I don't entirely agree with this. For those sons and daughters who can afford it, parents may not press for marriage because the sons and daughters can do it on their own without being pushed by their parents.

For the incapable son or daughter, parents have to urge marriage, and parents also have to help their children to do, so as not to children old age is not good to find, some because the children are too old, had to look for the majority of the second marriage with children. So parents must be wise, to help their children in time to find, children married parents will be relieved. This is also the responsibility and obligation of parents, if the children do not have the idea, missed the opportunity will cause the children lifelong pain, the children do not have a home, parents are not at ease, for fear that the children are old and no one to take care of.

No matter what you do in life, you should be serious, you should have a long-term vision, parents should think more about their children, children should also be able to afford to let go, responsible for their own, so that parents do not let their children bother. What time to do what things, do not wait, so as not to misunderstand.

Basically agree, children's marriage is just an important part of life is not true, but it depends on the age, in the stage of learning to seek knowledge should not be urged to marry, into the community to work and have a career and then consider marriage and family is more appropriate, too early marriage is not conducive to the cause of marriage, do not consider marrying older men and women as a parent to say a word of caution can also be, this is not to urge, of course, otherwise forced marriage oh!

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Marriage is free for children to decide, why should parents play cross.

Know each other and fall in love, love each other water to gold canal.

Parents intervene unwisely and children resent old heartaches.

Children are old enough to make their own choices, so why should parents try to play hard to get.

"Parents who don't push for marriage are wise" is a statement that "dates get up and comb their hair" does not agree with.

Why are parents pushing for marriage?

Many parents are anxious when their children reach marriageable age but do not have a boyfriend or girlfriend, so urging them to get married has become both common and urgent.

1. Parents want their children to get married early and have children early, so that they will have someone to take care of them when they get old. Calculate a time account, if the child gets married at 35 and has a baby at 37, the child will still be in graduate school at 60, and he or she will already be in old age.

2. Parents want to help bring up their grandchildren while they are healthy. Many young people who have just had a baby don't know how to raise a child, nowadays society is also under pressure, young people are also busy earning money for milk powder, parents would like to give a hand to help the young couple. If their own children have children late, that time their own health can not guarantee that they can not bring up children, they can only have the heart but not enough.

3. There is no one who knows a son like his father, and there is no one who knows a daughter like her mother. Their own children were raised by hand, the nature or very well understand, it is not easy to find a suitable object, will not like the girl, the parents heart with a mirror. Many children in the marriage army are very little experience in love, do not know how to get along with the opposite sex, you say that parents do not urge, can only dry anxious?

What do parents who don't push for marriage look like?

According to the author, parents who don't push for marriage are not wise, but more likely to know their children.

1. Their own children are capable, do not worry about finding a partner, on the contrary, there are a lot of options, just the child feels that for the time being is not suitable. Such children, parents do not have to worry about their old age is not guaranteed, raising children to prevent old age is not something they have to consider.

2. His own child is a person with planning and ideas, he has the ability to get married, his happiness his own control, parents do not want to give pressure or control, to give him the freedom, parents know in their hearts, as long as he has the idea of getting married, the matter is settled.

3. Parents' small life is very comfortable, and their thinking is very enlightened, can accept the child is not married or Dink, that everyone is an independent individual, have the right to choose, so forced marriage will not appear in their own dictionary.

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The urge to marry or not to marry is influenced by many aspects and cannot be used as a standard to judge the wisdom.

As a parent, you have to plan far ahead. It's hard for parents to push their children to get married, but if they don't, they are said to be unwise.

Rush or not, parents are well-intentioned, from this level, we have to be more sympathetic and grateful.

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The conclusion of marriage is a kind of destiny, and this kind of destiny is not something that parents can rush out of the marriage, so it is wise for parents not to rush out of the marriage.

Adults are equal in life. Especially parents should respect the independence of their daughters in life. Giving up your parental title is a way of respecting yourself and contributing to family harmony.

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Children are born to their parents, and I think it is a sign of responsible parenthood for parents to express their concern for their children, to find out about their recent life and thoughts, and to make their own suggestions.

