Many ordinary parents, for the sake of their children to save money, this is the traditional virtues of the Chinese people. Hundred good filial piety is the first, but old but by the children dislike, should not be the ideological character is not educated, too weak love for children's original reason.

Many ordinary parents, who save money for their children, are disliked by their children in their old age.

Thank you, everyone! Since ancient times, human beings have been so over, since Pangu opened the world, everyone's mouth hangs on the "hundred good filial piety first" to today seems to be a "gas". This stock of gas in the confusion of human life and death, filial piety into a breeze into the sadness of life. I wish there were fewer "traitors" in sheep's clothing.

Life is divided into three stages. People are brought up from birth by their parents through a lot of hardships. During this period of time parents of parents are stepping into the autumn wind and falling leaves, struggling in despair, confused, dreaming of the beautiful life of childhood. How much do they look forward to their sons and daughters to take care of themselves more? But do children have so much energy? Sons and daughters also have to struggle to survive and pamper their sons and daughters. Take care of the elderly "filial piety" can only shout a few more times, the "filial piety" mood again on their children to go. Generation after generation, generation after generation. Most of the crowd are the first to take care of "their own", life is their own, children are born of their own, born of their own old man is only "past". Only a few of the God of Wealth's sons and daughters will provide for.

This is the life of the "self" nature, "the smart will also shout" filial piety "" hundred good filial piety first ". Do not understand the reason is simply have scolded and hit "you old man" "stop tiring people". God!

Not to mention ordinary families, the elderly who are disliked and scolded should also be the lucky ones. Throughout history, those who killed their fathers and brothers in order to seize the throne of a generation of heavenly beauty, is not for the sake of "self", these also have a bright king and a dim minister. What about their children? Not also stupid filial piety their own children? When you are old and have no hope of survival, all that is left is despair. Pray that the God of Wealth will pay more attention to the elderly!

This would probably be a very common underlying social problem.

It can be said that the quality of the children is not good enough, or that the parents are very sad, and it boils down to the problem of family education.

Children who grow up in the same family situation with different educational styles will be very different in their filial piety to their elders, and this has nothing to do with their economic base.

In the early years of a child's life, the words and actions that parents teach their children have a lifelong impact.

Where parents are dutiful to their elders, children are more than likely to be dutiful, even if their parents are illiterate and uneducated.

Both of my parents had limited literacy, and both of my parents were not well educated, and the two of them quarreled all their lives, but my mother was very sure that my father was good to the elderly, and we sisters were not good-tempered enough, but we were all absolutely filial to our elders.

My in-laws are more dutiful to the old man, and they are all gentle and courteous and humble to each other; my husband and sisters are more dutiful and friendly and never quarrel, and parents are indeed the mirror of their children.

My great-aunt had friction with her mother-in-law and would slander and abuse her in front of her new daughter-in-law, and then a few years later, her daughter-in-law would return the favor, as the saying goes, "The old cat sleeps in the upper room, and it is passed down from one generation to the next."

Saving money for children can not be said to be wrong, but in daily life can not be completely lost, to take into account the elders and their own, can not let the children get used to their own center, love children have to make children understand the need to be grateful at the same time.

Pity the world's parents, who are tired and broken for their children.

If you meet an unworthy son, your parents are too old to ask.

All good deeds in the world are filial, and unfilial parents lose their conscience.

This culture must not be allowed to grow, and bad behavior must be taught a lesson.

You can't forget your roots when you grow up.

It is a duty to honor the elderly, and it is a responsibility to support one's parents.

Ungratefulness is blamed, and the elders are suspected of lacking character.

I urge you to reflect and wake up quickly, and to change your ways and fulfill your filial piety.

This phenomenon is present, but not universal.

It is often said that a slap in the face is not enough, and it is also often said that a lone hand is not enough. We have to discuss the matter. For the emergence of a phenomenon, we have to find the reasons at both ends, and if there is a cause, there is a result, and if there is a result, there must be a cause.

Yes, many ordinary parents, save money for their children. They are not only inheriting and carrying forward traditional virtues, but also setting a good example for their sons and daughters. Who knows that the food on the plate is hard work? Who knows how hard it is to eat on a plate, and how hard it is to eat every grain. This poem is not only widely circulated, but also as a compulsory text in elementary school language textbooks. Why? Is it not for the guidance of the next generation?

