Obviously, by "communication" you mean the way couples communicate when misunderstandings or prejudices arise. Imagine a normal couple's relationship, who would take this kind of interaction for granted on their agenda?

Of course, if you want to give each other a surprise or other reasons, beforehand did not let the other party know, due to poor consideration, the results failed, resulting in many misunderstandings. In this case, it is especially important to proactively communicate with each other. Otherwise, it will seriously affect the couple's relationship.

If a party misbehaved, obviously did hurt each other's feelings, but again and again to find each other to justify, at this moment of communication, can only be one more time to communicate, so that the other party suffered a blow more and more emotional wounds worsened.

Therefore, it is extremely irresponsible to blindly persuade people to communicate boldly without knowing the truth of the matter and without regard to any premise or bottom line whenever we come across this kind of incident, and the consequences of this kind of behavior will be even more horrible than making peace (glue)!

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Communication between husband and wife is very important!

Communication is a very important thing for couples to get along with each other. If communication is not good, it can lead to all kinds of problems. All problems between couples are because of communication problems.

First of all, falling in love is a kind of communication. There is no communication, how can two people get together? The focus of falling in love is to talk, two people can only talk to each other, in constant communication, can enhance mutual understanding, feelings can continue to develop and deepen, can finally enter the marriage family, married couples.

Secondly, when couples get along with each other, communication is even more indispensable. No matter what the big and small things, two people should be discussed and communicated before deciding, neither party can be arbitrary, bent on doing. Otherwise, there will be conflicts, if not communicated to resolve, the conflict intensified to the point where it can not be resolved, the marriage has come to an end. Good communication between husband and wife can enhance the relationship and stabilize the marriage and family. Nowadays, cell phones are very popular, many couples come home, one person holding a cell phone to play, no communication between each other, the two people more and more indifferent. A family that lacks communication is a pool of stagnant water, not far from disintegration. Communication is no small matter.

Thirdly, getting along with each other is all about communication. Without communication, they will always be strangers. Only communication can enhance mutual understanding and feelings. Colleagues fully communicate with each other, in order to cooperate with each other, to complete the work task; communication between the upper and lower levels, in order to communicate with the top, to implement the task, the bottom of the top, and constantly amend the policy, up and down the formation of a good communication mechanism, the cause of continuous development and growth.

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Couples are open and honest with each other. Husbands and wives should have nothing to say to each other? Also to do the same bed and fall together. Don't cover up all day. Communication is more important.

Communication between husband and wife is important.

Because between husband and wife there will certainly be some conflicts, can be some problems. And for these problems, if you don't communicate to solve them, it will deepen the conflict. The relationship between husband and wife is cracked or broken.

What is it about couples that are the closest people to each other? If there is no communication, then there is no understanding of what the other person is thinking or doing.

If there are no words to speak can not appreciate each other's feelings, feelings will be cold. Even if there is no topic of love two people can also speak some love words, a sentence I love you and so on words will make each other feel your love. The importance of having something to say is that it is the spiritual support of the two people together. Gッ! (๑-̀ㅂ-́)و✧

A woman who grasps the rule of mothering is the best communicator.

Previously, I had only stayed at the theoretical level of communication between husband and wife, thinking that it was just some empty axioms. Through the nearly two months of closed-door time together during this epidemic, I had a renewed understanding of communication between husband and wife.

Quality communication improves couples' relationships

Before my wife had something to say to me basically in a lecture tone, or nagging state. And every now and then, I interrupted her impatiently, a word of dislike, so instead of talking about what just happened, it was replaced by an argument: "What's your attitude", "What do you mean", "Don't want to live, right? "

Staying at home all day during this epidemic, I tried to be more tolerant and generous with her nagging, and every time she said something, I made sure to insist that she finish and let her express herself completely. After I finish, I then express my opinion, and is a matter of fact, no longer to blame her attitude and tone. Through a few such communication, my wife took the initiative to praise me for changing, and again with me to discuss things with a different attitude. And through this period of high-quality communication, we have solved a lot of previous difficult to reconcile the contradictions. The relationship between husband and wife before also more intimate.

Some people may say that communication does not work at all, then you may be like our two before, in the process of communication, only the first step, that is, ready to communicate, and then because of the tone of voice or mood interference and change the subject, and finally get upset, long-term so that you lose confidence in communication, think it can not solve any problem.

