I personally feel that in today's China, a family, whether poor or rich, should have two children (first of all, I am not rich), many people may feel the pressure, or afraid of not being able to give their children a good life, but in fact, everyone has their own blessings, after having a child, on the contrary, it will give us more motivation, more blessings, only we have a good heart, hard work! The life will only get better and better!

Do not want to have children for many reasons, not only the poor have, the rich also have, there are conceptual problems, economic capacity, social rules, physical reasons, etc., the outlook on life clear people think that the birth of reproduction is the responsibility of life obligations, there is not in the more, more children, more blessed is not mainstream. So now there is no difference between the rich and the poor on the birth of children, are with the trend of the times and for the birth or not, less and more are their own main present will.

I find this statement a bit problematic and not representative of the majority opinion, just an individual's thoughts.

Especially in response to our national policy to have two children, this idea is more prominent!

Poor people, it is not that they do not want to have children. Rather, it is a question of having one, or several.

It's true that in real life, there are a lot of people who don't want to have a second child!

The reason for this is that there are other considerations than just being poor.

Many poor people, although they are so poor that they cannot even afford to get married and need to take out a loan to consummate the marriage, it is not that they do not want to have children.

If you don't have money, you can earn it and borrow it! The day, it will always be better.

And in the countryside, many people are poor and getting poorer because they can't afford to have too many children and are under too much pressure!

It's not that you don't want to have a child just because you're owed one.

So, I don't agree with the owner on this and am skeptical of the claim.

We should look at this in two ways!

There is both truth and fiction in it.

More, versus less.

Write entirely to your liking!

But the facts speak for themselves.

Around us, we see a lot of people who are poor but have a large number of children, not a lot.

The numbers alone make us envious!

They married early, had children early and often. Very early to be mom and dad, grandparents. The Henan folks around me are already grandparents of two kids before they are forty!

They were both so proud and proud of themselves.

Compared to our peers who married at nearly 30, our own children are only a few years old.

It's hard not to be a little awkward together!

His granddaughter calls her grandpa and us uncle, when in fact her grandpa is about our age.

If I go by generation, my kids are already a generation younger than her, so I can't call them siblings.

But, the problem is that such things have happened and we just have to get along with it.

If you're poor, you have to get by, pass on the family name, and reproduce!

"Many poor people don't want to have children because they don't want to be indebted to the next generation" What do you think?

That's a bit of a one-sided statement, in my opinion.

It's not the poor who are like that, it's everyone else.

And there are a variety of reasons for not wanting to have children, not just poverty.

Age, time, energy, etc., all need to be taken into account.

Having one child, and having several children.

Big difference!

Can't be fair.

The deficit, as a result.

The poor don't want to have children and the rich do? In a small way, it's selfishness, it's social pressure, and in a big way, it could be a racial danger!

I don't agree with this. "Many poor people don't want to have children because they don't want to be indebted to the next generation." Poor people nowadays are much better than when we were kids, we usually ate cornmeal when we were kids, and only ate dumplings on New Year's Day, and only ate a few meals of rice when we were in the middle of the year. We ate whatever vegetables we could find in the vegetable garden, and in winter we ate cabbage and potatoes. We never bought food, even though it was so difficult for the family to have several children.

And today the rich are living a good life, some of the less favorable conditions of the people than we used to be much stronger, rice all day long, when you want to eat dumplings on when to eat, food is also diverse, any want to eat what you buy, and sometimes do not know what you want to eat, it is much stronger than in the past. These people who are not well off refer to themselves as poor people. Because now the pressure of life than in the past, most people do have a mortgage car loan, in order not to give the next generation of pain, some of the "poor" do not want to give birth to a child, do not want the child to follow their own pain, do not want to have to the next generation of owed. This is a very helpless way. We have not experienced, it is difficult to know people's not easy, I think as long as there are long-term planning people should have children, even if the time is difficult, when the child grows up can also help themselves. And because the conditions are not good, do not want children, when young to save energy, when old can not do the work will be difficult, there is an old saying, would rather suffer a little old suffering, not to be poor in old age!

As for whether people have children or not, it is their business, but I hope those who are not in a good condition can have children. Those who don't want to have children can think about it, and would rather suffer now than have a hard time in old age!

In the agrarian society where the commodity economy was not developed, it was natural for the poor to give birth to children, but in those days, the maternal and infant mortality rates, how high, just think about it, it's scary.

So, at this point, if someone says again, what's the point of having a baby, it doesn't cost anything, and you can just have a mouthful of food, that means that person, is a bad person with a serious lack of respect for life.

To today's advanced commodity economy, the poor do not have children, is not at all do not want to have a deficit to the next generation, even if the rich and powerful, that is the same deficit, the core reason, or can not afford to give birth:

Firstly, the cost of maternity check-ups for the birth of a child is almost never reimbursed, and you need to pay for them out of pocket. In other words, your entire pregnancy and delivery for two years, as well as the cost of postpartum recovery, can cost as little as a few thousand dollars or as much as tens of thousands of dollars.

But reimbursement, it's a couple hundred or a thousand out.

And, having a baby itself, costs money.

That's a few tens of thousands of dollars that you're going to have to spend. Otherwise, it's putting the mom and the baby in her belly, in possible danger.

Secondly, the process of conception and birth is one that you feel is affordable for the small amount of money you spend, then the real costly time comes after the baby is born.

If your goal in raising a child is just to keep him alive, well, you can, just stay alive anyway.

However, if you are trying to give him the modern life of a normal human being, then, starting from the month he was born, with an average of $2,000 and above per month, this will be less.

That's still if the child is healthy and not sick, otherwise, it will cost more.

