You guys are idiots too. Even if you get married at 25 after 10 years, the woman is 35, who is he going to find? So a lower divorce rate after 10 years is a passive situation.

People have inertia. They get used to it and don't bother. When you recombine, you still have to take the risk of adapting, which is quite troublesome

Thank you! I should say that while objectively such a phenomenon exists, subjectively I don't agree with it. I don't think it is consistent with the logic of running a truly pure and normally constituted marital family. Thank you!

Divorce is not always a winner! When you get divorced, it's all second marriages. It's better with money, it's worse without money, men, women are the same!

Thanks for the invitation. All I can say is that if a man or woman is serious about marriage and takes responsibility for themselves and their family, a couple of seven years is not a problem, and being worth over a hundred million dollars is a good way to resist all the temptations.

Nowadays they all live together for many years before they get married, and they are old married couples when they get a license, so it doesn't matter if it's 7 years, a loving marriage still lasts. Three views of the same people together for life. There is no love, the two people have a reluctance to settle for the scattered, the child high school is the peak of divorce, the child married mom and dad divorced the norm.

Sex is the foundation and bond of marriage. Sex can enable young men and women to communicate smoothly and adequately in a newly formed family, to face the burden of life together and to enjoy the joy of life together. The seven-year itch, from the point of view of sex, describes the degree and time that sex makes young men and women attract each other from strangers to the familiarization process. Speaking from the instinctive attributes of human beings, the first seven years of marriage should be relatively stable. After seven years, the role and attraction of sex declines, and it is entirely possible that young men and women may be prone to impulsivity in the face of the emotions of other unfamiliar men and women because of their fondness for the old and seeing the new. But after ten years, that is to say, after the seven-year itch, and after three years of time-testing, young men and women at this time in the newly formed family, can be felt from another perspective to recognize and view life and family, physical and mental aspects of both will be further adapted to two people together to form a family, the divorce rate will be reduced. From the perspective of society as a whole, such a situation should be objective. Some people who are emotionally narrow-minded after the seven-year itch will get divorced in a very short period of time because they cannot further grasp the relationship between the two people in the family. But after three long years of time-testing, if both the man and the woman in the marriage are able to adapt to the new couple relationship, the family will be stabilized from then on.

However, the continuation and termination of marriage, in addition to the seven-year itch, but also with many other factors. For example, economic ability, family background, living habits, cultural level, and ideological awareness and so on related, whether during the seven-year itch, or after ten years, for a particular individual marriage, whether it is divided or united, to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, and can not be generalized.

Defining the solidity of a marriage in terms of time is too simple and crude. Happiness in marriage doesn't come naturally, it requires you to keep learning to run it.

Marriages that go with the flow, without reflection and management, generally end in one of two ways: breaking up or resigning yourself to the fact that you're going to have to make do. If you learn to reflect and work hard, then the rate of happiness is greater and the solidity of the marriage is better.

We wonder why people in the past had fewer divorces and good solidity. Our fathers didn't have much wisdom or learning and didn't live their lives peacefully and happily, so why not now?

The main reason is that society has changed so much, the pressure and rhythm of life has changed, we must go to learn new skills to cope with the pressure of life. If a man does not seek advancement soon face the pressure of survival, then the family economy is not solid, and thus there are more conflicts and quarrels in the marriage. If you can't learn to cope fast enough to repair your marriage quickly, the marriage will be in crisis.

1. Happiness is not a gift, happiness needs to be learned.

The notion that marriage equals happiness is wrong. A good marriage must be run. Whether active or passive, you have to learn. Do not solidify the concept of learning, learning is not necessarily reading books and listening to lectures, from life can also reflect on learning. For example, when I was young, my parents argued a lot, and now that I'm older, I've learned to restrain my temper and be more tolerant. We can also get this part of the experience from life. But this learning is passive and inefficient. If you are stubborn and don't change, you will be eliminated by life and no one will be waiting for you at the same place.

2. Learn to take the initiative to fight and take the initiative.

Since society is so changeable, instead of waiting for things to come to us and then solving them, we should learn how to keep up with the changeable rhythm of life as early as possible. For example, to have a solid economic foundation, we need to learn more to improve our working ability, so as to avoid anxious quarrels later when we lose our jobs. For example, if our husband's work is stressful, we need to learn how to relieve his pressure so that he can have a solid backing and a happy gas station. By learning to run our lives, our marriage will be stronger.

Not necessarily, we used to fight a lot when we first got married, but less now, and we have fights because my mother-in-law is in the middle of it, she scolded me and then complained to my husband that I scolded her, and then my husband chose to believe her mother and then we fight.

I agree that marriage is a bonding process, and with the postponement of time, becoming a family member