Parents are like a mirror, the children every day against, comb, ear to see in the learning. The environment creates talent, talent will be limited form.

So, old age will be disliked, no more than the body to teach. To change, we must start from the body, there are contradictions in time to communicate, do not sow resentment, the old contentment, do not take everything into account. Do son more to learn to tolerate the old ideas and old style in tolerance at the same time to do a good job guiding, right or wrong, learn to understand and tolerance ......

Respect for the elderly and love for the young, both sides of the heart for the heart, no pressure, no confrontation. Doing what is necessary to change, not to add encouragement. Think before you do something, don't say one thing at a time.

There is no end to learning how to be an understanding parent and a good son or daughter!

We all need to look at things in two ways and not lose sight of the bigger picture.

A: Great parents make great kids!

1, parents are the first teacher, the family is the first school, a few minutes of hard work and a few minutes of harvest!

2. Bitter children with a future!

3, World Olympics Biker Champion 🏆An student, a child deep in the mountains, not only does housework and farm work, but is also considerate of his parents.

Not all parents are like this, my mother-in-law is eighty-four years old this year, gave birth to two children, one is my great aunt, one is my husband, my mother-in-law and father-in-law is the first generation of new China's College of Finance and Economics college students, that is, we Yangzhou is now the leader of the Normal University, my mother-in-law said that she gave birth to two children, she has always been her life is her mother and nanny care, because her father died relatively early, her Her mother has been following her, she has never washed her socks and underwear in her life, including now is also the case, are the nanny to take care of her, my husband and I will go to her every Sunday at noon to cook, because on Sundays her nannies rest, we got married, to buy a house, she will not give a penny, my husband and I rent a house to live in will not go to and she will have to, my husband and an older sister married to Nantong, my mother-in-law is young! When my mother-in-law young in order to drink fish soup, take a gold ring to go and other people for a blackfish home soup, after her family is very rich, what round big head, gold and so on let her give for food, and my parents in the countryside gave birth to my brother, I, my sister three children, conditions and my mother-in-law's family should be a world of difference, my mother had a pro-uncle in Hong Kong at that time, and then often come back to give my mother a gold ring, before and after giving more than ten, to give two round, and my mother and my husband live in the house will not go and she will not want to. More than ten, gave two round big head, now our family two round big head to my sister-in-law, gold ring my mother to us a person three, last year my mother to see my husband on the body a little bit of gold are not, gave him a, my brother and my sister, they are all smiles.

Families nowadays have only one child! Most families are ordinary! What's the difference between ordinary and extraordinary?

Who doesn't love their children? Most netizens think it is the parents' fault! Is saving money until old age just to be disliked by their children? No matter how hard the parents work! But not in exchange for the children's respect! Why don't children think about their parents' suffering? Why do they have to live so frugally? Is their conscience eaten by dogs! Parents are getting old! The children know better! Your parents raised you small! But parents don't insist on saying how much their children demand of them! It's just a matter of having a bowl of rice to eat when you're old! But children not only do not give food, and even scold parents! Such children are everywhere nowadays! Such rebellious children must be in the minority! Most ordinary families are still harmonious!

Parents are old and their children hate them! Such children I'm sure! They're all educated! They're not uneducated! They look good in front of people! But they don't like their parents! Their brains are influenced by money! Parents are too old to earn money, no profit! You've finally shown your ugly face! Heaven will punish! People do what they do, and God sees what they do! If you dislike your own parents! They won't end up any better! I hope the netizens online will be good to their parents! Don't say your parents are wrong! They're not the ones who gave birth to us! Parents have no knowledge and no ability! You set an example and let your parents live in peace.

The world often sighs: "A good old man can not meet a good child, a good child can not meet a good old man". Life is always not as good as many, see through always let a person afraid and discouraged. However, there is a reason for this, you are frugal but pampered children will end up harming their own children, some of them are not to beat that is scolded, and even more with their own words and deeds to bring their children into the ditch to go, and the result is the same: old age is disliked by their children.

The education of children is a science, there is a saying: raising children do not teach the father's fault. There is no love without a reason and no hate without a reason, we should learn from past mistakes to pass on the family education, otherwise, the old age of the difficult problem is too late to repent.

Such people are in the minority. Most people still have filial piety.