Someone said."Raising children may not prevent old age, but having money really prevents old age."I do not recognize this argument. Since raising children is not a defense against old ageWhat's the point of having kids? Then you can just save money for the rest of your life. The most important thing is that when your parents get old, will you support them?

If you can't raise a son against old age, you can raise a daughter against old age?Raising children for old age is a way of old age that has been handed down since ancient times, and it is also for the purpose of passing on the family name, having children and grandchildren, and having a prosperous family.

When a daughter grows up and marries, she has a family of her own and people to take care of. If she marries not far away, she can still come back to visit from time to time. If she marries far away, she will become more and more estranged every year. Only your son, daughter-in-law and grandchildren will be with you until the end to honor you.

"You heartless, you loser, you animal, get out of here and never come back and we don't want to see you again."If you have a son like that, there is certainly no hope for old age.

If you have a son like that, then the only place to look is at yourself.The son does not teach the father.What kind of parents, what kind of family culture and education, will have what kind of sons and daughters.

Do you honor your parents? Do you support them in their old age? If no one is raising you old, you deserve it. Because they all learned from you, you have no one to blame.

Is it true that being rich protects against old age?Money is the minimum to live on. Don't you have a pension? Doesn't the state have pension insurance health insurance? How much money do you have to retire? What do you want to eat when you're old? The sea and the mountains?

How old is old enough? Is retirement old? Can't you move? Can't you take care of yourself?

Live to learn. Live to be old, work to be old. When you are so dry that you cannot move, you are really old. Life lies in movement, and health issues are the most important. Because no amount of money can buy health.

What's the biggest fear of getting old?Lonely and alone.The thing that I look forward to the most on New Year's Day is for my children to come home to see and talk to me.This kind of spiritual happiness and pleasure cannot be bought by any amount of money.

A child's mother worries about him. Don't forget how your parents have worked so hard to bring you up. When they get old, don't you care about them?

Respect for the old and love for the young. The old have a sense of security and support. This is our traditional virtue since ancient times. Because we all have old one day, good treatment of the elderly is good treatment of tomorrow's self.

So, can you raise children to prevent old age? Then take the lead and set a good example yourself! Your children will definitely look at you and remember you. Life has endless work and endless money. If you have time, go home more often! Honor the elderly! When your parents are here, your home is here. When parents go, there's only the way back.

I am Wai! The above is my personal opinion. Please correct me if there is any difference in opinion! Thanks!

Do you think we mean by old age? What stage is called old age?

What I mean is that as long as you can eat, drink, pull yourself up, walk and sleep on your own you are not an old person, you are an elderly person, and the elderly, in the present social situation, do not need and may not have anyone to serve them, that is, without a penny, the State will not let you starve to death!

Now there is a way of old age called holding old age, however, the basic condition is that you must be able to take care of yourself, but rather, you must have money; nowadays, the society does not keep those who cannot take care of themselves in nursing homes, and in our nursing home here, once you are too old to take care of yourself, your family must take you back to your home, and do not want to give you any money!

The so-called elderly are people who cannot take care of themselves, bedridden, demented, basically unable to walk, and that's the elderly, the ones who really need someone to give them old age, and that's the only time they need someone or money!

Your question says that someone is better than having money, I don't think so, if the child can give old age, and I mean if, the child has the time, the space and the ability to give old age, I think it's much better than having money!

Children are biological, usually filial to their own parents, serving more attentive! If you have the money to go to a nursing home, the person serving you is doing it for money, it's an employment relationship. Hasn't there been a few examples of people serving the elderly in Guangzhou? Of course, it's best to have people with money! Haha! Ideal is rich, reality is very bone-skinny ah!

This is a very practical statement. As long as you have money, you can take care of a lot of things on your own, and if you really can't move, you can also pay for someone to take care of you. There are two kinds of children: those who are unfilial and needless to say, and those who are limited in their ability and cannot bear to see their family dragged down for your sake. Of course, it is best if you have a conscience and the ability to do so. But how much reality is there? As the old saying goes: "It's better to have a father and a mother than to have your own" is very reasonable, so I think that when people get old, it's more secure to have money of one's own.

Kinship is more important than money!

More money is a blessing, handling it poorly can turn it into a curse!

When one gets older, one should look at everything a little more openly. At the stage when one is able to take care of oneself and organize one's own life, one should try to enjoy life as much as possible. To enjoy life as much as possible, the so-called enjoy life does not necessarily mean spending more money. The so-called enjoyment of life does not necessarily mean spending more money, but peace of mind is enjoyment.

First of all: deal with your relationship with your family and children. Try to create a harmonious family atmosphere. Enjoy the enjoyment that the joy of family brings to yourself.

Second: After a lifetime of busyness, you must idle your mind. You must put down all the things at home and outside, and seriously be your own idle man. Enjoy the enjoyment that a life of ease brings to oneself.

Third: Go out and see the splendor and beauty of the outside world when you have the chance. But be sure to do so in moderation and never get tired. Enjoy the visual experience in comfort.

Don't take money too seriously and stop trying to earn it.

If you have some savings with you, deal with fairness to your children early on in addition to your retirement, and don't leave any loose ends.

