Marriage is the foundation of family stability, and without a stable marriage there is no stable family. Marriage is not a child's play, both parties should go through various tests before marriage, fully understand each other, and establish deep feelings before marriage. However, the ideal is very rich, the reality is very bone, the plan did not change quickly, some couples get married, due to a variety of reasons can not grow old together, the feelings of the breakup, had to divorce.

Some people say that "in today's society, divorced families either have no money or too much money", what do you think?

I think there is some truth in this statement, but it is not entirely true. Nothing is absolute. Happy families are all the same, and unfortunate families have different reasons. The specific analysis is as follows.

Some of the unfortunate marriages are due to lack of money.

Marriage must be built on the material foundation, the economic foundation determines the superstructure. Marriage is not a game, love is not bread, whether it is a good marriage, or ideal love, ultimately return to life, have to live. Life in the wood, rice, oil, salt, vinegar and tea, clothing, shoes, hats, duties, support the elderly, children go to school, human contacts, buy a car to buy a house, etc., all need money. If there is no money, the mood is not good, couples often quarrel, serious lead to divorce, parted ways.

Some rich people have contact with a lot of people living in a complicated circle and are prone to change their mind or cheat.

Rich, contact with a wide range of people, the circle of life is also large, every day with a variety of people to deal with, every day contact with a lot of people, the circle of life is complex, all kinds of temptation is too much, a mountain to look at another mountain high, always feel that their own original partner is not as good as others, and then derailment or change of heart, and ultimately to the divorce, this is because too much money.

Not knowing each other deeply before marriage, various problems are exposed after marriage

Some couples, before marriage, did not seriously understand, grasp each other's situation, hasty marriage; or get along with the time is not long, love time is too short, only to see the surface of the other party, the other party's inner temperament, character did not understand, and flash marriage. After marriage, only to find that the other party's character and their own incompatibility, life outlook, values, world view gap is too large; before marriage, both sides are intentional to hide their own shortcomings and deficiencies, will show their own good side to the other party, the other party only see their own good side; marriage through a long time to get along with the two sides can not possibly hide their own shortcomings and deficiencies are slowly exposed. At this time, the man may be exposed to short temper, will be domestic violence, often stay out at night, do not care about the family, etc.; the woman may be exposed to do not love to do housework, not enough tenderness and considerate, to treat people do not do well, and so on. Smaller problems may be handled well, while bigger problems can only be dealt with by divorce.

In short, happy marriages are all similar, and unfortunate marriages have their own misfortunes. No money and too much money is only one aspect of divorce, more divorces are due to the two sides of the personality incompatibility, the gap between the three views is too large, the other side of the shortcomings and shortcomings of too much and so on. Thousands of times in the past life to exchange for a rub and pass in this life, couples can be combined, is how many times in the past life in exchange for a look back, may all the couples in the world, cherish the hard-won fate, do not easily say divorce, overcome all kinds of difficulties, hand in hand to walk through life.

Couples divorce, both sides understand that it is not a child's play, but they both believe that there is a knot that can not be untied, can not be knocked into the door, can not be crossed the depth of the river. Therefore, the only way to bear the tears of goodbye, a clean break. The idea is so decisive, the will is so firm. Ten oxen can't be pulled back.

It's a marriage that can't be saved. Why is there such deep hatred? Is it only the embarrassment of having no money, or the annoyance of having too much money?

Both, perhaps, will be seen.

Money lack of, to do something, always be money things blocked. The hero's arm is strong, and for the lack of money, he squeezes out tears. Tears. Tears, fleeing tears, divorcing.

The money more annoyed, for the money too much, by the money enslaved to make calls, the heart and unwilling, the heart and the grudges. The heart is not happy, and the heart is discontented. The heart is discontented, and the heart is discontented.

Therefore, the heart open, thoughts do not mess, see the rich do not suddenly happy, meet the poor do not complain about life, solid this mentality, stable as a mountain rock hard, fixed as the Great Wall meandering, very close to the key. Even if it is Tarzan presses the top, twelve winds blowing gradually, when it does not see. Idle steps, natural optimism. Marriage, not with the poor and rich, hanging on the line.

Because of the lack of money, there is a suspicion, and there is a thought of riches, and there are two pairs of hands that can be made to turn money. Two pairs of hands together, can be lifted, a mill round. Two pairs of hands, division of labor responsibilities, posts, gardens, two care both, when there will be the red sun rises round, reflecting a pair of smiling round face, marriage disk stone stable as a fixed ship.

Because of the rich have worries, more for the poor think, too much money can not be used up, donate it to the elderly homes, donated to the school to buy whips, generous and kind acts of praise, leaving a little, to bear the weight of the marriage certificate. Husband and wife hold hands, smile and step forward to comfort thousands of smiling faces sweet heart.

