Very much recognize this sentence. Sitting quietly and often think about their own faults, gossip and do not talk about him is the principle of being a person; willing to learn and not "night and day" not blindly presumptuous criticism is a person's moral character, but also a kind of education. Language is a double-edged sword, both as a driving force, but also a kind of pressure, do not judge others on principle, not only others will be hurt, they will also be hurt, do not do unto others what you do not want them to do. So we have to think twice about everything, we have to do what is good for others, we are determined not to do what is not good for others, so that the simple words and prudent behavior is always with us, we do not seek trouble.

I very much recognize the phrase: don't judge others!

There's a quote circulating on Twitter that says we live in different worlds, you live on a big, luxurious ship with everything on board, a lifetime supply of fine wine, and many others who are as lucky as you to be on board.

And I grabbed a piece of driftwood and tried to float and float, and the waves were lapping at me, and I couldn't avoid them, and I was in danger of drowning at any moment, and I had to worry about whether any sharks would pass by.

And you ask me: why don't you take the time to see the beautiful scenery of the sea?

In this life, too many people are walking with a heavy load. You will never know what others go through, so don't judge.

Deep to the bones of the education, from not arbitrarily judge others. Even if you can see through, but also not to say, understand the other side of the pain in the heart, but also to give people the decency, is a realm of human beings.

Lee Sang Ryong said: We are human beings, but we are not one of a kind. Everyone has their own way of living, and no one has the right to tell them what to do. When you see good people, you appreciate them, and when you see the downtrodden, you don't despise them. The higher the level of people, the more they like to focus on themselves, rather than judging others. Just like many people love Faye Wong, not only love her songs, love her movies, but also because she lived out a rate of her own.

Don't try to please the world and don't judge right and wrong. Just be yourself, whoever you like. Mr. Yang Jiang said: the world is your own, it has nothing to do with others. When you know that you are not given the right to judge others, you will find yourself with more energy and time to focus on yourself. The most exquisite scenery in life is the inner calmness and composure. Focus on yourself and you will have a wider sky.

It is a discipline to not just judge others.

And not living in the judgment of others is a practice!

Common Gratitude!

They say don't judge others, do you recognize that? Why?

Although the word is this word, the reason is this reason, but do not recognize the dead reason. Because as the saying goes, "Reason is dead, people are alive", which means that reason should be used alive.

Judging others is not good, said between friends, between neighbors, between colleagues in the small and small, unrelated to the principle of things, can not judge, or even ignore. This way of dealing with not only to show their own generosity, but also do not offend people, two good things at once.

If it is in the face of major issues of right and wrong, the relevant principles, can not be a good person. Principle issues can not give in, right and wrong can not be ambiguous in front of, otherwise the loss is not only the unit, but also affect those who do not want to offend. Do not want to offend people also want to offend others.

When judging others, we must be realistic and realistic; moreover, we must be methodical, and we must do so out of goodwill and out of a desire to heal the sick and save the sick. Only in this way can we truly refrain from judging others.

As the old saying goes, "Sit quietly and always think about your faults, don't talk about other people's faults"! I think it makes sense. Not to judge others is a basic principle of being a human being.

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Don't judge others, this statement should be divided into two parts. Under normal circumstances, due to a person's level of education, personal training, family environment, different age levels of social cognition is also different, different personal preferences, which do not need to be judged. But in the face of right and wrong should stand firm, clear flag, should not be a peacemaker. I'm sorry for a period of time some of the media to the actors and actresses as a star; some bricklayers say what, the people do not buy a house is the price of housing is too low; rural loose pigs is polluting the environment; dog is a companion of mankind and other strange theories to take an opposing position, to clarify their own point of view. But keep it to the facts, no personal attacks. The old man shallow see, welcome to comment, do not like do not spray.

The floating world is cool and thin, walking in the purple strand of red dust, each has its own suffering, everyone has their own helplessness. Especially in this fast-paced network era, you may just be a moment of anger, and for others, but it can be driven to extinction. Modern life, work pressure, most people's mental, psychological tension for many years, those intentional or unintentional evaluation, many times can be pressed across a person's fragile nerves.

Empathy, putting your heart in the right place to be understood

The novel The Great Gatsby opens with the following passage.

When I was young and inexperienced, my father taught me something that I still remember.

"Whenever you want to criticize anyone, just remember that not everyone in the world has had the advantages that you have."

There are too many people in this world who are walking with a heavy load, you never know what others have been through, so don't presume to judge. A casual speculation on your part can be the last straw that breaks the camel's back and can send a person over the edge.

Have an empathetic heart and put yourself in the other person's shoes more often. Everyone has their own life, don't be so quick to tell others what to do with theirs.

In the age of the internet, it has become easier to judge others

With the development of Internet technology and the prevalence of online social media, everyone can express their opinions on various platforms, which provides convenience for the public to express their ideas, but also allows many people to be more unscrupulous in arbitrarily judging and even denigrating, slandering and abusing others. Cyber violence has become a hot topic in recent years, and it is not uncommon to see people suffer from depression or even commit suicide as a result of cyber violence.

