I've been through a lot.

You can see the essence of things from their phenomena.

Reading, reading about different life experiences

I've also experienced the bitterness and sorrow of different lives.

Heard a quote:

"One reaches a certain age and one has to be that roof over one's head and can no longer find shelter from the rain."

The older people get, the lonelier they get, and the further back they go, the stronger they want to be.

The heartlessness and innocence of childhood

Growing up hidden, a smile on your face

But my heart is hidden.

Living alone, working alone, working alone...

I've tasted the sweet and sour of life.

Suffering the weight of life in silence

No one wants to stay in the rain if they have an umbrella over their head.

No one wants to stay afloat if they have company.

Books are written about other people's lives

And your own experience

It's our own book in the palm of our hand.

May you taste all the flavors of life and always be bright and calm.

May you have seen the vicissitudes of life, resisted all, and remain at peace in your heart.

Interesting topic. From ignorance to knowledge, from prejudice to complete cognition out of stubbornness, to be able to see the essence of things, from understanding people to become enlightened people toward the Mingda people, standing high enough to runescape view of the earth this need to look at heaven and earth and people, you and me and other books. Really read them all? There is no question of the three do not know. For example, how much do you know about philosophy, physiology, psychology, ideology, politics, history, religion, law, morality, human nature ......? What is the purpose of literacy? Can a person mature without reading intellectual books? An immature mind is always a child. Is this the answer to that? 🌴🌴🌴🌴🌴🌴🌴🌴

If you read too many books and do not feel, you only see through the essence of things, but do not perceive the meaning of things. A person's whole life is to find the meaning of living in solitude.

Reading opens up the horizons we seek, and the meaning of being alive is something we need to sense.

It is not loneliness that comes from reading a lot of books, but loneliness that chooses to read. Lonely people like quiet, like free thought. Free thinking requires an open mind to find the ideal world.

Reading gives us quietness of mind and room for reverie. The mind is thus enriched and the heart is thus cozy.

Reading is to solve the confusion, the book reading is meaningful. If reading is just to pass the time, think of it as a trip of the mind, leave the good behind and forget the unpleasant.

Before I answer that question, let me tell you a little story

Yesterday, I watched a video, Guo Degang participated in a program, which said a paragraph about the Shanghai gangsters, his general meaning is about Du Yuesheng, Zhang Xiaolin, when they were young in that era when they initially mixed with the society, they all necked a big gold chain, hand with a big gold watch, but also must be suited and booted, with Cheng bright leather shoes. In the beginning, there must be faction, but also must be sufficient. This should actually be a person, not very confident performance, need to rely on certain external objects to set themselves off.

Later on, after these big brothers "succeeded", they would not want those big gold chains and gold watches. Will wear a long cloth green shirt, feet wearing cloth shoes, this cloth shoes must also be that handmade thousand layer bottom, at most will wear a watch, the kind of old a little pocket watch. This is because, to reach a realm, in their position from the comfortable, their own can fit any occasion, should be a kind of temperament from the inside out.

You, in this, would be in the initial realm of reading, feeling like you've read so much that you can see through the essence of everything, and are so lost that you begin to feel alone.

In fact, I can only say that you read too few books. There is an old Chinese saying, "There is only a golden house in a book, and there is a jade in a book". If you really know all kinds of books, how can you be lonely. Beyond the superficial nature of things, let you feel lonely, because you have doubts, did not find the real answer. If you have already reached the realm of transcendence, loneliness will certainly make you feel helpless, you might as well try to travel thousands of miles, will certainly solve your troubles.

The highest level of reading should be that you will feel more and more ignorant.

Feel free to comment and troll!

