The elderly out of the fear of death, so always feel sick, family members can be more companion more care, eliminate the fear of the elderly heart loneliness. And you can take the elderly to the hospital to do a comprehensive examination, according to the results of the examination, let the doctor to explain to him, the general public will believe in the words of the doctor, so that the elderly will not be paranoid.

The old man always feels sick all day long, and no one can persuade him, what should we do? What should we do?

Your father-in-law is usually strong, but during this year's epidemic, he is always suspicious, always feel sick, in fact, he is afraid, afraid of their own illness, afraid of their own death, a lot of older people will have a kind of psychology, that is, afraid of death, they do not dare to face their own age, do not dare to face the rest of the day, that's why he will feel sick, no matter who you persuade is useless, I think that Just don't persuade him. The more you persuade him, the more it will backfire, and instead, it will make him have a resistance mentality:

First, the old child, the old child, the old man is like a child after the old, is the need to coax, you usually have free time at home, you can pretend to be very busy, said work is too busy, need him to help you, for example, you have flowers need to take care of, you can let him go to the watering, in addition to the grass, etc. or the child needs him to pick up and drop off, you can let him go to the pick up and drop off, you have something you need to let him do when he does, he will not have So much time to think too much, at the same time he will feel that he has the value of existence, that he is not a useless waiting for death. In fact, the reason why he will think too much and be afraid is because he is too lonely and too idle. When he has something to do, he will have a sense of accomplishment and will not always feel sick. After all, people of their age have suffered and lived a hard life, they can't afford to be idle, and if they were suddenly idle, they would feel a little fearful.

Second, if you do not have anything to do with him, then let him have something to do, for example, you can take him to the square to play, stroll, nothing to go a few more times, you can exercise exercise, the square so many old men and women, go a few more times, but also to find like-minded people chatting together, or play poker with them, play chess, these are killing time, at the same time, the square! At the same time, the square is very lively, he will not feel lonely and lonely, when he is used to go outside to play, you want to pull all pull back it! In short, you are to divert attention, don't let him stay at home alone and think nonsense.

Third, if you have the financial ability as well as free time, you can also take him to the field, to go to the place he has not been to take a break, let him see how the outside world, after all, he is so old, has been to the place is also very limited, it is just to take advantage of this opportunity to let him go out to play, to save to stay at home is too stuffy, and also saves him always say that he has a disease. In fact, a normal person who stays at home all the time also suffocated out of the disease, let alone an idle old man!

When your parents are here, there is still a place for you to come to in life, but when your parents are gone, there is only a way back to life, so when you have the opportunity to honor your parents, you must make good use of it, and don't wait for your parents to go away, then you will regret that it won't be of any help.

The old man always feels sick all day long, and no one can persuade him, what should we do? What should we do?

Your great aunt is right, it's mental illness, teach hypochondria to be exact, and if this is anxiety, his anxiety is much higher than yours.

These epidemics come more fiercely, he will be nervous, and after hearing some news of pneumonia symptoms, such as tightness in the chest, shortness of breath, dyspnea, weakness, etc., and in the time of anxiety there are some symptoms, but he doesn't know that it's caused by anxiety, and he thinks that he's really sick, and can't be found out in the hospital, but he still has the symptoms, and that's because anxiety becomes automated thinking, resulting in symptoms for no apparent reason, often, and if he understands these words, the symptoms will lessen.

Anxiety is fear, the brain thinks it up, so taking herbs and regulating the liver doesn't help at all, it's not the liver or kidneys.

If the character is not paranoid, there is no problem with counseling, but I am afraid of being too paranoid to listen to others.

A: The most effective way to do this is to take him to a critical care unit at a local tertiary care hospital to see a critically ill patient once in a while, it's very effective.

Since I've been to several hospitals and nothing is wrong, it can only mean one thing, it should be depression or a disorder in the heart!

Psychotherapy is recommended! You should care more about the elderly in general.

