I have three solutions for you.

I. Put yourself in your father's shoes. Put yourself in your father's shoes. Think of your father's sadness at the loss of his wife. Loneliness. If you were in this situation. Would you want to live like this? Would you want to be free of this pain. The only way out of this endless sea of misery is to remarry. The only way out is to remarry. To dull the memory of the deceased. The sorrow of the dead. To restore hope in your life.

Two. Take a moment and think. Do you love your father? Do you want him to be miserable or happy. Why did you see him suffer instead of letting him find happiness? Do you want your father to die or live a long and healthy life? A study by Brigham Young University concluded that loneliness is bad for you. Single people live shorter lives. There are also scientific studies. Lonely people who have lost their partners are at increased risk of disease and death. Researchers call this the 'widowhood effect.' And you should know this. If your father cheated on your mother while she was alive. It's a betrayal of your mother. Your mother has been dead for two years. Your father remarried. How can that be a betrayal of your mother? You miss your mother. Do you realize that the best way to remember your mother is to take care of your father.

Three. Look around at the children who honor their parents. What is their attitude towards remarriage. Listen to why they support the idea of remarriage. What they do will inspire you.

I hope this insight opens your mind.

Understand that you miss your mother and love your father. You must know that the love of an old partner and the love of a child are not the same. It is often said that "halfway husband and wife in old age", father has the blessing of enjoying also relieved you of a lot of burdens is not a good thing? More understanding. You shouldn't resist, you should support!

Filial piety is the first filial piety, the second is obedience, parents are old, to put it bluntly, their lives are counting down, fine count how long you can accompany them? In addition to the time you work and sleep, there are really not a few days, so that he is happy, or lonely old age, loneliness will make the old man depressed, our children can accompany the time is really very little, every day is busy busy busy, this is a certainty! I think you know all this. As for you feel sorry for your mother this feeling is also a normal reaction, after all, the loss of your mother is very painful, the father has a new love, your heart can not accept is also right, but you should stand in the father's point of view to consider, everyone has an old day, the mother's departure has been irreparable, filial piety and good father is your top priority now, time will slowly dilute all the time, pull yourself together, and support the father it!

Long heart, don't know how hungry, mom has been gone for two years, less for the husband and wife old for companion, that frustration is often people can not explain, the father is also a man, some things when the children are irreplaceable, the new era of the new phenomenon, as the younger generation should encourage the old father to find their own happiness, the father is no longer in the young, the heart also wants to have a place to stay, when the children must be understood, but we must tell the old father of the complexity of today's society, everything should be well thought out and then act, otherwise it is easy to lose. Complexity, everything should be considered carefully before acting, otherwise it is easy to lose, the father is happy, difficult to you are not happy, right? Xing young people flirting, and hugging and hugging, the elderly at home can not rely on ah, change your mindset, I wish your dad a lover to be married to it.

Don't resist, the happiness of the elderly is the most important thing. It's important for the elderly to be happy. It's also reassuring to have someone to take care of them.

When you have a family, you will be able to understand, when you are busy with work and can not take care of the elderly, who will accompany him to talk, who will warm up, who can accompany him to walk through life, people are animals in groups, the most afraid of loneliness, I hope you can understand!

The mother has died, the father remarried, the children should support the father. In general, when the old one of the two suddenly died, to the other side of the blow is very big, some people or a moment of thought, long immersed in pain, will cause damage to his physical and mental health, but also induced a variety of diseases, and even life-threatening, such an example is not uncommon.

At such times, children are most in need of guidance and the warmth of the family, giving him/her care in many aspects, especially psychological comfort. Children should take the initiative to talk and communicate with the elderly to dispel loneliness and make them happy and cheerful.

Elderly people's character and thinking is diverse, if the character of cheerful people easy to communicate with their children, some character withdrawn, introverted, narrow-minded people that is how much aggrieved by the heart of the pain, are silently hidden in the heart, buried in the depths of the memory, do not want to confide in others, their children are also the same, these old people, if the heart of the long-term repression will lead to the production of a variety of syndromes, such as dullness, talking to themselves, and in the long run They may suffer from cerebral infarction, stroke and other diseases.

Now that your mother has passed away two years ago, it seems that your father is still a relatively strong and calm person, but it can not be said that the pain and suffering in his heart is less than that of other people who have lost their loved ones, you should communicate with him more, to understand, so that he will be stronger, and his life should be colorful, so that he will live a long and healthy life and spend his twilight years in peace.

As for his idea of remarriage, it means that his health and all aspects are good, if in the twilight of his life, he marries a skillful and kind woman of the same age as his partner, it will not only be your father's personal happiness, but also the children's joy, why not actively support, and make this a good match?

From life is to be, your father once remarried, he himself has a life to rely on, you can eliminate the old man's food, clothing, housing and transportation in the worries and concerns, but also to avoid you because of the work of busy worry about the trouble, as long as you have a father's presence in your heart, every Sunday holiday to visit, your father and your new aunt is bound to be full of smiles, the sun shines brightly.

You quickly dismiss any other thoughts in your mind and go and organize your father's marriage!

Your feelings are understandable.

However, children do not spend nearly as much time with their parents as their own elderly companions do, much less as attentive. There are times when a child's love for his or her parents is no substitute for the love and affection between old companions. So, please understand the father's request. A father finding an old companion will also save his children a lot of heartache, you should understand this, right?

What is the best filial piety? Obedience. Obedience to the reasonable requests of the elderly is the best filial piety! Letting the elderly be happy, hopeful about life, and live a few more years in good health is the greatest filial piety.

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Mom passed away, Dad should support in finding a companion, you also have the benefit of you have to work, can not be every day in the side of Dad, Dad has a companion, will not be lonely and lonely, there are uncomfortable times, but also have a companion to take care of, to save you how much trouble, is not very good!

The problem is that your dad is only two years old. If he doesn't find a good one, he'll jeopardize your life as well as his. Nowadays, not many women care about your dad and you in a second marriage. They only care about his house and money. Once there is a conflict, they will fight and divorce, and the family will be gone. She only cares about her own children. Think about it. Tell dad to wait for another year. Don't look for one so soon. He can't let go of his feelings for his wife and mom. I'm sure it's hard for your dad to hold on to his feelings. It's understandable, but more importantly, it's about you and the family.