Why do they say men rarely cry?
Why do they say men rarely cry?
Why men seldom cry: As the old saying goes, men don't cry lightly, and men's tears are as precious as gold. As a strong man, how can he cry when he encounters something? This is still a man. The man is, remember hate remember hate, have revenge have revenge hate. A man should have a big belly spirit, gentleman revenge ten years is not too late.
The reason guys rarely cry is because nothing a guy encounters has too many ups and downs. I cried for a month last year. Because there was so much to think about and so many reasons to cry.
Men really rarely cry, but it's not that they don't want to, it's that they force themselves not to!
I have a male friend in his thirties who is hardly ever seen crying, let alone crying, and the number of times he cries out in pain is pitifully low. Are men born with a lack of tear ducts? Do they lack the sense of pain? Of course not!
It's really hard for a man, but he can't let out a cry like we do because that would only make it harder for him! They don't dare shed tears in front of anyone because they have to give others rock-solid shoulders. They can't shed tears easily, because on them stands the snugness of an entire family. They dare not shed a tear, for to them that would be pathetic impotence.
A man is also a flower. He is also afraid of the wind and the rain.
It's not that men don't shed tears, they just hide from heartbreak.
Every man is a great being, Nuwa gave them too much responsibility, too much pressure when they made men. And when a man cries in front of you, please remember how helpless and tired he is.
Regardless of who says that men can cry, I would like to ask all men in the world to please be kind to yourselves, crying is a way to relax from stress. Since ancient times, women have lived longer because we can cry, and the benefits of this skill are actually quite significant.
I wish all men in the world courage and happiness!
Men don't shed tears, they just don't get to the sad part.
Men hold back their tears because of their responsibilities, and all of a man's tears are cried into his heart, not from his eyes. In terms of the reasons for this in terms of both reality and physiology.
On the one hand, men face all kinds of setbacks in reality, will not easily cry, for men, crying is a manifestation of weakness, crying more can not let men accept is not the embodiment of. Men are very strong, even if the sky falls, men can carry, in front of the man's self-esteem, crying is certainly not allowed. If a man is like a woman who often cries, then the man can not become a man, in the eyes of outsiders, is a complete naan bag.
On the other hand it has to be said physiologically that men don't seem to have the crying factor by nature because men cry in their hearts and don't show it outwardly. That's why women live longer than men nowadays, and one of the major reasons is that men don't cry to express their emotions.
Because of the harshness of reality and the physiological mechanisms that men face, it is said that men rarely cry.
[Something in the words]: Because men know that crying won't solve the problem, and men don't cry.
Crying is a kind of emotional catharsis for both men and women as normal human beings. For example, we will cry when we are sad, will cry when we are in pain, will cry when we are happy, will cry when we are happy, will cry when we are touched by it, but the tears we cry in different situations have very different meanings. But no matter what the situation, as long as you cry, then this is undoubtedly from a person's heart of the emotional outflow.
We generally believe that men rarely cry, but it does not mean that he does not know how to cry to vent their inner world, but in this weak and strong pressure of the reality of society, does not allow him to cry, and will not give you a person to cry room. At the same time, as a family's spiritual pillar and an important source of financial resources, he deeply knows that crying, can not solve any problem, but only let more people see your inner vulnerability, so that everyone feels that they are a weak person who needs pity. In this way, one's defenses will completely collapse, greatly swaying one's personal emotions and thus falling into a momentary depression.
As the saying goes, men don't cry, they just don't get to the sad part! The reason why men seldom cry is just that men and women release pressure in different ways. As a man under pressure, they are unhappy, pain, are not easy to shed tears, but they will choose to drink, smoke boring cigarettes, desperately exercise ...... as a way to vent the bitterness of their hearts.
Another thing is that it has something to do with the education we have received since childhood, especially family education. For example, when we are very young, when we are still toddlers, walking are still not stable, because of curiosity want to run up, it is inevitable that we will fall, then our parents will encourage, man, fell down, stand up and pat the dust is, don't cry. So, especially men, as a strong man in everyone's eyes, fall down and get up is, and then the pain also have to hold back tears swallowed into the belly, because in this world, only the man himself is the strongest support.
Therefore, our so-called men rarely cry, just after years of sculpture, life after the sharpening, so that a man's heart is stronger, all the time have never unloaded the burden on the shoulders, in order to their own hearts of the dream, in order to the happiness of family life, as a man, only to put away countless strikes after the cowardice, continue to work hard to fight, more determined in this unwilling to The ordinary road of life, go on.



Men have fewer tear ducts. [Cute]
Because the world expects boys to be strong and tough, and there is a saying that boys don't cry, so in a general sense you'd be hard pressed to see a boy cry out in front of you.
But listen to your tone should be a girl, if your boyfriend in front of you shed tears, excluding his very crying outside (often cry), he should be very much in love with you, because only a boy is very much in love with you when you will put down the heart of the defense, will show you his softest side, of course, relative also please protect his side (such as do not laugh at him you a boy to cry what to cry), because this kind of Often is a one-time, once he will protect himself again, he will not show you this side again.
While you're used to being a happy little girl under his big boy protection, please don't forget to take the initiative to protect him when his little boy side emerges as well.

In fact, "it's not a crime for a man to cry", from ancient times to the present, if you are born as a human being, you will have social responsibilities and family responsibilities, especially men should shed blood but not tears, and men should hold on, because if you fall, the backbone of the family will fall. Life is always difficult, men are human beings and have their own feelings. Ai Qing said, "Why do I always have tears in my eyes, because I love this land", this is a sublimation of emotion. This is a kind of emotional sublimation. Why Wuhan is unsealed, there will be tears, this is a kind of emotional catharsis. My brother-in-law in my sister to give birth to a second child encountered difficult labor, a big man cried a lot, no one laughed at him, this is the deep love for their wives, empathy love. It's not that men seldom cry, it's that when a man cries, only he knows. After crying, dry your tears, do not ask why, because this is life.
Men cry too, it's just that they don't see it as often, and if you want to cry but can't, it means you're not sad enough to cry... Not that you can't cry. Human beings are emotional creatures, so no matter if you're a man or a woman, you're going to cry, but the number of times you do it varies a lot, so which one of us doesn't cry?

Just men generally hold back not to cry, in fact, the man's heart is how sad, only pretending. When that love really touches his heart, then will not be able to hold back the sound of crying. There is no love to the depths of the man without tears. Everyone has his weakness, crying is not the patent of the girl. When a man cries, he will cry more than a woman.

Men's emotions are as fragile as women's, but they are more concerned about their face than women. Simple analogy, do you see the struggle? Inside the Lu Tao Hua Zi Xiang Nan pig head all cried, but in addition to Xiang Nan in the shopping mall in the sad days of the heroic Tao cried, other people are basically silent tears...

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