than you! "That is the middle of the mediocrity and inaction mentality.

Want to walk this life, the first thing to have a good mind, in this chaotic world, keep a good mind, always remind themselves to understand their own shortcomings in comparison, to overcome laziness, the torrent, before the bitter sweet.

[4] Not knowing how to compare puts you in an unfavorable situation.

Don't know how to compare, don't make an effort, self-importance, there is no difference with the stagnation. Society in all walks of life will meet than your excellent talent, excellent people are more than you run forward, you are still there and stagnant inferiority complex? The more you do not take action, the more you will be trapped in a very unfavorable situation, and in the end, you want to turn around are difficult.

Life is a process of continuous progress and growth, exercising perseverance in comparison, building relationships in comparison b enterprising, controlling emotions and regulating the mindset in comparison, correcting oneself and making progress.

By the same token, the prosperity of the country should also be compared with that of developed countries, so as to "take the best and discard the dross", and to find out a better construction strategy in the course of continuous efforts for development. We should not be like the late Qing Dynasty, which adopted the "closed-door policy" and was bullied by the Western countries, signing all kinds of unequal treaties that humiliated and dishonored the country.

[5] Don't take a passive approach and approach in comparing people.

Taking the wrong approach to comparison can trap you in a passive situation. Comparing one's own shortcomings with others' excellence, one suffers a huge blow and withers; comparing one's best with others' worst and becomes complacent. This kind of comparison with different positioning will let oneself produce wrong judgment and affect one's own cognition and development.

[6] Identify problems in comparisons and take the correct approach.

People have their own strengths, everyone has their own defects and deficiencies, the child in the learning cognitive gap, other children in every subject full marks, their children's grades can not always keep up, this time to take the right way to deal with.

Give your child more encouragement, accept the teacher's advice, give your child the greatest support and comfort, instead of criticizing and questioning, for your child's requirements do not have to pursue excellence, do good enough. Apply the appropriate solution in the comparison, in order to give the child to shape a good life.

[7] Compare yourself not only with others, but also with your own past.

People have to learn to compare, the stars shine brightly so that everyone can one day find their own star, and only through continuous progress can we discover the brightest star that belongs to our own hearts.

We can progress and grow because we know how to compare ourselves with others and therefore work harder. At the same time, in the process of progress, we will find that we have problems and mistakes, so we should correct ourselves, improve ourselves, and be better than our "past selves".

Sometimes our most powerful opponent is not others, but ourselves, only beyond the past you, beyond yourself, every day we are making progress, then further from success. "Day by day you know what is wrong, day by day you change your faults; day by day you do not know what is wrong, day by day you have no faults to change, that is, day by day you have no step to make progress", and constantly surpassing yourself is the happiest and most painful thing in life.

[8] When comparing people, it is important to know what should be compared? What should not be compared?

In interpersonal communication to distinguish between right and wrong, what is not supposed to compare things? Comparing wealth is the most pathetic thing in the world, torturing their own mind and body, "beggar mentality"; comparing the atmosphere of the platoon, consuming social resources, people hurt money; comparing the bad atmosphere, affecting the image of the individual, corrupting social morality; comparing the eating, drinking and playing, idleness, idleness, just like the society of an assholes;" my father is Li Gang "the behavior of the father. My father is Li Gang" father behavior.

We have to go than can improve their own inner cultivation to promote humanistic progress and social progress of positive energy ideas, than who has the motivation; than who contributes to society; than who charitable donations are more outstanding; than who contributes to the construction of the country; than who for the elderly parents more filial piety; than who for the hometown of the "green mountains is the gold silver mountain" construction of the money and effort.

If you adopt the correct method of comparison, you will be motivated to do things, and you will have a sense of mission with passion and dedication, so that you will not be dominated by the "wrong comparison" and lose your way to the abyss of crime.

concluding remarks

With the idea of discursive materialism to the flexible use of "than", to be a positive person, "non-study in order to broad talent, non-motivation in order to learn," only comparison to know their own shortcomings, hard work and study, the courage to explore and find the way to success.

There is no room for complacency and arrogance, and no room for complacency and Q-spirit, and no room for degradation of oneself in delusion. Treat yourself well, treat your loved ones around you well, set your mind right and do a good job for yourself, don't be jealous and miserable because of the difference.

You are an independent individual with their own innovative thinking, with the envy of the learning mentality to complete the "more than" to generate a gap in the sense of responsibility and sense of mission, "people go high, water flows low", the only "more than! ", in order to stimulate human potential, not willing to be mediocre, angry and strong, there is a kind of expectation called the coming day, there is a kind of waiting called beyond themselves, remember, release, and then continue to move forward!

