Most people who don't post friends are more safety conscious or have more real life friends!

There is such a saying: you think you are sending a circle of friends, but in fact, you are sending a message to recruit thieves! There are many people who love to send a circle of friends, I don't know if they are doing well, but I can see that they like to pose for pictures! Everything will send friends circle people, or to pay proper attention to the good, because your mood will be intentional people guess your temper. Because of your range of activities, will give the opportunity to take advantage of the people who design traps. Because of your various sunshine, it will expose your own life situation, and moreover, it will place your family on the edge of danger! What I say is not an alarmist, harm can not have the heart, defense can not be!

In the virtual world, the vast circle of friends, what kind of people are there, and anyone who sends a circle of friends, is undoubtedly to expose their lives to the public! People with a strong sense of security will not feel free to post their personal information in the circle of friends, not to mention not to show off or complain about their own encounters, because it is virtual, in itself, is not real! In real life, real friends are already hard to find, so in the virtual world, it's even better not to just spit out your heart.

Good people, real life has been very satisfied, will not be too much in the virtual circle of friends, something to send a dynamic! On the contrary, a lot of people have a poor life, will be through the circle of friends, to vent their own less-than-ideal, there are some will be sunshine of their own happy life, but really will pay attention to your life is not good, envious of envy your life, and how many of them! Everyone is busy, mature people are busy, people who have a good life are even busier!

The title of this statement is poor! All things do not send a circle of friends of people, the watchers can not go to assert that people are doing well or bad. In the world at large, there are differences in people's personalities. Some are introverts, some are extroverts, and some are synthesizers.

Different personalities can go a long way in determining a person's lifestyle. Introverted people have a deep sense of security and do not easily reveal and express their joys and sorrows. This type of person is strong inside, with the arrogance of the lone wolf; extroverted people belong to the temperament of the people, where the life of a little thing can not be hidden. This type of person is lively and cheerful by nature, straightforward and quick-witted, and is good at sharing every bit of their lives with others. People with a combination of personalities are highly adaptable, and this type of personality encompasses the strengths and weaknesses of both introverts and extroverts. They are good at thinking; they are good at reading people. The biggest shortcoming of a person with a comprehensive personality is that he or she is highly skeptical of people and things, and has a hesitant behavior.

Therefore, most of the people who are not good at posting to their friends have to do with their personality and lifestyle. It has nothing to do with having a good or bad life. Of course, then again, nowadays, with the proliferation of the Internet, I kinda admire people who are not good at posting friend circles.

Because I have all kinds of friends around me. Some like to send a circle of friends, every day can not wait to send a free time; some do not send a circle of friends, the creation of WeChat group is a setup. Finally, one day, love to send a circle of friends of friends look panicked, said to me, his payment account at some point was stolen, the money inside the card disappeared. Fortunately, my friend's stolen card is deposited just a few days after the paycheck. However, not good at sending a circle of friends of the old iron, ordinary life can be as calm as water, unlike love to send a circle of friends of people a shock.

This leads to the conclusion that "anyone who doesn't post anything to their friends is someone who is having a bad time", which is false, and I do not agree with the sentiment of this statement and ultimately disagree with it!

(Do you guys and gals agree with me? Feel free to discuss it together below in the comments section)

Subject!

You're full of shit! It's none of your business if people don't post or not. How do you know people are not doing well if they don't post? Are entrepreneurs who don't use WeChat less well off than you? You must be a person who has nothing to do and thinks nonsense all day long, please don't be a boring person!

Whether or not you send a circle of friends has nothing to do with whether you are having a good time or not. A person's hobbies are different, do you have a bad time if you don't send out your circle of friends? Look at the circle of friends are selling products, either wedding and birthday information, or gossip, these have nothing to do with a good life. The real stakes are not posted in the circle. The circle of friends is a rose of indiscriminate casting. Where the greater the interest, the higher the secrecy, the fewer people know. So, whether you are doing well or not is in the circle of contacts, not in whether you send your circle of friends or not. Often the dragon is hidden in the deep pool, the fish floating water skin.