In fact, older people, more need to care about care, they have a temperament just like a child, easy to get angry for no reason, you may not know what the reason, the old man is not happy!

This year, because of the epidemic, the country is grounded at home, that can not go, all day long, eat, sleep, sleep, eat, a lot of people usually love to go out and sneak around in the heart of the people must be uncomfortable, but also a lot of people with depression, only some mild, some serious!

Maybe it's just in his mind. Of course, we can't rule out the possibility that the old man is using it to achieve something, but we have to understand that. Do you know the old man's situation? Do you know what he wants? I've seen a skit where an old man's children don't come home for a long time, so he pretends to be sick so that the children will come back to see him. Or some old people want to buy something, or single people want to find a companion, and the children won't let them, so the old people deliberately make trouble.

If you exclude these, then it's all in your mind, and finding a psychiatrist is one way to do it. You can also go along with him first, you say there is a disease we will see a doctor, and then tell him what you have a disease, even if there is no major problem, you also give him a problem, not big or small on the line, do not say a cancer and then scare him, do not say too light, he thought you coaxed him. Then prescribe some medication. If you don't have any serious illness, you can replace it with some vitamins or other pills and let him take them for a while. After a while, take him to review, say better, continue to eat, and wait for him to feel whether to continue to see a doctor. If it really doesn't work, you'll have to see a psychiatrist, or a neurologist.

Taking care of the elderly is like taking care of children, many times you need to be there with your whole body and mind, fighting with your wits and not slacking off.

A couple ideas for you:

First, since the old man said he had a disease, then take him to the hospital for a full range of examination, in order to show justice, you can lead him to the hospital, let him consult the doctor himself, go to the doctor to do the examination by yourself, your family in front of him does not have contact with the doctor, lest he think that you and the doctor with the conspiracy to cheat him. Finally, let him go to the doctor himself to insist on the results, the whole time you follow from afar, to keep no direct contact with the doctor.

Secondly, if the old man is superstitious, then take him to a temple to burn incense, or eat fasting and chanting Buddha's name every day at home, in short, let the people or gods he believes in tell him that he is not sick. If not, go to the countryside to find a goddess or a godman, pretending to exorcise the gods and devils for him, and give him a drink of the so-called "water of the gods" to help him cure his illness.

Thirdly, since he said that he was sick, you should cooperate with him in a play, and when he said that he had some disease, you should buy some supplements in a medicine box and say that they were medicines for curing the disease, so that he could be cured properly at home.

In fact, ah, in the final analysis, the old man this is a heart disease, since it is a heart disease, then we have to cure according to his personal psychology, you have to see what he is willing to believe, you have to let him take the initiative to recognize rather than you guys in that bitter persuasion.

There is also a possibility that the old man usually gets less attention and has a lower sense of self-existence. During this epidemic, it so happens that his family members are all at home, so he may want to take this opportunity to gain your attention, so that you can care more about him.

Write to this, how I rather think that the old man this character may be the origin, the old man is so stubborn, it is likely that you in the usual time less attention to his views, he is at home in the right to speak more and more low, he is at home no matter what to say is not all will be refuted the sake of it. The stubbornness of the elderly and the rebelliousness of teenagers are the same, the more you do not agree with him, the more he is against you, the more you say he is not sick, the more he says he is sick.

Usually, you in some big things and small things to ask him for more ideas, even if you do not listen to it does not matter, at least to do the appearance to ask him for advice. Nowadays, Chinese people have a habit of treating the words of children and old people as jokes, thinking that children are immature so their words have no significance, and thinking that old people are old and confused so their words have no merit. In fact, the elderly than our young people, more need to be listened to, more need to be recognized, respect him, pay attention to him.

Good luck.

A: This is a relatively common mental illness among older people - called hypochondriasis.

Hypochondria is not a mental illness.

Generally speaking, as the elderly grow older, their physical functions begin to decline, and their cognitive abilities, such as memory, understanding, and judgment, begin to decline, which can cause a great deal of psychological discrepancy for the elderly.

