I am also going to be a mother-in-law, but I declare that I will never give a penny for the bride price, why? I can prepare for the wedding car, and if the young couple gives birth to a child in the future, I can also do my best for the living and learning expenses of my grandson or granddaughter. But I think nowadays is not advocating equality between men and women? Marriage is two young people, together to form a family, both sides should work together, run by heart, there is no such thing as what to marry what to marry, completely their own independent life. As long as they are willing to come back to eat or live can be, but I do not live with them, there are many people say what the woman's family for nothing to raise a daughter for nothing to give the man, for the man's family to give birth to a child to wait for the in-laws, I listen to the funny, your daughter is a hard to raise, son is not hard to raise? And the son's pay more! The house and car are prepared, the woman's family prepared what I do not ask. If you feel that it is for the man's family to have a child, then you can as much as not to have, I have no problem. Nowadays, young people are living under so much pressure, not to mention serving in-laws, it's good enough to be able to do their own daily life, who would dare to expect them to serve? Who expects them to do so? Who has ever seen a daughter-in-law serving her parents? And whether it's the man or the woman's parents, it's your duty and responsibility to raise your children, which is stipulated by the law. My husband's family has no duty and obligation to pay for you to raise your own children, your duty and obligation you must fulfill. Otherwise you are not qualified to be a parent, you don't deserve to be a parent, and you shouldn't have had the child at all. You are willing to pay for your children, that's good for you to do for your children, but I have no responsibility or obligation to pay for you to raise your children. The bride price and dowry are equivalent, if you have an equivalent dowry, I can consider an equivalent or a little more bride price, but I do not think it is necessary, I am neither willing to pay the bride price, nor do I want your dowry, young people's life by their own decision, adults have the conditions and willingness to do what you can to help them, but the life is their own, I will not interfere with too much, and moreover, I will not accept to be held hostage! If you meet the other side, layers of price increases, the price of the ground, I will definitely turn my head away, ignore, you love to marry or not to marry! You love to marry or not to marry!

I support the bride price should be given, mean on the line, but also on the two old people to give birth to a daughter of a thank you. But there is no moderation on the problem la, married and is not not back to the mother's home, make with the market to buy and sell goods, as well as price increases, really give 400,000, then, the great world by you just pick. Of course, if you are willing to give words, your family's economic situation can be then that's fine, that you want to marry this person, people worth the price or that you have the market so. But in the case I see is that the real daughter of the excellent family economic foundation of the good, as if it does not care how much the bride price, give a little bride price to show etiquette, that people's daughters are not worthless, is the only one you are willing to pay for her. Often are not good family conditions, their own daughters and average, but also want to sell a good price as valuables, really such a situation you have to suffer later. According to the feelings of the two people, ultimately to decide for themselves, a willingness to fight a willingness to this kind of thing is not unheard of.

Thank you for the invitation:

You have already given the woman 200,000 dowry and she wants another 200,000 before the marriage or she will not agree to the marriage.

This type is not really marrying a wife, but full of money to sell a woman, she is full of eyes to see not you as a person, but love is your money.

What kind of unreasonable request is that? This kind of woman is of low character and should never be married. I suggest you get back the 200,000 you've already given.

And after that break up with her as soon as possible, a clean break let her find someone else with more money! Because of the love of money, she does not have a sincere love for your person, she treats you as a money bank is not suitable for you.

There is a couple to get married, the wedding car are to the door of the girl's home, the woman's parents suddenly jumped out and said: bride price additional 200,000, or roll.

Potato and his girlfriend because of work acquaintance, girlfriend this person extraordinarily strong, working together for a long time and gradually found that she is a little confused in life, need potato help. After two to two, they turned from colleagues into lovers, together through the four years. In those four years, they experienced a lot of difficulties together and looked to be the fruit of the matter, but still stuck in the last link.

On the day of the wedding, the sun came out as the wedding car left the house, and both the bridesmaid's group and the marrying couple who accompanied them said they were a good match.

It was hard to get from the entrance of the village to the door of their house. Just after getting off the bus, the woman's side of the palmist pulled the man's uncle away, and the two of them muttered for a while.

Surrounded by the crowd of boys for a moment to see the uncle's expression, but from the action can be seen uncle is not too happy. Later, the woman's parents also came out from behind the wall, the four people there a muttering.

