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How to understand: one mother can support three children while three children cannot support one mother?

How to understand: one mother can support three children while three children cannot support one mother?

What can a child do when his mother can beat him and make him kneel when he makes a mistake?

This question reminds me of the story of a monk who carries water, two monks who carry water and three monks who have no water to drink. As for why one mother can support three children and three children cannot support one mother, it seems to me that the same thing applies, as there are many people with mixed thoughts and comparisons. They don't want to take advantage of others for their own efforts. As for the mother, the children are the flesh of the heart, willing to suffer their own suffering also want the children to grow up healthy.

Mother's love is selfless, she can feed their children because the mother is just, even if there is only a bowl of rice left in the hand will let the child eat first, on the contrary, the love of the children is not so great, they may be filial piety, but the mother in the heart of the weight of the limited. Originally a person can be very good support for the elderly, but more children will think more, why I only one person to take care of my mother, you guys have a lot of things to do, at the same time, there will be complaints in the heart, want to be fair.

Add to this the fact that you have all started a family and the hardships of life prevent you from doing what you want, after all, your own home needs to be taken care of as well. This makes the mind less pure for supporting the elderly. And the mother for the betterment of the children, will not just go to bother the children's life. Don't want to drag them down.

Respecting the elderly and caring for the young is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and may all people be born with a sense of security and a sense of belonging in old age.



This is mainly a matter of responsibility. As the saying goes, "A mother thinks of her son like the waters of the Yangtze River, and a child thinks of his parents like a gust of wind". Parents to raise children as their own responsibility, no matter how much hardship, pain and suffering, are duty-bound to undertake. Usually like treating the flesh of the heart as pain ah cherish, once a headache will be desperately demanding care. Step by step, I've grown into a man. As the old poem: the world's parents love the most true, blood and tears into the children's body. Exhaustion of energy for the end of the son, the poor world parents heart. Sons treat their parents differently, today's children are more parents in the time do not know to cherish, such as parents are not in the regret did not do filial piety, standing in front of their parents' graves in order to explain the life. It is exactly, the son wants to raise but the parents do not wait ah!

If all three children were unmarried, they would all be grabbing for old age.

Ugh, the dreaded other half!

The main thing is the lack of morality, the extinction of human nature, selfishness never thought of a mother to support the hardships of three children, three people are in their own interests, the mother in their hearts can not occupy the slightest, looking forward to the legislation of severe punishment of unfilial people, so that the whole society towards the good filial piety as the first of this correct good customs.

This is "one monk carries water to eat, two monks carry water to eat, and three monks have no water to eat".

This question is worth exploring, many people say that nowadays people have a lot of pressure, car loan, house loan and children's school expenses, it is not easy to earn money, but have you ever thought about it: have your parents made excessive demands on you? Can you take out one tenth of your love for your children and give it to your parents? If you give a little bit of your love for pets to your parents, you'll be doing your filial duty. The questioner says that it is difficult for three children to support their mother, but it is really not a matter of economics, but a matter of the human heart. Widowed mom can beg to raise several children, several children can not support a widowed elderly, and even to the court this phenomenon is not uncommon. I have seen three brothers are gamblers, gambling winners and losers are in the hundreds of thousands of up and down, but the three brothers are filial son, to the parents of alimony never parents ask for, everyone is the initiative to give parents alimony, and are more to give. They said: maybe we lose less money once, enough to parents a year of pension money, can gamble why can not give alimony? Some of our sons and daughters are now paying hundreds or thousands for a meal in a restaurant, but when it comes to alimony, they are not as good as a gambler. It would be nice if those who are parents nowadays could treat their parents as they treat their children, even if it is one tenth of that.

One mother can support three children, while three children cannot support one mother.

Supporting the elderly has always been a topic of mixed feelings in society. Is it really difficult to support the elderly?

The old man is getting old and his legs are not good. They can't help you look after the children, do housework, and eat all day long. They are weak and have a lot of problems. They take traditional Chinese medicine and western medicine all day long, just like a pot of medicine. She spits and wipes her nose endlessly. She is disliked everywhere she goes.

So the oldest, pushed to the second, who then pushed to the third. The mother becomes a burden to them. A modern-day version of the Tale of the Wall began to unfold.

The raven feeds, the lamb kneels, what reason is there for you not to support your own mother.

When a baby cries and comes into the world, the mother has to go through a bone-chilling suffering. But the moment she sees her child, all her pain is transformed into love.

From then on motherhood gives a woman armor and transforms her into an all-powerful superhero mother.

Crying Mommy knows you're hungry. When you make a fuss, mommy knows your diaper is wet. When you look at the color of your stool, you start to worry about whether you have a bad stomach or not. When you fall down, your mother's heart hurts even more than yours.

You have a fever. It's nighttime, and it's stormy outside. Your timid mother, however, had no choice but to carry you to the hospital.

Women are weak, but mothers are strong. Mothers work hard to bring up their children. She should have reached the age of old age, but she was disliked by her children. She lives in fear that she will be scolded by her child if she does not do something right.

I want to say to these people: be kind to your mother, do your filial duty and pay your debt of conscience during her lifetime. You pay less than one percent of what your mother has done for you, one thousandth ...... of what she has done for you.

There's a car in front of you, so set an example for your kids and save yourself a way out.

Thank you all. This is my answer to the question of one mother being able to support three children and three children not being able to support one mother.

'Motherhood is great' 'Motherhood is pervasive' 'Being a mother is a good thing'.

Visible mother to her children how much love, the hard course of parenting mother personally experienced, every time you touch and roll, every time you grow moment, every time you are sick 😷 care, every nursing companion, too much every time, from the size of the sesame seed embryo to the size of the watermelon in the October gestation, and then go to school to work and grow up the process, the mother is always linked to think about the heart of the mother's love, mother's love is The mother's love is great and selfless, and does not ask for return.

Now three children can't support a mother.

First, from the tutelage, and the concept of education for children is closely related to filial piety is the best virtue, the old saying: 'all things filial piety first', filial piety has no standard, but it is a son or daughter of their elders a kind of love and respect, filial piety are not there, can not talk about the love of the support.

Second, from the economic and time pressure, may not be able to afford to support the cost and time paid, work is too busy, temporarily raising a family, which is 70, 80, 90 have faced the reality of the problem one after another, the ability to be limited, there is a situation of last resort.

Third, the unity of the three children's problems have each other climbing heart, each person or each independent family members are each other to count the gains and losses, how much to pay, not up to the mother of the children's selfless heart and lungs of love, perhaps their own as parents, people to middle age, facing the status quo will realize that the mother's not easy and full screen love.



This often happens in real life, and I think there are several reasons: First, parents can give everything for their children. Parents, no matter how difficult, will always give priority to their children. Even if the parents are tired and bitter, she will let the child eat the bones first, and she will drink the soup at the end. Parents' love for their children is unconditional and selfless. Second, the child grows up, involved in the interests, but do not want to support their parents. According to reason, the parents have worked hard to bring up three children, and now the children are grown up, it should be the time for parents to enjoy life, but it happens that all three children do not want to support their parents, the reason is that the interests are involved. Three people to raise a person, more choices, you say you lose, he said he paid, she also said she is not in a position to support. In fact, it is the child's psychological change, forget the kindness of parents, forget how to do things, forget the hundred good filial piety first. How can we talk about conditions when dealing with our parents? Should be from the heart to do their best to let parents enjoy their old age! In short, parents work hard to bring up their children, and when the children grow up, they should take good care of their parents, not to mention the three children. We should be robbing the support, heart support is. Filial piety is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, parents' favor, lifelong repayment. You can't let your parents get cold feet!


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