Generally speaking, the psychology of the elderly is more fragile than that of the young. The elderly are less receptive to new things, are more concerned about themselves than the young, are very sensitive, and are more affected by psychological cues.

In addition, from a psychological point of view, showing weakness will arouse the concern of others. Some older people may subconsciously "call themselves sick" in order to gain the interest and attention of family members or close friends.

Then there are environmental stimuli that can exacerbate hypochondria in some older adults.

Like the question says, the onset of new crown pneumonia this New Year's Eve is a result of an external environmental stimulus.

For hypochondriacs you can start with the following:

1 By communicating with the elderly, the elderly will be able to correctly view the aging of the body and the brain. It is normal for the body to experience discomfort as it grows older, and at the same time, aging is a natural phenomenon that cannot be more normal.

2 more to participate in some social activities, and old friends to talk together, appropriate physical exercise, in addition can participate in some geriatric recreational activities, if it is very empty, it is easy to worry about the disease, and even a little bit of discomfort will amplify the pain.

3 family more companionship and communication, there are problems in a timely manner, so as not to blindly think of the elderly, and sometimes the more they think the more to the bad side. Many times is also need the elderly to participate in some of the ability to do housework things, such as buying a vegetable, pick a vegetable what, do not need much physical strength, in all aspects of the body allows the case, these can change some of the psychological state of the elderly, so that the elderly do not have to think of their own old age is not useful, and so on.

Finally, if it is really very serious, it is recommended to see a psychiatrist.

I myself was born in forty-seven, and I am already over seventy. I should be regarded as an old man. Every day, there are always some small back pain, has not yet affected life. There is a type 2 diabetes, every morning and evening to play a little bit of insulin, coupled with control the mouth, let go of the legs, but also do not feel seriously ill. In addition to walking every day, fitness, and two trips a year. In a word, seventy, eighty years old, said no disease is unscientific, spare parts are aging, how can there be no disease! The key is the mood, is the attitude.

On the other hand, family members, especially children, do not just look at the appearance of the elderly aging is not only manifested in plain sight, some functional deterioration is very difficult to bear. Hospital physical examination, often organic lesions, easy to find, functional decline, not easy to digitize and surface, so family members, especially children, more need to be considerate, the elderly functional decline, to have a clear perception. And show care, can be symptomatic preparation of some commonly used drugs and physical therapy equipment to help the elderly to reduce the pain, pounding the back, pinch the legs, but also the performance of care.

Weekends, holidays, invite the elderly and grandchildren to dinner, a small family outing (of course, first of all, do not exhaust the elderly) to borrow a wheelchair, even if the elderly sitting in the back of a small sleeper car, a little tour of the city is also good.

One of the aspects of an elderly person's good mood is that he thinks he should be recognized and cared for as he grows old, and if his family members show warmth and care, the elderly will naturally be in a good mood.

Having something to look forward to in life, always thinking that he can meet his grandchildren someday, and that his children can accompany him to the market or country parks someday will also distract his attention, and I think the problem mentioned in the title will be better!

Tell him to hire a "specialist" to diagnose him, and after seeing him, give the "specialist" 100,000 dollars in front of him.

The "expert" told him that the disease is very serious but can be cured but at least to spend half a million dollars, brothers and sisters with him a meeting, the best three or four times, not to force to come up with half a million dollars, in front of his face to the "expert", the expert said that the long price of drugs, but also to add a hundred thousand dollars, and there is no goods, but also to wait... ...After a few twists and turns, it was difficult to get the medicine, and it was difficult to use the medicine, and after a period of time, the expert said that it was all right. Your children are skeptical, do not believe, unanimously decided to this expert's nemesis, another expert to find and see, this expert in front of the elderly, from many aspects of the vicious attack on that expert, but finally had to admit that the old man's disease is good. Another 100,000 dollars was paid for the diagnosis in front of the old man.