You did the right thing, there is nothing wrong, the wrong is theirs! But you should have informed them beforehand, explaining the importance of medical checkups for the elderly, such as the discovery of diseases in order to timely treatment, you did not tell them your good intentions but was scolded, a bit of good intentions to do a bad feeling, aggrieved! It may be that they are distressed that you spend money on it! Good to communicate a little, do not make trouble!

Love your parents, filial piety, let them go to the hospital for medical checkups, you are doing the right thing. Don't feel pressurized by this, and don't think that your parents have other preconceived notions about you; in fact, they are showing that they love you.

The reason why parents act like this, you have to understand their inner thoughts, analyze and analyze only these reasons:.

1. They may really believe that their physical symptoms are good and healthy and that there is no need for them to go to the hospital for medical check-ups. Their own body only knows where it hurts, where it is numb, where it is uncomfortable, whether it is sudden or frequent, and they feel that there is nothing wrong with them at all compared with other elderly people with pathologies.

2. Family is not good, poverty is afraid of, a family to earn money to save money is not easy, have to save to spend. Thrifty and frugal character is also applied to the medical examination, the body is fine and more reluctant to spend more money, once found out what, spend even more I do not know how much. What they want is not necessarily healthy, but to save money.

3. Parents have a broad mind, a good heart, know how to take care of their health, do not necessarily have to go to the hospital, as long as the diet attention, appropriate exercise on the line. Wait really feel uncomfortable, and then go to the hospital is also possible, look away from everything, see through everything.

4. Go to the hospital, the fear is to add burden to the children. Go to the medical examination, you have to spend money, in case of disease, when the second daughter must also be given treatment, do not know what disease, TV and newspaper news reported a lot of major diseases in the hospital spending money is bottomless.

You can care less about your parents not going, you can talk to them and relieve them of their worries. Physical examination, spend very little money, no disease, peace of mind, and more to maintain a good state of mind. If you find out, know in advance, early treatment, the effect is not only very good, than wait until you feel sick and then treatment, the cost is also less.

Parents are very open, as long as good communication, they will understand your filial piety!

Observe first and look for symptoms. Suspect you have a disease. Find a hospital for a physical examination.

You are doing the right thing. It's just that your parents might think:

1. The body is quite good, you pay for them to have a medical checkup waste of money, feel reluctant to give up;

2. They are also apprehensive, fearing that they may really find out what they can't stand. It is true that many diseases depend on the state of mind, when you don't know, you may be fine, but when you know, you may be scared instead.

But your parents age to middle age, do physical examination is actually good, although afraid to find out what, but the existence is there. You have a good talk with your parents, not mandatory, but say what you think:

1. We want our parents to be healthy, and now we do medical checkups as a precautionary measure. Many people around us don't pay attention to problems, and it's good to have them checked so that our children can have peace of mind;

2. In the future, they will be checked once a year, and you don't even have to worry about the money. And you can't get a refund for the money you've paid.

Your parents will understand your pain and they will be happy in their hearts even though they don't agree with it with their mouths.

The above, is from my personal experience, I have done the same, I hope it will help you. And also very touched by your filial piety, the trees want to be quiet but the wind does not stop, the son wants to raise but the parents do not wait. Don't leave yourself with regrets.

Above, I hope this helps.

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Parents scolded on the mouth, but I don't know how happy they are in their hearts! It's a good boy with filial piety, give you a big compliment!

You're too smart for money-hungry, confused parents!

You do very right, the state are required to the elderly medical examination, understand their physical condition, early detection, early treatment, your parents scolded may be afraid of you spend more money, your parents' knowledge level is not so high, the understanding of the disease is not the same. Parents did not think such as early detection of disease, early treatment to children to save a lot of money, but also to alleviate their pain and suffering!

First of all, sure you are doing the right thing, you are very filial to your parents, very concerned about the health of their parents, parents hang on the heart, if the world's sons and daughters of their parents are so attentive to filial piety, that is the country's great fortune.

It seems that your parents did not accept your filial piety and concern, and you were scolded, and you felt aggrieved. I think there are these reasons:

One, your parents are only 55 years old, really is not old, they themselves may be so think, physical fitness is also very good, usually there is no disease, why spend a waste of money (in the second hospital to do a simple physical examination less also have to be a thousand dollars 丿.

Secondly, your parents do not have enough knowledge about health checkups (knowledge related to health care has been lacking for a long time and still needs to be filled), and their own bodies are fine all the way through, with no illnesses and no pains, so there is no need to do any checkups.

Thirdly, perhaps there is a conservative thinking that it is bad luck to go into the hospital (only people with serious illnesses go into the hospital), they have never had any serious illnesses, and perhaps your parents have never been in the hospital, and that's why they rejected your concern and goodwill.

Fourth, your parents rejected your good intentions and scolded you, in fact, they love you in a way, they can not afford to spend your money which is not easy to compete. Although they scolded you on the mouth two, but the heart for have you so know cold and warm care filial piety and happy and happy, but they did not say straight out (this is the main reason), but with a reverse way to express, and you do not understand feel aggrieved.

Well, you have done a good job, be happy, this kind of filial piety should be insisted on, don't have the idea of being aggravated lah. If you give them some knowledge about health care beforehand, let them know why they need medical checkups and what benefits they have. For one thing, if parents are in good health, children will be relieved to be away from home, less worried, and can work with peace of mind. Secondly, if there is any problem, it can be detected and treated early, so it is easy to be cured, spend less money and be in good health. Physical examination is to spend a small amount of money, is to avoid getting sick to spend a lot of money, seems to lose money, in the long run is to earn money. It is advantageous to have a physical examination once a year or once every two years.

Yes, there is nothing wrong with it, because your parents feel sorry for you, because according to their memories of that era, no disease does not go to the hospital or that there is a disease resistance to the past, you do not need to feel bad about this. Good and family to explain, after all, the living environment and the past is not the same, tell them, only their health is we do children's blessing on the line.