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I am after 60 years, facing retirement, I feel very confused after retirement how to do? What should I do if I feel lost after retirement?

I am after 60 years, facing retirement, I feel very confused after retirement how to do? What should I do if I feel lost after retirement?

I am 60 years old. Facing retirement after retirement is very confused how to do? Seek guidance from my peers.

In fact, there is a process of adaptation from being busy with work to being completely idle after retirement. I am in the year of 60, retired for almost ten years, just retired that moment is also not adapted to, due to my life after retirement is in a foreign place, my colleagues and friends are in the old home in Shandong, in a completely strange city. A friend is not, really boring and lonely, in order to pass the time, I like to do handmade, do embroidery. Knitting sweaters, they also buy some cheap cloth to do clothes, so I slowly adapted to this life, every day on the supermarket to buy food. Clean up the health, listen to music, now the most enthusiastic thing listening to music to do handmade work, last year and came to today's headlines, met a lot of strange friends, every day when you have time to brush today's headlines, and then take a look at the articles of the friends, write comments point point praise. This time passes very quickly, always feel that the time is not enough. Now also fully adapted to the post-retirement life, feel very full, but also very happy. I sincerely hope that all my senior friends can find a happy life after retirement that suits them. 😃

I am also in my 60's and will be retiring in a little over four years. I have been considering your question for a long time, and I have also been observing the mentality and living conditions of people after retirement. At the earliest, I found out from my father-in-law, who used to be the principal of a middle school and later served as the secretary of the school's party branch. When he was 58 years old, the higher-ups demanded that they should retire to the second line and return to being an ordinary teacher. I found that he was very lost, and for a long time he did not know what to do and was not happy at all. Later, when he retired, he returned to his hometown in the countryside, first raising a few rabbits, going out to the fields every day to mow some grass, and sometimes helping his mother-in-law with cooking and other things. There were two things that made him feel at ease in his old age: first, he found his hobby: fishing, going out early in the morning and coming back at one or two o'clock at noon every day. Secondly, the birth of my son gave him the joy of having grandchildren. Therefore, I realize that when one is facing retirement, one should plan ahead so that one does not have to be at a loss as to what to do or what direction to take.

So what can we do to better enjoy our old age? I think there are the following points:

First, you have to find your own hobbies, depending on what you like. A friend of mine, she likes dancing and traveling, so after she retired, not only did she attend a senior citizen university, learning dancing and yoga, but she also traveled a lot. I envy this kind of life. Of course, the premise is that her grandchildren are seven or eight years old and she doesn't have to worry much. You can live like her if you are a lady, and if you are a man, you can choose fishing, enjoying the great rivers and mountains and sports, and chess and card games as well. This is the most stress-free life.

Secondly, if you think you have a skill and are healthy, you don't have to go out and waste it, you can go and find a job related to your specialty to enrich yourself. A colleague of mine retired last year, and since she was a nurse, she is now working in the school infirmary, and I see that she is very happy with her job. There is also a male colleague who retired and took a little class in a private school, and usually stayed at home with his grandchildren and had a good time. It's a life of living out one's spare time.

Thirdly, if your sons and daughters need you to help with the children, you can go and help. Although it is hard to bring up children, you help your children and let them work at ease, which is a sign of love for your children. At the same time, in the process of bringing up your grandchildren and grandchildren, you also get a lot of fun, and children are angels. This is the happy life of children and grandchildren.

Fourth, now very popular, you can play with the self media, in today's headlines, you can browse a lot of knowledge and skills, but also can make a lot of friends. If you stick to it well, there are a lot of earnings oh. This is a fashionable and fun life.

Overall, no matter which path you take, you need to learn to enjoy yourself, be in a good frame of mind, hobbies, work, and play. I hope my advice will be helpful to you. Thanks!

I am 69 years old, retired last year, just retired from the really some discomfort, do not know what to do every day good.Most importantly the paycheck is a whole lot less.

Post-sixty is basically a one-child family with children working overseas.Being home alone was disorienting, there was a sense of being disconnected from society, and at the time the thing that interested me most every day was videoing with my daughter.

I don't have many friends, some of them are busy with their businesses, some of them are rehired back to work, and some of them are just going to their children's homes to help with their little ones.

I'd actually like to move in with my daughter, but she's busy with work during the week.The bottom line is that she shares a house with a classmate and I don't get to live there for long.

Thinking about this is not a way, finally my daughter encouraged me to find some hobby to do, and then she taught me how to shoot video, play headlines.

I'm now at home every morning tidying up my room, cleaning, and moving around a little bit after lunch before I start writing my headlines.

After an hour's rest after dinner, I went to the playground and jumped rope, six days a week, four thousand a day.

After the workout, press your legs, do some stretches, and go home to read a book or write another headline.

Anyway, I feel very full now and sometimes go days without reaching out to my daughter, which surprises her!

After retirement, if you want to live a full life and have spiritual support, you can't do without hobbies, find a thing you like to do. After a lifetime of revolutionary work, it's time to take a break, the rest of your life is very expensive, and walk and cherish it!

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It's fair to say that you're new to society and lost.

We're retired, what's the point of being confused.

Receive your pension by the month, want to eat, want to play.

Going to the park to sing and dance, shopping and drilling, going to the theater and movies.

Learning to play and sing, playing cards and mahjong, traveling and taking pictures. Sightseeing in the three mountains and five mountains, staying in the five continents and four seas.

This is the aspiration of many working young people, but also confused about what!

Unless it's a techie, the project hasn't been approved yet, and the topic is in the research phase.

Cancer hasn't been conquered yet, and head replacement is just on the horizon. That's perfectly fine to apply for a delayed retirement and keep attacking the problem.

