Parents beat their children is a standard bullying practice, you are the child's everything, his life is by you are responsible for, including the food, clothing, housing and transportation, he is unable to leave your own survival, so you beat him he is also defenseless. When you hit him like this, have you ever put yourself in his shoes and thought about his feelings? The child from birth is an independent person, the child is not our subordinate, the child also has its own human dignity and free will. If you hit him, you are seriously trampling on his human dignity! I believe that most of the parents teach their children to be reasonable and not to hit people casually, then, have you done it yourself? Therefore, the act of hitting a child is strongly discouraged!

If you feel that your child has done something wrong, the proper way to handle the situation is to inflict a certain punishment, set a certain standard of punishment, and inflict the punishment when your child makes a mistake.

The child made a serious mistake should be beaten or to beat, the people of the country so much population, parents parents are not all verbal education to play a role, the old saying that under the stick out of filial piety, this is certainly a certain truth. In fact, I am also one of them, I also grew up being beaten by my father until I went to junior high school. Dad hit the hateful, who can not pull, the more people pull the more ruthless, then also stupid, do not know to run [cover face]. But then again, I am now thirty-one, I have never been ruthless parents, although there is a disconnect, but not because of being beaten, but from a young age and parents apart, I was brought up by my grandparents, seven aunts and eight aunts have brought up, ate the pain and suffering, and did not complain about the parents.

It depends on the child's personality and family environment! Sometimes it's useful to beat them down!

While it's wrong to hit kids, there are some kids who are okay with a proper smack!

I am also a father of two children, the eldest is a daughter, usually in the learning aspect will move hands! Every time will ask her to ask what to hit her, no no reason to hit, only she really really do wrong situation, bear no way to do it! If you can't do it, don't do it.

I am personally experiencing it watching my relatives. The son of the face favorites. See beat him several times a day. Mouth nagging, read non-stop. But that son, you did not teach him how to discipline himself. Instead, you rely on you to discipline him. That's why the kid didn't even graduate from junior high school. He said one day that if I studied hard, I could go to college. I said to him, "Are you awake?"

I'm against hitting children.

But you can never make the comparison that the same child was raised twice, once beaten and once not beaten. All other upbringings were the same.

To be honest, ask parents whether it is useful to beat their children, I believe that most parents will say it is not useful, and think that they should not beat their children! But ask parents whether they have ever hit their children, I believe that ninety percent of parents have hit their children's behavior! I feel that I am already a Buddhist mom, but in the face of my children's nonsense, I always can not control my emotions, and I stick education to my children, but after I hit my children, I feel regretful! However, for children, hitting them does make them quiet, but it's temporary. Therefore, hitting children is not useful at all, in order to make children obedient, can not be separated from the correct way of education!

Of course it's not working.

Although my family is quite harmonious and happy, but when I was a child, I was really special special skin kind of, in today's words is to eat soft but not hard kind of. But my father is hard on me, the more I resisted him, the more he hit me, and then I will be more fierce, so the cycle has been until I went to the fifth or sixth grade, my parents did not beat me.

From my point of view, hitting children is really useless. Some children are naughty by nature, and if you go against them, they won't give in. The most important thing to teach children is patience, because they haven't yet formed a certain correct sense of right and wrong.

Children are to be taught not to rely on the fight, the tough attitude of most of the last will only cause the child's rebellious mentality. Some of the "hit big" children will grow up very rebellious character, especially in adolescence, more can not be taught, so children really can not hit, to educate and guide.

Depending on the character, it is best not to hit a child who is petty, because if you tell him, he will know that he is wrong, or he himself does not mean to make a mistake. If this kind of child uses corporal punishment, it will cause him to have a permanent inferiority complex, and he will not be competitive in the society.

There are also some children who are born to do what they want to do, and this kind of child should be shown what is wrong, and be shown that it is to be suffered. Otherwise, they will be taught to respond to it later in society. This kind of child usually later in society to deal with foreign affairs is more open.

Of course all of this is directly related to being a parent, think about your own personality and your own living environment to understand something from it.

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It will make the child become more and more rebellious, the child slowly become immune to scolding, beaten into their own routine, so naturally no longer afraid, the character will become more disobedient.

In a sense, just by hitting the child is useless, first of all, the child does not listen to the need to reflect on why he does not listen to the adult education is not right. Some children rebel up the more you hit him the more with you against, so we have to see the effect, the child, a blank sheet of paper, most of the time you have to give him to instill reason, to give him to set up a correct outlook on life, if necessary, take the child to a separate room, don't scold, just sit quietly, let him think for himself, the child sometimes is to recognize the reasoning of the dead, but he came out of the still will listen. In short, try not to scold the child, more education, be patient. I hope my answer can help you.