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How to balance work and filial piety when your parents are old and your children are away, and what should you do next?

How to balance work and filial piety when your parents are old and your children are away, and what should you do next?

Filial piety is when you put your heart into it, and when you do something about it, you do it.

Raise such a question, it shows that you are a responsible, responsible person, is in the stage of the old and the young, you want to take care of both properly, in order to be able to rest assured. People's energy is limited, only reasonable arrangements, prioritization, in order to get proper peace of mind.

But from the description of the question it is not quite clear what your current situation is, your parents are elderly, what is their health condition? Your children are away from home, do they have a family, and do they have children? Because these circumstances are not clear, so about work and filial piety how to balance, it is not very good to say. If your parents are not very old and have no problem taking care of themselves, it should not be a problem for you to take the time to visit them every now and then after work and have a meal and talk with them. Anyway, filial piety before it is too late, do not wait for the "son wants to filial piety but the parents do not wait", empty sadness!

I hope it helps you a little bit, and may you be properly organized and happy with your life!

Loyalty and filial piety is difficult, ancient and modern so, people and home, first of all, to survive life, we need to have financial resources, otherwise, everything is empty talk, today's network world, usually more video greetings, to give enough to the living needs of free time to go home to accompany, but also great filial piety Oh!

Spending more time with your parents is better than anything.

Hello, I'm happy to answer this question I hope my answer will help you!

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This is a problem that bothers a lot of people, parents aged children want to filial piety, but not in a place, so that the child is very concerned, I think parents have a pension in the child's city to rent a house, close to the child, easy to take care of the child, the parents can also see the child from time to time, if there is no retirement pension, the child will be the old man to pick up the old man in the life together, the old man is also a kind of comfort.

I and my parents in a city, so there is no such trouble, people are old, just want to see more children, chatting, see the children live a happy old man is also happy, so there is no need to dwell on this issue, the network is very developed, far away from you can video, in order to solve the old man misses the heart of the child, do the child's filial piety to his parents, so that the old man peace of mind, rest assured! May the world's elderly can be healthy and happy for the rest of their lives!

Thanks for the invitation! You're a little too vulgar! Also a little too fake! And a little too willfully so! What do you go out of the house for? For money? Money is the preferred choice of human materialism! Can't you really balance your filial piety? Where's your money? What's it all for? Can't you give your parents five thousand dollars a month? How about less? Is that okay? So, you're pretending to count! "Cats cry for mercy."

This is now a common people will be troubled by a problem, I have a friend around him he did, he and his wife decided to bar the elderly parents to the city they now live in, and then looked at a few nursing homes in the city, send their parents to their more satisfied with the nursing home, usually take time to go to the nursing home to see their parents after work, and then really busy when the phone video chat, to meet the spiritual needs of the parents! The spiritual needs of the parents are met by video chatting on the phone when they are really busy, so that they can fulfill their parents' spiritual needs and get a good balance between work and filial piety.

There's no way to stabilize your job and settle there, so you can rent a room for your parents near you and help out sooner or later.

Don't kidnap yourself with the elderly, we older people are very averse to excessive attention, we have our own lives, have nannies to take care of 具细, and prefer to clean up.

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