This is related to the issue of giving and receiving, said the brothers clear accounting is not wrong, brothers, relatives help each other is often a normal thing, but this kind of thing should always have a clear attitude, especially the recipient of the party should be so, the so-called "clear accounting" is not to be catty, but Must know that there is such a thing, to understand how others are helping themselves.

As for that, brothers, relatives help, support, help people naturally will not be too much care, if too much care will not help each other to help each other, but the recipient of the help should be grateful, grateful, brothers, relatives on credit, borrowing and exchanging should be so, because in addition to parents, other people are not necessarily responsible for non-help you can not, even if it is the parents, it is also when the day to feed back to take care of ah; Other people, no matter what way, can let themselves get help, that is, to receive the love and favor, must clearly understand that there has been the benefit of this thing, the giver does not count if the beneficiary can not count?

Ancient people have received a meal to thank a thousand gold is this reason, so that "pro-brothers clear accounts" is not unreasonable, not really to count clearly, but must have borrowed and return, the beneficiary must be rewarded, which is the fundamental of human beings, otherwise can only be regarded as an ungrateful, shameless white-eyed wolf, the heart of the benefactor cold.

Between relatives to help also help, pro brother clear accounts is a must! Each family door each household, there are borrowing and returning, in borrowing is not difficult, in addition to special circumstances to support the help of the while, in other cases must adhere to the clear accounts, courtesy, brother to be able to deal with, kinship relations can be long-term into in.

It is said that brothers should settle their accounts clearly, and relatives should help each other, is it necessary to settle the accounts so clearly? 我认为古人云，亲兄弟明算账非常正确，应该要这样做，省得日后兄弟间为了銭而闹情绪没意思的，古人云都是正确的。

Pro brothers clear accounting, refers to friends and relatives to borrow things, must be returned, there are borrowing, and then borrowing is not difficult, but borrow to borrow, help to help. Between friends and relatives to help each other, courtesy, is friendship, do not have to count so clear.

I think it's time to be clear! Money for money, love for love!

I'll buy you a thousand dinners, but you have to pay back the ten dollars you borrowed from me!

If blood brothers don't settle their accounts with each other and become more and more confused, it is inevitable that some people will not feel happy in their hearts, and slowly the feelings between brothers will be affected!

I run a small supermarket, my aunt often come to the store to buy things, I can into the price to me a dime do not earn, but I can not not charge, because I this is not a windfall. However, when my aunt's daughter comes over to play, I will say what do you want to eat take it yourself, sister treat you!

Similarly, the aunt sells fruits at the gate, and we never just eat them. The first time I went to buy fruit the aunt didn't take the money, and when I came back I was told by my mother-in-law, who said that the fruit was so far to come in that it was exhausting, and that it wasn't grown in his own house! I immediately sent the money over again. Before New Year's Eve, my uncle sent over a box of fruits, saying that it was for us, so we accepted it.

After getting used to it, our two families are much more attached to each other than before! Never feel uncomfortable inside!

Hi, I think it's necessary.

First of all, relatives and friends are able to help each other, which indicates a good and iron relationship.

But, clear accounting is actually about preserving each other's feelings.

Personally, I believe that the person who proposes a clear accounting should be the one who receives the help. This will enable the person who helps you to have no worries and fully embody the virtue of having a favor to pay.

For example, take an example. There are in daily life, the brother like to help the younger brother, gifting financial, but sister-in-law does not agree, and finally still make the brother and sister-in-law husband and wife do not get along. In this case, if the brother and brother really good feelings, should play the note, clearly will repay, so also let the brother comfort, let sister-in-law peace of mind.

Therefore, relatives with really good relationship should be clear with each other, so that the relationship will become more and more solid and harmonious. Think more about each other and the relationship will last.

I hope my answer is helpful.

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Many people confuse things and make things more troublesome; it is said that brothers and relatives should settle their accounts, and relatives should settle their accounts even more clearly, so as not to cause more trouble in the future. What is borrowed is borrowed, what is given is given. Whose money is not windy. Be able to deal with the money between people and people's love is more long-lasting.

Very necessary, I grew up in the countryside, for the brothers do not get along, friends and relatives against the purpose of things not strange, in fact, the ultimate cause of this can not escape a "money" word, relatives should be clear accounts, this is a lesson in blood.

I was 18 years old sophomore summer vacation in a distant relative opened a flour mill to work, every day to collect twenty bags of wheat from the nearby villages, at that time because it was a relative and did not say the specific salary, however, until I started school, only received a hundred dollars for the road, my father also in the way, did not mention this thing, and later learned in the mouth of another relative who has been proclaiming to give me twice the salary of a normal worker, and from then on, our two families have never talked to each other again.

I'm not counting the money, just that he hurt the feelings of the two families, I think the clear accounting does not mean that catty interests and feelings are not opposites, in the feelings of the basis of the money clear instead of the protection of feelings. Help to help, accounting to accounting, ugly words in front, after the fact, do not bother.

As the old saying goes: the world is all about profit, the world is all about profit, affection and friendship and even love, in the face of money and profit can not stand the test, feelings and money is the same amount, once overdrawn off the relationship will appear cracks.

This explicit accounting should be about doing business together. As for helping each other in normal times, there is no need to settle accounts. But there is one thing to remember, no matter who helps who, the recipient should be grateful in the heart. Not brothers and sisters is supposed to be, and endless acceptance of help, the reason is also very good, you have energy, I have no energy so you help me is supposed to help, and even help ten times there is a time not to help on the grudge. This kind of logic of thinking is very unconscionable! Even people with disabilities need to be grateful for the help they receive!

This is true! There is no contradiction between doing a favor and keeping score; because people change. With society and the environment and their own economic situation is constantly changing, you do me a favor, I will remember you a lifetime of good, this is called affection. But the account must be clear, so as not to be unclear later.

A lot of brothers and even father and son are due to the economic accounts are not clear and opaque, contradictions, relations and discord. So whether loved ones, relatives or outsiders, there are difficulties to help can help, but the accounts must be clear.