If it was my father, my brother and I would have hospitalized my father and the mistress! My mom followed him hard all his life, actually betrayed her, betrayed the family, this is what we can not tolerate, even if it is the biological father, this kind of immoral behavior I can not be by him, that woman, we will not sympathize, have the face to be a third party should have the courage to bear the consequences, anyway, will not be good, if they want to divorce, really can not go on, we will also support, anyway, my brother and I have become a family, my mother should enjoy the blessings! Instead of hurting herself for the sake of two disgraced goods! Can return to the family, depending on his performance, but also respect my mom's wishes, who is the first time to be a person, it is not necessary to be kind to everyone! Junior's fate is expected to be disastrous, but not to kill her, for a slag himself in jail is not worth it!

I remain neutral. If you are not a party to a marriage, you have no right to evaluate it and no right to decide. Even if our mothers work very hard to bring us up or pay a lot of effort for the family, but we are heartbroken at the same time instead of making a fuss, which will make our mothers even more sad and will only add to their pain!

When my father was found by my mother with the son of his mistress, I resolutely persuaded my mother to divorce, telling my mother, "Divorce, I'll take care of your mother in the future." Marriage and feelings can not be undone in the end, as a junior can do is to accompany the mother out of the sadness, telling her that even if there is no father, the children will be with you to the end, so that she feels secure, which is the best way to heal the sadness. The best way to heal the sadness is to make her feel secure.

Now my mom takes my daughter out on vacation.

I don't care about my parents' relationship. Just don't fight in front of me. I look upset. I admit, I'm a very realistic person, imagine: if my dad has a mistress outside, all kinds of buy buy buy, and all this money, should belong to me, in case the mistress give my dad a child, then it will directly affect my property inheritance. Based on these, I swear, I will not let go of the little three. Even if my dad is so poor that he only has two broken bowls, it's still mine and I will never let an outsider take it away!

Must answer! That's what happened to me, my dad's junior is my age, I've been working for over ten years out of college and I'm now thirty-five plus. Junior hooked up during my high school years. I was vaguely aware of it, and when I alerted my mom my mom thought my dad was playing along so she didn't take it seriously. Later, more than ten years later, my mom found out is fixed a person very angry, but I do not know in the field. My mom was a good housewife who worked hard and treated my grandmother well! My mother had four sons but the other three daughters-in-law didn't get along with her because she was hard to get along with. But my mom was never angry with my grandmother. Above is the background, when I learned that my dad was actually cheating on me I scolded my dad and criticized my milk! (My grandfather is no longer with us, and I don't think my mother can get away with it if my son doesn't teach my father, and my father isn't there!) My mom supported my dad's work for decades, never let my dad get his hands on the housework, and my dad never took care of his two kids (my brother and I)! Even my mom often transferred to the night shift so that she could cook for us during the day. But my dad took the opportunity to go to see his mistress, leaving my brother alone at home. My brother later said he was afraid to stay home alone at night (I study at night and my brother is in elementary school). Now my dad can't stay away from the third and is still together. I scolded my dad and then scolded my milk! My milk got mad and had to leave the house, I didn't care, and I drew a line in the sand with my dad, I never called him dad again! (Of course my brother didn't stop calling him that, but sided with my mom too)

I'm not at liberty to meddle in the affairs of elders. If father wants love and a woman, yes, please divorce and get a clean bill of health. When you are single, you can pursue it again with honor. You have the right to pursue happiness, and mom has the right to ask for compensation.

No matter what the reason,👨🏻‍💼 father cheated on his father in marriage to keep a mistress outside 💃🏻, it is against public order and morality, and deserves to be spurned 💩 and condemned by the whole society.

Just because the wrongdoer is their father, the children should not lose their conscience, attitude and position as human beings. At this time the children should stand by the side of the hurt mother to comfort her and give her moral support 💪🏻 and help 🤝.

If one is a child 👨⛰️👩🌊 to be neutral or to side with the father for the sake of being able to get money 💵 and material 🏠help from his hands, one is simply supporting and cheering for people who have no morals. How sad that should be 😩!

How desperate 💔 this mother 🤦🏻‍♀️ who has worked so hard to raise her child with milk 🤱🏻 and whose youth has passed away at this moment should be! Such children are simply a hundred times more shameless than this father 🤧!

I am on my mother's side. A family needs love, but also responsibility and accountability. If the father really has no feelings for the mother, then arrange the subsequent life of the mother and the children to pursue their own happiness. Instead of cheating first to cause harm to the family. Marriage is a first-come-first-served, a woman for the man to give birth to children, hard work to run the household, even if there is no love there should be affection and kindness. It is not easy to build a family, to destroy it is a matter of a moment, hope that we all cherish the people around us, cherish the hard-won happiness.

It's the father's fault no matter what. If the couple is not in love with each other, they can get a divorce so that they can pursue their next love in name only. As children, they have no right to interfere.

If a marriage is going on and cheating is going on, it is up to the children to step in and protect their mother. Defend your family.

Do as the father cheated on his father in marriage, it is the old man does not comply with, if the persuasion is still obsessive, then advise the mother to find good evidence to sue for divorce. In this case, the father was wrong in the first place, children should not hesitate to stand on the side of the mother.

The sensible thing to do would be to have a good conversation with your dad and then see what the next step is! But I've been in the same situation as you, I couldn't be rational anyway and fought with my dad straight away. I know how much my mom has given, she hasn't wronged her family, she's even been a good wife. So I didn't hold back. Now back to the family.

Of course on the side of the mother; who has not been young and beautiful? To the older become old and yellow this is a natural phenomenon, of course, can not compare to the young and beautiful mistress. If the father dares to bring the mistress home; this is a violation of the children's bottom line, the mother's bottom line, to let her walk in lying down to go out.

If you insist on going with the mistress, then in front of all the relatives. We'll be out of paternity and have no obligation to provide for your children.