I'm curious to know what the subject is thinking?

The subject is a daughter-in-law, right?

I'm just surprised that parents have to pay living expenses for living with their son! What son would ask his parents to pay living expenses because they live with him. Let him come forward and he will be sprayed to death by the general public in minutes!

If the parents are old and decrepit and have no savings and can't pay their living expenses anymore, are they going to be evicted.

I believe that the subject is not such a person, just want to come up with a controversial question to cause the majority of brothers to answer. However, people have to have principles, those who destroy the three views of the question less ask a little it. Clean up the network environment, everyone is responsible for ah!

Do parents still have to pay maintenance when they live with their children? I don't know if I'm misunderstanding the question or the question itself. Our parents raised us to adulthood without charging us a dime, and now that they are eating and living with us, do they have to pay living expenses instead?

I really don't quite understand this idea, so let's talk about some of my own feelings.

I'm married and live with my parents. It's basically kind of like what was mentioned in the question. So let's briefly talk about my living situation. My parents are farmers, and I'm the only son in the family. I got married last year. I didn't buy a house, but I built my own house in the village, and it's not bad, it's a small three-story building. Mom and Dad originally had a house, but demolished, demolished after the construction of the new house, after the marriage has been living together. When we first got married, Mom and Dad wanted to move out, but I stopped them. First, there was enough room in the house, so there was no need to build a new house. Secondly, my parents are getting older, so it's easier for them to live together and take care of each other.

To be honest, I have seen after the marriage with the parents of the bad, mainly mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, parents sick ah and so on. At first, I was a little worried, parents wanted to move out of the house at that time, I guess this is also the reason. However, we have been together for more than a year and found that there is actually no problem at all. The family is actually quite good together. Of course, when there are more people, there are naturally more expenses, which brings us to the situation mentioned in the question.

First of all, is the problem of living expenses, may be we are in the countryside, expenses are relatively less. We have never counted this, generally fixed expenses are my wife and I bear, such as water and electricity, heating and so on, and then it is to eat, this is basically who is convenient who buy, parents generally buy some vegetables ah rice ah and so on, we buy is generally fish and meat and what is more expensive it, in fact, these are not important, the important thing is that the family is together and harmonious.

In fact, I think very clearly on this issue, after all, I am the only child, in the future, my parents' expenses should be my responsibility, now spend more and less actually no difference. Parents did not talk about conditions when they raised us, and we should not talk about conditions when we raise our parents.

One more thing, I really should thank my daughter-in-law, her relationship with my parents is now better than mine and mine. Of course, I'm also very good to her parents, basically accompanying her back to her mother's house once a week and visiting her grandparents often.

It seems to be a bit off-topic, so let's leave it at that. In short, it is a sentence, a hundred good filial piety first, can not be foolhardy filial piety, but at least to afford the parental upbringing, whether it is their own parents or the parents of the loved ones, after all, are a family.

What does it mean to be brazen? What does it mean to be morally bankrupt? It dawned on me after reading this question.

Parents are selfless and great to their children, they work hard to bring us up, they have not counted personal gains and losses. For their children, they give all they have, and they give all they have. For the sake of their children can even give their lives, they also do not hesitate. Do not raise children do not know parents grace, they pay too much for their children.

Aren't you afraid of the world's scorn when you're a child asking your parents for alimony? Are you not afraid of the world's scorn and moral condemnation? You are doing this to hurt the parents' heart, hit the face of education, lost the community, I hope you good for it!

Have you thought about yourself? Have your parents ever charged you for raising you? Besides, you don't pay your parents to do your chores at home.

If your parents do not have retirement pay, when the children have the obligation and responsibility to support their parents according to the law.

Nine times out of ten, it's your wife muttering about this imbalance! Why are you being so petty?

At the end of the day, you can't take the money your parents left behind with you. Isn't it all yours when they pass away?

It would be nice if it could be maintained, and if not, it would be okay to ask for a little bit from your parents, who must be reasonable people.

