From whom does this come? "Do not argue, do not hold wishes, do not explain." Inexplicable, nonsensical living, without thought or opinion, would not the world be a fool!
On the contrary, the greatest maturity in life is to be able to recognize right and wrong and to face them.

Still mostly agree on this one!

First, do not argue, like the sun will set after the sun rises, when we are young, like the rising sun, all the time to show their own personality, to the complexity of the social struggle. But as we grow older and mature, our experiences tell us that arguing is just a manifestation of emotional polarization, and not arguing becomes a way of understanding others!

Secondly, not complaining is like a newborn baby with slightly larger ears than the average child. Maybe in the first half of his life, people around him are pointing at his ears, and he feels that society is targeting him, and starts complaining about everything. But as he grows up, he suddenly realizes that his ears, which are slightly bigger than others, are not his specialty, he is himself! We grow up telling ourselves that complaining doesn't change anything, and not complaining becomes a way of knowing ourselves.

Third, do not explain, like the comedian Chaplin's exercise works, silent performances, all relying on body language to express, so that give people unlimited reverie, each action, different people look at different feelings, the young people may just feel a laugh, and the experience of the frost of the wise in the pursuit of spiritual answers! Our experience will tell us, do not explain may be the best explanation, do not explain into a sense of life!

It takes time to grow in our maturity, the years, the experiences, everyone has a unique maturity, remember how you change every time!

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The meaning of this sentence is: do not give the people democracy, what I say is what I want to do, no one is allowed to say, and do not discuss in private, or I will rule your crime, the people are what, are ants, you should not grow brain. Feudal rule during the time of the powers that be think so, this is also our country has always lagged behind the West's fundamental reason, until Chairman Mao led the toiling masses overthrew the three mountains people really stand up and live a personal style, only to know what is called the right to speak and the right to live.

Disagree. You can have no complaints about anything, but there are some things you have to have explained. When you have a problem, you have to argue when you have a different opinion. The kind of people you're talking about are not mature, they're mediocre, they're smooth, and they can be treacherous and insidious, and they're scary.

Identify.

If you were a butterfly, you would say to the caterpillar, "Dear caterpillar, if you eat and sleep well, and think of nothing else, you can become me (the butterfly)". The caterpillar doesn't believe you, and says that you're a crook, that you're a pest, and that you're up to no good; he also tells you that the big caterpillar told him that a caterpillar can only be beautiful if it has double eyelids, a small mouth, and a slim body, and that it has to get up early in the morning and work out every day, and that it's only successful if it eats the tenderest leaves and lives in the biggest house. When faced with this situation, would you argue? Would complain? And continue to explain?

I do not agree with this saying, only the dead can do "no arguments, no complaints, no explanations". As the old saying goes, "no pain, no gain", which represents the greatest maturity of a person.

Life is living in the argument to survive, you do not go to explore, not to practice, not to argue, you know which is right? You also do not know which is not correct, in your mind there is no reason for the two words, you even in the heart of the goal, whether it is correct do not understand? Reasonable to go all over the world, no reason is difficult to walk, you have a reason, you have to go to fight, no reason you do not go to make trouble, do not argue, how do you know you have a reason no reason? Not arguing means that you are not mature.

People have complained all their lives, you don't complain about others, others complain about you, you complain about others, only then will you learn from others, people and people have comparison, comparison will become in complaining, only let yourself be strong, more than all the people, then you don't complain about others, by then you complain about the bad health, why do I reach old age? Everywhere is sick, people are in complaining to survive, there is no one in the world who has not complained.

In life you always have to encounter some troublesome things, you are solving these troublesome things, you do not go to explain, people say you do illegal things, originally you did not do illegal things, you do not go to explain, then you are wrongly imprisoned, this is mature? Do not explain to be wronged by others, there is no one in the world who does not go to explain their own right and wrong, so that they will always be the wrongdoer.

This is a realm of being a human being. A supreme state, this kind of person has, but I have not met in real life, I admire this kind of person, but I can't do it myself, to hang out in this society, there are too many unfair things. Arguments and complaints will still be there.

Zhao Gao refers to the deer as a horse, the court does not think that the competition, black hands cover the sky; snipers and mussels, fishermen; but the sun and the moon do not compete for thousands of years in the mountains and the water give each other a turn. This question has different views for people with different cultivation. There are complaints in arguments, and there are complaints that must be argued. History of the emperor's throne is not a struggle to get, the throne of the front is not attached to the bloody storm it. Of course, this is the power of the quacks who seek profit and power, not to be emulated. But a small number of high cultivation of high realm of people, not to things like, not for their own sadness, rumors do not discern, 汅 scorn do not wash, everything with the fate of the people of the world, they do not want to be indifferent to the early Ming Zhi Zhi, tranquility can be no language to the distance, can be done as a role model for the cloth. Because more people like this, society will be more harmonious and better.

This one sentence of the subject, without arguing, complaining or explaining, reminds me of the Golden Leader character Ding Yuanying of The Way of Heaven. This God and Ghost theorist high-end person is such a high level of heart purity. Let the average person can not reach, but he can reign in the wind and clouds to strategize and point to the river and mountain to set the teacher. Let you not be able to figure out has made a move to pinch you flat. This is a person's broad-minded moral realm high erudition shield's ability.

non-argumentativeThere is a kind of person who is calm and unruffled without the wind and rain to take the exact four flat.

