Parents love their children more than anything else, and the so-called "love is deep and blame is deep". Even if you are not doing well, as a parent, they are more heartbroken and helpless. All they want is for you to get ahead and make progress. All parents want their children to succeed.

Pity the world's parents!

The parents don't mind if the children are no better! It's just that parents everyone hates. They want their sons and daughters to strive for excellence and to do something. If the children are usually lazy, or do something wrong they will be very strict to scold, or hands to slap you. But their hearts are very painful. Do not be children should parents scold a few words and accumulated hate, you have to understand the parents of the hard work. If you work hard but have no money, parents are also trying to do everything to help you through the difficult times, no father will dislike the children's incompetence! At least I haven't seen that in China!

As the saying goes: "Crops are good for others, but children are good for their own family". There is not a single parent in the world who says that their child is poor, in their own eyes, it is always their own child is good, even if there are shortcomings, it is better than others.

Parents love their children, that's for sure.

Love is deep, seeking high, often hate iron is not steel. Caused by a large hope, once the disappointment, psychological imbalance, the loss of confidence in their children, will be guilty of haste, a leaf blindfold, do not see Mount Taishan, will be a little bit of children's small mistakes, unlimited amplification, how to see also not smooth solution, the big things and small things to mention a few, resulting in the nucleus of the partition, resulting in contradictions, cracks are getting bigger and bigger, and sometimes the father and son against each other ... This is really the old uneducated, young uneducated, are responsible for. Parents should bear more, you are the elders, life has gone through the bridge than they walk the road are more.

Regardless of the degree of rigidity, parents will not dislike their own children, regardless of the less communication it, no climbed the mountain of things, as long as the heart to sit down calmly and properly communicate, will certainly understand each other, the father and son of the same heart, the family and all things are happy ah!

I think the vast majority of parents will not, but it is very normal to worry that their children are not doing well and do not have much money; as the saying goes, "raising a few hundred years old, worrying about ninety-nine years old", this is the mentality of the majority of parents, have we not seen that a lot of parents have taken out a portion of their meagre pensions to support their children's living?

If it comes to parents will hate their own children have no money, the days are not good, this kind of parents, after all, few and far between, but complaining, nagging a few words on the certainly have, this is not to be disliked, but the parents of their children, a manifestation of love, I hope to be able to inspire their children to do, which is the so-called "hate iron is not a steel"; as parents As a parent, I always hope that my children can live a carefree life and have a successful career; this is the common wish of most parents.

In fact, most of the children of people, the parents of the complaints, nagging as parents dislike their own, just a misunderstanding, know that "all parents are children", should know that the children do not mix well, life is difficult, as the parents are in the eyes, pain in the heart. Even scolding is not a dislike for, but now some children do not know how to be grateful, not to blame, it is all unnecessary self-esteem.

In the final analysis, which are not high or low to gnaw on the old children, more should understand, understand the intentions of parents, to be a person, positive and enterprising, do not make your parents for you to worry about, parents help you a moment, but it is not possible to help you for a lifetime.

No, they won't. Children are the heart of their parents.

Let's say there are two buns in the house, one for each child, and one bun will not be given to one child.

If one child is rich and one is poor, he will help the poorer one more.

No parent dislikes their child, only children who don't listen. Standing up for parents is all about that, and I think we're all like me.

Why not? In some families with many children, this phenomenon exists, just wrapped up in the name of "love", on the surface is to love you, "hate you", but actually in action and language is to look down on you, dislike you. Therefore, we have to look at this problem correctly, can not use the parents of these universal values to deny the existence of this phenomenon.

The "six relatives" in the saying "a man is poor and breaks his six relatives" included his father and mother in ancient times. Parents are also human beings, they also have seven feelings and six desires, no one can be completely correct, "no gold is perfect, no one is perfect" this proverb also tells us that people are not perfect.

In today's world, when it is customary to judge a person's success by his wealth, some parents look down on their children who are not doing well. In some families with many children, it's time for the New Year holidays. The children of the materially poor, faced with the unfair treatment of their parents, can more deeply understand. That kind of suffering, not a lack of material suffering, but tearing the heart and lungs, and can only be silently buried in the heart of the suffering. For example, you are temporarily difficult, you can take over all the sweeping, washing dishes, cooking, dishwashing and other tasks, parents think it should be. And rich children as long as they reach out to do the work, some parents immediately take over the hands, do not want to dirty their children's hands. Another example, at the same time the daughter, due to poverty, you ride an ordinary bicycle to go, and another due to wealth, driving a car to the rural parents home, in action and language, parents may be treated differently, it is difficult to "a bowl of water to the end of the level". This is the nature of the national "hate the poor love the rich" decision, and, often to "parents are hoping that you are good" this surface phenomenon covered, and the essence is that you do not mix well, I look down on you. Therefore, we cannot deny the existence of this phenomenon from the moral high ground.

