To be honest, it is really difficult for young people to get married and start a family without the help of the elderly. Naked marriages, though very noble, are rare in reality. Then again, which family's elderly are not devoted to help?

Grateful children, act according to their ability, do not give the elderly problems, not to mention the hand to the elderly to ask for

China's unfair distribution of resources, only to nibble on the old, but young people still have to struggle, the elderly just bang lining.

It is good for young people to be able to marry independently and have their own financial means and careers, and it is frowned upon to nibble at the elderly.

Marriage, values, outlook on life, the harmonization of these three outlooks, will make the young people to become a family and establish a balanced relationship. 'The bride price money to a certain amount of change after he will change qualitatively as a result of the bride price money is not necessary ah!

Nowadays there are too few young people who can get married completely on their own, nowadays there is no house car ticket to get married, that old mother-in-law will marry her daughter to a penniless young man ah!

Now the times have changed, the bride price is high, the price of housing is surprisingly high, whether it is a boy or a girl want a twenty-something people rely on that five or six thousand dollars in wages to buy a house is simply the sky is the limit, now the girl asked the boy to have a house and a car, but also do not think of their own twenty-something years old can do? Now China's young people did not get married before most of them are nibbling the old, not nibbling the old few and far between, the high cost of housing has suffered how many boys and exhausted how many old people.

Nowadays, within the society, there may not be many young people who don't nibble on their old age and can get married independently, which has a direct influence on our traditional Chinese concepts, first of all, our parents spend their whole life's energy on their sons and daughters.

First of all, from food, clothing, housing and transportation want to give children the best, from small children have developed the habit of relying on their parents, parents always have to worry about the heart, but the children do not know gratitude, now many children in their twenties, but also let their parents worry, including their own marriage to be handled by their parents, especially in the rural areas of our children's marriage, are handled by their parents, this kind of thing parents are used to, feel It is a responsibility.

Should pay for the child, the child should rightfully enjoy this treatment, in many families, if the parents do not organize the wedding for their children, will also be laughed at by others, this is our last generation of parents from generation to generation, when the parents always think that should be for the child to pay for this is the purest and most true love on earth! Parents to children's love is the world's greatest, the most selfless, poor parents, parents do their duty, this is the reality of life.

Parents help to buy a house and car, pay the bride price to marry a daughter-in-law, in China this is not called nibbling the old!

If the parents to spend money to marry a daughter-in-law, the young couple live a good life, do not give their parents further trouble, this is the ancestors burned incense, this son is definitely a son of distinction, other families have to envy and jealousy hate!

Nowadays, we are talking about old age, that is, the parents pay for the son's marriage expenses; if he does not get married, his parents will support him, and if he does get married, his parents will support his family!

It is only when the parents not only pay for the cost of marrying a daughter-in-law, but also have to support their son's family at a later stage, that it is called nibbling on the old man!

To be honest, it is difficult, at least in China's real society, can be economically independent to realize financial freedom, and independently buy a house and get married for a small percentage. These people are either elites in various industries or talented people who have been struggling for at least 5 years and have improved their income! Most of them seem to be in the parents to buy the first set of real estate, with the help of the parents to help a ride, and then look at their own efforts, relying on the husband and wife's business! Chinese society has to get married to the wedding tradition, especially for women, the wedding house is the guarantee of future life, and most of the young people just entered the community is basically uncompetitive, from the relevant employment situation can be peeped in general, and just joined the staff is generally not too high, and immediately get married I'm afraid that the down payment is very difficult! This is the domestic reality, we do not understand foreign countries, do not comment, it is said that in foreign countries do not have to have ownership of the marital home to get married, rental housing can also! What do you say?