I'm also a frail person, since I was a kid I've been in poor health and I've been on injections and medication a lot, it's a terrible feeling, the physical pain is never ending! But I am very confident, I do not go out to play, do not play cards do not travel, no bad habits. Nor do I spend money indiscriminately, my family is in good condition, and I am not self-righteous ~ I respect my husband, including my family, my husband as a son to look at, used to chase me a lot of people, but I have not stepped out of the step, although in the end not very pleasant planted in the hands of my husband ~ I resigned to my fate ~ I'm a more conservative person, I work hard to run my family, and currently have 2 children, the process of thrilling ending perfect ~ I do not know that my husband would I don't know if my husband will find me as sickly as you do, but I'd say I'm more than good enough for him! In terms of appearance, I look better than him, in terms of family conditions, my family is much better than his family! On the prosperous husband I think enough prosperous, dowry a few million, out of the house, car, cash, married him when he had nothing, and now a few cars, houses, a few sets, can be considered, my family's eldest child is also my parents brought up, my husband clothes are also my parents buy, he stayed in my house for several years refused to go back, career so that he had a few years less struggling to get him to become someone else in the mouth of "" total ", of course, he has become a good friend. total", of course, he personally is also very hard, progressive, or lazy man also help not move ...... I do not know why you would dislike your daughter-in-law frail and sickly in the time spent together I do not believe that you do not know ~ you instead of the idea of dislike, it is really chilling ah ~ ai ~

Now that we're married, we're a family! How can a family talk about two families? In the old days, the old man said, "If you follow the emperor as a wife, you'll turn your back on the pig killer. All become your wife, you have to be single-minded, do not mind, have a difficult to solve the difficult, have a disease to heal the disease, go all out to turn the difficult into peace! Even if the medicine pot, are temporary, today's medicine is quite advanced, general illness can be cured, you say this today, it seems not very benevolent! Out of conscience, out of humanity, think of ways to cure your wife's disease, others can still give you a big mother finger! We are a man, we have to be like a man, we have to speak like a man, and we have to act like a man!

I take pills every day, I told my husband after we met, I said you can choose to give up, I won't blame you, you can have a better choice. My husband was furious and told me, he said "Remember, unless I die, I will never leave you behind, and I won't allow you to say these words again". It made me feel very secure. My husband never said I, but often blame me for not taking medication on time, and then my husband to buy me medicine.

What should I do when I get married and realize that my wife has been weak and sickly since she was a child and is a drug addict?

Discovering and learning after marriage that his wife had been weak and sickly since childhood and needed regular medication could indeed have some impact on family life. However, it is alsoIt is not advisable to have second thoughts because of this, but to show more care and concern for your wife, simply because the two of you are lovers who love each other and she is your wife.

Even if you find out after marriage that your wife has been sick since childhood, it is not advisable to have a second heart.

The two of them have been married, have conjugal love, have conjugal grace, have begun a happy married life, have had a beautiful family, which is how many people thirst for life.

At this point, however, the wife was found to be weak and sickly, and it was also learned that she had been like this since she was a child, only that she might not have explained it to her husband when she got married. Now that the husband has discovered his wife's condition, should he blame her for hiding the truth about her condition?

I don't think she's necessarily trying to hide it, but she's looking forward to getting better slowly, so I hope the guy doesn't blame her.

After discovering that his wife is weak and sick, a man should care for his wife a little more and help her.

It is important to show the responsibility and commitment he should have as a man, including all aspects of the family, marriage and love. Whether his wife is sick since childhood, or found after marriage, a man should give his wife with appropriate care, care and love. The idea of abandoning each other because the other person has a disease is only for the extremely heartless.

I have a friend who knew that his wife was sickly before he got married, but he still chose to marry her, and after marriage he loved her very much and never disliked her. His wife is also the niece of one of his neighbors, who decided to marry her to him because of his character.

A good, responsible man will ride out the storm with his wife, not go his own way when the shit hits the fan.

A good man dares to undertake, will not abandon the wife who has suffered together (chaff wife), will also share the happiness with his wife. Now that his wife is weak and sick, whether a man still loves her as before or abandons him in a heartless manner is actually a test of a man's humanity.

Of course, it is inevitable that people will have selfish thoughts and mentality, and they will give up some principles of being a human being for the sake of personal interests, but one thing is undeniable:Absolutely selfish people have no place in society! A more perfect relationship between people is to give to each other and get from each other, to give and take.

To summarize, after the marriage, it was discovered that the wife had been weak and sickly since childhood and was a medicine man, at which point theIt takes a man to stand up bravely and take on his own responsibility for the future life of the family, including more care for the family, taking care of his wife, and so on.

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Concealment before marriage after marriage not long to find out, you have to think clearly about a lot of issues, she can not earn more than a few bucks, may be every now and then into the hospital, not to mention the cost of the trouble, or maybe every month to make a point to let her hospital, from a young age frail and sick is not a day or two can be cured, the surface of the month down, neighbors, friends, and colleagues, and even people around you day by day more than one day more than the day, a few years of marriage to buy a house in a few years and a new car! The first thing you need to do is to make sure that your children are well taken care of, but what about your family? If your that she works to earn enough money to her to see a doctor, you earn enough to support the family want to day prosperous you dream to go, if she can't even work, you earn two money to send her to the hospital to go, you can't turn around in this life, it's not your generation of the problem, but also about the next generation. Want to live a good day is not a person's time but two people's efforts, do not want to divorce with her either you are particularly good at earning money, or you live this life. Don't tell me that if you are sick and don't want it, you don't really love her. Women really love this man why she hides? Frail and sick is not a day or two things, bear to hide? Kicked this kind of woman no one will say that you are heartless and too realistic, if she married you, she is not comfortable to go to the hospital suddenly checked out cancer, even she did not know the case of cancer you don't want her to be sprayed to death, because she is also innocent, infirmity of her own knowledge of her family to spray to know that marrying you is not true love, but she and her family would like to find a person responsible for backing up the pot is just.