Why is this style of being a human being present in him? One of the reasons, it understands human nature. It understands human nature. It understands that it is irrelevant for people to argue about objects, and knows that the measure of their heart is greater than the sea, not the rice in the bamboo bucket.

He certainly didn't need to argue about such hairy matters that were not worth mentioning, but rather spoilt his precious time. Let anger die out anytime reason and calmness accompany himself.

You're arguing, and people are taking this one thing in stride. This kind of chicken belly small intestinal things can not destroy a mood. Have big ambition characters, mood control is very good, how to do still have to do, so do not fight not grab completely rely on their own four stable style to fight, the thing. This is the gentleman behavior.

No complaints:Does life work for each person to complain? You say more than others can listen to the heart? At most, they will comfort you with a word or two.

Whose time is precious these days? You don't have that much time to listen to your grievances. It's no one's fault if you've been treated unfairly or are emotionally trapped because you don't have enough internal suction.

Find out how you can complain less. Improve the comprehensive psychological quality, should say, never say more than you should, naturally popular.

Complaints are actually dissatisfaction with the existing life circumstances, find out the dissatisfaction method to remedy the situation. Then you will unravel the stakes. The latter thing will naturally find the appropriate solution.

Make yourself strong, your complaints will slowly disappear, let your emotions into interested things, or reading books, exercise can choose the same, let the time by scheduling energetic, then you still complain?

No explanation:Especially when we live in the world, we can't talk freely about family matters; we can't talk about our careers; we can't talk about our relationships. Sometimes we really want to vomit it all out, but we are afraid that something will happen to us.

A wise person will always find ways to get the necessary release of mental emotional stress rather than hiding it inside and holding it in, which is much better than complaining about it to insignificant people.

You explain to explain, and you are not a level of people, he can not understand; even if you understand, but also everywhere to proclaim that you are not. Especially two people live in conflict timing, and then good girlfriends, you can not say too much, can only say half a sentence to stay half a sentence, perhaps in order to guarantee that you can get more initiative in the future.

Husband and wife life conflict belongs to the family small things do not hurt, things can be solved through the law, rather than complain to others in order to solve the problem between you and your husband, maybe it is the character of the reason; maybe it is not the same point of view; maybe it is the family of origin brought about by the inability to change the facts, then you have to take a step back, do not be too serious.

Need to explain when, the other party naturally give you an explanation. If you do not understand and he is not a level circle of people, and then close, you explain to him may not be useful. A person's level and outlook on the family of origin, but also with the acquired education cognitive system has a lot to do. So a lot of things do not explain, prove their own power to add icing on the cake better.

Talking too much may not be a good thing. That's why arguing, not complaining, not explaining, is our basic do-it-yourself silent state cold approach. Let yourself be quiet; let time prove persuasive.

It turns out that the nesting is over in a flash, and it turns out that that's all there is to it, and you say too much, and it ruins the impression you make in other people's minds. So that we do people, there are two dilemmas. Dilemma is our own angle to the left, to the right, careful consideration or different ......

And a thing looks very brain fire at the time, but after a while it turns out with this. So, anything that can change a lot of things will eventually present the right solution to become the trend setter of the tight relationship.

First of all, I recognize the subject, as a person of great intelligence to ask such, intriguing, tortured questions about one's intelligence.

Life is long, the question of the subject is, not only in the family, in the workplace, in the ordinary life, or the virtual world of the headline platform.

One, in the family, does not argue, because the home is the habitat of life and living, and if any person, inside the home, no matter what, you win the argument, you lose, because it hurts the intimacy.

In the workplace, no matter what it is, whether you're arguing with your boss or a coworker, then bring the relationship down to freezing point.

However, normal technical issues must be argued for, and that requires you or me, to speak in numbers. Numbers represent economic profits, and anyone, in front of the numbers, is convinced.

On the road of life, if you are at home and complain about your family about everything, even how much you love your family, you will make them uncomfortable in your heart!

In the workplace, no matter what status you are? Or how accomplished you are, you complain about people every day, and truth be told, it's, as the old lifelong saying goes, a lot of work!

A wise man, a wise and intelligent man, can't turn all his giving with his mouth and have his family or friends all, turn away from you.

I recently met an uncle in the workplace, all his bad luck, every day to me, people do not respect him, he did not find the reason? He told me that we have to respect each other, and I said, "Uncle, I respect you very, very much!

The result, it is not known, we all know in our hearts, a person you will say again, the hearts of people have a scale, so there is no need for me to argue.

There are some things in life years, whether in the family, parents, lovers, children, siblings, that are just hard to beat.

In the workplace and the circle of friends, the virtual world, we look at the speech and behavior, or post pictures, a clear, and still need to defend what?

So, maturity in life is not arguing, not complaining, not justifying, you yourself are a loser if you can't do it right to complain about other people, whether it's your family or your job or the headlines in the virtual world!

Life on the road, by their own strength, by their own ability, by their own upright, clean walk life, but also need, to argue, to complain about other people, complain about other people you heart more narrow-minded, more to push themselves into a dead end!

I hope that all of my friends will listen to me, life

Less arguments, this has nothing to do with technology, less complaining and less defending, let time prove everything, why complain about others and discredit yourself, any one, think twice before making a decision! That's my point!