I didn't realize how hard it is to get a wife in China. He's the boss in his wife's sister's family. He's in charge of everything. He also has to help him with the outer shell clamping tube. He really doesn't want to do anything. He just wants to go to bed.

I don't agree that there are many bachelors in China is that there are more men than women, you don't go to see, many boys talk about a few girlfriends. The only thing you can say is that you didn't put any effort into your relationship.

Some people say that now girls are materialistic, all gold worship, that is you do not understand the girls, the real world is still true love. You don't want to wait until the girls are mixed into the old driver in the society to talk about feelings with others, then they don't talk about money with you what else to talk about. Boys, in their twenties, to dress up their own handsome some, looking for those twenty-something years old girls, a good bit of effort, can certainly find true love. Girls at this age still value relationships, not so much when they're a little older. So pick the right target and hold on to it.

Love should be methodical, stalking, that is the eternal and unchanging secret throughout the ages, do not be afraid of losing face, playing bachelor is even more disgraceful. Don't be afraid of rejection, reject more, can't bear to reject. To believe that, as long as the work is deep, iron rod sharpened into a needle. The stone will also be hot.

Pick the right time, use the right method, and it's definitely possible.

The main thing is that people overly value other people's money caused by the increase in the distance between the wealth, social and the theory of misleading, so that more people all to the amount of money as the main value, this wrong value, so that more high-priced girls keep appearing, which leads to the whole society people's ideological ambiguity. At the same time, it is also due to the fact that in some places, the idea of raising a son is the only way to give up, thus resulting in an imbalance in the ratio of men to women.

Because now the cost of marriage is relatively high, the woman's choice of spouse standard is also relatively high, basically have a house has a car and deposit have become standard, if you do not have then you are the first to be discharged from the ranks of the selection. Rural and is a relatively low source of income in a single area, coupled with the ratio of men to women is more men than women, the final result of the family conditions a little worse to find a daughter-in-law is more difficult, which is a lot of rural phenomenon is more common. So don't just sit back and wait for death, or to first think about how to get rich more money, first let their own home affluent, the phoenix itself will come.

The first reason: 1. young people work under great pressure. 25-29 years old is the climbing period of most young people's career, there is no time to think about love, and most of the young people in big cities are reading and studying on weekends to prepare for exams, so there is no time for dating.

2. Can not afford to buy a house. A while ago is a popular saying "between you and the mother-in-law is a suite of distance", many lovers in the marriage talk, may be because of the problem of the house and broke up. Now there are many young people who do not have a house, choose to stay single life, economic pressure is small.

3. Openness of mindset. Nowadays, young people do not have the traditional concept of getting married and having children, mostly focusing on their own quality of life, hoping to have more time to enjoy their own lives.

How can I get out of love soon? It's easy to get out of a relationship, but it's hard to find a love that you like and depend on each other.

1. Expanding the social circle

2. Matchmaking

3. Improve yourself

Why are there so many bachelors?

There are several reasons for this.

1:Son preference

This is a legacy of history, where people of earlier generations had a strong patriarchal mindset, which affected the generations that followed. Nowadays, this kind of thinking is basically absent, so in a few more decades, the situation will be much better.

2: Unaffordable bride price

In recent years, because of the high bride price caused by the high amount of people who should have entered the hall of happiness in front of the door of the temple to break up the news is endless. For the current stage, a car and a house is the most obvious symbol of the strength of the man, plus a huge bride price for marriage. It is too late to make money, which have time to fall in love and get married ah?

get married soon

This is easy. Just get a girlfriend.

How do you find a girlfriend?

Be positive and work hard. Even if the salary is not high, try to do well. The future is earned by your own efforts, and only with a future can you have a future, and only with a future can you promise others a future.

Communicate more with the outside world, don't live in your own world. Because your girlfriend is in the outside world and it's up to you to find her.

The patriarchal mentality of many old people is still very serious, so the sex ratio is out of proportion. I just want to ask those families who are dead set on having a boy: does your family have a throne to inherit?

It's true that there are many bachelors in China, why?

I. Male and female population (sex ratio)

As we all know, China, as the world's most populous country and a world power, has a serious imbalance in the gender ratio between men and women!

According to the ratio of infant births in the world, it remains at female ~ 100 male 100 ~ 107, that is, for every 100 female babies born, there are 100 ~ 107 male babies! However, the proportion of male babies who die is slightly higher than that of female babies, so that by the time they reach marriageable age, the world's gender comparison between men and women is basically equal!

China's National Bureau of Statistics announced in 2017 that the gender of all Chinese nationals was Male:711.37 million Female 678.71 million

The ratio of men to women is 104.81

32.66 million more men than women

So from this data you can see that the 30 million or so men are not able to match women!

II. Socio-economic

Room rates:

Housing prices are too high, and they have become "house slaves".

Causes chronic stress in life and affects normal consumption

The modern minimum requirement for marriage is at least a house.

Without a house of their own, most women feel unsettled and insecure.

Many economically backward areas are not able to meet the

That's one reason why there are more and more bachelors in the countryside.

Furthermore, modern women are generally realistic, and having a car and a house is basic!

Personal income.

There is a popular saying on the Internet:A woman can have no car, no house, no ability, but not a man!

The majority of single people come from the lower social strata and their personal income is very unobjective

Along with rapid socio-economic growth, daily consumption has become unusually high

That's why there are many people who can't get married and have children because of financial problems.

III. Women themselves

Reality Check.

There is a great sense of reality among modern women themselves, and women's daily spending is far higher than that of men.

Shopping for clothes, bags, rouge, etc.

Nowadays, there are a lot of taobao on the Internet, and you can't help but buy and buy and buy.

For high output consumption, most men cannot afford it

It becomes the first obstacle for men to pursue women!

FACES.

A large portion of women care about male face value

Modern women, in particular, are generally star-crossed, have height requirements, facial features and so on! Requirements for men.

From the three virtues of the ancient world to the modern world of being picky.