Thank you for your invitation, and I would like to answer this question. There are roughly three realms in people's understanding of things: one level looks at a mountain as a mountain and water as water; the second level looks at a mountain as not being a mountain and water as not being water; and the third level looks at a mountain as still being a mountain and water as still being water. Song Dynasty great writer Su Shi has a famous philosophical poem "tide": "Mount Lu smoke and rain in Zhejiang tide, not to a thousand hatred has not disappeared. To still come to nothing else, Mount Lu smoke and rain Zhejiang tide." The language of the poem illustrates this profound truth. The more you read, the more complex to see the problem, the more lonely you feel, your understanding is still roughly in the first and second level of the realm! The significance of our reading is not only to learn some knowledge, understand some reasoning, and more importantly, to guide our actions, that is, the theory and practice, better adapt to society, to serve society. Confucius said: "Learning from time to time, not also said." Here, "learning from time to time" does not mean reviewing and practicing, but practicing at the right time. That is to say, is it not a delightful thing to learn how to deal with others and to practice and apply it at the right time? The more one reads, the more one understands the truth, the more one has friends, and the more one contributes to society, how can one feel lonely! "To read is to learn, and to use is to learn, and more importantly to learn." Put what you've learned to use to help others and serve the community! That's really more than lonely!

The more you read, the more you can see through things, and when you see through everything, you feel alone.

Subject, I agree with what you say in general. Yes indeed, the more you read, the more you will undoubtedly know about philosophy and world affairs, and of course the more you will be able to see through things.

However, seeing through the essence of everything is still not very easy to realize. Without full merit, it is almost impossible.

Besides, the so-called seeing through everything, that's just your own subjective judgment, the subject, not necessarily the result of what will be has really happened. So you don't have to feel so alone.

You move as if you have seen everything in the world and even in the universe, giving the impression as if you are already on your own, but the reality is really not necessarily so.

Said so much, the center of the meaning, that is, the subject you do not too much for their own reading too much to see the thing and add to the trouble, you can relax, read more reading are not necessarily able to see through everything. Moreover, reading too much will be a good thing, basically unlikely to be a bad thing, since the subject likes to read, then you can rest assured to read well.

People often ask how big is the world? How big is the universe? How many wonders are there in the world? How many wonders are there in the universe? All this, really no one can know. Because, human beings, the universe, there are really too many things in the world, too many unknown mysteries. All of this, you really understand, all see through?

In my opinion, this may not necessarily be the case. Even Stephen Hawking, a modern American scientist who is praised by the scientific community as not being an ordinary man or a god, has not been able to see through the nature of all things in the world. Do you really see through?

So you really shouldn't feel alone, the more you do, the more it proves that you may be starting to not think about it, or have become stuck in your ways, and are not at all something that has seen it all in the world. There are so many more books waiting for you to see and read, you shouldn't stop at all.

Subject, in this world, there are really many people who like to read. However, there are really not many people like you, who think they have seen through the essence of things.

Those who really like to read, everyone is still continue to pick the night. They understand that an inch of time is an inch of gold, before too not you so free, in this network to show off, show off, really a waste of time it.

In the end, it all boils down to one thing: the subject, I suggest you get back to your studies as well.

Reading in addition to long knowledge and broaden their horizons, but also to grow wisdom and get happy, for a period of time because of the focus on reading, sometimes cynical and overly paranoid, that period of time the loneliness and loss of doubled, and feel their own changes and bring trouble, began to exercise and relaxation, and finally understand that reading is still to be used, when the knowledge learned to understand the true nature of things, and flexibly applied to the work and life, and skillfully solved a variety of problems! When the knowledge learned is used to understand the true nature of things, apply it flexibly to work and life, and solve various problems skillfully, the sense of loneliness and loss will gradually disappear.

The old ghost of a blow: this only shows that you do not see through the nature of things, not to mention "see through everything"! Feeling lonely, but also because of the lack of insight into the world. --Do not blame the old ghost to speak harshly, see through and understand all things in the world is very few, and that very few people, the inner world is complete, not lonely.

I. Which of the founders and pioneers of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism would be the loner?

If you are really insightful and see things for what they are, you won't scoff at the mention of all this religious stuff! Confucius, Laozi, Sakyamuni .... These sages and great philosophers, in a way, they have insight into world affairs and sense everything in the universe, are they alone?

Laozi rode a green ox west out of Hangu Pass, that is not because of loneliness! Confucius' doctrine was not accepted throughout his life, but he still tirelessly spread Confucianism, and Sakyamuni Buddha preached for more than thirty years without a day of slackness ...... Are they lonely? Are they gray inside?

