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How can you change someone's mind? Get him to let go of his prejudices and live a happier, more joyful life?

How can you change someone's mind? Get him to let go of his prejudices and live a happier, more joyful life?

Changing a person's mind should be in real life through the trials and tribulations of hardship, setbacks and failures, by the personal realization, to consciously correct.

It is almost impossible to change another person's mind artificially, and it may even backfire. Unless one has extraordinary intelligence, one can change another person's mind.

Thanks for the invitation!

First of all, it should be clear that others are really prejudiced against him? If there is a real prejudice, how can you ask him to let go of other people's prejudice? To tell the truth, I am such a person. Do others have prejudice against me? A piece of advancement. I'm an invalid. But I'm a good doctor. When people meet me, the first first impression is that I am a disabled person, not whether I am a doctor or not. Much less answer, are you a good doctor? You want this prejudice to be explained, first of all let the leaders remove the prejudice first. Let me have some kind of a department for the treatment of future diseases. This is clearly saying that you are a waste of time and you don't want to see a doctor. Take a section and tan you until you're dry. Do you think I can solve this kind of prejudice by myself?

People live, is to live out of a state of mind, life is just a few decades, there is no such thing as can't get through, only can't get through the heart. There are no things that can't be done, only the mood that can't be done. As long as the mind is good, everything is good, please let go of the embrace, openly face, with the joy of the heart to meet every morning, with a calm heart to send away every dusk, only then, we have a happy and happy.

A little summary overview of personal life and work experience.

I believe that the emotion of unhappiness is complex and has two levels: one at the conscious level, which is shallow, and one at the subconscious level, which is deep.

The questioner's intent should primarily refer to the former, which is still relatively easy to address. Because it's still a level that reason can control.

You can start by communicating to find out why TA is unhappy. Most of the time, personal biases such as stereotypical thinking, inappropriate attributions, and triangulation can have a long-term effect on emotions. After all, many people are imprisoned by their own prejudices for years.

Then, according to each person's personality traits and receptivity, they will be reasoned with and moved by emotion.

On the one hand, it can train critical thinking skills, help TA broaden his horizons, learn to look at problems from multiple perspectives, and enhance his cognitive level.

On the other hand, effective activities such as sports, reading classic literature, and doing charity work can be used to help TA open his mind and appreciate a Taoist state of transcendence.

This will change the state of mind of the TA. As the saying goes, "The wise man is happy, the benevolent man lives," and "The benevolent man has no worries."

Superficial spiritual happiness mainly comes from good interpersonal relationships; while deep essential happiness comes from discovering one's own essential power and value, and obtaining an unceasing sense of self-fulfillment. Maslow's theory of the hierarchy of human needs can explain this very well.

Unhappiness at the subconscious level generally requires the intervention of a professional psychologist.

This should and can be divided into two cases, one is the long-term accumulation of emotions caused by bias at the conscious level accumulates and penetrates into the stubborn subconscious.

There is also the case where strong stimuli beyond one's tolerance limits, suffered under special circumstances such as minority, childbirth or major disasters, have entered the subconscious mind and left deep-rooted psychological shadows.

Both of these causes can be described as disease-ridden and difficult to be detected by the person himself.

The most important role of a psychiatrist is to try to help them discover the root cause of their illness, and then to get them to open up through appropriate venting or suggestive therapy, for example.

Once the subconscious mind becomes the conscious mind, it can be rationally controlled through study and self-training as described in the first major category.

The core of not letting the mental state get out of control lies in learning to have reflective insight into one's own psyche so that it can be under self-rational regulation and control.

In a sense, everyone can be a psychologist, himself or herself a sample of the most complex and reliable experiments. May everyone enjoy the joy of life!

Changing a person's mind takes a long process and cannot be done overnight.

However, it is relatively easy to get someone to give up their prejudices and turn their worries into happiness.

First of all, we should help him find out the causes of prejudice in his mind, and then we should help him analyze what kind of problems prejudice brings to him, as well as the negative factors and adverse effects it will produce, and analyze its harmfulness from the perspective of physiological and psychological health.

Subsequently, after a number of psychological counseling to make him change his cognition, enhance self-confidence, think differently, deepen his understanding, and improve his determination.

Reading can make people open-minded, help to overcome the simple mind, promote active thinking, so as to break away from the "stagnant, set in stone" of the thought of the strange circle, into the "open, sunshine, self-confidence, active" thinking of the new world.

Knowledge changes life and destiny. Reading makes one wise, makes one intelligent and rational

--Read the book a hundred times and see the meaning!

"The mountain of books is a path of diligence, and the sea of learning is a boat of suffering."

It's hard! Instead of trying to change others, figure out how to change yourself! Because as you change yourself you are also changing the other person!

The questions you ask are too broad and should be made public with a brief synopsis of their thoughts and anxieties so that others can address them and give valuable advice.

If a person can let himself often maintain a pure heart like a child, do things with optimism, treat people with a kind heart, bright and frank, his life must be much happier than others.

Change of mind, only a very small number of people, rely on communication and understanding of their own understanding of the adjustment; most people need to experience, have a deep impression, there is a sense of self-reflection, and then you communicate with him he may come to realize, otherwise you talk more she only as a whisper!

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