I have such a family around me, my classmates married soon after his wife suffered from leukemia, the cure spent all the parents' savings, but also owed a foreign debt, but in the end the result is very good, the disease is cured. Now the two of them live a very happy life, the first two years also want a child, very enviable. More admiration and respect, that kind of life and death do not give up and do not abandon the feelings, I think the world has nothing to separate them, that kind of life and death between the establishment of feelings like Mount Everest as noble and deep.

The same around there is also a husband in a car accident lost the ability to work, bedridden, the wife in caring for her husband at the same time also have to work to maintain living expenses, but in the end or because of the reality of the choice to give up, it is understandable, after all, a woman's ability is limited, unable to hold up such a home, people can not judge her right or wrong from the moral level alone, because who are not in it, can not feel it! She's in a difficult position.

So it's still up to you to decide what to do. I believe that it is difficult to give up or insist. Give up may be condemned by their own conscience and the surrounding people's comments and accusations, adhere to and have to face a lot of real problems can not be solved. But remember, a woman entrusted her life to a man, it must be out of trust and love, so do not do until absolutely necessary, do not do to make themselves and love their own regret sad things.

After marriage, found that his wife grew up weak and sickly, is a pot of medicine, this time you should ask your own heart, when the wife because of what looked at her, her those advantages compared to the weakness of the weak and sickly, which is more important?

All things considered, if your wife provides you with emotional value, sentimental value, social resources, etc., that far outweighs her infirmities and shortcomings, you should continue the marriage.

But if you and your wife's union was barely, married to comply with the concept of "age should be married", or parents, etc., the emotional foundation is not deep, since she is frail and sick, causing you to resent, you can take advantage of the lack of children, and quickly divorced.

It may be cruel and cold-blooded to say so, but the nature of marriage is a transaction mixed with a game. Into the marriage, but also in order to take each other's needs. This "need", may be feelings, may be material, may be resources, may be genetic ......Only if one's needs can be met, this is a good marriage for you, a marriage worth holding on to, otherwise, one should stop in time.

This question reminds me of an example that happened to me.

10 years ago, 28-year-old Liu was introduced, met Mr. Qi, the two talked about a few months of love, feel basically suitable, the age is not small, both parents on the marriage is set. But in fact, the two did not have much affection at that time, especially Mr. Qi, but also to the former can not forget.

But less than 2 months after the wedding, Sister Liu was in a car accident on the way back to her mother's home alone, the hit-and-run driver, Mr. Qi paid nearly 100,000 yuan for Sister Liu's medical bills, and finally saved Sister Liu's life, but Sister Liu was still left with a lifelong disability.

Afterwards, before Mr. Qi's family opened their mouths about the divorce, Sister Liu's mother's family took the initiative to file for divorce and took Sister Liu back.

Sister Liu just left, Mr. Qi immediately got back together with his ex. Originally, Mr. Qi's parents could not see the ex, but now there is nothing to pick, after all, Mr. Qi is a second marriage.

On her side, Sister Liu not only didn't blame Mr. Qi, but also appreciated Mr. Qi's generosity of 100,000 RMB to save Sister Liu in her time of crisis. After two or three years, Sister Liu gave Mr. Qi another 20,000 yuan, as a way to pay back part of her medical bills.

Whether people admit it or not, or whether they realize it or not, both parties to a marriage actually come into it with some leverage and purpose.When the chips are becoming unequal, the relationship needs to make adjustments to either end, have unequal status, or find a way to increase your leverage in time.

When new shortcomings are found in the wife or husband after marriage, either the feelings and values are considered to grind on or the marriage is ended in time. Whichever option you choose, do it with careful consideration.

After marriage found that his wife's health is not good, see the meaning of the title is, before marriage did not tell you clearly their own situation, I guess your wife may be deliberately not say, the reason is afraid of losing you, and secondly is that she thinks that her disease is not a big disease, are a few small to small to go to the disease, there is no need to talk to you just, I think so, first of all, I can not persuade you to be generous, the reason is that I am afraid of you feel that you are unfair to you, no matter whether she intends to or not. Unintentional or not, if you can not accept, then divorce, after all, this can not be blamed on you, because your wife did not tell you before marriage that you are "medicine pot", so who accepts not know or uncomfortable things, is also very difficult and painful, so there is no need to impose on you.

Secondly, I would like to say a few more words, now set up a family, to be honest are not easy, can not take the marriage as child's play, if your wife hid you at first, it is really because of like you, love you afraid of losing you, which led to her did not say, then over it, if it does not affect the normal life, there is no need to choose to divorce, because people eat grains and cereals, it is impossible to not have a disease, as long as it is not a serious disease, who have not eaten the medicine ah. If, say, your wife's current situation, seriously shadowed your current life, then you make your own final decision, after all, outsiders can not ask you too much.

Now that you have accepted it, you have to face the reality that you are more than her to marry her, then you have to take the responsibility! Accept everything about her! Can't accept it, then you give up! Don't hold her back and hold you back!

Congratulations than for becoming a gentleman. Heal your wife with all your heart. You think all day long about passing on the family name. Good feed, find a good doctor to treat him. He's cured. He'll never leave you. You've got a good daughter-in-law.