If they need to be supported by their children, they should organize their lives according to their children's actual situation. If necessary, they can also participate in some labor within their capacity if they are physically fit.

Anyway, old age, old age. Just be happy.

What is old age! Old age is a person into the elderly, food, clothing, housing and transportation are guaranteed. Today's society you live in the city is not guaranteed, in the countryside, the state has a small amount of subsidies, as long as there is food to live in, talking about the birth of a child to raise children to prepare for the old is not also in order to food, clothing, housing and transportation, counting on a serious illness, the children had to manage that is no way out of the matter, but also to suffer from the pain of the disease, no money or to set up a way to young people's lives are also under great pressure, on the filial piety of the elderly, the next child to go to school, car loans and home loans but also to live. The car loan and house loan also have to live. All in all, when people are old, they can do what they can to minimize the burden on their children.

Ren Tong ah, nowadays the children are too realistic, daughter is you raised, son-in-law is not ah, son is you raised, daughter-in-law is not. So it is difficult to ask others to come to the old age of the matter, first of all, one should do oneself to their own raised and foreign the same world, if we old people can not do it, assessment of what to ask others to treat you well? Don't take the old family rules to ask people now. Only their own strong live in peace.

Some people say that raising children may not necessarily prevent old age, but only when one is rich can one really prevent old age. I still recognize this saying.

It is true that in the past, children were raised for old age. At that time, productivity was low. It was either agriculture or handicrafts. One had time at one's disposal. When parents were sick, it was perfectly fine to take a few days off to serve them. At that time, it was not like nowadays when one is hospitalized and has to spend a lot of money. At most, it was just a matter of finding a traditional Chinese medicine practitioner and prescribing a few pairs of herbal medicines, which didn't cost a lot of money. Therefore, it is perfectly possible to raise children for old age.

People nowadays can't. Due to urbanization, people either work or go to work. When your parents are sick, you can't dictate your time. You need the unit's approval before you can rest at home and serve the old man for a few days. In fact, the leadership is to grant you leave, you can not stay at your parents' side for a long time. If you delay too much time, you will not be able to earn money, then your family's life, will feel very nervous.

If a parent needs to be hospitalized. It also takes a lot of money. If you don't have enough money, you can't even stay in the hospital, so what's the use of being by your parents' side every day?

If you have money, it makes a big difference. If you eat, one phone call and takeout comes to you. If out of pocket, a nanny comes to you. Serving tea, cooking, cleaning, washing hands and face. You'll be well taken care of. If you get sick, a phone call, will pull you to the hospital, examination and infusion, injection and medicine, will be able to cure your disease, healthy and well out of the hospital.

If you are unable to move, as long as you have money, you can live in a nursing home. They have doctors and attendants to treat you when you are sick, and when you are not sick, you can enjoy all the services that the nursing home gives you, so that you can live a happy and joyful life in your twilight years and enjoy your life in your old age.

The best future of their own money pension, relying on children's pension, children have character, have a conscience of your pension do not have to worry about, the countryside is to raise a son to prevent old age, money or no money is not a big problem, most of the old can be, but the city people with the rural areas of the two, the high cost of living in the city is difficult to accept, the elderly have money to best of their own old-age pension insurance, it must be difficult to say that children, children do not have the money is difficult to live in old age, the old age. We all have money do not have to worry about, pension themselves can pension, children must also put you good old age.

Raise children to prevent old age part of the difficult line, leave money is not necessarily able to prevent old age, unless sudden death or else people have money in the hospital bed can only rely on others to help you with, and money everyone needs, there is no one afraid of money, and it is not possible that every family and friends are sincere and do not ask for return and help you.

Some people say that "raising children may not be able to prevent old age, money is really to prevent old age" Do you agree with this statement? Why?

Silk view: beg to differ!

Human beings are the emotional animals with the highest emotional quotient in the world we live in, and "knowing gratitude and knowing how to give back" is the most prominent and fundamental characteristic that distinguishes human beings from other animals; otherwise, we will be no different from other animals.

Maybe when we were growing up, we all heard our parents say to themselves these words: study hard, work hard, as long as you have a good future and live well, it's worth it no matter how hard we work!

However, if we thus think that parents do not need their children to be grateful and reciprocate, and take their indifference to them for granted, then this is not only our lack of understanding of our parents, but also our heartlessness as children.

Parents are the most selfless, they are in order for their children to grow up to adulthood, to have their own better life, is always hard work, what they have aggrieved or pain will not tell their children, always afraid of their own carelessness affect their children's lives, they not only gave us the body and life, but also carefully take care of every process of our growth, and even when we have grown up to own their own homes and lives, still worry about us constantly! They not only give us body and life, but also carefully take care of every process of our growth, even after we have grown up and have our own home and life, and still keep worrying about us, it can be said that: without parents, there is no our life, there is no we have today!

If the parents of this higher than the sky, deeper than the sea of kindness can not get the children's gratitude and return, but also let them produce "raising children may not be able to prevent old age, money is really to prevent old age," the reality and the bitter helplessness, then, what is the difference between the children and animals, and the animals and what is the difference?

So, while their parents are alive, take the time to spend more time with them, more for them to do some of their own ability to do it, do not let the "money" to become their defense against old age, the last "straw", and then only know the regret, everything has been too late!