Truly kind people are unconditionally altruistic because the giver never considers the other person to be grateful, so there is no question of whether or not they are white-eyed wolves.

If it is conditional kindness (hypocrisy). That is, I helped you, you have to be grateful, otherwise it is a white-eyed wolf. Then it is advisable not to help as well, or their own indignation, the other party is not necessarily cool; many times we feel in helping people, perhaps in the help, why should the other party be grateful to us? So too much initiative to help may be hurt.

If it is true goodness (help that is conducive to the growth of the other person's body and soul is true goodness, and the average person cannot tell whether it is true goodness or true evil), it will definitely be recognized by the other person, and it will definitely be favored by the Divine.

If it's hypocrisy, it's better to have less of it!

Goodness is a kind of faith, a state of being, it is done to oneself, it is one's own habit, so why do you need to be recognized by others?

"One's kindness is a white wolf that can't be bred", I agree with this sentence. "A white-eyed wolf who doesn't know how to be kind" means "hanging kindness with kindness, not scolding kindness with kindness". For a person who does not know how to be grateful to the so-called "white-eyed wolf" people, please do not open the heart of kindness to him, kindness is the traditional virtues of the Chinese people, is the root of the body to deal with things, for the goodness of people, not only but also the intrinsic qualities of the person and the spirit of the advocate, it is also the "to treat people as good for good people "The social law. For those who do not know how to be grateful, and even revenge for the white-eyed wolf, "I do not know how to repay, do not see the damage, but he will be like the spring snow in front of the court when it will be submerged", which fully explains the white-eyed wolf like the spring snow as secretly bound to melt.

However, we should not change our original goodness just because we meet a "white-eyed wolf" that returns good for evil. As long as we keep a distance from it, do not get close to it, do not accept it, "let it realize its own evil, but also come to know the grateful heart" of the change.

"A person who is kind and does not see his benefits is like a fruit that grows long and should be welcomed by himself." It means that a kind person may not be able to see the immediate benefits, but his benefits are like a fruit that grows slowly without being realized. That is why kindness is a bright moon that all people can see.

Do you agree with the saying, "A man's kindness does not breed a wolf"? Why do you agree?

People are good in nature! The nature is similar, the habit is far away! This is the nature of man! All people are born with goodness, and it's only under the experience of life that they slowly change! People who are always grateful are good! But there are some people in life who have no gratitude at all, that is, we say "white-eyed wolf", this kind of person is eating people do not spit out bones! You can never feed them enough! My idea is that I don't want to be a criminal if people don't offend me! For this kind of person, you have to fight like a dog in the water, get him killed, you will be safe! Don't be kind! Otherwise, you'll regret it! It's like nowadays: America, Holland, Italy, Spain, Australia! England, and so on, you hold a gun, it will say you are kind, otherwise, even if you help him, he will bite you later! This epidemic hasn't even passed yet! Italy against Russia is an example, so Putin directly withdrew the supplies, it is worth to learn, do not blindly "kind", against the rich wolf, you have to use a shotgun!

I think we should look at it from another angle. The reason why we call a person "white-eyed wolf" is that this person does not know how to be grateful, take the help of others as a matter of course, do not know how to return the favor. On the other hand, if we treat others well, do we have to expect them to return the favor?

The world is a complicated place with all kinds of people. Some people are grateful, while others are ungrateful. The reason why we have trouble in this, or because we help people more or less have the heart of utilitarianism. To be able to do "do not think of giving", our kindness can become pure, naturally beautiful, soft heart!

The Tao Te Ching says: "Goodness is like water. The water is good to all things but does not compete, in the evil of all people. This is also the truth, goodness must be open-minded, indifferent to merit in order to be comfortable, like water to nourish all things, but also willing to deal with the evils of the crowd!

Being a good person at heart, even though no one may ever appreciate your kindness, you still have to choose to be a good person at heart, it's for your own inner practice, not because of anyone else!

I have always believed that treating others well is treating yourself well, and respecting others is respecting yourself. How you treat others will be rewarded accordingly, karma!

Kindness is a virtue . 🌹. Be good to yourself and think twice before you act. Experience other people's feelings with your heart, care more about your coworkers as well as your friends, and even the worst of people will be touched by your good deeds. 🙏🙏

I feel that a kind person, he is friendly to anyone without expecting anything in return. Even if he knows that the other person is a white wolf, when he knows that the other person is in trouble he still goes back to help him. A kind person is unselfish and does not expect anything in return for his kindness to others.

White-eyed wolves are often referred to as those who return favors, tear down bridges, and are ungrateful. Carefully taste, white-eyed wolf is relative, is for those who have originally given favors, if you do not have the goodness to give, there will be no white-eyed wolf, at most, it is a "common bad guy".

The grace of rice, fighting rice hatred. With unlimited kindness to sensitize others is often undesirable, will only encourage others to unlimited desire to ask for, in other words, but excessive kindness and humility catalyzed a group of "white-eyed wolves". People and people can not reach a completely equal exchange, but in the process of people and people must form a certain exchange relationship, time, money, emotion, companionship ...... Each takes what it needs in order to maintain the interests and feelings of both sides, the relationship can be maintained for a long time, "white-eyed wolf" will be eliminated.

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Kindness is the bottom line of being human. It means that a person should be pure of heart, innocent and gentle, without malice toward others, and kind to others. These qualities are still required of most people in this weak world. Because of this, there are still many good people in this world. However, if the goodness is excessive, not the slightest sense of self-protection, knowing that the other side is a "white-eyed wolf", but also have illusions, most of them will be a basket of water is empty, the prodigal son back to the gold is very few. Because most of these crumbs are greedy, is never fed, nest not warm. If you know each other, but also a kind to treat, it is not called kind, is ridiculous, is stupid to the extreme.

Sometimes when we treat someone well, it doesn't mean that they will treat us well, but they may even bite us back. How many favors do we give, and when we take them, we turn our backs on them, so this is the white-eyed wolf that can't be bred!

I think I am not very kind, but also did not do ten evil things, but treat me well, I also treat him well. Married for almost ten years, her husband has three brothers, we ranked the eldest, the two old with us to live, eat together, all the expenses of the family is ours. Because they don't have a daughter, they adopted a daughter to fulfill their dream of having a daughter. This daughter's own mother gave birth to 8 daughters in a row until she got a boy. So she couldn't afford to raise too many and gave several away to be raised by others, my mother-in-law adopting one of them. When this girl came to our home, my mother-in-law took good care of her, giving her whatever she wanted, treating her like her own! She didn't know how to be contented, and started stealing money from her cousin's sister. My family owned a kiosk, and she stole money from the store on the pretext of having to help look after the store. Now 14 years old to the age of beauty, the new skin care products I bought, and cosmetics to steal everything! You said she didn't admit it, but she was also fierce and said unpleasant things.

Honestly quite let me cold, raised fourteen years did not raise cooked, usually take her to the supermarket, buy food, buy drink, buy wear! To travel also less not her, but in the end to change her face, see me when I do not recognize, so flip.

Treat ungrateful people, kindness to have a degree, remember not everyone, all know how to be grateful know how to respect your feelings. When you are good for a long time, others will not have any feeling, will only make people feel that everything you do is what you should be.