A few of them discussed a few juniors ready to go through the process first, wait for the elders to finish the discussion naturally said. But they can not approach the door of the woman's home, the road in the aunty dead block, has been chanting: "You wait a little longer, discuss the results of the later is not too late, do not delay the auspicious time."

The original festive atmosphere was made awkward, the boys took the cell phone ready to ask his girlfriend what's going on. But no matter how many times he dialed, she did not answer.

Both sides are deadlocked, the uncle finally pulled the boys to the corner, stifling the old red face to ask: "You really have to this girl can not?"

God knows, the boys in the always gentle uncle's face to see the grumpy when how shocked. After he nodded, his uncle tugged on his sleeve and whispered in the boy's ear, "Now the woman is proposing an additional 200,000 yuan for the bride price, and if you don't give it, you can't accept the marriage."

Uncle wilted throughout, "Contact the girl and see what she says." Uncle commanded and went to call my parents to discuss.

Girlfriend's home in front of the two corners of the wall their uncle and nephew occupied, looking at the auspicious time is getting closer and closer, the best man group side can not wait, ran to ask. But looking at the state of the boys and uncle did not ask out anything.

After his uncle hung up the phone, he pulled the boys towards his girlfriend's house while telling the best man to greet the entourage and wait back in the car. The boy broke all the way into his girlfriend's boudoir and looked at her taking pictures with her cell phone and all the explanations he had given her in his mind dissipated.

The girl also didn't expect her boyfriend to barge right in, and had a somewhat embarrassed expression on her face, but also quickly cleaned up. She got off the bed, wearing slippers to pull her boyfriend out, full of excitement and asked me, "All the money?"

Staring at the way her eyes were glazed over, the boy's heart quickly sank towards the bottom. After favoring his head to push down the anger in his heart, he stared at his girlfriend, "Not yet."

Before the words were finished, his girlfriend's face drooped, the whole person with a grudge: "Do you not want to marry me?" Eyes with resentment, wearing slippers toes in my shoes grinding: "together for four years, do you think I must you can not? I don't dare to leave you, so I don't want to give up that 200,000 dollars?"

The girlfriend is still so righteous, as if the boys are not willing to continue the wedding. Four years together, they all know each other too well, the girl in the boy's face can not see hope, furious roar: "I told you to add 200,000 is 200,000, not a penny less, you do not give to let someone else than."

After saying that, she also added uneasily, "If you don't give this 200,000 today, take your fleet of cars and go back, I won't marry." The girl's face was full of certainty.

The girl is sure that her boyfriend will not let the welcome car empty car back, sure that her boyfriend will not let the hotel waiting friends and family look at the joke, sure that her boyfriend will not let the preparation of this period of time hit the water, sure that her boyfriend will not let the parents' joy turned into anger.

The next second the girl suddenly took a step toward her boyfriend's arms, raising her hand and tugging at his coat corner in the same way she used to be petulant: "My parents said it's just a formality to block the mouths of those who are looking at the jokes, and that they'll return the money to us later."

As soon as the girl's words fell, her parents greeted the two of them in the living room, they sat on both sides of the sofa and looked at the boy with a face full of unhappiness, "This 200,000, do you add it or not?" The moment her parents' words came out, the girlfriend's eyes lit up, and she looked at the boy with a sideways glance full of anticipation.

But the boy let her down and didn't say the words she wanted. After getting her boyfriend's answer, the smile on her girlfriend's face dissipated, and she looked at the boy incredulously, pointing at the welcoming party waiting outside the door, "Do you know what you're saying? Without this 200,000 dollars today, you don't want me to walk out of this house and step into your welcoming car."

His girlfriend's words made the boy completely furious and he sneered, "You guys wait for me."

Walked out of her home, looking at the accompanying groomsmen group expectant eyes, the boys discussed with them to transfer money, and asked friends to borrow, and finally put together enough 200,000 yuan. Girlfriend looked at the boys with anticipation, full of joy to wait for him to pick up their own out of the door, I called my parents in front of her face: Mom and Dad, I quit the wedding.

The girlfriend was straight up dumbfounded and tried to come up and take the guys hand, and the guy came straight up with, "I'm sorry, it's no longer possible for us to go on.

Relationships, especially intimate relationships, are at the core of psychological activity and psychological needs. Love, in turn, is the supreme principle that enables the healthy flow of intimacy.

We all know this, but sadly, too many mistakes have been made in the name of love, and as a result, lies about love have been allowed to run rampant in this world, ultimately causing us pain!

