First of all, one has to figure out what one's position is. If you are upholding justice and fighting against some crooked ways, then you must stick to your position and uphold justice. If your opposite is the collective interest, the national interest, and your position is selfishness, then you must not insist. To insist is to be stubborn and to cut yourself off from the people!

And then there are the little everyday things... kid A knocked kid B down and cried... puppy C pooped on D's doorstep. And so on. There are conflicts, and some of them are very violent. This also has its own position, such a position can be insisted on or not. People often advise clear not confused, called and mud, asking the position of mutual exchange. Like this if you insist on your own position is not conducive to unity.

Bottom line, it depends on what's going on.

Thanks for the invitation! If all aspects from their own starting point to see the problem, will be selfish narrow-mindedness. Whether their own work career, family life, social office, the surrounding environment, family and friends, and so on a series of, we must consider the rationality of these personnel feasibility. To integrate into the social family to find a common point of understanding, the key can not be selfish, so that harmony.

It is right to think in your own position! It's better to think differently.

Standing in their own position to think about the problem is not wrong, to see the problem must have their own point of view, otherwise they do not understand the truth of the matter, first of all, they can not pass this hurdle. Of course, at the same time, we should also consider the feelings of others, try to do good for others and benefit themselves, mutual benefit and win-win situation!

It should be done from a personal standpoint premised on the law.

Wrong is right, more one-sided! The old saying, three people must be my teacher, is to avoid the polarization of a person in a single direction, gold is not perfect, do not see yourself as a saint? Or leftovers! A person's fit or not, depending on your efficiency, ability, too high, too low, or nothing? Always remember, there is a sky outside the sky, there are people outside the people, each of us, but the air in the middle of a dust, dust to dust to earth, back to nature.

"Is it wrong to think from one's own standpoint?" Yes, it is understandable, everyone has their own desires, demands, the key lies in the personal "desires, demands" should have a certain "constraints, self-discipline", consider, put forward personal "desires, demands "Before considering, put forward personal" desires, demands should think twice before acting, extreme selfishness, refined egoism will never be accepted and tolerated by society, we live in a new era of civilization, we should learn to personal "ego" into the larger context of society, only the prosperity and stability of the community as a whole in order to have a personal "Ego" peace, imagine in this "coronavirus epidemic spread rampant" when if there is no 1.4 billion people's "unity of purpose", no large number of "Retrograde" rushed to the front line, without the millions of people fighting in the front line of the epidemic prevention and anti-epidemic staff how can we be so calm? Are those who struggle in the front line of the "retrograde people" do not have their own desires and demands? Just that they know how to choose, know how to self-discipline, stand up in the face of justice, the achievement of social health and stability, but also cast their "hero" image, such personality personality is what we advocate in this era.

Yes...there is a yin and yang to everything...maybe when you think good...the other side is the opposite! ...

No problem, but the mentality should be sunny to do things reasonably, no matter what you do, you have to be able to stand your conscience, illegal things do not do

Look at the 1st chart below. The person on the left thinks it's a 6. He's not wrong. The person on the right thinks the number is 9, and he is not wrong either. We encounter situations like this in life or at work. To understand it in terms of emotional intelligence is that none of us are wrong or contradictory, we just have different points of view. To use a proverb. Get into someone else's shoes, get up and walk around!