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"People, don't make deep friends with people of bad character", do you agree with this statement? Why?

"People, don't make deep friends with people of bad character", do you agree with this statement? Why?

Recognition, interaction, handing over things do not hand over people, a person, in things to do in an organized manner, can be put on the table, so that other people to evaluate, are said to be about the same, this kind of people can be handed over, play mouth of the people, to day Xu half, really to do things, ah not in, this kind of people, can not be handed over, the proverbial hand over, handing over, handing over, handing over the work.

Couldn't agree more with this statement. Especially in the workplace, it is important to keep coworkers, partners and friends separate.

Behind the smiles are sometimes knives

I just graduated from the first job work place is a branch of the company's office, where not many people, just a dozen people. At that time, just graduated, do not know anything, I think the office of the people are quite good, but also often together with the AA to buy afternoon tea to eat, they also took me to eat around the restaurant, tell me where to eat.

Then once I went to a meeting at the company's headquarters, I stumbled upon the fact that they were using a very dishonorable tactic to combat a rival company. I had just graduated not long ago, and my sense of justice was so overwhelming and uncontrollable that I went back to the office to talk about it, and expressed my disdain in a very indignant way. After a while, I felt that the attitude of the head office was a bit subtle. I didn't think about it at all, but when I resigned, I was told that the person in charge of the office had told the head office.

The person in charge is the kind of usually look a little naive, to whom all are smiling, get along with a long time also know that he is a bit snobbish, and then also some vanity. Now look at me at that time is quite stupid, but at that time I really did not expect him to be like this.

If you want to make friends, you have to make friends with people of good character.

Sage Confucius said: "There are three kinds of friends who are beneficial and three kinds of friends who are detrimental: friends who are straight, friends who are understanding, and friends who are knowledgeable, which is beneficial; friends who are open, friends who are soft, and friends who are sycophantic, which is detrimental. That means: there are three kinds of beneficial friends and three kinds of harmful friends. It is beneficial to make friends with those who are upright, with those who are honest (understanding, integrity), and with those who have extensive knowledge. It is harmful to make friends with those who flatter and flatter, with those who flatter on the surface but slander behind the scenes, and with those who are good at rhetoric.

With friends are going to have a lot of personal relationships, you may expose a lot of your private life, some of your shortcomings in front of your friends. If you make friends with good character, no matter what his ability or status is, at least he won't dig a hole for you. If you make friends with bad character, he may put you in the wrong place at a critical time, and that's what will hurt you. You know, many people end up being hurt the most by their friends.

I agree with this, because close to a man, a man is black, so it's better to make deep friends with people of good character.

One should not make deep friends with people of bad character, nor should one be convinced that people are not of bad character!

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Agree with this statement.

Bad character, not deep friendship, but can be shallow. Just in the process of interaction, stay awake and alert, adhere to the principle of bottom line, do not trust, do not follow, make it difficult to back off, the basket hit the water. We, on the other hand, can be in the interpersonal communication, learn to recognize people, recognize the art of people, get along with the way, set up for their own isolation and protection of the net. Otherwise, see the bad wolf thought sick dog, is not wrong?

As the old saying goes, we know the face of a person, but not the heart. Bad character of people, we not only know people know the face, but also to its words and deeds, insight into its inner flowery intestines: the person of the shallow words, the person of the color of the words, sweet words of the person, the person of the helm of the wind ...... These people, are all bad character and so on. Throughout history, the little man is difficult to raise, the little man is difficult to prevent, all because of its bad character, capricious, infinite harm, if we do not know not to defend, let it develop, small is hurt himself to destroy the family, the big is the wrong king destroyed the country. But all man-made disasters, all by deep friendship with bad character.

History is a drama. Why do people of bad character haunt the world and plague the earth from time to time? The reason is that these people are good at disguising themselves and changing colors, and they are good at sugar-coated bombs. If you are not careful, you will be easily trapped. Therefore, we should always keep our eyes open and use our wisdom to protect ourselves!

I couldn't agree more. In the long run, a deep friendship with a bad character is bound to create a lot of unexpected trouble and may be a threat to you.

I agree with this statement, people with no character are not really very human, and you will only hurt yourself by befriending them.

Thanks,,[teeth bared][teeth bared][teeth bared][teeth bared] This is a question I recognize, in life, if you are living an easy and comfortable life, please don't associate with people of bad character, make sure to keep a distance from such people as it could be a direct source of bad mood.


Agree, don't make friends with people who have bad character. Because character is a measure of a person's good or bad standard, befriending people with bad character will bring you trouble, even disaster.

When my friend opened a company, he passed on a relative to him out of charity and trusted him to take care of some clients. As the remittance was delayed, he was asked to remind him, but there was no news. My friend had to go and urge him to do so himself and found that the money had been given to his relative to put in his own pocket.

Friends are very angry, think this is too unethical, said a few words of his relatives resigned, took some of the friend's customers to go to another door. People with bad character, you treat him well will not be grateful, but also dig your corner.

Those with bad character can only temporarily get greedy and take advantage of other people's business property, but in the end it won't last.

Later, my friend's relatives opened their own small company, because of dishonesty, do not take the formal route to mix not long also collapsed.

The society of those old scoundrels, fraud, extreme selfishness and self-interest, engage in conspiracy and ghost plan rumor mongering ......, are people with bad character, this kind of people can only stay away from, more unlikely to deep friendship, close interaction will be or reuse, will bring trouble and disaster.




Very agree, make friends really don't make friends with bad character. As the saying goes, learn from a good man to a good man, and learn to jump from a god to the end of the public.

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