I have found through this experience that it is useful and important to go in with patience and keep a good mood and communicate.

Very important!!!

How do you know what the other person needs without communicating? What's missing? It's not like you're a worm in your stomach, so how can you give without saying anything?

What is communication?

As the name suggests, it is talking, a way to communicate, feedback what one wants to say or request, wish, convey, to another party. In order to achieve agreement of ideas and smooth flow of feelings.

Mortals do not learn from the high man, simple and common sense, couples have something not to hold in the heart, want to say what to say? Let each other understand, understand, rather than guessing every day. Both a waste of time, but also hurt feelings.

Why couples can't afford to be uncommunicative

On the one hand couples are made up of a man and a woman with thoughts and feelings! It's an advanced animal that needs empathy! On the other hand, men and women have different brain structures, different views on one thing, and conflicts arise, often in reverse.

At this point, if couples have conflicts are not to say, each other to see who hold long time. The final result is basically a quarrel to the end, it is ridiculous even if the quarrel will play on the subject of the quarrel, noisy to the end to a sentence, you have changed, do not love me, the heart is more depressed.

What is the problem? It is that couples will not say, embarrassed to say, lazy to say, mainly what they want not directly say, the opinion is even more not directly mention, are singing eighteen bends!

How do couples communicate?

1. Phone - outgoing people, straight plate, big grin this way is the most suitable. What to say what, boldly say, or hold in the heart to stay in the New Year? Save up to explode?
2. SMS - This is more convenient, anytime, anywhere, no restrictions. It is most suitable for men and women, friends and colleagues.
3. Letters - This is more old-fashioned, but of course it works well, and is more suitable for literate couples, for couples who have something to say that they can't express or are weak in expression.
4. Face to face - this is personally the most favored, face to face without hiding or choking, couples talk with an open heart. Especially in the evening before going to bed, night people's emotions are weak, communication is easy to reap good results.

Communication requires persistence

Now we understand that both couples and relatives or parents and friends need to communicate, talk and understand what each other needs.

Then the next step is to learn to persevere. Communication is not a one-time success, it requires a process. Today, the ditch is good, tomorrow, a mood does not ditch, after a few days and another cycle.

These are all taboos, and don't disbelieve me, people who are happily married are missing communication! Those who can communicate know better what it means to persevere!

Therefore, couples cannot afford to lack communication! Communication that can't, doesn't want to, is lazy, doesn't value, and doesn't know how to approach is futile.

Communicate from the heart, empathize with each other, understand what each other needs, leave no questions unanswered, and straighten things out in time for a happy marriage.

On the contrary, do not insist, think one out of the box, a moment in a good mood to say a few words, unhappy farts do not put a, drooping face, as if the other party owes five million. Don't pray for happiness!

Happy marriages are all the same, unfortunate marriages are all kinds of unfortunate. And the culprit of such misfortunes is lack of communication, and even more so, lack of persistent communication!

Communication between husband and wife is very important, our marriage relationship is like a sapling, if you want it to grow into a big tree, it needs sunshine and rain as well as we need to give our feelings. Problems need to be communicated in a timely manner!

Daily life in eating, drinking, and need to communicate, for example, the person who cooks to ask the other what to eat, when to eat, to eat or not to eat. If the couple in the absence of communication, cooking in accordance with their own wishes to do a good job of two people's share, the results of the meal is ready to see the other does not taste do not want to eat, or the other simply do not come back to eat, the meal is not a waste of time, and perhaps also because of the quarrel.

A said, "I've done it all, ready-made and you're not eating it!"

B said, "But there's none I want to eat!"

Another kind of A might question B: "Why didn't you tell me in advance if you weren't coming back to eat, so I had to work half a day!"

B is likely to say, "Couldn't you have called and asked me before you cooked? You're messing around with it yourself, and you're blaming me at the end of the day!"

And so began a spousal war triggered by a lack of communication!

Life is so many things really countless, if every couple to pay attention to communication between husband and wife, then life will be a lot less quarrels, husband and wife relationship will be more harmonious, the whole family's sense of happiness will also be enhanced! So communication is very important!

I hope this helps you!

The first guideline.

Nothing can be said without communication.

There is no reasoning. Understand for yourself.