So, don't have kids because you're really poor and can't afford to have them, not because you don't want to owe the next generation anything.

Your understanding is wrong. Just go to the Women's and Children's Hospital and you'll see that those people so-called poor people are really the ones who give birth to babies. They don't have all the talk that you guys are talking about. They only have the simple idea that they must have their own children when they can. Generally older people will have the saying that if you raise children early, you will get help early and raise children to prevent old age. But nowadays young people are still trying to do what they should do, although they may not have too high education, but their life experience and rich experience is enough to make them proud of those so-called highly educated people. They despise those who see the difficulty to retreat, also look down on a little thing on the bitter people. They believe that as long as they have worked hard, they do not feel indebted to anyone. Those who do not act also all the reasons for people, in their eyes that is also read more to read their own confusion. The road is different, not to seek. They also do not like those who think they are. You look down on them, they may not be able to look up to you. Hopefully, they will have no regrets in their lives. Especially women, don't give up the power of motherhood lightly. May you not be born a woman for nothing. Thank you.

There is no distinction between rich and poor, there are poor people who do not want to have children, and there are only white-collar workers who do not want to have children.

Some poor people do not want to have children and may not want to be indebted to the next generation. This is a very real problem, but not a correct view.

The reality of the problem, poverty brings some unfairness to children.

Because of poverty, life is stretched to the limit, and sometimes it can only ensure the basic survival needs of the children, but not give them a rich life, and not allow them to compete with others on an equal footing; instead, they have to put in more sweat and hardship in order to catch up to the starting line of others, and they have to grit their teeth and persevere in order to get the fame and status, as well as the wealth, that other people can easily obtain.

But these are not what life is all about.

It's not always all happiness that the rich bring to their children.

The rich bring children have eyesight, broad vision of the superior, good educational environment, comfortable life, but at the same time, to the children erased the struggle of the background, missing the experience of life hardship, in the smooth sailing, all the years of peace and quiet. When encountered setbacks and some changes, these rich children will be bewildered, unable to adapt, and even unable to survive.

Zhang Zhidong, a minister of the late Qing dynasty, was famous for founding the Self-strengthening Academy (predecessor of Wuhan University), the Sanjiang Normal Academy (predecessor of Nanjing University) and other educational institutions, as well as the Hanyang Iron Works and the Hanyang Arsenal. He was old enough to have children, respectively, at the age of 61 and 63 years old gave birth to these two sons Zhang Renle Zhang Renli, both were well educated, Zhang Renle studied in Japan, Zhang Renli graduated from Peking University, but both of them later surrendered to Japan and became traitors, the last one was shot.

Li Tianyi, the son of famous singer Li Shuangjiang, grew up with a privileged life, good education and great talent, winning consecutive prizes for piano and calligraphy, which really makes children from poor families only sigh, but then he was sentenced to re-education through labor for hitting in 2011, and then sentenced in 2013 for breaking the law.

The pride of heaven, as well as the folding of wings, can not be avoided just because of affluence. There is a saying that the children of rich families are often defeated, the reason is that living in a rich family, the parents do not want to let their children suffer, so that the children sit back and enjoy the success, as a result, the children lose the opportunity to grow up in the necessary exercise.

Poverty brings more to a child than just a deficit; it is more of a trial.

As the saying goes, children of poor families are more likely to thrive because they are tested and constantly whacked by God from birth. Featherweight Lee Chong Wei has won a total of 69 Open Championships, 46 Superseries Championships and has been ranked number one in the world for over 350 weeks. He came from a poor family, his father worked short-term jobs to support his family, his mother was a housewife and couldn't afford to buy a racket, his mother let him play with a rotten racket and a pan he found, he experienced a lot of setbacks, and finally achieved a brilliant record.

It has been said that an egg is food when opened from the outside and life when opened from the inside.After going through the exercise of wind and rain, after experiencing the hammering of failure, the human adversary will become high, not afraid of failure, not afraid of the future, the human heart becomes strong, and life will become wonderful.

Abraham Lincoln, the President of the United States, when he was a child, his family was also very poor, living in a shack, the house only has three walls, the fourth side is completely open, there is no door or window. The family froze in the winter when the wind, snow, ice pellets and cold winds blew their best efforts. When Lincoln was nine years old, his mother, Nansch, could not bear the hardships of life and passed away. Lincoln did not begin to read until he was 15 years old, and had to walk 6.4 kilometers to school in the morning and evening. The trials and tribulations of life made Lincoln hardworking and strong, and finally became one of the famous presidents in American history.

Life is easy to live, in the absence of dreams or already despair, day after day repeated boring depression, either forcing people to sink, self-destructive waste of life, so it is important to have a dream for the future of life. Poor people can have children, do not despair of life, children are the hope of the future.Being strong, optimistic and courageous in life, and passing on kindness and hard work to your children, perhaps they will accomplish something extraordinary in the future.

This is true and this is an important point. When a poor person has a child, he or she will not be able to give the child superior living conditions, and the child will not be able to receive a good education from an early age, and will lose out to children of the same age after the starting line. This will have a negative impact on the child's future growth, family establishment and employment. As parents, they owe their children a great deal. This poor parents also have the intention of not thinking of progress, greedy for pleasure, the ancient cloud poor is thinking of change, to change is to pay a huge amount of hard work and effort, so the general poor are lazy word for Chong, broken pots. I think poor families should have fewer children, which is also a human instinct and responsibility, obligation. As long as the parents will raise the child, if the child is smart and capable of hard work, I think the poor family will become rich, from these rich people now, most of them do not rely on their parents to start from scratch. Therefore, the idea that poor people do not want to have children is not good.