Keyboard warriors have become a unique group of people in this era, who are timid and fearful in real life, but who take the moral high ground online to express their "personal sense of justice" and "personal comments", and who play the role of their imaginary heroes in the virtual world.

Be kind and do not judge others freely

Regardless of the times, kindness is a quality that everyone should always retain. Not judging others arbitrarily is a sign of respect for others, as well as for yourself.

Han Han once said:

If you don't understand, you shut up, because you never know what someone else has been through; if you do, then all the more reason to shut up.

We should always remind ourselves not to arbitrarily speculate on others, which is the most basic cultivation of being a human being. We are always in the habit of imposing our own ideas, our own opinions, on others. If other people's choices do not meet our own standards, we criticize them at will. You are not higher than anyone else, you do not know all about others, and you have not experienced their lives, so how can you have the courage to criticize others at will.

Judge not, lest ye be judged. For as you judge, so shall you be judged.

Not judging other people's lives is one of the most basic qualities a person can have.

After all, you have your life to live, and other people have other people's days to go through.

People can not look like, water can not scoop, since ancient times to see a person can not look at the appearance of a person's appearance can only represent his appearance and body type, can not prove that the person's connotation, a person's energy is fully embodied in the actual work, the style of life, social experience, as well as learning and resilience.

Life is an unknown, the child's first teacher is the parents, from childhood to adulthood, are faced with is the family of parents and family, good living environment, can create a good child, excellent parents enlightenment, will cultivate out of the discerning, smart, intelligent, responsive children. Children's growth, the key lies in the parents, parents' words and deeds, every move, and the influence of parental energy, the child benefit the first time in the heart rooted. Parents with practical action, teach by example, so that children from childhood have a heart of love for the country, love of society, love of home mentality.

I. People's biased judgments

The complexity of society, so that people have a different view of some people and judgment, some people are smooth on the scene, everywhere and the wind and rain, very easy-going, will be welcomed by the people; some are silent, do not like to show, introverted character, do not like to publicize, this kind of appearance will be given to others on your Yam like a big discount, so that people are very uncomfortable, that can not be acted upon.

II. Objective and fair judgments

Different personalities, in different jobs, there will be different achievements and results, some are good at expression, in front of all the people in front of the back, very good at catering to the leadership of the colleagues is very important, but some do not love to express, hard work and research, hard work, the results of the work is very significant, year after year there are new innovations and technological innovations, is the unit's technical leader, skilled, such people are called the elite industry, the elite of the industry, the people who contribute to the country and the society. People who contribute to the country and society.

Look at a person, evaluation of a person, a person's conclusion, do not busy conclusions, to focus on the process, the process is the most important, the show is a momentary performance, not on behalf of the person's energy, early determination, will lead to the opposite of what is desired, the burial of talent. No matter who or what profession the leadership and the masses, to see a person to be comprehensive, judging a person to be patient, a long time to test, can not be unauthorized, on a person to jump to conclusions, seek truth from facts, a comprehensive measure in order to determine the authenticity of a person.

Recognition. A person's life is unknown and only time can better consider a person. How can we judge others when we can't even judge ourselves sometimes?

When a scholar is separated for three days, he is to be looked at with the same eyes, from: "A Brief History of Governance - Sun Quan's Persuasion to Learn". It refers to the fact that we can't use the old eyes to look at people. Judgement is only what we think at the time, or a one-sided perspective, it is difficult for us to see the whole of a person, so don't be presumptuous to judge.

Take a very small example:

When we study, parents, especially, often tell us to stay away from those who are so-called "not doing their job" (here, they mean those who love to play and do not want to study), so following them will delay your study. If you do the same, you won't be "successful" in your future life.

Slowly grow up and enter the society, playful little friends, began to "power". Some are good at thinking, know the way to get money, became an entrepreneur; some good physical fitness, enlisted in the army good performance, became an officer; some hard work, hard to earn money, invested as a boss.

Parents are again praising those playful buddies before, why did they look at the wrong people at that time? In fact, in terms of learning, there are indeed some people are not interested in reading, but it does not mean that he has no enterprising spirit, there are also people who are silent learning did not show. Friends who are not interested in reading, early into society, in order to survive but no education, only to work harder, and finally reap the benefits of success.

So a short period of time does not determine how a person will be in the future, we can not judge others, perhaps he will become your future envy, perhaps you worship the object may not be later let you admire more. Still, everything is left to time, only time can judge a person, and only time can consider a person's good or bad.

A kind word will keep you warm for three winters, more praise and less criticism, it is very popular in reality, right? It is also a kind of quality not to comment on others, a little bit smoother will be popular everywhere.

Whoever has no one to talk about behind his or her back, whoever has no one to talk about behind his or her back. When judging a person, it is important to make a fair and objective assessment. If you do not respect the facts, create rumors and slander, then you have violated the right to reputation of others. Depending on the severity of the case, it can also be criminalized as defamation. Do not judge others, perhaps you see the phenomenon, is not the real side.