Whether or not to send a circle of friends all depends on their own preferences, some people like quiet, some love to move, different personalities, different world. Good life is dry out, not a circle of friends issued. Thousands of flowers and trees are different, and the lives of hundreds of people are different.

The people who say this are probably the bottom of the social ladder, middle class at best. It's the ones who post it on their friend circle that are having a bad time(I don't mean to discriminate in any way. (No discrimination intended, I'm at the bottom of the social ladder myself, just describing it objectively)

In the book "Grunge", I read an idea that the top of the unseen and the bottom of the unseen are living in similar states.

Invisible top layer, is the country probably you do not know the kind of invisible rich or power layer, Old Money family, they are invisible to the public, ordinary people you are not entitled to see. They hold a staggering amount of resources, don't really need to work hard, are afraid of being restrained so they keep a low profile, they are relatively mysterious and free.

People like Jack Ma and Ma Huateng who are on the top of the wealth list can only barely be considered top tier, or top of the middle tier, they appear in the public eye, their words and actions are monitored by the public, they are relatively visible and not free.

Middle level not to mention the anxious majority.

Bottom not to mention the busy majority.

Plus the unseen underclass, really the kind of people who are struggling to live and die at any given time, although there may not be many of them, they definitely exist, and they're not seen, they may be scavengers or residents deep in the mountains, and all they have to think about is not starving to death with this one meal, and maybe the smartphones aren't even used or seen, and they don't have to work hard at it, and they mingle, and it's also relatively free and mysterious.

So who do you think has the energy to show off in the circle of friends every day?

The unseen bottom has no cell phone and does not post.

The workers at the bottom of the ladder work every day, and when they get a year-end bonus, they want to show it off.If you have a restaurant and watch a movie, you should show it to your friends as if you have become a member of the upper class.

The middle class is so busy with education anxiety, healthcare anxiety, and growth anxiety that they have less time to post friends, most are prepared to work quietly and then wow all of you to get more space to work themselves up again.

Top tier, their circle of friends I've never seen and have no say in the matter.

I'm sorry, I'm not qualified to see the top of the world.[捂脸]

[People who don't post everything on their friends' lists are very scary]

People who don't post anything to their friends have the following characteristics.

1, self-confidence, do not send a circle of friends of people, they know their own a few pounds, the reason why they do not have to show themselves through the circle of friends, brush the sense of existence, they are very confident.

2, autonomy, do not send a circle of friends of the people, they will not be a cloud, will not see around the people are sending a circle of friends, their own with the big slip, they have autonomy, their own independent decision of their own life.

3, security, do not send friends circle people, they do not need to send friends circle to vent, because they will not be anxious, they have a sense of security, live more solid.

4, alone, do not send a circle of friends, they like to be alone, many people think it is not good to be alone, too lonely, in fact, it is not, for those who like to be alone, alone is a happy thing, because when you are alone, it is the time to get along with yourself, only those who are able to get along harmoniously with themselves will like to be alone, and can be alone, feel happy.

5, real, do not send a circle of friends of people, they live more real, they like real experience, rather than waste time in the vain circle of friends.

6, happy, do not send a circle of friends of people, they live a happier life, will not often be a circle of friends of some negative energy to affect the mood, they like to do positive things, such as reading books, exercise, watching movies and so on.

Being a person who doesn't post friends, then your life is bound to go up a notch. We should not be a person who goes with the flow, who can't see what everyone is doing and follow it. You should be an independent person and do what suits you and what you really like, then your life will be happier and more joyful.

I don't agree that people who don't post anything to their friends are people who are having a bad time? Quite the contrary, most people who don't post anything to their friends are people who are having a good time!

I began to contact WeChat in about 2012, before driving with the boss, as if the boss's wife because of charging the phone bill or to do business, sent a smart phone, she has too many cell phones, said: Li, what phone you use ah?

I use a Nokia. What's up, boss lady?