The great philosophers and sages may not be able to find people who resonate with them on the "physical" level or who fully understand the depth of their thoughts, or who are not able to reach the depth of their thoughts, but they are not alone in their inner world.

Furthermore, "loneliness" is not a matter of how others perceive someone to be lonely or not, but how each person feels personally. The fact that you think someone is lonely is very often not how they really feel.

When you feel incredibly alone, not only does it not show that you see the world for what it is, but it shows that you have too many lumps within you!!!!

Second, read too much, causing themselves to become a "spiritual cleanliness" of the people, that can only be said to read books to see the bias!

"Spiritual cleanliness" is a characteristic of some people who read books. Read a lot of books, look at the world, society, people and things, and the books said there are too many deviations, too much out of place, resulting in the emergence of "spiritual cleanliness". Once a person has developed a "spiritual cleanliness", he or she will often feel lonely.

Third, an inner world where yin and yang coexist and good and bad coexist is what makes a person's heart peaceful and complete.

In the I Ching, the reasoning behind the symbiosis of yin and yang could not be clearer. In this world, there is yin and yang, good and bad, white and black, good and evil, joy and sorrow. ...... This is the real world!

We can't just take the yang, the good, the white, the happy ..... What you like, right? The yin, the evil, the black, the ugly, etc. must exist! If they didn't exist, the world would be in chaos!

One's own dislikes, dislikes, loathes, does not meet one's own inner standards, does not conform to the moral logic of society, is unreasonable, low-quality ...... And so on the phenomenon of human things must exist and happen!

If you only accept "yang" in your heart and have a strong psychological reaction to "yin" ..... It only means that you are not complete in your heart.

Fourth, inner peace, complete, not follow the flow, right and wrong, tolerance and concessions, no principle and bottom line ......

Loneliness, most likely believing that you surpass too many people around you in every aspect of thought, morality, intelligence, etc., believing that too many things around you shouldn't be happening, that too many people's words and actions don't match your own inner standards, can lead to a person's loneliness.

A truly wise person, on the other hand, doesn't feel that way. They are able to look at everything around them very rationally and calmly. Notice! As the title says, it's not that they are devoid of a sense of right and wrong, or that they go with the flow, or that they choose to tolerate and give in to too many problems! Rather, they are able to face these people and things with a very calm and peaceful state of mind! Because only then can they think, analyze, evaluate, judge, and make decisions with the most rational mind and heart!

They are not alone!

V. A truly wise person, even if he or she is alone, is not lonely. It is just that most people cannot understand their inner world.

It's not easy for the old geezer to explain this, just saying it for your reference.

Sixth, the statement "the more you read" does not stand up to scrutiny!

Stop saying "The more you read, the more ....... "The more one reads, the more one reads! The Chinese cultural texts alone can be described as "a vast ocean"!

What kind of books do you read? How well do you understand and absorb books?

It is better not to read if you are biased in your reading! Besides, there are good and bad books, and there is a difference between good and bad books, and there is also a difference in depth!

Who knows what books you read?

Just kidding: some books, if read too much, can be "poisoned"! Don't think that just because a book is properly published, it's necessarily a good thing!

The above for reference. At least the old ghost is also counted as a guy who has read three or five thousand books, these shallow point of view for friends to refer to it.

People who read a lot of books have a cultivation in their bones that people who read less books can't compare to. The kind of compassionate, loving charity is also not available to those who read less.

When you read a lot, you naturally have more knowledge and insight into unknown matters, unhistorical.

The so-called see-through, in fact, is still in the fog, just seem to understand the fuzzy penetration, so that more feel the pain.

There are multiple levels of life, and you may still be in the middle level but think you have reached the highest.

Seeing the world and life is not a reason for you to worry and suffer. Seeing the nature of things clearly, you should be more clear about where you are going, and more importantly, you should understand what kind of life you should live.

Read more books is not a bad thing, reading is a ladder to success, from which to find out something to do things, realize the truth. There are many types of books, what kind of books are there. Is not to read a good inspirational life of this kind of books, I think it is necessary. It is good to read, especially a good book, it can affect your whole life, not only not lonely, but increase the fun. Thanks for the invitation!