Never be calculating with your parents, but instead give yourself a bad reputation as an unfilial person, so why suffer if you can't help it?

Depends on each person's life situation.

If the parents don't live with the children, don't they need to pay alimony to the parents according to Chinese tradition? So, not paying alimony is not essentially a thing, the key is how you look at the relationship between parents and children. Besides, mom and dad basically help you do housework, right? Do you have to pay them? No, right? That's why people who ask such questions are basically the other spouse and are not really clear-headed and reasonable.

In addition, the author would like to say that one really needs to be financially strong, otherwise, one will have to be scorned by some powerful people when one grows old and lose the status that one should have in the family as an elderly person.

What kind of child asks his parents for alimony.

In fact, you should think about you from birth to now is very little money to your parents, they in order to support you suffered much hardship, in order to cultivate you suffered much anger, in order to your marriage they labor just for you to have a good development and life, and in the end they get what? They hope that you or your daughter-in-law can give them a secure old age, just as you hope that your own children can give you a secure old age.

In fact, now live with the son or a lot of many, sometimes they just to continue to help you do something, or to help you with children to see the happiness of your life is also the happiness of their hearts they do not want you what, and now you? Indeed, only for a meal and forget the grace of their upbringing, as the saying goes, "people are the most heartless animals are also the most ruthless animals," in fact, this sentence is a little bit right, the grace of upbringing you do not report on the contrary, they do not think they have not given more, that is your fault! Take a good look at it.

What's wrong with just having nibbling on the little ones.

Can't there be children who support their parents?

What do you think?

How much did you eat and drink?

Did you write it down?

Be patient I'll do the math for you first!

Counting from the beginning of your birth to give birth to your expenses to take care of themselves? No it according to the general medical expenses it 3000, after birth every month milk powder money plus diapers 2000 a year close to more than 30,000; your kindergarten monthly 1800 a year close to more than 20,000 3 years old to start to seven years old it; 4 years close to 100,000. Elementary school, junior high school, college, probably also need tens of thousands of it, get married and buy a house hundreds of thousands of; your parents until you become a family and start a career in your expenses are not more or less close to a million! The labor cost is not added here; this is just a rough algorithm!

The parents of the world never expect anything in return from their children!

It's all about love!

How many more years can they live with you?

I gave you guys most of my energy when I was young. Don't I want to be around you guys more when I'm older?

And you want them to pay for their living expenses?

Please take it out of the cost of your parents supporting you!

There should be some left. By the way, did you get paid for taking care of the kids and picking them up? No, don't owe me. It's not good!

What do parents think: just see their kids more!

Spend more time with your grandchildren!

Spend the rest of your little time in peace with your family!

What were you thinking about charging parents for living expenses?

Son of a bitch!

White-eyed wolves! -Not a good wolf!

Please don't presume to be a child!

Please correct your attitude towards life!

Children married, parents live with their children, food and drink do not pay living expenses, how to do, ask how to do, good to do, burned not to give them to eat, you eat enough on the line, such as anger simply dare them out on the line, or take them to court, nowadays the children ah, ask yourselves first, your parents to raise you how big, you have paid living expenses? You can gnaw on parents, parents old and incapable of earning money, do not do children support parents? Parents in your home is certainly with children to do housework, you pay the nanny fee? Besides two old people can eat how much, eat some of your leftovers just, parents now have the money not to pay living expenses, put it there after all your, if they were not much money, but also to prevent the old to be used, that also reduces the burden on you, the children would have had the obligation to support their parents, you do juggle the parents to pay the cost of living, visible conscience of you really can be, your parents this life in vain busy life.

You son of a bitch. Your mom raised you and helped you get married and start a family, and now you hate your parents. Did your mom ever charge you a penny for raising you? Have you repaid your parents for their kindness? Now should be the time to repay the favor, you still want to collect the old man's money, support parents is the obligation of the law, but also the natural right. You wolf cub, heartless, your conscience is eaten by dogs.