Nothing, to give you a smart phone to play, I help you to WeChat under a good, in the future there is a need to leave a message to you in advance, more convenient than calling. So the boss's wife gave me WeChat and added her as a friend, and my first smartphone was born!

At that time and ex-girlfriend broke up with four years, occasionally holidays will call greetings and blessings, since the WeChat, I added her friends through the cell phone number, every day to watch her eat, travel, send feelings, I think the original she lived so well ah, something I will like. The latter think I can not just like comments, I should also let her know that after leaving her my life should also be colorful.

So I'm like a schoolboy writing a diary, every day I get up to eat a breakfast, send a circle of friends, lunch at noon to send a circle of friends, dinner at night to send a circle of friends. Accompany the boss or the boss's wife to go to the gym, post a circle of friends, accompany the boss to play golf to post a circle of friends, accompany the boss to engage in hospitality to post a circle of friends, all note is their own life.

Not to mention, she will be okay to like the message, that time I was happy, the boss for a new phone, I took pictures of the screenshot, said they changed, the boss to pack a good cigarette, I always intentionally put in front of the camera to shoot a dinner at home or drink Coke to watch TV pictures, intentionally leaking out the picture of the cigarettes, write a person to eat, a person to watch TV, the boss sometimes go home and forget to bring a bag, I will take the boss are Hermes or Dior, put at home, to the boss is not visible, write recently bought a new bag, recently a friend and sent me a bag, nothing boss lady do hair or go to drink coffee, I will shoot a back hair, accompanied by the female friendly boredom and so on and so forth!

When I think back on what I did during that time, I feel particularly humble, and it's true that the less a person has, the more they want to prove that they have something!

I don't know how long after, in the early hours of a night, the ex's circle of friends sent a very long circle of friends, probably about these years she and her boyfriend how to know, love, pay, to the end of the ruthless abandonment, a long, long a, the night I watched silently, no likes, no comments, I pretended not to see, and then the next day to look at it again, she has deleted that circle of friends.

At that time, I realized that she was not as happy as the one in her circle of friends, and everything was an illusion that she created to show others.

Which night I sent the boss home, parked the car, a person out to get drunk, inexplicably just want to get drunk, did not want to go back to the ex, because I still have nothing as in the beginning, I if really like the circle of friends I do, I will definitely get her back, think she is not good, inexplicably heart is very difficult, the original circle of friends of her everything is sent to other people to see, suddenly feel that she was very poor, and I I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that!

That night, I ate hot pot alone and drank a box of beer, how to go home, I don't remember, the next day to sleep until the afternoon to get up, open the phone boss and the boss's wife dozens of missed calls, WeChat is the boss and the boss's wife's concern, ask me what happened, how the phone has been unanswered.

Read the text messages between the two of them and inexplicably cried, having lived like a loser for the past few years.

Took a shower, changed a set of clothes, went out and drove, halfway through the call to the boss and the boss's wife rushed to say sorry, last night because I know that the ex-girlfriend is not having a good time to drink too much, and as a result, drunk. Then asked the boss where it was, and went over to return the car to them.

The boss said immediately after hearing this: What's wrong? Li, you don't want to do it? Return the car?

I immediately replied back: you're not going to fire me for inexplicably disappearing yesterday and delaying your trip?

The boss smiled and said: how big a thing, usually you do things I see in the eyes, which will be because of emotional things to fire you, and did not delay me what, you want to feel embarrassed, give me fifty bucks it, today cab almost spent fifty.

After I heard this, I froze for a few seconds and said with a sobbing voice: Thank you boss, I'll be right there to pick you up.

Drive to the company downstairs, see the boss stood downstairs on the phone, I drove the car over, just as the boss finished the phone, open the door, the boss patted my shoulder two: Li, all right, are young, I have had the ex, I spent five years to come out, men, do not always look back, chest up and go forward. A lot of times miss the really thing for life.

I muttered from the sidelines: I'm almost five years old too, I drank too much yesterday and figured out that living well on my own is the best thing I can do for my ex and myself, and I'm going to start a new life of my own, boss, and found that it won't be like this next time!