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People and people are not afraid to compare, there are comparisons in order to see how big the gap is, people than people have to live, goods than goods have to stay, progressive people can improve themselves by comparing, than I am stronger than thousands of people, not as good as my people thousands of thousands of people, the appearance of the person can not be beautiful, but the mind can not be ugly, because the appearance is given by Mom and Dad's cultivation of the cultured is their own for the sake of doing a mouth on the virtue of the normal people is not a difficult thing!

″People, don't compare yourself to others, there will always be someone better than you and someone worse than you', first of all I answer in the affirmative, this statement makes a lot of sense.

There are people outside the people, there are mountains outside the mountains, people than people, gas death, life than life, gas out of the disease! In this world, there are people who are standing in the crowd, honored; there are also people who are humble and lowly, enduring humiliation. There are people who have a lot of money, throw a lot of money; there are also people who are poor and penniless. Compared to the top, you will feel a in the sky, a in the ground, they are simply living in vain, not inevitably deflated sigh! Down than, you will find that many people than you have been poor, as the old saying goes: 'others ride horses I ride a donkey, think carefully about their own as well as, wait until you look back, there are still picking the foot of the man'.

Than than to compare, tired of the body, hurt the heart, in vain, envy and jealousy hate, and even let themselves atrophy! Heart, only one, do not load too much; people, only a lifetime, do not chase too tired. What is the fight, than what? Prosperity three thousand, just passing clouds; trouble countless, look away is a clear day! Life is short, things are unpredictable, everyone has their own life, poor or rich, gain or loss, if you know, will be able to calm, if you look away, can be at ease! Sorrow and happiness is life, sweet and sour is called life, rather than always take their own and others to compare, rather than than than the time used to work hard and down-to-earth.

Life is like a chess game! As long as you do your best, the results leave it to the will of God. Do not compare, do not compete, do not covet, not humble, not overbearing, not spoiled, not surprised, with a natural state of mind, to live a life of peace as it comes. Knowing enough to be always happy, no need to suffer, ″The Great Wall of China is still there today, do not see the year Qin Shi Huang ', and live a good day is the real blessing of life!

I don't want to be with anyone, as a comparison, I just know that other people's good or bad, and I have nothing to do with it, do their own thing, put their own mouth, the happiest thing, is that they have a good body, contented people happy. [laughs] [covers face] [yay] [yay]

"Man, don't compare yourself to others. There's always someone better than you, and there's always someone worse than you."

Everyone living in the world, are alive with his significance, each person is unique, because each person is independent to follow their own goals in the advance, only your own goal is the most suitable for your own living. Live to understand, is to be worthy of their own not in vain. Live out of their own rhythm, is the hard way.

Don't compare with others, people always like to compare is most people envy and jealous of other people's good, see their own son or loved ones is not ideal that will take others to do comparison, want to be able to inspire them. For example, when I just graduated, during the work practice, not very adaptable, the boss will always take others to compare with me, said who only came to a few days performance on the third, the second. At that time I was which mentality is better, do not mess around, do not adore the flashy, do not go with the flow, living inside a calm helmsman, and then the wind and waves can not help me. Mind to be calm, you can observe where people usually do better than you, learn from other people's experience, take the long and make up for the shortcomings, there will be progress! So I insist on working and living according to my own rhythm, not in comparison with others to disrupt their own rhythm, which is the wise man of life.

So in these happy times, cherish the moment.Pythagoras once said, "Look only at what you have, not at what you don't have. Don't compare yourself with others in flashy outfits to the exclusion of what you really need to enhance."

People should pursue happiness, not to compare with other people's happiness, compare and compare, people's hearts are only left with expanding desires and impatience, there is no joy and happiness.

This is a phrase used to advise and enlighten others to be lenient, whereas in actual life, there should be something to compare and something not to compare.

1 as a student, should be more than the academic performance, study hard, in the learning method, through and excellent students to compare, to find out their own shortcomings, through hard work and good learning, to improve their own academic performance. Do not compare food and clothing with classmates, as a student, dressed in clean and tidy, can be, should maintain the attention of cultural learning, can not let other things distracted.

2 As a farmer, we should compare food production with other villagers, learn from other people's advanced experience, and strive for high food production. In weddings and funerals, do not compare with others, maintain the fine tradition of thrift and frugality, and spend money on planting and breeding and other ways to get rich in order to live a good life.

