Is it acceptable for a girl with a master's degree to ask for a dowry of 400,000 for marriage?
Is it acceptable for a girl with a master's degree to ask for a dowry of 400,000 for marriage?
There's no money to pay! Let her go over there by herself!
The title has no logical relationship and kind of shames people.
Bride price is a local custom, is a traditional thing, both sides accept privately is just. The problem is that if you take the bride price, and regret, to withdraw, the bride price how to return the law, into a trouble, often caused by disputes. If there is no bride price, then now the withdrawal of marriage is much simpler.
Our country advocates the autonomy of marriage and the freedom of marriage, and marriage is the business of the parties concerned, and parents may not interfere. The bride price is generally mentioned by the parents, young people on both sides rarely mentioned directly, and therefore the bride price is suspected of parental interference and arranged. Some places will appear such a spectacle, a table is two young people casual talk about love, the other table both parents in nervous talk about the bride price, bargaining, and talk about business is no different!
Bride price is something that is not advocated in our country and is not brought to the table. I am surprised and curious that young people have such a notion. If a master's degree is this price, what is the price of a doctorate? A female master's degree is worth something, but a male master's degree is not? In our country, men and women are equal. Where did you get this idea from!
What does earning $4,000 a month have to do with asking for a dowry? You mean more, or less? What are you talking about, a master's degree? Not even a middle schooler!
Why is there a bride price? Because a long time ago there were many sisters and brothers, if you don't want it when you get married, there won't be a store after this village, and in case all the other siblings get married and ask for it, in the end, the parents will have to spread the family's famine evenly over the children's heads, and thus you will lose money if you don't want it at that time.
Now is different, only one or two children, this thing is basically much smaller, can be ignored. Consequently, the current young people who still consider the bride price, but to be wide-eyed, choose a good man, choose the heart, go to grab ah, do you understand? You wait for the bride price of effort, those who have a lot of heart of the girl has long been the first, are upside down, take the initiative to give the boy money. They're smart. No matter who gives it to whom now, it's all hers in the end! She manages the family's books, she's much smarter than you. You just dry up and go to the leftover girl bar.
To bride price has another layer of meaning, some families have a son and a daughter, the economy is quite difficult, want to get some money from the daughter, to subsidize the son, after all, the son is their own family, men and women are different! If this is the case, the girl is still stupid to ask for it? Don't want a penny! Not to be a devil in helping her brother! Remember, the in-laws' home is the place of residence, and the mother's home is the place of temporary residence.
Similarly, some men's families make effective use of this opportunity by treating the situation in their own families as if their sons were dumber, and deliberately giving the women's families more money to get a good girl for their own families.
There is another situation, the surface is not a bride price, but the essence is. In the 1950s, 60s and 70s of the last century, due to social reasons, there is a category of people belonging to the object of rehabilitation, that is, the rich, the anti-villainous and the bad right, the son of these families marriage became a problem, the general family will never run to their family! So they saved themselves and built a group, the sons and daughters of the group families held each other's hands and married each other to fatten up their families, most of the girls in them were reluctant and lost the chance of turning around and marrying the poor peasants' families.
Money in the world is never asked for, it is earned. If you do well, if you do good work, you get money, and if you don't want it, you get it. If you don't do anything and you just want it, you don't get it!
That's why men from normal families don't accept it even if they have money! Look around, there are plenty of good girls, pick those who don't want a bride price!
It costs more than $400,000 to get a master's degree! If you have the means, you can spend a million dollars.
The problem is that once you make an offer for money, the nature changes. Even if only 10,000 is offered, it becomes a business.
Capability permits, but not enough capability is denied
I don't see much.
This is a value starting point, there are four hundred thousand dowry, the family poor can not afford to raise, after the marriage to see the bottom and not speak ...... read more is also powerless to achieve a good and beautiful woman!
I would propose a blind date back to when I graduated from high school!
At that time, she was less educated, I think the bride price will be lower, people are still in their youth, how good!
There is no correspondence between the bride price and education, please consider the suitability of the bride price from other aspects!
First of all, the bride price has nothing to do with education. Secondly, what is your family's condition? Can you get it out easily?
The object is a girl with a master's degree, can you accept 400,000 dollars for marriage,? Why? My personal opinion and the netizens have a different treatment. First of all, it should be 400,000 is to have her reasons, the need for girls' vision must look farther, there is a standard bottom line of the forward-thinking guide, if the men like this girl is also your happy life, happy life level. I found a woman who is a master's degree student, but also the Institute's stretches of mission documents, recognized by the state with special awards. Worthy of the womanhood. You guys talk about it. The network is not good.
It's too expensive! Let's see if we can get a discount! If not, I'll find a cheaper one.
Expensive children are not necessarily good. Look at Cao Dewang's wife, she is said to be uneducated, but she is a good husband.
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