Then to understand your child's thoughts about marriage, to know the reasons why he doesn't want to get married for the time being, and to speak out about his own experiences and thoughts, and to have an in-depth and deep discussion with your child, I think this is also very necessary.

However, the child is already an adult, he has his own ideas, parents can not interfere too much, can only make pertinent suggestions, and the decision, always lies in the child.

If parents want to hold grandchildren, to renew the family flame, and next-door neighbors than the face of shame and other reasons, words or actions to urge children to get married, everywhere to the child introduced to the blind date and order the child must participate in, or even provide a certain period of time must be married, which in the formation of children's pressure at the same time, but also is not conducive to the harmony of family relations.

After all, shouldn't the most important thing that parents want is the health and happiness of their children?

If a child marries a random person to fulfill his or her parents' wishes, will the parents not have to worry and suffer if the marriage is not good in the future? To exchange a moment's pleasure for a lifetime of pain, such a decision is a loss in every sense of the word!

On the contrary, if the child rises up and is dead set against it, or even moves out of the house and has less interaction with the parents, and the parents lose the joy of heaven, the result will also do more harm than good.

To inform without interfering, to advise without imposing, and after that to let nature take its course is, I think, the wisest thing to do.

The question depends on whose point of view one is talking about, parents who don't push for marriage and parents who push for marriage both do so because they love their children, and each handles it in a different way.

The greatest wish of parents is that their children will start their own families as soon as possible, and that they will be able to have grandchildren as soon as possible and enjoy the happiness of their families!

As children, with the change in the contemporary view of marriage, the age of marriage is getting later and later, and after finishing school they are already old enough to have a few days of celibacy before they are tied to a family to get married and have children.

Parents' urging for marriage can easily cause pressure on children's hearts. Children will not want to let their parents worry and lower their own relationship standards. It is easy for them to enter into marriage when they are immature in all aspects, which mostly results in unfortunate marriages.

Ms. Wang beside me is because of their own age, parents have been urging marriage, casually find someone to marry, parents are also considered to be a wish.

Due to the lack of understanding before marriage, she realized after marriage that her husband's temper changed completely after drinking, and he was not moved to domestic violence against her. As a result, after six months of marriage, Ms. Wang chose to divorce.

It seems wise for parents not to urge marriage. It is also easy for children to miss out on the best age, and children always feel that it is their parents who are not in a hurry, and as a result, people of the same age are getting married, and they are still playing under the shelter of their parents.

My cousin is such an older woman, thirty-two years old this year. When she graduated from college, her parents always thought she was too young to fall in love, saying that marriage was not urgent. The big city girls thirty to get married do not feel late, but for us here in the small city, a more than twenty-five to talk about marriage has been a little late. She is so picky, so far has not met the right one.

Regardless of whether or not your parents are pushing you to get married, everyone is already an adult and should have the ability to think independently and plan their own lives.

At what age to do what, one meets the true love, each other love, is to enter the marriage hall.

If you don't meet the right one, don't get married just because your parents are in a hurry, it's an irresponsible behavior for anyone.

A good marriage is earned, not pushed by parents. A marriage that is pushed will not be happy and will have a high divorce rate. Look at the society nowadays, there are many more divorces than marriages. If you look at the divorce rate in today's society, your parents will naturally understand and they won't push you to get married. Some women have sacrificed a human life for nothing for an unfortunate marriage. The story is about a woman in the countryside who did not get along with her mother-in-law and quarreled often. And on the day she was just about to give birth to a child, her husband happened to be away from home. The mother-in-law watched him dying of pain in bed, did not call for someone to send him to the hospital, the result is that the children and adults all died in the end, if he found a happy marriage, married to a husband who loved him very much, it would not have happened such a tragic thing!

Recognition! Love is the crystallization of destiny, love without destiny is not stable, unreliable. Thousands of miles of destiny to meet, no destiny opposite not to meet, this is a very good footnote of love. Historical experience tells us that when parents make a mess of things, their children have a high risk of divorce. It is better to let nature take its course and wait for the arrival of marriage, don't rush, poor world parents heart!