3 as a modern entrepreneur, we must compare the quality of products and other manufacturers, and strive for excellence in product quality, to ensure safe production, to protect the welfare of employees, to strengthen the training and introduction of talent, to do conscientious business efforts. Can not be compared with other manufacturers, who is more able to cut corners, who is more able to do on energy saving and emission reduction, making money out of conscience.

Feel free to leave positive comments and learn from each other.

I think there should be comparisons in learning and work, because there are comparisons in order to identify the good and bad, in order to know the gap, and there are gaps in order to have the motivation to work hard. Of course, in the material life enjoyment, there is no need to compare with others, let nature take its course, be contented and happy, keep a normal heart, is the best state of our life.

I started my college life in September of 1982. I had never seen the world and was curious about everything. Naturally, I couldn't compare myself with other students in terms of food, clothing and utilities, and I didn't want to. But the accent was so thick and rustic that people didn't understand me and I was ridiculed, which made me depressed. Especially in English class, when I opened my mouth, I could tell that I was speaking Dabashan English, and of course I couldn't understand what others were saying. Some of my classmates said that they couldn't even speak Chinese Mandarin well, so why should they learn English, which made me feel very inferior.

I felt that I could not compare myself with them in life, but I would never admit defeat in learning. I vowed to catch up with them at all costs. When I was in elementary school, my teachers were local private teachers who taught us inaccurate pinyin, so I learned hanyu pinyin from scratch, used my study time to listen to recordings in the phonetics room, and often read aloud in Mandarin where no one was looking. In less than three months, I was able to pass the Mandarin test, and no one laughed at me any more.

At the same time, I was a regular visitor to the English listening room, starting with pronunciation and gradually listening to simple spoken language and simple stories. By the second semester of my sophomore year, I was able to understand BBC News and VOA News, I could communicate with the foreign teachers, and I often took the foreign teachers and international students out on trips to the mountains and mountains, where I ate, drank, and stayed for free, and occasionally received some tips.

Through efforts to find self-esteem and self-confidence, I think I'm not dumber than others, no longer low self-esteem, all the students in the class impressed me, through the democratic election, when the class president, when the third year of college, was elected by the students to serve in the student body. After graduation, to participate in the work, in the workplace, never dilute the band, high standards and strict requirements, and do their best to do their work to the utmost, to win the praise of comrades and leadership praise.

The author believes that in the pursuit of career, the comparison is still to compare, but also through the comparison, in order to find their own goals and direction of struggle, only to know their own shortcomings, only to have the motivation to work hard, only to have the opportunity to realize their dreams. Even if you fail, you will not live in vain. As for how much money, how little money, how big or small the official, how good is life, there is no need to compare, let God. I am the second generation of food and agriculture, a family of words, just for reference.

In this big beautiful world, many people, whether in life or at work, every day is to go life in comparison.

Because, life is realistic, for example, dressing or many details of life, inadvertently appear to compare each other.

The only way to advance thinking logically and more clearly at work is to compare, to brainstorm, and to make something, or a project, better.

In the headlines, this virtual world, everyone shows their skills, writing their own wonderful beautiful articles, positive and inspirational posts, and of course, there are people who use the posts to achieve what they want.

However, this comparison is to be made from the correct outlook on life, values, and worldview, in order to promote positive energy, so that every comparative thing, the project reaches the peak.

On the other hand, if it is, narrow-minded, using their own strengths than the other side of the shortcomings, so that the more than, so that everyone knows you than the way, will make their own character moral problems exposed.

No matter in that enterprise or institution work, are masters of the cloud, we all know, people outside the people, outside the sky, and in the workplace do not know when, in a single item, kill a dark horse. If you don't charge yourself at any time, you are likely to be out of the game in this program.

In life, every family life is not the same, how many people compare to wear what high-grade clothes, eat what senior dining and so on, so that driving what high-grade car, said here when I have to say, everyone should be based on their own actual situation, happy and happy life, you are living a wonderful life.

If you compare yourself to others, you will get yourself heartbroken or in a bad mood. Life is only once, happy and joyful every day is the king.

Finally, I said, I hope that each of us as a person who came to this world, in the workplace to do their best, in each piece of work, go all out to compare more and more, to come up with their own real talent to compare each other each work, in order to promote the performance of enterprises and businesses.

The whole country strives to compare in order to push forward to build a better motherland and to make our country stronger!

However, in comparison, let yourself become better, rather than let yourself in comparison, become more jealous heart, to retaliate to denigrate others, so that they will make themselves very painful and, slowly everyone knows what you think, than to avoid it, become a loner. This is my point of view!