Children are the fruit of marriage and the fruit of love. More than that, they are a symbol of a good relationship and a complete family, and children should not be a worry in life.

Anyone who doesn't have a legacy of the Dink idea shouldn't be repulsed by children. In terms of life, couples are two. It doesn't necessarily mean you'll be happy if you have kids. Nor does it necessarily mean that you will be unhappy without children. This is not absolute. But couples who don't want children are in the minority. So from the public's thinking of a thought, or have children's marriage and family is the most perfect combination.

Like myself, I usually see people around me who are about the same age as me. When they get married and have children, their lives become completely different. They may often see them worrying about their children, but more often than not, they see the joy and laughter that children bring them. But more often than not, they see the laughter that children bring to them. In fact, no matter whether it is said that worry or worry, the child is the fruit of love between two people, the proof of love.

Sometimes see children are very naughty, comply with parents are going to educate them. But often see their innocent expression and behavior, fall down after looking for warm embrace and safe harbor place must be parents. So many times in that moment will suddenly feel as parents really great.

Especially in that moment, one would go and envy someone else's family for having kids. Can't help but go and look twice. May even suddenly ask themselves when they will be like them. There is such a life scene. One can imagine what a wonderful thing that is. No matter which way you look at it, it is a kind of happiness.

After having kids you do a lot of things a little more holistically. You have to lead by example in front of your child. Because you are always playing the role of his teacher. So in the process of the child slowly grows up, as a parent is not a kind of growth.

A child will not trouble us. She will teach us how to face life and play every role, so life is better with a treasure in the house!

How can you ask such a childish question, all I want to ask you is from the day you know what you are doing. Have you ever had trouble with your brain, have you ever had trouble from elementary school to middle school to high school. Have you ever had any troubles during the time you went to the society and had a job? You have experienced so many troubles from the time you understood to the time you became an adult. How can you relate to marriage and having children? Do you think that if you don't have children in your life, you won't have any trouble with your brain.

I believe that every one of us human beings is destined to suffer all the troubles that we are supposed to suffer from the moment we are born. This is a curse that no one can escape, including of course the top officials and dignitaries down to the common people. Everyone passes through life with a lot of worries, and there is not a single person in the world who passes through life without worries. Unless one is outside the three realms and not in the five elements, he or she can be free of worries.

I think that having children is not the reason to increase the annoyance of the brain, don't look at me as a man when I was young, there are times when the annoyance of the brain back home to look at the child. Immediately the annoying brain on the wind to dissipate the mood is much better, the children are older he (she) they also have their own families he (she) they also have worries. Parents also have to give him (her) to solve the problem, this is a matter of mutual concern. In real life, it is not like what the subject understands whether there is a child or not, it is not the case at all.

That's one of my answers to this question, and it's purely personal. Please comment if it is inappropriate.

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Marriage without children is more troublesome than giving birth to a child, the light of society, neighbors, relatives and friends of the suds are drowning you, do not believe to try.

If you get married and don't have children, you have no worries after marriage?

What kind of logic is this?

I think since you are asking this question, you must have encountered problems in this regard. In the course of a child's growth, every family encounters more or less, big or small problems regarding the raising, management and education of the child, but the child should never become a marital trouble, a bane of family conflicts, or a bill for an unfortunate marriage.

Think about how much joy your child has given you as a first-time parent and how much laughter it has given your family, from the time he or she was born to the time he or she learned to talk and toddle!

If you have a problem, you have to solve it instead of complaining about why it's a problem. If you really want to dig deeper into the cause, it's an adult's problem, and you need to calm down and communicate seriously with the adults.

Marriages with children are bound to have problems, but marriages without children are not necessarily trouble-free.

As we all know, in China, the phrase "don't let your child lose at the starting line" has been deeply implanted in the heart of every parent. It has become the wish of every parent to have their children become dragons.

Therefore, the presence of children in a marriage does bring a lot of troubles to the married life. For example, financial pressure, differences in parenting philosophy, work-life conflicts, the growth and health of children and so on. Any one of them out of the situation will make the married couple anxious.

But does getting married and not having kids mean no worries after marriage? The answer is of course not!

It's not like all of the troubles for a couple after marriage come from the kids. There are too many troubles in life, and the kids say they can't take the blame.

First, and first of all, not to mention anything else, there will be pressure from your parents not to have children.

We can often see that young couples get married and don't have children, and as a result, they are pushed by their parents. Especially nowadays, too many families are only children, children mean the hope and inheritance of a family. If you don't have children, many people can't get past their parents.

Secondly, without children, you couples still have to live. And in order to live in the wood, rice, oil, salt, soy, vinegar and tea, there will inevitably be bumps and bruises, there are from the work of the difficult oppression, there are from the neighborhood gossip, there are from the husband and wife dislike betrayal, there are from the cause of the frustration and failure and so on. Any one of these things will keep you busy, you say you're not annoyed?

