It means that you are tired of, annoyed, love faded, some let is "love is full of water", this time it depends on how you think, for your own one can start again, but you still have children, you are in is a family, if you are also gone, the child may have to suffer.

Let me say this.

Know my husband only a few months to get married, the second month after marriage to do pre-pregnancy checkups, I found out that diabetes, I can not accept myself, but my husband has been comforting me, I cooperate with the treatment, hospitalized for half a month, and now has been 7 years, I have been taking medication, my son is also 4 years old, from the marriage of no car and no house, to the present Shenzhen has a car and a house, are my husband's hard work to earn a person, I'm responsible for taking care of the child, and I'm responsible for the child.

Two people understand each other just fine, no one's life is smooth sailing, bumps are inevitable, you can be sure that the next person you meet is better than the current person?

Get cured if you're not married yet. Rush this person just rush his illness. Of course you can also look at the Eight Characteristics. See if you are born with a wife's destiny. If that's the case, get married quickly and find another one if you die.

If you really love, you surely don't care about that. Let's just say that you don't love as much, but have responsibilities that come with it, and have a child with each other. Today's society has a lot of sick people, divorced also have, not divorced not abandon also have. There are even forty or fifty years of age on the paralyzed can not move, still do not give up there.

All because of years of affection and responsibility.

Although he is sick, he is not so sick that he can't move. In this day and age, not to mention chronic illnesses, there are many seriously ill people. Husband and wife are a community, sharing the same pain and suffering. Think about how you would want your significant other to treat you if you were the one who got sick one day.

Of course, if you do not have love, or once did not love so, then do not condescend to yourself, leave, do not leave on the dead heart single-mindedly good to him! There is nothing to get through, he is now uncomfortable that is the onset of the period, think of ways to do their best to treat, chronic diseases can be controlled! People live is a state of mind, bitter or tired, is life. This is life. It's not easy to have a sick person at home.

How many modern people do not have chronic diseases, this is a chronic disease era, as long as the good health and good medication, there is nothing wrong. What do you mean by not accepting? You still want to cheat what, or to divorce ah, you do couples is life, can not fly separately in the face of great difficulties.

Why don't you imagine what you'd be like if you left him now?

If you think about how you'll still miss it after you leave him, but that you can take care of yourself, that you can get your affairs in order on your own, that you have a full schedule of time work. Then you can pretty much leave his world slowly, it doesn't have to be a gamble with the rest of your own life. You can try to make it up to him and take care of him in other ways.

If you feel that you can't leave him now no matter how hard it is, as long as there is a breath left in you. Then don't hesitate, don't complain, stick to your own choice. In the beginning so difficult have come together, now afraid of what? It's a chronic disease, you can take your time. The two of you together to discuss, together with the company than anything else. Even if there is something in the future, then let yourself not regret today's decision!

You can ask the question, that you have been shaken up inside, has been more inclined to leave him, I also do not know what your husband is a chronic disease, because I also have a chronic disease for the first one or two years is also as difficult as your husband, but I am now also over the although still need to take medication every day, but with the same as a normal person to live and work, I also have a wife and children, my wife in my illness before a year ago, also has no complaints to take care of me, and then still cheated on me for the sake of the child to endure, the child is also almost not with me to bring, a few years without married life, I know my life is ruined. Later still cheated, I endured for the sake of the child, and after that, I was not cold, the child is almost not with me to bring, a few years without married life, I know that my life is ruined, but for the sake of the child also have to live well. I think how you have already disliked the heart or leave, because chronic diseases will have many complications is very difficult. It's better for the kids if you leave. It's your own life that's hard to get sick. No one else is to blame.

You can not accept, why still care about their own can not let go of it, the long pain is better than short pain, think about the acceptance of the future decades, compared to let go of a short period of reluctance, in fact, you have the answer.

Time can wash away everything, time for space, give each other are left a bit of the good once, this is good for each other, but also responsible practice. I believe that the other side can also meet the other half who does not care about his situation, and can also be with someone else in life, happy and fulfilling.

In fact, everyone's understanding of happiness is not the same, but at least your pursuit of happiness to his current physical condition is not in line with your requirements. You boldly go in pursuit of your own happiness will certainly encounter pain and ups and downs, which is normal, is the test of life road, is the process of sharpening the mind, experience more you really know what is what you seek.

Put aside the psychological burden and ask yourself whether his current situation can make you worthy of a lifetime commitment or not, and if you are hesitant, make a quick decision.

That's because you don't love your partner enough, if you love him enough you wouldn't mind his poor health, not to mention his chronic illnesses, and you can't let go of him probably because your partner loves you more.

I don't know what kind of chronic disease your partner is suffering from, and why his condition is recurring. People in middle age, basically more or less will have some disease, as long as with the doctor for treatment, and usually pay attention to diet and work and rest, to control the disease is not a problem.

Some people have a very mild condition, but they just like to scare themselves, keep psyching themselves out, feel hopeless, and even give up on themselves, and as a result, their lives get worse and worse and their condition gets worse and worse. Your subject seems to be this kind of person.

He can be said to be very lucky to have married you, because you did not leave you; but you married him, I have to say it is a tragedy, because he does not know how to cherish your good, such as your care and dedication to him. Everything you did became a matter of course in his mind.

A chronic illness is not fatal enough to warrant pampering? You don't have to accept these behaviors from him, much less let them go, make it clear to him that if he doesn't adjust or change, you will leave.