We think, rich and poor couples with this wanton attitude towards marriage grudges, there is a river that can not be crossed, there is a hurdle that can not be overcome, and there are more unfortunate than their own to see the same disease, so is it a straw to break the shoulder?

I hope that the couples who do not get along, please look up and see that bright and shiny, high sky miles, shining a round of silver disk round, a few more heartache, thrown with the silver light fade.

I agree with this statement. Poor couples have a lot to worry about, every day for the mortgage or rent, alimony, children's school fees, living expenses, human relations, etc., anxious, like years, two couples can not see the hope, no future, will be because of the money quarrels, contradictions, the marriage relationship is certainly dangerous. Too rich people, every day to spend the day, warmth and lust, like new and old, the marriage relationship is also prone to problems. Therefore, I think that the maintenance of marriage feelings is the foundation, material is the guarantee, one is indispensable.

It is often said that happy families are the same, unfortunate families have their own misfortunes; marriage between the two sides, due to various reasons, can not grow old together, and finally parted, can not be ruled out that some cases and money has something to do with, but will lead to a divorce of the culprits, completely attributed to the economic aspects of the elasticity of the family, or the family is too rich, inevitably, a little bit far-fetched.

So how much does a failed marriage have to do with money, let's sort it out.

First, both husband and wife are very strong, not to mention the principle of the issue, is a small contradiction in the trivial aspects of life, do not give in to each other, so much so that the argument is endless, or fight, to the final stalemate in the long-term cold war, time can not be very good communication, and even the breakdown of feelings, it should be character incompatibility.

Second, on the issue of support and filial piety to both parents, the differences are serious; each other more concerned about their own parents, never consider the feelings of the other side, and over time each side of the battlefield, resulting in irreconcilable contradictions, and parted ways.

Third, the two sides in the education of children's concepts, ways and means of each other; female bottomless spoiled, spoiled, while the male is more majestic. The woman thinks she was bitter as a child, always think the best to the child, is the best care for the child, the man thought that the cold family out of the noble son, and so on in the long run, so small contradictions in the family, resulting in the child's mind rebellious, academic performance a drop in the bucket, the family conflicts often break out, the feelings of the cracks, resulting in divorce.

Fourth, different consumer attitudes, one party is generous, spend money without restraint; while the other party is meticulous, so on and on, may be stretched to the limit to make ends meet, of course, the income is small, but also the objective fact.

Five, the family is solid, the male party has a good income, while also generous, occasionally engage in a little peach color news, the female party long-term emotional suppression, an outbreak, the consequences are very serious, but also the main culprits of the family breakup.

Of course, there are some couples where one of the spouses has more serious physical defects and ends up not being able to live on.

To sum up, combined with the divorced families we encountered in our lives, the reasons can be said to be different, even if we talk about three days and three nights can not say the reasons. Poor couples, economic conditions are not good, it is easy to conflict, but the income is not high family, life is not also living a flavorful? More money is easy to make people swell, but the family of the two sides of the marriage, husband and wife, love abound, so the marriage breaks down and the economic situation has a certain degree of correlation, but the parting of the ways of couples are not all and money has to do with.

For divorced families, I can only say: because of "money" and the dissolution of only a few percent. The main thing is still the problem of "three views", but in this commodity society, "copper odor" seems to be a little more.

Whether it is the past, present, or future, ordinary families because of the lack of money, couples have mutual respect and love, mutual love, life a generation, the upper class families have money over the head of the also have. For example: the entertainment industry, both men and women have money, to see the difference, Yang Hua water, cross-cutting love, three twilight four people are not also marriage as child's play, the knot and leave, leave and then knot three times the marriage is also not a minority.

It seems that "money" is not a decisive factor at a certain point in time. From a broader perspective, it is a matter of "three views", and from a smaller perspective, it is a matter of personal morality and quality. Nowadays, there is a saying in the society: "Men learn to be bad when they have money, and women learn to be slutty when they don't." Although "bad" and "slutty" and "money" are inextricably linked, but if you can be corrected from the moral and ethical, the probability of divorce will be greatly reduced.

In the past, people used to say, "Money makes the devil turn the mill." And now people also put this sentence and the other way around, said: "money can also make the mill push the ghost ......" I at all times do not deny that, under the heavy reward there will be brave man. As long as there is "money" can do any big thing, but "money" this thing can also corrode people's souls, extinguish people's humanity, depending on what is in the hands of the people.

