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A female friend of mine, not a female friend in that way, who happens to be the overall money manager in the family, was complaining at length with her mother-in-law in front of me the other day, and she said.

The family manages the money, the heart is really as sweet as eating honey that sweet? Who knows how much good sleep I have lost, how many broken bones of the feet, before the family this boat from the shallows to the sea to sail to the voyage. Who knows how many days I've been working hard for a woman?

I watched the family boat about to run aground, so I quickly took the pole to support the boat. If I hadn't caught the pole quickly, the boat might still be on the beach today.

Let's look at our family in the past ten years or so, our life has gone from the day when the starlight flickered in the dark to the present day when it is red-hot like the flame of charcoal, what else is there to dislike?

Today, the family's original washing machine that cheap goods thrown aside, replaced with brand-name goods, TV that small box of the frame, replaced with a large screen such as beds brand-name goods big pieces, refrigerator and set a stand taller than the face of the double door fan, air conditioning and between the house are replaced with a standing can spit cold air hot air kind.

Home and moved a few times, from dozens of square feet of small suites, today moved into the villa group, small cars changed, he had to BMW brand, BMW before buying that, he was not satisfied with the noise and cried half a day non-exchange, said that the face do not know where to cover up, otherwise they will not drive for me on business trips to turn.

Wait a minute today's springtime situation would not be here today if it weren't for my big plans.

Today, when I opened the mouth of the money bag a little smaller, in the hope that the money bag would become a sack drum full, the whole family had a problem with me. I really don't know what your plans are. If anyone in the family is capable, I will give him the key to the house with the money, so what is there to keep?

But think back to more than ten years ago, the husband he took the family's little money to touch the project, not enough a year, the investment of that money disappeared half of the money, quickly withdrew that the remaining half of the money, came back to quarrel a before letting me manage. If I did not have that foresight, the money to invest in the project at that time also risky, which days today money has become hundreds of times the day?

Granny you are also a smart person, also love in front of others in front of the happy all day to praise me have the courage to have insights, tuning today's family into a big ship, how not enough to have a big face it!

If you really don't want me to be a woman in charge of the family's money, I'll take care of it for a year, and when your grandson, my eldest son, graduates with a doctorate next year, he won't be researching genetic modification, so he can simply come home and take care of the money, okay?

Her mother-in-law was quick to say, "No! No! No, no, no, no! My grandson doesn't want to be in charge of money. I'm going to give him wings to fly!

Both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law matters exchanged half a day, the mother-in-law's heart of the lumps finally flat as before, and joyful and lightheartedly said, so, I call your man he opened a family meeting tonight, I suggest that the size of the family, and still let the good daughter-in-law you continue to manage the money of our family!

I think it might be enlightening to use my heterosexual friend's words as an answer to a question asked by an Internet user.

What do you mean by a woman managing money as a matter of course? I am a woman and I dislike managing money very much. I think managing money is a very hard thing, to control the financial power of the family, a great responsibility, I do not know how to manage money, the accounts are often unclear, so I think managing money is a laborious and unappealing thing. Since it is a laborious and unappealing task, I will not take the initiative to take up this task 😃😃😃

There are no uniform rules about who manages money in a marriage, it can be negotiated.

In real life, the woman is often as careful as hair, good at careful calculation, the family's various expenditures as clear as day, they often can not spend the money on not spending, can spend less money on spending less, try to save money for the family, is the family's financial management, so the woman manages the money more.

There are not a few around us where the man man manages the money.

Men also have their advantages: they are good at strategizing, at looking at the big picture, at seeing things deeply and far ahead, and so on.

So the man has his advantages when it comes to money management.

There are also families in which the man and the woman are in charge of their own money, without interfering with each other, and spend money on the AA system. There is also a certain percentage of families that manage their money in this way.

Therefore, what kind of money management method to adopt can be communicated and negotiated between the couple to determine.

When it comes to spending money, especially the larger ones, couples should preferably implement them after consensus, so as to reduce family conflicts and build a happy and fulfilling family.

When two people get married, they become an economic community, and it's a really big deal who manages the money at home.

I asked for my husband's paycheck card after we got married, for all the old reasons.Men are rakes for money. Women are boxes for money.That's why it's the woman who should be in charge of this money.

