When you get married, it is an important responsibility of men to provide for the family and they become the backbone of the family. But it is not the case that raising a family is a man's business and a woman has no responsibility.

It is now a new era, and it is no longer the old days when men were in charge of the outside world and women were in charge of the inside world. Raising a family is not only a man's business, but a woman's responsibility as well; and doing household chores is not a woman's business, but a man's responsibility as well.

I believe that in the new era, a good family should be one in which both men and women fulfill their responsibilities.

Husband and Wife Joint Venture

Husbands and wives support each other, support each other's work, advise each other, and work together to solve difficulties and problems. They can also start a business together, plan the business program together, open up the business path together, go through thick and thin together, share the pain, experience the risk together, overcome the difficulties together, and share the joy and happiness of success together.

Co-parenting

Both spouses raise their children together, provide an excellent environment for their children to grow up and learn and educate, accompany their children as they grow up, raise them to be successful, and be parents who are worthy of society and their children.

Joint support for the elderly

To jointly support both parents, to provide parents with better living and material conditions so that they can enjoy their old age in peace, to show more care and companionship to parents, to make sure that you support me in my childhood and I support you in my old age, and to make parents' old age comfortable and contented.

Supporting the family together

Both husband and wife work together to run a good family, earn money to support the family, and save money to buy a car and a house together. Husband and wife do not distinguish between you and me, all family affairs both parties have the responsibility, both have the obligation to do it well.

In short, married couples are like the two ends of a burden, to maintain a balance, share everything, the lack of which end, the burden will not exist. Raising a family is not only a man's responsibility, but also a woman's responsibility; doing housework is not only a woman's responsibility, but also a man's responsibility. Since they are married, both husband and wife should lift up the case and share the burden of the family.

Absolutely. China's 5,000 years of cultural inheritance of the content of the female is to raise the children, men are the backbone of the family. Times have changed and there are cases of strong women and with that. God nature's definition of mankind can never be changed.

Not recognized.

In the traditional norms, the concept of "men taking care of the outside world and women taking care of the inside world" is very popular, and taking care of the elderly, watching the children, and dealing with household chores at home have become women's natural duties, and women are firmly bound to household chores, as if "raising a family is a man's job". With the progress of society and the development of the times, women have long held up half of the sky, and women are active in all walks of life, and the contribution they make is no less than that of men. Therefore, it is no longer necessary to say "it is the man's job to provide for the family"; both spouses should take responsibility for the family.

I think raising a family is a two-way street.

Throughout the ages China has been passed down: women are as beautiful as flowers, the man earns money to support the family this sentence, today it seems, is not the truth, in order to live in the family happy, harmonious, warm, affluent, we need to husband and wife to work together to complete.

Equality between men and women, mutual benefit, whether in the workplace or society, the family, men and women of equal status, everyone has the obligation and right to be responsible for the family. Both husband and wife have a job in the body, then it is necessary to adjust the time, both the work is done well, but also to the small family governance, management, no matter who, can not be a woman in the house, the man outside, do not have to weigh, even if the man in the kitchen is not a lowly thing, it will let a man have a sense of accomplishment.

Household chores for a family is not big or small, often sometimes it is because of household chores husband and wife often conflict, however, the fact that, not to say that the family's chores are ladies, men are also obliged to complete, who have time at home who took the initiative to do housework, do not get entangled in who is right and who is wrong, can take the initiative to take up household chores, the long term past to adhere to the husband and wife will be integrated into a whole! The two of them will be able to integrate as a whole, no complaints, no disputes, family harmony and warmth.

Today's society, fierce competition, whether you are engaged in a fixed job or self-employment, we must use the strength to prove that the reform and opening up of the market economy, the rise of the Internet, has brought a lot of pressure, in order to survive, in order to have a stable income for the family, the two couples will have to play their own strengths and specialties, each do their best to actively participate in the joint efforts to work together, and work together to improve their own small home business! Good, to ensure that not worry about food and clothing, than the top than the bottom, it is enough!

Life can not compare, can not be envied, you have your way of life, I have my way of living, you have three meals a day, I do not lack a meal, peace and quiet, family health is the greatest happiness in life!

A family depends on the man to support the family, are the past, today's family is no longer the traditional mode of living, both husband and wife to work together to earn money to support the family is a fashionable way of life, a family should be husband and wife work hard together to strive to have a rich life.

Harmony between husband and wife working together.

Good Future Home and Happiness.

Who do we rely on to rule the family?

Husband and wife for two.

Who will support the family and how will the work be divided.

Completed by both spouses!

Text/Yang Ying

Raising a family is a man's job, I recognize that. However, in today's society, where men and women are equal, it is undeniable that women are also indispensable stalwarts in raising a family.

As a big man on top of the world, you should be the one who remembers to go forward in raising a family, to show the courage, physical strength, guts and talents that a man should have, to take on more and to give more.

A man's broad chest and sturdy shoulders are the warmest dependence and shelter for a woman.

Although it is said that today's society, equality between men and women, in the mastery of knowledge and skills, the difference between men and women and the difference is getting smaller and smaller, the gap is also gradually narrowing, men can do the work, change the woman can do the same, and even sometimes, the same job, the woman because of the inherent advantages of smart and careful, but can do better than the man.

However, back to a family to discuss equality between men and women, a man to support the family or a woman to support the family, the author feels that equality between men and women is a must, this is undeniable, and can not be changed. However, back to the family of men and women, their identity has become a husband and wife. Wife in a family, is the need to get the husband's love and care. Wife's strength is limited, the wife's hands can never be compared with the husband's thick palms. It is normal for a wife not to be able to open the cap of a bottle, and her husband helps her to open it gently. In the family, the husband is the pillar, is the head of the family, is the wife's tree, is the wife and children rely on and shelter.