The boss smiled and said: sure you walked out? Go home, your sister-in-law she called all day today to ask me what happened to you, the three of us at home today for dinner, your sister-in-law is afraid that I will fire you.

I looked back at my boss and couldn't hold back the tears: uh, got it, thank you two for your concern!

Drive properly, what's a big man dropping horse piss for.

Which day I remember now, the sunset, the warm sun coming in, the boss leaning back in the passenger seat with the window open and his eyes closed, tears in the corners of his eyes, humming under his breath:

Go. Go to the edge of town.

Roll down the windows.

A little speed for a little pain.

Loneliness is driven out by the bustling night but there's no way to confess it.

It's the sadness you left me

Oh, love has made me look away.

Oh, love, I'm hurting myself.

You got me drunk, you made me cry, you took all the blame.

I'm trying to get it back.

You get me drunk, you break my heart, and you love so much you can't take it back. .....

Back to the boss's home, the boss's wife saw me, said with a smile: a day did not see you, sister I still blame you, come in to eat, drink your big brother to drink a few cups, sleep in the living room at night......

The day of the family dinner, the boss's wife asked me and my ex-girlfriend's story, I drank too much to tell her one by one, when her mother smacked me with no money, beating lovebirds, she did not have no choice with me. The boss's wife drank too much hugged me and said: that is her mother and she has no vision, I see your kid is good, hard-working, mouth strict words less come back to the matter, in addition to less young people's vigor, what is good, the original problem in this regard, all right, big sister to introduce you to a girl who does not like the poor and love the rich, do you want it?

To, as long as that woman is not too poor to be willing to be my girlfriend and wife, I will spoil her for the rest of her life!

Drinking high that night, I lie on the bed in the living room of the boss's villa, tossing and turning, remembering what I have done over the years, suddenly thatched, I have nothing, I have to work hard, rather than cover my ears and deceive myself and others to live, I'm just an ordinary person, I'm pragmatic as much as humanly possible to listen to God's will to do everything in their power on the right, everything is destined to happen.

It took an hour that night to delete my friend's circle, feeling funny as I did so, this is me, a ridiculous person, a clown, and after deleting it, I posted a friend's circle and went to bed.

Be my truest self and record every moment that moves me! Tonight I will let go of my obsessions and be a person who knows what's good for me!

The next day after sending the boss to the company, then send the boss's wife to do hair, the wife of the mother said: yesterday drank too much, you first go to the car to sleep, at noon to go to so-and-so local food restaurant dinner.

Waiting for the boss's wife to do a good job of hair, driving married to a certain local food restaurant, into the box to see us two, I quickly said: Sister, what is the situation? Today at noon did not see your girlfriends?

The boss's wife smiled and said, There's an important person to entertain today!

Waiting for the boss's wife finished ordering food, not long, the waiter with a height of about 165 wearing suit pants, high heels, white shirt, black glasses, high nose, big eyes, goose egg face, a head of black long straight hair of the young woman came in, the woman came in to hug the boss's wife and said: Cousin, come here to work at the school for two months, you didn't tell me to come out to dinner, how come you remembered to tell me to eat today?

The boss's wife nodded to me and said: This is Li, my driver, very nice, your mom did not want me to find you a boyfriend? I think he's good, and your brother-in-law approves of him, so try to get to know him. If you don't feel it, you can be more than a friend, anyway, you're not young anymore!

The boss's cousin looked at me, came over and reached out to shake hands: hello, my name is Li Qiuju, the city's three attached primary language teacher, 23 years old.

Hello, Li Qiu, your sister's driver, 28 years old, local people, parents alive, there is a sister, no car, no house, in addition to responsible and responsible, nothing.

Pfft, a sound, Li Qiu Ju laughed out tears: the first blind date?

Uh, a little nervous!

I forget what I ate for lunch that day, all I remember is that she laughed and laughed hard while asking questions, and I was so embarrassed that I ate for lunch.