I simply did not have the experience of life at that time, do not know what it means to live within your means, but at that time and obsessed with online shopping, colleagues said that this thing is particularly good, in the second, I did not think about the family need it or not, I bought it back. After that, it will be out of control, every day to receive express delivery has become part of the content of life, if one day do not open two express boxes will feel that this day is very lost.

The more things pile up at home, the feeling of buying things fascinates me, but I do not realize that the money in the card is rapidly decreasing. Hubby occasionally remind me of a couple of sentences, I also think he is too nagging, buy things and not just for me to buy a person, you also have a share, okay.

If the days can go on like this of course, and then I soon got pregnant, because the vomiting was too strong, had to resign and go home to rest. The burden of supporting the family fell completely on the husband, because of boredom at home, I was bored every day in addition to catching up with the drama is online shopping, that time classmates and friends to get married and give birth to a child with a number of portions, all of a sudden went out a few thousand.

Later, my husband said, when giving birth to a child, we must have more money in case of emergencies. I scolded him for talking nonsense before I remembered to look at the balance of the card, and it didn't matter if I didn't look, I was shocked to see that there were only a few thousand dollars left.

Husband heard on the anxious, but because I was in pregnancy and can not make hard to criticize me, he said daughter-in-law, how about this, in the future, I will manage the money, if you want to buy what, tell me, I will give you to buy okay?

I threw the card at him pretending to be angry, you can control it if you like, I've had enough of it.

In this way, the financial power of the family changed hands, I now think of buying things through my husband, suddenly feel much more tasteless. I did not expect, my husband is really quite good at life, until I gave birth to a child, the money in the card has been saved tens of thousands of dollars.

So, it is not taken for granted that the woman manages the money in a marriage. After marriage, the financial power of the family in the end to whom? Of course, the competent, the mediocre, after all, so that the small life is flourishing is the goal of the two people to pursue together.

Throughout the history of human society, it is not difficult to find a pattern! That is, the stability of the marriage relationship is related to the outbreak of feminism! Nowadays, the feminism epidemic is accompanied by the prevalence of drama, and the stability of marriages is getting worse and worse, which is all caused by the natural human weakness of women. If a family is composed of women who are feminist, the children will not be able to do anything, or even become evil people, but if a family has a kind, benevolent, tolerant and generous woman, then the children will certainly be benevolent and kind people! Therefore, I thought that nowadays, in order to get married, all the houses, cars must be shared by two people, and the family spends money together under the AA system! Bride price is a joke! If these ugly phenomena are not stopped, the home is no longer a cozy harbor and there is no need to get married!

It is not a matter of course that the woman is in charge of the money, but it is also normal that the man is in charge of the money, and it is possible for both men and women to be in charge of the money.

There are two teachers in my unit who are family, they were both my teachers when I was in school, and they are both my coworkers when I go to work. They are both male teachers who manage the money.

The male teacher cooked and washed the clothes, typical of a good man. At that time, the salary was the unit cash. The female teacher was pretty, petite and cute, and taught well. She belongs to the people who don't care and don't love to worry. She doesn't like to manage money, and she doesn't like to touch money, she feels that money passes through many people's hands and is dirty. She also does not inquire how much money is in the family.

Once, I had dinner with a male teacher and talked about female teachers spending money. Female teachers do not care about money, not very rich concept, spend money with the male teacher to ask. She doesn't think about the price of the things she likes, she only thinks about whether she likes them or not. The female teacher does not have expensive fur, not to spare money, is the protection of animals. Male teachers also support her to buy their favorite things, said people earn their own money. Once a style of clothes bought four different colors. The male teacher said his family didn't have much money either.

I met a male teacher at the mall once and he bought a pair of pants. It cost fifty-five dollars. He said none of the clothes he bought were expensive. The expensive ones were bought by the female teacher. They have a strong relationship. Recently the female teacher retired and the male teacher will retire next year. The male teacher has always been in charge of the money, and the female teacher still doesn't worry about it. The two still get along so well.

We also have many here who manage their own money and are doing very well. There are a few families where the man is a businessman and earns a lot of money. The man manages his own money, is responsible for the family expenses, and gives the family some living expenses every month. The woman's money, which is not worth mentioning in the man's eyes, is treated as the woman's pocket money. The woman also manages her own money. All are happy.

