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Some people seem happy and blissful, so why are they pessimistic and depressed on the inside?

Some people seem happy and blissful, so why are they pessimistic and depressed on the inside?

This kind of people are not many, and live a very tired, in the untruth in life, do people do things to be realistic, the smile on the laugh, the cry on the cry, joy and anger is human nature, bright and honest do people not good? Why do you want to be a double-faced people, let a person incredible!

How is a person happy and blissful? Only one knows. Our misery is within, and there are many people who are happy on the outside and miserable on the inside. It does not depend on his business conditions and the environment in which he grew up in business. There are people whose life is bitter and painful, but he is happy inside because he has his own pursuits and the results of his pursuits satisfy him.

Because TA has been following the path that others think is right.

We spend our lives trying to escape the expectations of others and find our true selves. We don't live to be what others think is happy, we become what makes us happy.


There is a common saying in England, "Tears of a clown." It implies that as much playfulness and joy as one wants to have, there must be just as much sadness and tears hidden within; many comedians, or clowns, who bring joy and happiness to everyone, choose to hide their sadness and tears within themselves, and this is the root cause of many celebrities and public figures, and even comedians, who suffer from depression to varying degrees. Sadness and depression are part of us and need to be seen and embraced. Unfortunately, our culture does not particularly allow people to show these seemingly "negative" parts of themselves, which are usually considered bad and need to be hidden away in the basement. This is where the so-called pessimism comes in. The solution is to be able to allow yourself to be sad and to be happy, to accept that you can be depressed and at the same time be happy, to embrace the yin and hold the yang, and to have a process of acceptance and transformation that leads to a continuous flow of happiness and joy! :)

That's my own reality.

This is mainly related to their own life experience, such as their own unhappy, not get the family's understanding, no friends comfort, sometimes instead of being misunderstood, when happy, not in front of others when sad, get the praise, over time, the formation of, what bad emotions are their own solution to carry their own, and other people to get along with, most of the show a happy look. In fact, there are times when you just can't get an understanding of a performance. Inside is a lot of emotional repression.

A person's overly repressed emotions can have some negative effects on the physical and mental aspects of the body, and may even explode over a small thing, so it's important to take care of unblocking your emotions. Listen to music, watch movies, do sports, do what you like can be.


Because human grief and joy are not connected.

What makes the adult world complex is thatEach of us wears a mask and at the same time it is difficult to recognize the real emotions behind it--even when looking at myself in the mirror.

When the lady selling grilled cold noodles at the subway entrance smiles and asks you if you want to add chili, you may not realize the heartache and perseverance behind the smile.

The ragged disabled beggar on the overpass who closes his shift early because of your kind charity, the contempt and mockery in his tears are equally unnoticeable.

Every human soul is an abyss that makes people dizzy when they look down into it.

Everyone's life is a mix of sweet and sour.

All things exist in relative terms, and when people are happy, they are sad, and when there are moments of happiness, there are also moments of depression very much.

Maybe he was happy when you saw him, after all, people don't expose their negative emotions freely in front of people.

Life is not easy, and if you think it is, then someone must have fought part of it for you.

Why should it be that easy? As the saying goes, "Good things come in small packages."

It's what you get when you work hard that you cherish, isn't it.

It is also because of the sweet and sour, life is rich and colorful, no bitter, how can you feel "sweet" is so exciting and happy?

Why, "uncle" is charming, because "temperament" emerges after being baptized by the wind and rain.

Why do "women" look better than "girls"? Because "cuteness" is not worth mentioning in front of the advanced "sexiness" that comes from nature. This "sexiness" is not the exposure of clothes, it is the involuntary external appearance of the inner temperament.

"Connotation" is always more difficult to savor than "superficiality" ......





That you do not take seriously the real world inside yourself, in fact, my least favorite is the kind of, a group of meaningless carnival, seems to be with a lot of people are not alone, but maybe it will be useful, but I think, there are still a number of nothing to talk about the heartfelt words of friends so that there will not be such a feeling, and to be positive and optimistic, their own is very good, no matter when, be confident that I am able to endure the pain, endure loneliness. I can endure the pain and loneliness. Piao said, loneliness is my only wealth, otherwise I will be penniless. In fact, if we know more about humanities, people will become spiritual and the spiritual realm will change so that we will be a bit more pleasant. Organize your time wisely, do what you should do and then do what you like. Don't force yourself ......

Thanks, I don't know if I can help, this is my own personal opinion, just for reference.




People know a truth, can not bring their own unhappy to others, others need to drop is happy, no one is obliged to pay for the sadness of others drop, can not be too selfish as the saying goes, the first half of the night to think about themselves, the second half of the night have to think about others, if you can not do to bring wealth to others, at least you can send your drop of humor to make others happy!

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