It's precisely that it's not easy to meet someone who is genuinely in love, and we shouldn't blackmail each other with our emotions, or else, really, we're just turning away.

Just like the seabird and the fish falling in love, it was just an accident. It is said that lovers end up in love, but now it is the rich who end up in love and the lovers who end up in pain.

I summarize, now men and women in the marriage of the man in the situation, the woman said "1. My parents raised me for more than 20 years, married to your family, to give you children, give a few hundred thousand bride price is not more? 2. I'm looking for a partner must have a car, a house and a deposit, who do not buy a house to get married? The house must be added to my name 3. I only have a brother, parents have me raised me is not easy, I want to help him buy a house to get married, which is also to repay my parents for their parenting 4. this year to my home for the New Year right? If you have two children, one of them has to take my last name; why don't you bring your children to my house this week? Buy more things for my parents.

What about after you marry? Men are a piece of shit, useless men, men should be how how to create a good life; men have money men strong women weak natural parents-in-law family is also happy, women have money women strong men weak men can not live, and the in-laws of the family was pressed to lift their heads; mothers-in-law should be with the child, do not give the cost of living, and do not give the grandchildren to buy things will be fall not, with children with bad not; not with the child even more not. The child is even worse, one day do not pay attention to hygiene or some cases of inattention will be disliked, even if it is to go out to work hard to earn money to subsidize the son and daughter-in-law, no one heart, but also to be said that the mother-in-law did not help to take care of the child, the grandmother to see the child is to help, the mother-in-law to see the child is the right and proper, and have to tolerate the anger. More and more can not figure out the so-called equality between men and women in the end how to say, spend a lot of money to marry back to the daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law still have to coax her, and since the beginning of the people are close to the mother's family, licking a pussy face all day long to say that the marriage is not up to don't marry, the in-laws in the sofa lying down to watch a TV will be shaking voice disgust, to buy something for the in-laws heart to remember that it is owed to their own parents in-laws to give their money to the son after the sick no money to cure, can't old age! But the daughter of the filial piety, parents-in-law with a child a moment to say that parents are not easy to be filial piety, in-laws with a lifetime of children are deserved and not filial piety, said the man's family children in fact, the child with whom close to? Can the in-laws count on their grandchildren to support them in their old age? After the age of ten, boys and their fathers are always a bit separated, the daughter-in-law wants to take the child back to her mother's home, the husband can not follow? Do they have to be separated all the time? Men have to support the family will inevitably do some dangerous work will not pay too much attention to the body, after the death of the man's in-laws are facing the pain of old age and loss of children, but also have no money for old age, because they are given to the son, it is hard to say whether they will be able to see their grandchildren one side, all the property and compensation for their own and their children, and some people will say that the woman is not also the same? Definitely not the same, because men have to bear the man is tired!

This is the heart is not enough to swallow the elephant, want 2O million to give 2O million, and then grow 200,000, which shows that the woman is poor to the point of asking for food. Do not hold a wedding, chemical male money and banquet as a return.

When you meet such an untrustworthy mother-in-law, you won't have a good life after marriage, let alone happiness. Young man, grow up! Back out of this marriage. Why hang on to the same tree when there's no grass in the world? Thanks for the invitation!

Gave the woman 200,000 bride price, and then asked for 200,000 before the wedding, no money not married, the woman's family this is extortion, this in-laws have no moral values, marriage is also a hidden danger, the front of the 200,000 back, the world's large, not just her a woman, to find again, I believe you will find true love!

Depends on the foundation of your love and the strength of your family!

The dowry is traditional and must be given, and it is sufficient for both parties to agree on an appropriate amount.

However, if any of the following situations occur, it is advisable to think carefully about whether or not you want to stay together:

1. Both sides discussed the number of bride price, before the marriage of the male party changed his mind, do not want to give the promised bride price, play empty gloves, to talk about the relationship with the emotional basis of moral abduction of the female party, it is recommended to break up.

2. Both sides discussed the number of dowry, before marriage, the woman wants to increase (except in special circumstances, such as pregnancy), especially the amount of larger, this kind of only two possibilities, the first is the woman's remorse do not want to get married, want to use this method to force the man to take the initiative to break up, and the second is the woman's character is not good, and want to open their mouths to ask for a part of the money at the emergency. In this case, it is recommended to break up.