As long as both people agree, both people are happy, as long as it is good for the family, good for the relationship between the two people, whoever is in charge is fine, get along comfortably and don't care.

If the man, spends a lot of money. I suggest that the woman keep it. However, the family's property must be known to both spouses.

Answer: does the woman manage the money in a marriage, rightfully so. Why?

Hello! How can it be taken for granted that the woman is in charge of the money?

Don't believe what they say in those little videos on the internet (husbands asking their wives for money and stooping to their level), it's just entertainment.

Because marriage is not bondage. Managing money is a matter that is best managed by the couple who is better at it and who can make the family life grow solidly.

For example, my colleague, Ms. Tang, has been letting her husband take care of her money since she got married. for more than 40 years, they have been in love with each other, much to the admiration of those around them.

When my partner and I were young, it was two people who got paid, put it in a fixed place, and whoever used the money, told the other person to finish.

Gradually, after we retired, he took care of the money (and I couldn't remember my paycheck card PIN).

My partner is better than me, more careful than me, and is recognized by friends and relatives as a "model husband". I'm willing to be that worry-free ...... why not?

It doesn't matter who manages the money as a couple, what matters is a happy and joyful family life. Isn't it?

I hope I can help.

It doesn't matter who manages the money, what matters is who will have better control to rationalize the expenses. It's a family responsibility and whoever has the family responsibility manages the finances, which I feel makes the most sense.

Is it a matter of course that the woman manages the money in a marriage? Not for granted, it is generally believed that the woman manages the money, the marriage will last longer, men and women manage the money has its own advantages and disadvantages, then you know how to manage the money, the index of marital happiness is higher?

Who actually manages the money after marriage? It is expected that most young couples face the problem. Some say that the woman won't marry if she doesn't care about money, while others say that the man doesn't know how to save if he cares about money.

Why is it that in traditional Chinese families, the woman manages the money?

In China, 3/4 of the women are in charge of the family's capital allocation. The traditional Chinese family where the woman is in charge of the money was created in the past, when physical strength was the main labor capacity, and under the family business model of "the man is in charge of the outside world and the woman is in charge of the inside world", where the man earns money to support the family and the woman takes care of the household chores at home, thus gradually forming the family economic model of the woman being in charge of the money.

It's not taken for granted that the woman manages the money, so what are the pros and cons of both men and women managing the money?

Generally speaking, whoever manages the money in the family is the one who worries about it, and there are advantages and disadvantages for both men and women in managing money. On the one hand, women are good at careful budgeting and managing the family's expenses, while women are conservative, risk-averse and not good at investing, and are more cautious than men when it comes to family finances.

Men are more concerned about the policy trends of the country, and when it comes to financial management, they are especially concerned about the economic aspects, and they are more expert than women in analyzing financial matters. Some people say that men manage money, can exercise men's responsibility, shape the family pillar, and is conducive to the development of men's careers. However, in reality, there are not many cases where the man man manages the money.

So how do you manage your money for greater family happiness?

The AA system, in which each spouse goes his or her own way and disposes of his or her own income and expenses, is not suitable for Chinese families.

"Joint Accounts Mutual Cooperation" is a model of family management that is more widely respected nowadays. Each of the two persons puts aside a portion of his or her income as a common fund for the family, which is used for family reserve and common consumption and family investment, while the rest of the money is kept in his or her own account for his or her own disposal and investment. The rest of the money is kept in their own accounts for their own use and investment. In terms of family investment and spending on large items, the approach of mutual cooperation is adopted.

To pay attention to, each month's income and expenditure, to set aside money that must be spent, such as mortgage, car loan, the family must be spent on water, electricity, property and so on. Monthly hard storage, you can set up a family account, the big expenses to ensure that both parties are informed, and you can regularly check the expenditure, the convenience of both spouses to understand the situation of family assets. To give the party in charge of money trust, money is a responsibility and burden, with the power to manage money, it represents the family's financial situation needs to be responsible, so the party in charge of money to trust, trust and honesty, is the most valuable.

Therefore, the family does not necessarily mean that the woman is in charge of the money, the man can also be in charge, no matter who is in charge of the money, it is good that the couple has the same opinion, it is all for the sake of the accumulation and appreciation of the family's wealth.