If you are a big scientist, there is no question of retiring or not retiring. Because the country wants you and the people can't live without you.

For example, we are most familiar with Zhong Nanshan, Yuan Longping ,,,,,. Either you can't retire, or you retire without retiring.

So there's nothing confusing about facing retirement. It just so happens that there's a lot of great theater left to do.

I'm after 60, retired at the beginning of the previous year, did not have time to lose, so I do not know what it is like to lose, not to mention there is a little bit, that is, passing by the original unit again, I feel that it is not the unit of the people, that's all. Because I'm too busy to think about where it hurts and where it's hard, to watch TV dramas, or to reminisce about the past. 我让我自己再就业了,给今日头条打工😁😁,天天剪辑视频,废寝忘食。 Before I retired, I thought I would live for myself this time and do what I was interested in. Just retired the first year, foreign run around, one person a bag, alone, last year after some learning, began to shoot travel video, starting from shooting home, while shooting and figuring out, and so on learning almost, self-driving trip to go. Not bad epidemic, already on the road. Said these, want to express is to let themselves enrichment, hard work half a lifetime, the real wonderful only began, you say, we think so!

I am also after 60, there are two months will be retired, in the face of the new life that will soon come, happy and ready, will be a new attitude to meet the arrival of a better life.

1, retirement is a major event in life, means the end of career, the beginning of a new life, in the thought, psychological must be fully prepared, so that the road safely.

2. Before the rain saves for the muse is a Chinese idiom meaning to repair the doors and windows of a house before it rains. It is a metaphor for making preparations in advance to prevent unexpected things from happening.

3. When I was still half a year away from retirement, I began to think about how to organize my life after retirement. Retirement is a new starting point in life, and the day of retirement is the day I press the start button to really let myself go.

4, do not have to go to work, time belongs completely to their own, go to fully enjoy the freedom, enjoy the beauty of life.

5. Still going to bed early and getting up early, cooking and eating on time, and maintaining a good routine.

6. Develop a practical life table to keep each day organized and busy.

7. According to my own hobbies and specialties, I have chosen two professions that I like, and I attend the University for the Elderly twice a week. No matter how old I am, I still go to study and embrace new knowledge.

8, this year's May I signed up for the headlines, experience a writer said the classic: "a person can go far, depending on who he has to walk with; a person how good, depending on who he has to point out; a person how successful, depending on who he is with."

Walking with the headline, life will have a mentor, so as to discover the beauty of the eyes to see a wider world, and appreciate and what people together, really important. Walk with the wise, you will get wisdom, and with the high people, you can achieve.

9. Plan to travel no less than twice a year, keep a young mind, love life, go exploring, never give up your dreams, never lose yourself.

10. Before I retired, I joined an art group that had activities twice a week. Between activities I was able to chat with friends and whisper to confidants.

11, you are facing retirement, feel very confused about the days after retirement, that is not yet adjusted to a good state of mind. Life has been half, through the wind and rain, walked through the ditch, meditate and reflect on their own, it is possible to understand that the past is not love, the future is not worried, is a state of mind. Things to comply with, the moment is not mixed, is a kind of wisdom.

In short, a thousand worlds, but a bowl of human fire, with a joyful heart to live, with a soft heart to remove the hang-ups, with a pure heart to live every present moment. Record with your heart every little moment of progress and happiness in ordinary days, find the joy of ordinary life, and let the firewood, rice, oil and salt also blossom.

I am retired in September, 2016, (but at the beginning of the year is not working). In addition to spending ordinary days with my family, I also traveled with friends; especially young men and women, their energetic, greatly affecting me, happy is the greatest feeling. Retirement is an inevitable part of life and the beginning of a different kind of life; enjoy it. Tip: Don't think of yourself as a slave to your children and grandchildren! Don't worry about your mother-in-law; don't talk to people who don't make enough money! The most important thing is ~ to be at peace with the world.

Retirement is good, you are born to enjoy the blessings of the people, you do not have to do anything, receive money every month is.

I have a relative, at work is a leadership position, all kinds of busy, retired last year, stayed at home for less than three days, all kinds of discomfort 😔, every day, get up early, eat early, get dressed, think about not having to go to work, all kinds of boredom!

After about two months of overdoing it, she gradually found things to do on her own, first of all, she revived her dream and went to learn calligraphy and piano, that's called hard work, early morning and late night, its a joy!

Through her example, I think you don't need to be confused, your youthful years have been dedicated to your love of work, retired, just a milestone in life, the second half of life has just pressed the start button, you can 😊 go to do have been wanting to do but did not have the time to do things, you can go to the University of the Elderly, and learn the knowledge, but also make new friends, if there are grandchildren, you can also taste the fun of the grandchildren! Make your own plans, learning, exercise, food, travel ... and other good waiting for you, there will be a period of excess, adjust the mentality, leave the job not to leave the community, the workplace to give way to the young people, the center of life to their own operation!

I wish you a happy retirement and an enjoyable life!

The ship to the pier to the station. When you reach the retirement age, you have to retire and leave the workplace, so you can give up your position to the young people! Should be worth happy and happy ah! There is nothing to be confused about.

I was originally in a bureau as a secretary of the work of several decades, retired and finally relieved of the heavy and review of the work. While the body can still, about a few friends and acquaintances to go out to travel and see the great mountains and rivers of the motherland! It is a very happy and joyful time!

Retirement should be rationalized every day things, according to each person's favorite calcination of the body, to nine o'clock with friends to drink tea, catch up with the old. At eleven o'clock to see the headlines, brainstorming and writing reviews. Sometimes write calligraphy, a word of advice do not let yourself idle, something to do mood is also good, happy every day it!

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