Thirdly, one of the very real problems of not having children is not experiencing the joys of being a parent. When you see the cozy scene of other parents holding their children, you may be lost and lonely, and you can never experience it. Especially as you get older, this feeling will be stronger, do you think you are annoyed?

Of course, the troubles of married life can be found everywhere, and the presence of children is sometimes like a happy fruit, not only to enhance the couple's relationship, but also to add motivation to your life.

Who knows about you?

Thinking too much, worries don't go away if you're married or not, if you have kids or not.

It's something that's just like eating and sleeping, it's not too much of a stretch to say that it's the norm. All people have worries, let alone two people together, and children, in many cases, can eliminate some of your worries!

Most of the time, people's troubles are self-inflicted, so when will you not ask for trouble? When you are fully committed to a thing or your energy is pulled, want to be annoyed, but also no time, no energy!

And having children is precisely one thing, especially time-consuming and energy-consuming things, so, marriage and children is a good way to effectively reduce the worry!

So how can you be trouble-free after marriage?

Well, there's no way around it.

The only thing that can be done is to minimize the number of times the annoyance occurs, it's impossible to eliminate it completely

Choose an object that can tolerate you, in the daily life after marriage, they should also learn to understand and tolerate, so that when there are contradictions, there are troubles, but also can be effective and timely solution to it, nip it in the bud!

Why else would so many people, looking for a date, require three views and personality?

After all, if you're in love and attracted to each other, and if you're constantly arguing about little things and big things, you probably know what that means.

That's it, think about everything yourself, start from yourself first, do better yourself, find the right half, together to run an ordinary and simple but not lose the warmth of the marriage, the trouble is not terrible, the fear is that the other side of the ignorance!

There are thousands of worries, and children's problems are only a part of it. Most of the people who ask this are still afraid of marriage breakup. In fact, marriage is not only the union of two people, but also two families and the family circle on both sides.

Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and the same is true for families. Inevitably, there will be bumps and bruises in the family life, and troubles will arise. Therefore, it is normal to have troubles, the important thing is to learn how to cope with the troubles that may arise.

If you can, having a child can add a lot of joy, as long as you don't hate them. Parenting is a lot more work, and in retrospect, none of the old worries are a thing, but rather sweet. Don't you want to give it a try?

If you get married and don't have children, will you have no worries after marriage?

Children are the continuation of the couple's life, is the crystallization of the couple's love, many families will be happy and joyful because of the arrival of children, I think it is more or less regrettable not to have children after marriage, and everyone has troubles, even if they do not have children after marriage.

You should know that every stage of life has every stage of trouble, for example, babies seem to have someone to hold, someone to feed the milk, what a happy thing, but he can only go along with the adults, he can't run all over the place, his freedom is very restricted; and students although there is a little bit of freedom to eat and drink, but they have to be all day long for the study of the trouble, they feel that the adults to let them study, it's very annoying, and would like to hurry up! In fact, when they grow up, they realize that it is better to be a child.

Married even if there are no children, but the two couples will also spend time with each other, but also with the firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy, vinegar and tea deal with, and everyone has their own ideas, the husband and wife in life there will be a disagreement when, then the trouble is also natural, although there are no children of the couple will not be for the sake of the children to fight, and trouble, but life is trivial, there will always be such and such a trivial annoyed! So you should not long for a childless family to be so happy and joyful! Maybe when you really don't have children, you will envy those families with children again!

Life is not smooth sailing, no one's life is smooth sailing, and no one's life is not heartless, just people are different, different ideas, different treatment of the tedious things in life. In fact, I think that after the marriage of two couples, it is best to have a child, the child brings you have trouble, but also happy, some happiness is not given between husband and wife, can not be replaced, and with children, not only can maintain the feelings of husband and wife, but also allows you to feel a different state of life.

I'm Pride of Snowing Emotions and I thank you for reading and following along.

It is the duty and responsibility of the person born to marry, have a child, and educate him well so that society will have a successor.

Are there any troubles after marriage? Whether there are children or not will have some effect, but it is not the deciding factor. Do two people love each other? Whether there can be mutual understanding and support, thought experience and insight. Both sides of the family of origin and growing up environment, as well as the habits that you have developed, are you able to accept and tolerate? Do you feel comfortable with each other, without pressure? Is there a proper sense of boundaries in spiritual life? Are you willing to give to each other? Do you recognize the sharing of household chores? Do they accept and respect each other's family and friends? Do you share the same interests? Can they support each other without disturbing each other when they have different interests? Do both partners have the financial ability to run and maintain a household and support each other's hobbies?

If you have children, can you financially support their education? Is there a consensus on how to bring up the children, educate them and share the household chores?

Personally, I think all of the above is what makes or breaks a marriage!