After eating, the boss's wife asked me to send her to her bosom friend's house to play mahjong, and said when she left: Li, today's vacation, don't go pick up your brother-in-law at night. You accompany my sister to have a good time, young people, to be sunny and energetic point!

In this way, I got to know her, a woman who loves to laugh and joke around just like this into my world, every day after work to change the pattern of looking for me to chat, call me out to see a movie, teach me to play competitive computer games, take me to K songs, take me to listen to the theater, take me to do volunteer work .......

Gradually, every day is happy and happy, pick up and drop off the boss and the boss's wife, every day to sit in the car and wait for her after class or her after-school halftime chat, and so she was off work in the afternoon free to pick her up, or to play with her, and soon we have established a boyfriend and girlfriend, and go with the flow, she was pregnant, and really nothing to ask for, she married me, her cousin and her cousin's husband, which is my boss and the boss's wife, to send us a small apartment. Sent us a set of small apartments said: this is a sister and brother-in-law of a small token of appreciation, the future rely on Li Qiu own money for you to change the big room.

On the day of the wedding, I sent a circle of friends: thank you for appearing, so that I understand what is called love, this life, as long as you do not negative me, I will certainly not give up!

I still drove for my cousin's husband and cousin later on, but they would give me a raise every now and then and let me learn management and entertaining partners on my own, and then later on, my cousin's husband hired another driver, and I moved into a small management role in the company, and my wife successfully gave birth to our baby boy.

The other day I posted a friend's note: Thank you for being a part of making our lives perfect, eight pounds, little name burger! Tough on you, my wife!

The back of the child slowly grows up, accompanied by his wife, the phone in addition to calling, answering the phone, occasionally checking a data, photographed his wife and son's daily life, but also stored for the washing of photographs, basically a rare year to send two or three times in the circle of friends.

Feel no need to send a circle of friends, money, although not much, but enough, although the wife is not enough to stun the whole scene, but she is my most beautiful wife forever, although the son is not a genius, but healthy and happy growing up, although the parents do not have any money, but it is still considered to love my parents, although there are not many friends, but a phone call, without affecting the work and the family harmony of the situation will be a regular party, life is not wonderful, but also quite happy. Although life is not wonderful, but also quite full of happiness, the I have, the most important people are with me, I send a circle of friends for what?

Oral: Li Qiu

Editor: Little Crazy

The ones who don't agree and don't send friends are these two types of people:

First, when have you ever seen your leader posting a friend's circle, sunning this and that, lamenting having been born, lamenting this, lamenting that. It's not right and wrong.

Secondly, mature people, who still send a circle of friends. Circle of friends is very mixed, and again, mature people do not want others to pry into their own joys and sorrows, feelings and desires, and will not show off the rich sun this sun that, we must know that now people are laughing at the poor, jealous of your rich, why mess with the uncomfortable, idle you.

The people who still send out friend circles are just those who are doing microbusiness, direct sales, selling houses, selling clothes, doing insurance, and all of them are trying to make money anyway.

Other than these people, are you still posting friends? So childish.

Those who want to document their lives with a circle of friends have been changed to be visible for three days.

That's so true, I never post to my friends, I'm really having a mediocre time, a lot of my friends buy a plane ticket and sunbathe once first, get on the plane and sunbathe again, and my whereabouts, except for my loved ones, I generally don't want anyone else to know where I've been.

Although it's been said that "anyone who doesn't post anything to their friends is someone who's having a bad time," I still don't agree with that statement.

Because the starting point of all the people who send a circle of friends is similar, they all want to express their inner thoughts and let their friends know what they have done. The starting point of each person who does not send a circle of friends is different.

The influence of social network in modern people's daily life is getting bigger and bigger, from calling and texting in the communication era to the emergence of social products such as QQ and WeChat in the network era, it is more and more convenient for people's social life, further narrowing the distance between people, and truly realizing that with a machine in hand, one can see the ends of the earth and the corners of the world.

In life, the function of WeChat's circle of friends has entered the daily life of most people. Although, most people browse the WeChat circle of friends every day, but not everyone sends a circle of friends, these people are not people who have a bad life, it is just due to their own character.

