Divorced, is it easy to find a quality or suitable second marriage? Or is it tough for a single father/mother not married with one child to choose again?
Divorced, is it easy to find a quality or suitable second marriage? Or is it tough for a single father/mother not married with one child to choose again?
Second marriages in general have few examples of being very happy and right for each other, and after a long time, they often have to make do with what they have together, because they don't have the guts to say no to marriage again.
My wife and I were the exception though, and just happened to meet when the other guy was looking for us with a lantern.
In today's society, the number of divorced people is really more and more, a lot of people divorced because when they got married in too much haste did not think about it, only to find that the two people are not very suitable after marriage, and therefore choose to separate. Divorce and then find a is a second marriage, the probability of meeting true love is also low, are once bitten by a snake ten years afraid of well rope, each have their own defense. Want to find better than the former, first of all, to find people who can accept your past, and secondly, the two of you genuinely love each other, of course, there is also a second marriage really have to find better than the former. My cousin is also just divorced this year, I asked him what kind of you want to find again, he said he did not want to find, just one person over the children and the elderly to take good care of it. How do you persuade is also this sentence, he is afraid of marriage? Maybe there is no suitable one!
It's hard to find your other half! If you do? Then they've been around before.
This one is really about destiny.
If you are introduced by others, then your personal conditions are important, your family background, appearance, property, work, education, whether you have children, whether the child you bring is a boy or a girl, these are the conditions that play a decisive role. You may wonder how men can be so realistic and snobbish. But look at the questions you're asking yourself, is it easy to find quality men for divorce? Or the right man? I think, your so-called suitable man, must not be an average-looking, no house, no money, no career and son to marry the man, right? You also want to marry a quality man, right? So by the same token, men also want to find a quality woman.
If you weren't introduced and you met on your own, then it really depends on your destiny and anything is possible. I know of divorced men with boys. They are not beautiful women, and they don't have much of a career, but they don't expect to marry a rich man, they have always been economically independent, married to an ordinary man they get along with, and lived a successful and happy life. If they are bent on marrying a rich man, they may not be so contented and happy.
I hope the above words have inspired.
The key is how well you do on your own terms? Iron sharpens iron. Have you summarized for yourself why your first marriage failed?
Divorce must be chosen because of the unhappiness of life, so after divorce must not feel that a quick re-involvement in a marriage will have happiness.
At the same time divorce, in addition to the damage it does to us, shows us what it was that made the marriage fail.
When I was able to walk into the marriage, I was also able to walk in with feelings, so this one failed marriage is also a mirror for myself to discover the problems and adjust myself.
The kind of traits a person has, the kind of people they will meet and the kind of people they will have.
So want to have a happy marriage again, the premise is that as long as you yourself good enough to treat life, positive and optimistic approach to work, serious efforts, to people and things, tolerance and generosity.
You can have happiness when people see your good qualities and are attracted to them and walk in.

First of all what was the reason for the divorce? Was it the other person's fault or the emotional basis? Is it the emotional basis or financial conflicts? Domestic trivialities or family conflicts. These are all reasons for divorce. Find another one by what criteria? By previous family relationships. Or is it self-centered. This will all have a great impact on the future of married life
I am divorced and single, and I feel that it would be very difficult to find someone to remarry with. My ex-wife took my daughter away from me and it is a pain in my heart forever, and I have always thought about my daughter endlessly over the years. Every time you meet on a blind date, many women with children say that my child after reading, marriage and family should be responsible for you, my child is my all... Once I see other people's children I will think of my baby, I have not been able to give her a complete home, did not do their duty to take good care of her growth. A lot of women are divorced alone with children ex-husband left behind no care, just want to find a free volunteer to raise her and her ex-husband's children. I used to think that if I could treat people well, they would do the same in return, and I've learned that the hard way. I've also seen my stepfather's infertility, the hard work of raising his stepson (daughter) being swept away, and the assault of my stepson on my stepfather, so I'm almost afraid to look for someone else! I am really afraid that I will meet a wolf, and become an ingrate in my old age.
After the divorce depends on the situation. You look pretty, have a stable income, find an unmarried or divorced quality men's possible, provided that you do not bring children, female children can barely, male children basically no chance, no quality men are willing to take over. If you look average, and with male children, want to find a good conditions will be a little difficult. If you look average, did not take the baby, I guess it is also average, unmarried men are less, divorced should be very easy to accept you.
Depending on how long you were married before you got divorced, would you say that an original bicycle inner tube is better, or some other miscellaneous inner tube?
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