When ordinary poor people's families get divorced because they have no money and are helpless in life, that is because life forces them to do so, so what is the purpose of divorcing rich people who have money on both sides? Isn't this part of the problem that arises in thought and ideology? To one-sidedly describe money as the only thing that leads to divorce is obviously unfair and untenable. Therefore, some problems cannot be blamed on money, and the root cause of divorce should be sought in the social atmosphere and the quality of people.

Thank you for mentioning this realistic and interesting question. I'm Breathless Observations, a creator in the field of beautiful writing, and I'm here to answer.

A lack of money determines that material life cannot protect the marriage and family.

Food is the most important thing for the people, and it is hollow and unrealistic to talk about the ideal of happiness without being able to solve the basic material life. Now the reality has decided, the city to have a house, go out to have a car, have a passbook in the bag. Of course, the house and car do not have, have money is also OK. Nowadays, life is very stressful and consumption is high. A child is born in the hospital to give birth to more than 10,000 yuan, milk powder money, early childhood education, kindergarten. It's more money than going to elementary and middle school. This class and that class are all about money. To be honest, without some strength, life is really difficult! I have a classmate, beautiful, married to a handsome man, handsome idle, can not earn money, and eventually the two divorced. The classmates lamented, married to love bullshit, good-looking can not be eaten. All day for the money quarrel where the happiness. So there is no money to ensure that the basic material cornerstone of marriage, even the best family building will collapse.

Two, rich, emotionless marriages lack soul.

Money is cold, and how terrible it would be to let the relationship become cold as well. That really puts the marriage into the grave. In real life, a lot of such couples, the husband has money, and the self at home as a full-time wife. Men have money around the natural lack of beautiful women, time will naturally derailed. The number of times you go home becomes less, the degree of intimacy decreases. Slowly quarrel, bored and finally lose money to disperse. Feelings are money can not buy, only in mutual respect, common tolerance in the establishment and cultivation.

So marrying love without material basis of marriage is not realistic; only money without feelings of marriage insecurity is dangerous. This is a learning experience, for each person in the test. The above is my shallow view, I hope to like.

Rich or poor, it's not a lack of love, but a lack of righteousness, and more importantly, a lack of conscience.

I don't think so!

"Happy marriage are the same, unfortunate marriage is different" happy marriage is a couple love, mutual understanding, mutual respect, mutual tolerance, mutual understanding, is the economy is not ideal, can also start from scratch, joint venture, to create a love hut belonging to two people, warm and sweet with the joy of happiness and prosperity together hand in hand to build harmony! Home!

🈶️ money no money depends on personal understanding, although the "poor wife a hundred things to mourn" economy is the basis of maintaining the family, but the feelings between husband and wife is the perfect embodiment of love, some families in the emergence of change, overnight in the aftermath of an accident, the husband and wife will be unswerving, and often stay together to give their partners to the The care and attention, although the reality is very cruel, very impatient ...... but between husband and wife of this greater than the day of the sincere feelings is how valuable! Worthy of the world to praise, eulogize, this is not in the money has to do? This is a kind of moral righteousness, a kind of responsibility, a kind of spiritual wealth more valuable than money! "A wife in need sees true love."

"Money isn't everything, but you can't do without it."

• Every family's happiness index should be based on the economy, but the feelings between husband and wife is true, rich people have rich people's days, no money have no money people live, money and then more families to lose the joy of eating delicacies, fish and meat, the lack of hush-hush, there is no exchange of husband and wife will be tedious; rough tea and rice, steamed bread and salted vegetables a family of QiLiXingLong, you can also eat out of the flavor of the delicacies.

Marriage depends on how two people to operate, marriage needs watering and fertilizing, marriage needs to weed and kill insects, marriage needs to be nourished by love, love of watering, really pay, sincere companionship, ...... only two people's sincere efforts, in order to get a seat of happiness, husband and wife are well, the family is happy!

May all lovers in the world be united in love! Heart to heart 💕 Mutual warmth, work together for total splendor!

"A husband and wife in one heart and one mind can break the bonds of gold."

There are many reasons for divorce in our society nowadays. Let's not talk about others, but only about men. If a man's income is only enough for annual food and expenses. The marriage of such a family is at risk of fragmentation. If the expenditure is greater than the income, the first thing that happens is the words. Over time conflicts intensify, forcing the marriage to break up. If the man is really rich, the divorce rate in such a family is still quite low. Because men want to have their own home. No matter what happens, they do not want to lose the home. Individuals certainly cannot be discharged. The main reason for divorce in today's society is as if people are in a relationship. All are separated because of money. Individual

Divorced for sex.

No money. Divorce for money.

When a man has money → he is related to anyone!

A woman who wants to be rich → must lose for love!