Introverts are as reluctant to post friends as they are to talk to people.

In life, there are people who like to make friends and naturally there are people who don't like to make friends. Those who like to post their friend circle are willing to share what they think is interesting with their friends and make their friend circle colorful.

However, some people, probably due to their introverted nature, will smile to themselves about something they like, but won't share it with their friends.

Introverted personality, not willing to contact more people in life, not willing to speak more, also do not like social networks, also rarely speak in WeChat group, almost do not send friends circle.

Today's circle of friends is rather a public place, and introverts don't like to communicate with others, or express themselves verbally, or in writing, and naturally don't send out circles of friends.

People who are usually busy are so busy with work and life chores every day that they don't have time to send friends.

Some people live and work more lightly, belong to the leisure and fun people, send dozens of friend circles every day, constantly sharing their work, life, what they think to their friends.

The other part of the people, every day by the life, work in the affairs of the tired, often get up very early, has been a night very late to come back, from morning to night busy people almost no time to send a circle of friends.

I believe that most people have had such a busy experience with the same, there are tired do not want to pick up the phone when, who still remember to send what circle of friends?

Privacy-conscious people deliberately hide their life's work.

Some people don't want to expose too much of their privacy, and have a strong defense mentality at all times, fearing that people will learn personal information about them through their circle of friends, and they don't want to be disturbed.

There are also concerns about revealing too much personal information in your circle of friends. Nowadays, online fraud is everywhere, and some criminals will enter your circle of friends and steal useful information, which will ultimately cause property losses to yourself or your relatives and friends.

People who keep a low profile don't want to make too much of their lives.

Some people who don't send friend circles are a low-key person. This kind of person is very low-key in dealing with people, and does not like to show off, even if they have a lot of money in their pockets, they don't like to flaunt it. This kind of people in the circle of friends, never sunshine steering wheel, never sunshine food, never sunshine beautiful scenery, occasionally may be sunshine.

These people do not like to show off too much in their circle of friends, for example, some successful people or people with a certain professional status are very low-key. This kind of person hides very deeply and is very defensive, and the general public can't easily see personal information, personal whereabouts, and don't want others to see their circle of friends.

They spend their time on more precious things and rarely spend time brushing the circle of friends , low-profile people neither hate nor like the circle of friends. They just think that there is nothing to show in the circle of friends, life is like that, and they do not need to fulfill their vanity through the circle of friends.

People with lower self-esteem think that their lives are too simple and don't want to show up in their circle of friends.

This kind of person is a relatively low self-esteem, self-esteem is also very strong people, see other people's circle of friends, feel that other people sunshine are good, they can not take what to sun, simply hide in their own world, do not let others find.

Although, it seems that not posting friends is a person who is out of touch with society, a person who has nothing to do with fashion, hipness, openness ho, who doesn't understand the current rhythm of life at all, and is always a beat slower than others.

People who detest the circle of friends, just like people who hate doing microbusiness ads, don't want to interrupt other people's lives in the circle of friends.

Some people don't see the circle of friends in their natures.

In their opinion, many people will take a picture of their friends around them before dinner to show off, some people to prove how rich they are, they send gold, silver, jewelry and other valuables to their circle of friends to show off, some people do micro-businesses, directly in the WeChat circle of friends to send all sorts of small advertisements, like psoriasis can not be removed.

In the eyes of such a person, WeChat's circle of friends has long been a mess, all for their own interests, and already feel very disgusted with the circle of friends. They have been deliberately or unintentionally disturbed by many people, and they have suffered so much that they don't want to have any thoughts in the circle of friends, they just don't want to have the slightest disturbance to other people's lives.

These types of people, although each have their own reasons not to send friends circle, but, their life is not necessarily living a bad life, on the contrary, may be living a very good life, self-enjoyment, just do not want to let others know or do not want to live to affect others just.

What other people do your friends know who don't post to their friends? Of course, never mind the fact that there are still people without smartphones who don't see friend circles, much less post them.