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"It's hard to make friends when you don't have money." Do you agree with this statement and why?

"It's hard to make friends when you don't have money." Do you agree with this statement and why?

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"It's hard to make friends when people are broke"? I don't agree that there is such a statement, I think it is just a psychological effect of the individual. In our real life, rich people can make friends, no money people can also make friends, just make different friends, make different ways. As long as it is to make their favorite suitable friends, mutual good to friends, no money is not something difficult, and difficult is difficult to make the wrong friends in their own wrong people, and then again, it is difficult to make real friends.

As the saying goes, people have more friends on more roads, but friends are by sincere friendship, not with money to get friends of the heart, money is not a measure of the standard of making friends, and money for selfish purposes, for the glory of the interests of the people, that kind of people just look at the money does not look at the people, and made is not a real friend.

Friends, only in times of trouble to see the true feelings of friends is to make true friends, only to make a move on the friends is to make good friends, only willing to think of friends and not difficult for friends of friends, that is really rare friends.

I don't agree.

Because making friends is not directly related to money. We don't make friends because of money.

Those who make friends because of money are really dog friends. Just taking advantage of each other and not friends in the true sense of the word we use!

In the event of a setback.

When the shit hits the fan, they all go their separate ways.

When you don't have money, the tree falls on a sinking ship and these so-called friends stay away from you, not even visible.

A friend in need is a friend in need, and a friend in need is what we want the most!

Rich or poor, it only means that we all live in different circles and are exposed to different people.

You don't have money, you can make friends who don't have money. You have money, you can make friends with money.

So the saying that it's hard to make friends when one has no money is not true!

It varies from person to person.

Each person's lifestyle also determines which way we have to get along to be more compatible.

Whether you have money or not, we all have to live equally!

Between friends, there should be more tolerance and understanding to help each other.

If there is anything, if there is any difficulty, we can sit down together to discuss and solve the problem, in this way, the friendship can be long-lasting.

Nowadays, in this society, although it is impossible to say that there is no money, but money can't buy back the thing of feelings!

The reality of the dilemma is better illustrated by the stench of wine and meat at the vermilion gate and the frozen bones on the road.

Talking about money, you can't even be friends, let alone later.

"It's hard to make friends when you don't have money" Do you agree with this statement? Why?

I don't agree with that statement.

Because as harsh as reality is, the main thing that keeps friends together is their feelings.

Money, it's just an accessory, it has no real feelings! It doesn't represent our friendship.

Money, when you have it, spend more. When you don't have it, spend less.

You can still make a few friends, even if you don't have any money.

And best friends!




I absolutely agree. When you're poor, you're lucky if you're not disliked or bullied, so who's going to befriend you? Dream on. So, when you don't have money, don't think about how many friends to make, think about how to change yourself as soon as possible and grow yourself, that's the way.

It's worse to have friends with money...because TA can only be icing on the cake, TA won't snowball...and that's just how it is nowadays! People.

I don't share this view.

It is not always difficult to make friends when one has no money, and likewise, it is not always easy to make friends when one has money. People who are kind make kind friends, people who are wise make wise friends, and people who are carrots and cabbages each have their own favorites. What kind of friends you make is your own choice. Bad friends hurt people, bad friends backstabbing, and real friends are heart to heart, is mutual admiration, is to know cold know hot, is straight talk, is good teacher, is like-minded. Friends can be divided into meat and wine friends, male and female friends, general friends, ordinary friends, far friends, close friends, good friends, bad friends, know friends, know friends, close friends, international friends and so on.

Making good friends, making friends, not only is not very difficult, but also with no money money at all can not be directly related.

I agree with this statement because there are no permanent friends, only permanent interests!

Let's start by saying there are no friends forever:

The so-called friends, I understand, is because of a certain goal, or life common hobbies and so on come together, but no matter what the reason, from the point of view of friends more road is better, their bond of connection is still mainly interests. Of course, this kind of interest is not the same as is money, but mutual utilization value...

For example, when you were a child, you had a mutual playmate to help you in the war; when you are older, you have a gang, the purpose is to have a care in case of trouble. Work and business, not to mention, is clearly to use each other. When the value of these utilization disappears, the friend is also famous but not real. Let's say two good friends separated, decades later never see each other again, you say they are still the real meaning of friends?

Plus there are only ever benefits:

As the saying goes, "poor living in the city, no one asked, rich in the mountains have distant relatives". This shows that there is the use of value in the mountains, but also relatives; no use of value, you in the city, but also not relatives. Not to mention friends. There is also a saying called "people are gathered in groups", in today's words, your circle determines your value, your circle of friends is the embodiment of your personal value.

Whether you recognize it or not, the big country to country, small to people to people, make friends are for the sake of interests. There is no use value of people, never make friends. In reality, a country is rich and strong, more friends; a person made a fortune, looking for him to recognize his friends more people. On the other hand, when a country is in decline, allies are scattered; when a person is poor and in trouble, all his old friends are gone.

Anyway, I agree with this statement, but it needs to be clarified that it is not exactly money, rather it should be interests. With benefits, the original enemy can become a friend; without benefits, the original friendship will be broken; in order to compete for benefits, friends may also become enemies. In reality, whether it is a country or an individual, how many friends have turned against each other for the sake of interests, and how many enemies have come together again for the sake of interests? In other words, when benefits are there, everyone is a friend; when there are no benefits, friends are naturally gone!

Hopefully, my answer will be helpful to you!

Purely personal opinion, feel free to leave a comment and discuss 🎉

I think that's basically right! And even those who used to be friends are avoided from afar! Anyone who has ever enjoyed a meal on the house of a friend in distress seems to have forgotten. Don't comment, don't want to judge [shy]

People, when there is no money, it is really difficult to make friends, so that; rich in the mountains have distant relatives, poor in the street no one recognized. This sentence reality.


I don't agree, don't mean to have money to have friends, that most of them are friends of meat and drink, you have an incident to see, there are a lot of people in the well, poor people, but poor people are not poor, poor friends are many, poor people have poor music and people really, will not do the thing in the well.

It's a matter of individuality, and one has to agree, but only with ordinary people.

For the self, failure can make a person decadent, and what ensues is the overthrow of the personality. Psychology says that this is the time when people take their self-esteem and ego too far, not because your failures are keeping people away from you, but because you are keeping the world and the people who love you away.

For others, you failed, no money. Will be kept away from people, what the people around you are most afraid of, the first is afraid of you reaching out and opening your mouth, afraid of you talking to him about money. Socialization is interaction, you come and go, it is a bipolar effect.

But one thing we need to agree on is your cultural accumulation, and your social attributes. As the saying goes, a skinny camel is bigger than a horse, a person's education and literacy will always be more important than money, and a person's solid social resources are a huge internet.

So on the flip side of that statement, people, it's hard to make friends when you don't have money, it's just that you don't have easy access to using money to maintain resources when you don't have money, which proves that the attributes of weekday social circles and crowds of people can be just as helpful in helping you to recognize some people and things.

In fact, whether it is good or bad, always remember to give yourself a life pipeline, to pave a road for themselves, good times do not forget to help you people, but also have to be, a lot of people have money to forget the original, take a step to dig a hole for themselves to bury a mine, know that if you fall you have to start again from scratch, when you find out from a new start hard, you will understand that those bumps are pro own left behind.

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