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What should I do if my 80-something year old doesn't want to go to a nursing home and wants to live alone?

What should I do if my 80-something year old doesn't want to go to a nursing home and wants to live alone?

What should be done if an 80-year-old person does not want to be admitted to a nursing home and wants to live alone? As an 80-year-old man who wants to live alone, it means that the old man's health is still good, his movement is still more convenient, and he can still take care of himself in terms of life. In view of this, his children and other descendants can only respect the old man's wish and let him enjoy his old age.

Then, for the safety of the elderly, and the elderly is, after all, eighty years old, do children and other juniors should often visit the elderly, to help the elderly to prepare for daily necessities, especially the elderly health, should be concerned about every detail, winter heating and summer cooling problems should take precautions against the unexpected, juniors should do their utmost filial piety to honor the elderly, so that the elderly happy to spend their twilight years in peace and quiet.

A: Follow the wishes of the elderly ❤️

Listen to the heartfelt words of the elderly in nursing homes-

1. Depressing, strange, helpless, forced smile, heartfelt.

2. Self-care is the right thing to do, and if you cannot take care of yourself, you are a victim, a sufferer and a burden!

3, brain confusion is good, whatever you do, if the brain is clear, limbs numb, then, people have not "gone", the heart has long "gone" 😭

Take it as it comes!

Do what you have to do and listen to God.

The 80-year-old old man to live independently, it proves that the old man is still in good health, the old man can live on his own, comfortable, not restricted by anyone, just every day to contact with their children, to master the old man's life, something timely home, nothing, they are very free, how good, as long as the ability can be. To respect the views of the elderly, this is called filial piety.

An eighty-something year old doesn't want to go to a nursing home. She has her own ideas. One, she feels that her health is still very good and there is no need to spend money. Second, or the elderly have her economic strength can afford the cost of their own retirement. Do not do children's free force, should respect the views of the elderly, the elderly to hire a nanny to accompany the elderly, take good care of the elderly. Sons and daughters will also save the heart.

Is that even a problem? He can live on his own, even if he needs someone to take care of him from time to time, it is not otherwise, my father is over 80 years old, he lives on his own, he has to take out, we go home just to take care of his daily chores, wash the quilt ah, wash the clothes ah, ah, alas, there are still urine and feces, and he can't move, what can't be done inside the home ah? It depends on whether you have the heart or not.

If the nursing home is good, how can the elderly not want to go there, there is no way or no way, life is like that, can only act according to the development of the

Respect the advice of the elderly, do not impose the current way of old age on the elderly, two elderly people can take care of three children, now three children can also take care of two elderly people, there is no reason not to take care of them, but there is also any reason not to take care of them, but there is also any reason not to take care of them, there is one thing to remember, you, are the role model of the children!

We also have several seniors here in their 8Os! They don't want to go into a nursing home either! There's no freedom in a nursing home! A person can be self-reliant! They don't bother their children! It's also called family care! I agree!

Just hire a nanny for the elderly and have your children visit often.

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