As a big man, the husband should be brave to pick up the beam, take up the burden of supporting the family to. In order to the orderly operation of family life, happiness, sweat, hard work, positive, hard work, at all costs. Although it is said that the process of fighting is very bitter, very tired, but the heart sweet ah! In order to their own small family, in order to wife and children can live a good life, the family man in the heart feel very worthwhile. In fact, this is precisely the breadwinner man often feel proud and proud of the source, full of positive energy.

Maybe someone will ask, the man to support the family, women can not contribute to the family? Of course, in modern society, men and women are equal, and women are not idle. Women are also in the best of their ability to support the family and busy, in the work, do contribute. Although, some men, do not want their wives out of the house to work, not accustomed to their own women running around hard. In the man's view, he alone hard enough, and then bitter and tired of their own men, all right. Reluctant to a family, husband and wife are hard to suffer.

However, women who go out of the house really do hold up "half the sky." Let's say in the office, the wife from the wife's identity replaced by the company staff, to restore the identity of its women, because of a planning book scratching their heads, thinking hard when she had to find ways to complete it, how much effort also have to be their own planning book to the whole out, do perfect. Because, at this time, she is just an employee, a woman, not anyone's wife, she understands that everything has to be solved and accomplished by herself.

Women understand very well, in order to support the family, the husband has been very attentive, they also have to make more efforts to build their own love nest, and jointly run the home.

Home is a place of love and devotion. Raising a family is not something that is simply relegated to anyone. Although it is said that raising a family is a man's job, it is not so absolute. Who to support the family, who should support the family, many times, and not so divided very clear, equality between men and women in today's society, husband and wife who earn more, who earns less, who contributes to the family, who contributes to the family less, who do housework more or less, who is the main internal and who is the main external, who should listen to who, who should let who, who should be afraid of who...... All these little trivial things are worthless in a loving, harmonious family, in front of sweet, sacred love! Who to love, who to love, who to love!

August 5, 2020 in Suzhou

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Husband and wife are a community and both have the obligation to provide for their family.

In fact, a husband and wife are the two legs of a human being, supporting a home together. When either leg does not cooperate, it is impossible to move forward, and when one of them takes a big step, the other must follow closely in order to move towards success.

Jitterbug once had such a couple, young two beautiful and dashing, traveling around the world, it seems to be very loving, but then the husband's cerebral thrombosis, half of the body can not be moved, beautiful woman took the man everywhere for treatment, and now can walk, the man crooked mouth, is no longer the previous handsome man, but the woman is brave enough to take on the burden, in order to take care of her husband, the clothing store to their own downstairs, no matter where they go to take their husbands, so loving couples! Is a community, when you get married, the covenant must be concluded, no matter what the other side of the situation should be adhered to, so all must be for your common home to struggle, efforts!

Not recognized! What an age! Men and women are equal! There's nothing to discuss! Men and women are the same. Women can hold up half the sky!

In today's society, women are no less capable than men, and often, due to their tenacity and persistence, may be better able to take on the responsibility of raising a family.

"It's a man's job to raise a family" I recognize that statement.

Why?

Some people will surely say, "What era is it now that you still say such things? Now that men and women are equal, we women can do what you men can do. And there are not a few women who earn money to support their families. You are discriminating against women!

That's really not true. I respect and adore women, and women are definitely half the sky. I also promote gender equality, but"There are differences between men and women."The woman's role is more conducive to family harmony than that of the man's. Please listen to me in detail.

1. Physiological differences.

There is still a big difference between men and women physiologically. Rigid and strong, female soft is the most basic difference. Men who evade responsibility and say that there is no difference between men and women, you give birth to a child to show me. So the responsibility of breaking into society and making money to support the family should be given to men.

2. There is a difference in the nature of the heart.

Gentleness, kindness and delicacy are synonymous with women. The world is a dangerous place, and women are vulnerable in the workplace. A woman's strength is to manage and run a good family. That's why raising a family is mainly a man's business.

3. The division of labor is different.

No one can exhaust all skills. There is a social division of labor in society, and there should be a family division of labor in the family. Based on the above two points, the man is responsible for making money to support the family, and the woman is responsible for "looking beautiful" may be the best choice.

In-depth analysis.

1. It has been reported that Japanese women basically become full-time wives after marriage, with the men working outside without worries and the women running the family in a well-organized, warm and sweet manner. Why is this not a good model?

The Chinese are concerned with nature, the unity of heaven and man, men hunting and women making fire and cooking. Maybe Japan is more deeply influenced by traditional Chinese culture.

2. Today's society is characterized by ideological diversity and the prevalence of feminism. The "housewife" is not an isolated phenomenon. In fact, who is in charge of the household and who is not is just a difference in the division of labor in the household, and there is no difference between high and low.

A woman can work outside and make money to support her family, but when she comes home she must become a woman and bring wifehood and motherhood back to the family.

3. Saying that it is a man's job to support his family does not mean that he has to follow the example of Japan, where women can work and, to a certain extent, need to work. But work should not be primarily about how much money you make; the family should remain the center of gravity.

Work is to be exposed to society, not to be out of touch with the times, to have your own girlfriends and friends, to have your own circle. Make life more colorful. Financial independence is often also a guarantee of personality independence.

To sum up, I personally agree with the statement that "it is a man's job to provide for his family". This is determined by the laws of nature and society. Of course, nothing is absolute, how the family division of labor is entirely up to the two sides to decide, family harmony and happiness is the ultimate goal. What do you think?

In reality, how many men are able to provide for their families?