Thank you for your invitation. Getting married, starting a family, having children is your own business, and you must rely on your own hard work to realize your mission in life. Parents can bring up their children, but they can't take care of them, they can't take care of everything. Therefore, you can rely on your parents, but not on them.

This problem is too real now, I had the L problem when I started my family more than 10 years ago, only married not born ......

If we don't get married, all this trouble will be over.

Thank you! Where's the wife after the baby? Nothing? Then don't have kids! Because you bring up your own children! If the wife is a disabled person who can't bring up the child, or can't bring up the child, and both parents can't bring it up for you, then the only option is to not have the child!

Look at the money shopping, if you have more money, spend more, if you have less, spend less. We didn't have a wedding much less a marital home, and we made it through, you still have 5000 dollars a month, by the time the kids are in kindergarten, both of you will be able to work, don't think of life as so horrible. Born and raised.

No way. China isn't that far ahead of its time. You're from the city. Just say the word. The child will take the father-in-law's name. You don't have to worry about the rest.

Couldn't you just not have the kids yet? Can't we work together?

If it is a genuine desire to start a family, then don't hesitate. It's not easy to find a real relationship. Starting a family with nothing and a relatively stable marriage later on. As for only one person being able to work, don't see why. Now there are many ways to make money, such as writing articles on headlines and making small videos. Don't want to do self media, there are many other ways to make money, not necessarily find a unit and receive a monthly salary is to work to earn money. In this age of flexibility, any possibility is there. Earning a little is better than not earning at all. Put in the effort and it will pay off. I wish you all the happiness in the world.

There is no savior in this world, everything depends on your own efforts, unite, by tomorrow, Intrinsic Xiong Nai Er must be realized, no one owes anyone, whether you are a pure man, yes! Stand up and walk towards the end that belongs to you!

Have children later in life after you get married and build up a certain base, those who work usually have maternity insurance and 5 months or more of maternity leave, you can hire someone to take care of them for a short period of time after the maternity leave is up, and the children will grow up quickly.

Don't compare, live your life in your own way, foreign women don't sit on the moon no one to take care of it also still give birth to a child, my wife gave birth to a child no one to take care of it, no one to help, the child is also big, as long as the two work together, don't complain, perseverance and tenacity, will definitely find infinite joy in the bitter!