"No one is without fault", parents are human beings and make mistakes, so it is important to look at them correctly. Parents' kindness is as deep as the sea, no matter what reason they come to treat themselves, it is understandable. The important thing is that they do not lose confidence, get out of the doldrums as soon as possible, downtrodden, revitalize, start again from scratch, to make themselves stronger and bigger. Poor, find the root cause of the disease, play to the advantage, turn yourself into a promising person, is to return parents, but also the best way to filial piety to them.

Do parents resent their children for not mixing well?

No, it's more of a hate thing to be precise! And will only do my best to support, encourage and wish you a superior life.

Every child is brought up by parents who have worked hard to raise them, so how can they dislike them? Even if you have become a family member or a parent, you are still a child in the eyes of your parents. 10,000 words of advice ...... Every time you leave home do you find the figure behind you to see off? Do you know how they feel?

How can the person who gave you life dislike you, childhood to adulthood, become a family, all reflect the love of parents. When you have been a parent, but also to help you bring children, share housework ...... all the time to support you.

They have only one purpose.As long as you're doing well, better than you're doing well.

The people who love you most in this world are your own parents.

Children will grow up and pursue their own happiness; the most intimate friends will have their breakups; and relatives will have their own lives;

Only the heart of the parents remain steadfastly in you, even if the parents are divorced, she his heart, still for you to hold.

How many would rather give up familiar jobs, opportunities for the sake of their children ......

How much stoicism, how much tolerance ...... How many smiles were lost for this. Tell a true story around you!

A Sichuan sister, originally a happy family with a son and a daughter. Her daughter graduated from university and her son is in elementary school. She often says: My son is still so small, I don't know how it is at home.

And let's not talk about her marriage, there must have been a chasm that couldn't be crossed or she wouldn't have chosen to leave at the age of knowledge.

The picture of a family of four, gathered around a table in happiness, is a heart-warming one. But now they are working alone in a faraway place, and have already suffered loneliness that ordinary people cannot bear.

She was hardly ever seen resting, leaving early and staying late, and only being home on holidays for vacation.

She said: only busy will not be nonsense, only busy will not lose sleep ...... Hearing this my tears in my eyes.

Ask her: What are you going to do with a day off?

She replied: go buy some school supplies for her son, clothes and shoes and send them back.

The heart never leaves the child, and I say: your son and daughter are old enough to be a free man, so you can have a relationship, right?

She laughed out loud 😂, it's always nice to see her smile, even though it's covered in years, she still looks pretty good when she smiles.

She said: my son is not adult, I have to support my son, and I have to be there if my daughter needs me when she gets married ...... no time no time ......

When he finished, he put away his smile.

Raise your children to know your parents, no matter what you are their favorite and most beloved person.

As long as you live, you should honor your parents more, so that you can wait until your children want to be raised but your parents are no longer there and regret it.

Will not. Because the son is no longer good is also their own birth of their own cultivation grown up, may be the son will sometimes be a little too smooth, sometimes will not listen to the advice to go off the beaten track, the big thing is to nag a little bit, to be precise, is to hate the iron is not just it! I will only try my best to support and encourage him, and hope that he can lead a better life through his own efforts.

Every child is brought up by hard-working parents, so how could they dislike them? Even if they have become a family or parents, they are still a treasure in their parents' hearts. They want him to become a butterfly as soon as possible, and 10,000 words of advice in order to let him spread his wings and fly.

Every child is unique in the heart of the parents, love in the heart, cherish the destiny given by life.

The children of their own, but people have the desire to pursue the pursuit of good things, their own children do not mix well, will certainly be compared with others, there will certainly be a gap in the heart, the mouth does not say, everyone understands.

This question is in my heart, and it makes me feel like a knife. I am a disabled person, and my parents have known about my physical condition for a long time, but they don't really understand my state, and their practices show a great deal of discrimination. When I was more than 10 years old, our family lived in an old neighborhood, the tap water could not reach the 2nd floor, and in the middle of the night at three, three, four o'clock, there was water downstairs, and I got up to carry water for everyone to eat. At that time we were still using coal fires, I was still knocking coals at noon and afternoon, carrying them upstairs to build a stove to cook and eat. And I had a brother and a sister who were all in much better health than I. I don't know whether this was discrimination or exercise, whether this kind of behavior was bullying or oppression. Then I worked, but I didn't earn much, and once my mother had a birthday and I gave her 100 dollars. And my brother had the money to send him 1000 dollars, and at dinner he said to me ah, he sent me 1000 dollars it. Then I got married, married with tears married, because the cost of marriage are my own earnings, parents do not have too much support, including the cost of the banquet is also me, and finally no money to borrow from friends, or that banquet money is owed, and then slowly pay back. After these things, I know that no one will help me, I also do not know do not want to let my offspring suffer too much, so I later with my lover did not have children, so live on.